Merry Christmas 2025

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I would like to wish all my dear blogging friends a happy and peaceful Christmas. I hope you all have a very nice time doing exactly what you want to do during this festive season.

Let’s spare a thought for those who are lonely, the recently-bereaved, and those families who are struggling financially.

I’m going to stay offline tomorrow as there will just be the two of us spending the day together.

My very best wishes to everyone, Pete.

A Busy Monday

We were up early yesterday, as Julie was meeting her daughters and grandchildren in Thetford, Norfolk. I had bought them all tickets to see the Santa Christmas show at the Carnegie Centre in that town. As Julie cannot currently drive, I said I would drive her there and wait for the show to end to bring her back.

It took just over an hour to drive there from Beetley, and I was able to drop her off right outside to meet the others. There was a car park nearby that was free of charge, so I stayed in the car reading a book on my Kindle until the show ended. Despite only being a provincial show with very reasonably-priced tickets, they all loved it.

It was baby Tully’s first ever Christmas event, and they all received certificates and small medals as a keepsake..

We then drove back to Dereham, and made a stop at the Aldi supermarket. There we got a turkey crown, all the Christmas vegetables, and a few extra treats to last us for the week. By the time we got home, it had felt like a long day.

As if on cue, the heating boiler has failed again this morning, and the engineers are closed until the 5th of January. This means using the wood-burner for heating the house, and the elecric water heater for baths/showers. I am now hoping for a small domestic miracle where the heating boiler realises it is Christmas, and starts working again.

Today we are going to see Julie’s 99 year-old aunt and uncle in Suffolk, to give them a Christmas gift. This was supposed to happen on the 10th, and we were on the way there when Julie had her stroke. Returning from there later, we might pop into another supermarket to get more basic things like bread and milk to see us through the weekend.

Other than that, all the Christmas preparations and jobs are done!

Road Rage: Part Twenty-One

This is the final part of a fiction serial, in 862 words.

After loading his cases and bag into the back of the taxi, Dave gave the driver Penny’s address. He thought he might just as well let the company pay for the trip.

Penny had controlled everything perfectly, from making Alan give him a job that didn’t exist, to telling Fran about the affair once he had nowhere else to go. He could only imagine the sense of betrayal Fran would be feeling, and he wasn’t about to make things worse for her by trying to beg her to talk to him about it all.

But Penny had not allowed for the fact that she had finally given him nothing to lose. She was promoting herself as the only option for his future, and callously ignoring the damage done to her own sister and niece.

Knowing he had been weak and easily manipulated didn’t help, but things had gone too far now, and he was tipped over the edge.

Already waiting at the door as the taxi stopped, her smile was nothing less than triumphant. And as he carried the bags past her into the hallway, she was already telling him how their life together was going to work.

“Alan’s death changed everything, you must see that. There was our chance, and no need to carry on deceiving Frances any longer. We can live anywhere we want now, with no need to worry about jobs, or what anybody thinks of us. We will have so many years of happiness together to look forward to my darling. I will arrange to pay off any outstanding loan on your cottage, and Frances and Sinead will cope well. She has her job, a car, and she is young enough to start again”.

If she noticed that he was not speaking to her, she didn’t mention that. In fact she was opening some sparkling wine as she carried on rambling excitedly.

“How about a short holiday to start with? Might just be what we need to take our minds off recent events. A city break would be nice, how about a few days in Rome? I have never been, and I think it would feel romantic to go there together”.

He was sipping his wine, ignoring everything she was saying.

Perhaps she had just run out of things to say, or possibly realised it was all too much too soon, but Penny finally calmed down.

“I’m going to make us some lunch. What do you say to a nice ham and cheese panini? Give me a chance to get some use out of the panini press stuck at the back of the cupboard”. Without waiting for a response, she began busying herself preparing the food, glancing back at him to see if there was going to be any reaction.

But he stayed silent.

Never good at being patient or keeping her temper, Penny managed both long enough for them to eat lunch and finish their glasses of wine before she cracked.

“For god’s sake say something, Dave! I’m laying it all out for you here, a good life with no stress or worry, and all you are doing is staring into space. Have an opinion, tell me how you are feeling, argue with me if you want to, but I cannot stand the silent treatment”.

He turned to her and finally managed a weak smile.

“Can I borrow your car please, Penny? There is something I need to go and buy. I can’t say what it is, because it’s a surprise”.

Her vanity overruled any suspicions she might have. Convinced he was going to buy her a gift, she went and got her handbag with the car keys inside. Dangling them in front of him, she cautioned him not to be too long.

“Now hurry back, and don’t spend too much. We have the rest of our lives, don’t forget. You will learn to be happy with me, I promise you”.

His first stop was at a local service station to buy a five-gallon plastic container for petrol. He then filled it up with unleaded and paid the cashier. From there it was a short drive to his old house.

There were signs of work on the conversion already. The roofs of both houses were covered with tarpaulins, and scaffolding had been erected. But there were no workmen doing anything that afternoon, perhaps they had already left for the day. No sign of Mark’s car either, reminding Dave what Fran had told him.

Mark and Ginny had decided to go away while the main conversion work was taking place.

Not trying to avoid any cameras or the Ring Doorbell that recorded visitors, Dave walked up to the front door and screwed the filler nozzle onto the can before emptying the contents through the letter box into the hallway. The smell of petrol was stonger than he had expected, and he stood back to light the cleaning cloth he had soaked with petrol.

The flames took hold quickly, and he leant against Penny’s car and watched as they spread up into the roof.

He would just wait for the police to arrive, as he had nowhere else to go.

The End.

December Sunday Musings

Just the one thing on my mind this Sunday before Christmas, readjustment.

As you all know by now, Julie had a stroke on the 10th that has affected her vision. We are both aware that it could have been much worse, but there will still have to be many changes in our everyday routine to cope with.

Not helped by the proximity to the Christmas celebrations, when there always seems to be so many small things that have to be done in the space of a few days.

First and foremost, Julie is not currently able to drive. This means I will be doing all necessary driving in the immediate future, and Julie has lost the freedom and spontaneity of just being able to hop into her car to visit friends and relatives, pick up last-minute shopping, or just pop into town for the sake of getting out of the house.

She was supposed to be accompanying her daughters and grandchildren to a children’s Christmas show in Thetford tomorrow. So now I will have to take her there, and wait in the car until the show is over to bring her back. (Too far to come home and go back again) Any last-minute food shopping (buying the turkey and vegetables) will either be done on the way back, or during the day on Tuesday.

We have already had home visits from a Stroke Nurse and a Home Physio, so we can expect an Occupational Therapy nurse to also want to visit before the 25th. Hopefully they will contact Julie tomorrow to make an appointment.

We are expecting Julie’s oldest son here for Christmas dinner, and she would normally pick him up the night before. But it seems likely he is going to have to make his way here by bus this year, and I will get him from Dereham town centre.

Looking past December, we will have to rethink whether or not to go on a planned holiday to Turkey in March. I am dead against going, in case anything happens and Julie ends up in a provincial hospital in western Turkey. She still wants to go. That discussion continues.

Otherwise, we are staying positive about a possible improvement to the eyesight issue in 2026.

And we have learned how quickly life can change, and how you have to be ready to readjust just as quickly.

Original Songs And Cover Versions (58)

My parents were fans of the singer Andy Williams. I usually found him a bit too smooth and middle of the road for my taste, though even at the age of 11, I did like some of the songs he had hits with.

One of those was ‘Can’t Get Used To Losing You’, which was a hit in 1963. Cover versions followed, and I preferred those to Andy’s original in most cases. Patti Page, Julie London, Paul Anka and Bobby Rydell all released versions in the 1960s, and then a reggae version by Dandy Livingstone came out in 1970 that I really loved!

That was soon followed by a second, forgettable reggae version in 1976, and then an updated reggae-style version by the British band The Beat, in 1980. I bought that one too. In 2000, UK Garage music artist Colour Girl released the latest version I could find. I never heard it at the time.

Here is a selection for you to choose from, starting with Andy’s original.

Road Rage: Part Twenty

This is the twentieth part of a fiction serial, in 757 words.

Young Edmunds ignored the difference in their ages, and spoke to Dave in a patronising tone that seemed to be deliberately insulting.

“David, we have some questions for you, questions concerning your job here. You see, the thing is, the job doesn’t actually exist, and never did exist. It appears that Alan took it upon himself to reinvent a role that was already being done by Maggie, based here in the office. Then he decided on a good salary, and the allocation of a company car, all to facilitate you doing something that did not need to be done”.

Before he could react to that, Veronica Finch took over what felt like an interrogation.

“The contracts you signed were just created by Alan on his computer. He by-passed the usual recruitment system by sending your bank details directly to the salary department, and signed out the company car he gave you for his own use, even though he already had one. Fortunately Maggie alerted us to what was going on, and we soon discovered that you are related to Alan by marriage, and that you were also told you could do as little as possible in this made-up role”.

She waited for some reaction, but Dave was too confused to reply. So Edmunds carried on.

“As soon as we had investigated what had been happening, Alan was approached at the golf tournament, and we told him he would be interviewed formally at the end of the day’s play. It now appears that the stress of being discovered and potentially losing his job took its toll. It’s likely to have precipitated the heart attack that killed him that morning. We have no evidence that you were complicit in this situation, which is essentially a fraud on the company. However, you must now be aware that this situation cannot be allowed to continue”.

Veronica opened a folder and read from a list inside.

“We are going to need your company ID badge. Your car keys. Any clothing bearing an Audi logo. Business cards that were issued to you, and the company phone that was connected to the bluetooth in the car. Your employment is terminated with immediate effect, and any salary payments due since midnight have been cancelled. We will not seek to recover any of the salary already paid to you, as that was the responsibility of Alan, and he is no longer here to settle that. As a gesture, we will pay for a taxi to take you wherever you wish to go”.

As he tried to take in what had been said, he suddenly realised that he was expected to stand up and do as they had asked. He felt light-headed, and was worried he might pass out there and then in that small office.

The next hour felt like a dream, or more like being drunk. He was accompanied by a security guard to get his personal possessions from the car, and as he walked through the main office after handing over the requested items, none of the staff so much as even glanced at him. Except for Maggie, who held his gaze until he had passed out of sight of her.

The security guard stood next to him in reception as he waited for the taxi to arrive, then walked him out to make sure he got into it. It was in the back of the taxi on his way home that he started to feel himself trembling, as the full realisation of what was happening hit him.

He now had no job, no reference to use to apply for another one, and no salary payment coming in at the end of the month. They were back to one car, the old BMW X3, and Fran would be using that for her longer trip into work. Staring out of the window at the houses going past and people walking around living normal lives, Dave was fixating on how all of this had started.

As far as he was concerned, it was all the fault of Mark and Ginny.

Outside the cottage, he could see two suitcases by the front door, and a holdall. Spotting a large note attached to one of the cases, he asked the taxi driver to wait. Something told him he was going to need to go somewhere. And the note confirmed that.

‘The door is bolted, front and back. Penny rang me this morning, I know everything. You had best go to her, I never want to see you again’.

Meeting The Orthoptist

Following the stroke that affected the vision in her left eye, Julie had an appointment at the hospital today with a specialist orthoptist. They are eye-doctors who deal with problems of eye movement, such as lazy eye and misaligned eyes.

After a long series of tests the lady confirmed that Julie’s left eye was not level with her right, something caused by the stroke and resulting in seeing one thing on top of another, a kind of stacked double-vision.

There is no prognosis for when or if this will get better. It will either improve, or will always stay the same. After trying eye patches and pieces of equipment that covered the left side of Julie’s glasses, it was decided to stick a piece of special clear plastic tape onto the left hand lens. The tape has a similar effect as frosted glass, creating a blurred image.

This in turn will force her good eye to grow stronger, to compensate. Then they will see Julie again in a few months to assess any improvement.

Meanwhile, she is legally allowed to drive. As there is no law to stop a one-eyed person driving, or someone wearing a patch over one eye whilst driving.

However, Julie has no intention of risking driving her car anytime soon.

Win A New Book!

Just in time for Christmas, David from https://cabbieblog.com/ is running a fun free competition to win a signed copy of his latest novel.

Please check out the link below, to see how you can enter for free.

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As a retired London Cabbie, David has a wealth of information about being a taxi driver in London, and lots of very amusing anecdotes on his blog too. Now he has branched out into a series of ‘Super Sleuths’ mystery novels, and this is the second one.

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