It's hard to believe that it is already April, though I feel like I begin every blog post with a similar statement. The past couple of months for us have been
busy busy busy, but still filled with fun memories and lots of adventure.
In February, Ben and I both had a chance to visit Japan. Unfortunately, we didn't get to go together but I think we both really enjoyed it nonetheless. Ben only got to go for a couple of days for work but I was lucky enough to spend a week in Yokota, just a couple of hours outside of Tokyo. Every year, high school teams in Asia and Micronesia have the opportunity to participate in the Far East tournament for many different sports. The tournament is held at a different location every year and this year's basketball tournament was in Japan. A friend of mine is the Guam High School basketball coach and needed a chaperone, so she asked me if she could bribe me into taking a free trip with her and 8 high school girls to Japan for a week. If you know me at all, you know she didn't even finish her question before I was saying yes. So two days after Ben got home from Japan, I was leaving for Japan with this great group of girls (I'm right in the middle in an orange shirt... often mistaken for one of the girls).

We spent the first couple of days touring Japan, eating delicious food, finding clothing to keep us from freezing (35 degrees is much colder than our 88 degree weather!) and admiring Mt. Fuji from our hotel. Japan is so beautiful and very clean. I can't wait to go back with Ben sometime.
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Unfortunately, I don't have a picture to prove it but I also got the opportunity to "coach" my first basketball game. One of our girls tore her ACL and Emily, the coach, had to go with her to the hospital, leaving me to coach the girls through the first basketball game that I've ever paid attention to. Thankfully, they were great sports and were encouraging me more than I could encourage them. I knew absolutely nothing about basketball until I spent three straight days watching... and coaching.
Upon my return from Japan, I had a full 12 hours to wash my clothes from my Japan trip, fold them, and repack them into my suitcase. The next morning, Ben and I were leaving for Virginia. I had been looking forward to this trip the most, as I was able to spend time with my family and friends back home. Ben had training scheduled in Norfolk for a week and since that's "home" to me, I tagged along. It was definitely nice being able to take that 20 hour trip together. He's so much fun to travel with. I'm sure for Ben, Virginia wasn't much fun since he was in training but we did have a chance to catch up with some great friends. We even got to go to our all time favorite sushi spot and pig out for his birthday. Afterwards, we celebrated with cake and ice cream. Then, we got to celebrate again with my family!



When Ben had to come back to Guam, I had one more week left in Virginia. It made me realize how "home"sick I was, although it felt weird calling Virginia home because Guam absolutely feels like home. I've missed the sunsets, the Navy ships, and dressing for cold weather (scarves, leggings, and sweaters) which is crazy because I DO NOT like cold weather. I was really excited to dress in layers again! I took a couple of days and went to Washington, DC to visit the temple, my dad, stepmom, and mamaw. It was so wonderful to be at the temple again, especially the same one where I married my best friend and eternal companion just over one year before. It was also ridiculously cold. In fact, I got snowed in up there, which wasn't terrible because it meant a couple of extra days to fight my neverending cold and extra time with my wonderful papa... even if it meant we got to shovel snow together : ) It also meant that I was even more unprepared than I had originally thought. My boating shoes proved no match for the snow and neither did my long sleeved shirt. As a result, I got to play dress up in dad's clothes for the first time since I was a little girl. It was a lot of fun seeing snow again. I thought it would be years before that happened again. Dad was a good sport and played in the snow with me for a little while. Him and Cindy even treated me to breakfast and hot chocolate at Einstein's Bagels, one of many things that I have missed terribly. So many childhood memories came back to me during this trip home.





When I was able to head back to Hampton Roads, I spent a lot of time with the rest of my family and good friends. Mom and Sing made sure that I was well fed (maybe too fed, but I won't complain) and as always, were great company. I enjoyed every minute that I was able to spend with them and it all went by too quickly. I also learned that I am even more afraid of the ghosts in Mom's house now than I was when I lived there! I was able to spend lots of time with my niece and nephew who are my heart and soul. I can't believe how much they have grown in the six months I've been in Guam! Uncle Mike (pictured below) came to say hi to me, too. I lived with him for a summer in Egypt when I was 20 and we've become pretty close since then. It was also nice being reunited with all of my brothers at the same time. I really miss those days. We were even lucky enough to capture a picture! It's been such a long time since we were all in one place at the same time because of the Navy. My two best friends, Jessica (and the rest of the Fogel/Nicolas clan) and Jenna made time for me in their busy schedules which was a great blessing. I wouldn't be who I am without those two girls. I'm sad that I didn't think to get a picture with Jess, Zac, and their babies but I had such a great time visiting with them and watching the kids play. I was also able to attend Jenna's bridal shower and go with her to her final wedding dress fitting while I was home. The timing couldn't have been more perfect! I got to go bowling with her and of course, grab some Y-Not Pizza! I really wish I could post the picture of her and I from her dress fitting because she's gorgeous... but that one will have to wait until June : )





Then, it was time to leave home to go home. It was definitely bittersweet. I had been away from Guam for three weeks and missed the sunshine, warm weather, my husband, and my bed but I also had many nostalgic feelings while I was home. The flight back was long, but I was surprised by Ben at the airport with a rose, and then even more when I got home! Our one year anniversary happened to be the day he was flying back to Guam and I was still in Virginia, so he made sure I knew he didn't forget when I got home. Such a sweetheart!
After being home for two days, Ben and I then caught a Space-A flight to Hawaii, where we were meeting up with his sister and parents. We got there a couple of days early, allowing us to stay on Oahu and visit the Laie, Hawaii temple together. That was such a blessing! We then toured some of the Pearl Harbor museums and memorials and camped out at the USO and airport that night to be on our way to Kauai the next morning, where we spent the following week. We spent our first couple of days at PMRF Barking Sands, a military missile base where we were able to find lodging until we met up with the rest of the family. The beach there was by far the nicest beach with lots of sand and even more sunshine. We found a Monk Seal beached there, too, which was pretty neat. That Saturday, Ben and I went on a MWR hike to the Alakai Swamp, the wettest place in the world with an average of 407 inches of rain a year. That was obvious to us, as we had to turn around after 1/3 of our hike because it was so rainy, cold, and miserable. When we got back down to the bottom of the mountain, it was sunny and dry, so our new friends from the hike treated us to some JoJo's Shave Ice. Oh my goodness, delicious. We also found out what Masubi is and bought a mold to make it at home. If you don't love Spam and rice, you will after you eat Masubi! After we met up with the Sandel clan on Sunday, the real vacation began. As always, Ali found some delicious places for us to eat and we played lots of Mexican train. We played a round of golf, ate lots of shave ice, and spend much needed time relaxing at the beach, too. It was so nice to be there and equally as wonderful to be with his family, although, for us, Hawaii (the temperature and the water) was still much colder than we were used to. We got the chance to see a lot of whales, too! Almost every morning, we took a walk and saw them spouting in the distance. We also took a tour where we got to see whales breaching and the beautiful sights of the Na'pali coast. One of the days was spent zip lining with Alison and Adrian, Ben's sister and dad while Ben stayed back and spent the day with his mom. I have to say, that was a great day for both of us. Zip lining was so much fun and Ben saw lots of whales at the lighthouse. We played a round of golf, too, making me remember how much I enjoyed playing. It was a lot of fun for one little trip.



Now, we are finally back on our little island in the Pacific and settling back into "normal" life. It's so good to be home and we had a wonder couple of months of travel. Ben is now preparing for a hike up to the Everest Base Camp in a couple of weeks which is another exciting trip. I'll be staying back this time. It's good to be home.