The Note

If you are friends with me on Facebook, you may already know that I went to the Emergency Room the other night.  Turns out I had a kidney stone and now have a kidney infection.   It's never fun or easy to be sick and out of commission -- and even more so as a wife/mom.  My husband and son have been so amazing these last few days and are spoiling me rotten (shh... don't tell them that or else it may stop!) 

Nothing made my day like this note I received from my little boy.   Hope you can make it out...

Happy Thanksgiving!!

If you would have asked me on January 1, 2012 to tell you what Thanksgiving was going to be like this year, I can assure you that my answer would have been FAR from the reality of what Thanksgiving is.  And that's not necessarily a bad thing.  As I reflect on all the things that I am thankful for this year, I can't help but see how God has moved and rearranged things in my life.. literally!   Who would have thought back in January that I would resign my job in NYC and move across country where we would be spending a quiet little Thanksgiving... just the three of us in sunny Southern California! 

As I reflect on God's goodness to me and my family, I want to wish you and your family a blessed Thanksgiving.  I pray that you are surrounded by loved ones and friends... and if you are like me and find yourself far away from your "bigger" family, that they are close at heart (and thankfully only a Skype away!) 

I am thankful for each of you!  HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!

Five on Friday

So sorry it has been a month since I posted!!  I knew it had been a while, but a whole month.. wow!  I have no excuse.. just haven't gotten around to it.  Had a ton of blogs that I composed in my head, but just never made it over to my computer to get it out to you.

This week I had the pleasure of working the school Book Fair.  It was the first one I participated in here in California, so I was curious to see how different/similar it was to those in NJ. 

So, today I am happy to share my "Five on Friday" observations from the Book Fair:

1) When working a book fair, be sure you have had a full night's rest.  Your brain gets fried counting out all those ziplocs full of pennies, nickles and dimes!  Seriously, we had a child with a ziploc of just pennies and was able to purchase a $10 book !  Happy Counting!

2) This was a first for me -- we had one child who brought their parent's credit card (YIKES!)  Don't worry - we didn't let her use it and NO, the parent didn't know about it!

3) At least once during the week, you'll overhear the following conversation: 
Child  1: So, do you have money for the book fair?
Child 2: Yep, I took __ dollars (insert any amount ranging from $1 - $10) from my Mom (or Dad's) wallet while he was ___ (sleeping,working, eating, etc.)

4) Make sure you have PLENTY of hand sanitizer on hand.. all that money, lots of kids = plenty of germs.  Better yet, wear gloves!!

5) Book Fairs are mislabeled.. it really should be the Accessory Fair -- lots of kids are there for the  "good stuff" .  "Hi - I have $10.00 and I'd like 4 erasers, 3 bookmarks, 2 Justin Bieber posters and the $1.99 book." 

Seriously, it was fun but I am ready to soak my feet, rest my voice and read MY book. 

That Stinks!

Today has turned out to be a stinky day... literally!  This morning Steve & I were rudely awakened by the stench of a skunk.  Nothing like that smell at 5:30 in the morning to jolt you out of a sound sleep.  Remind me to close my windows at night!

Then, later in the morning, I got into our car which was parked in the driveway only to discover the faint skunk smell again!  UGH..   I rolled down all the windows and sprayed Febreeze all over the car to get rid of it. 

It's been a few hours now so I am hoping when I go back out to the car, the smell will be completely gone.  Here's hoping that this was a "hit and run" and that this little critter has not taken up residence in our yard permanently!

To Pee Or Not to Pee...that is the Question!

So our "staycation" took a very unexpected turn last night.  It appears we have a "back-up" in the pipes of our house so we will be spending the day with our new BFF, the plumber.   Apparently he will be here most of today and has warned us not to use any water.  Sounds fun, right? 

So, we've been fratanizing some local businesses to use their bathrooms throughout the day and just found out, thanks to modern technology, there's even an "app" for that.

So, for all of those whose indoor plumbing is working today... I am soooooo jealous! 

Weekend Outlook

So... it's Friday!  Where are we going this weekend, you ask?  By the look of the gas prices - NO WHERE!!!!!  Prices have skyrocketed over the last week.  Guess it's time for a good ole' fashioned bike ride. 

Friends

Our conversations at home have focused a lot on the topics of friends and friendships.  Given that we are in a new state, thousands of miles from our closest friends and family, you can imagine that we miss them.. a lot.   But just knowing you are there, brings a smile to my face.  Thank you to all of you who have called me, texted me, and emailed me to see how we are doing.  And a special thanks to those of you who have taken the time to call,  Skype and wrote letters to Christopher!   You have no idea how much that has brightened his day.   I only hope to be able to find friends HALF as wonderful as you all are!

Hair Tale

Having just spent the morning getting my hair cut and highlighted for the first time since moving, I was excited to get a reaction.   I guess ANY reaction.  So, when I picked Chris up from school and got him settled into the car, I turned to him and said, "So.. do you notice anything different about me?"

C: "Um.. you changed your shirt?" 
M: "No, that's not it..(then I started pulling and pointing to my hair)
C: "Oh.. your hair is darker"
M: "WHAT??????? It is NOT darker, I just got it highlighted..it's LIGHTER.
C: "Nope.. looks darker to me.. just like my hair"
M: "That can't be.. maybe you are just not looking at it in the right light..it's definitely blonder. " (I started twisting my head around like a maniac so he could see that it definitely was lighter)  "I just spent a lot of time and money on my hair!"
C: "Still looks the same Mom"

That's right everyone... I have A LOT of work to do on this little boy to prep him for marriage.. LOL  Just kidding.   Today's lesson was that I should NEVER fish for a complement from my 8 year old...

The Task That Never Seems to End!

Today I tackled a task that I have been putting off.. and off.. and off.  Sorting, shredding and filing the massive amounts of paper that just seems to appear in my home.

I don't know how 3 people accumulate so much paper!  I shredded my little heart out this morning and got halfway through my pile.  Just when I thought I'd call it a day, the mailman came by with more paper to sort, shred and file.. sigh.... 

Burn, Baby Burn

So, today did NOT go as planned.  You ever have one of those days when you feel like you just want to crawl under the covers and stay there?  That was what I really wanted to do earlier today, but after I dropped my son off at school, I was "up" so I decided to tackle the never ending "to do" list. 

First up was to make a couple of meals for the remainder of the week.  I like to do that sometimes so I am not scrambling at the end of the day when I am exhausted and plus it's always nice to have a meal or two in the freezer ready to pop into the oven.

Sooooo, as I was grilling some chicken on the stove top, some liquid flew out of the pan and onto my wrist.. OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I have a nice sized burn on my left wrist.  Thankfully, it did not blister.  I ran my wrist under cold water, put some antibiotic on it and popped a couple of extra strength Tylenol for the pain.  Of course I called my personal triage "nurses" (thanks to my sister, Ruth, and sister-in-law, Shirley!) just to make sure I wasn't forgetting to do something for my wound.

After running to the drugstore to stock up on some burn cream, I came home and went right to my room to take a nap.   I'm happy to say that the pain has subsided and I get to sport a lovely bandage to back to school night tonight. 

Although the "to do" list is still waiting for me for another day, at least we have a nice meal in the freezer.

It's Official!

I'm a California Licensed Driver! We have our official California plates on our cars and our new license in hand!  Because  our weight is listed.. I mean for "security purposes" I am not posting the actual photo/license as I'm sure you will understand LOL. 

Although I didn't opt for special "vanity" plates.. here is one that could have been a contender...

or for my little guy... he could use this one when he is older...

I also like this...

 

Now other California drivers can love or hate me thinking I am one of them.. and not because of my Jersey plates.   But you and I know the truth...

Happy Birthday to You!!

Just wanted to wish my Dad, Joseph Somma, a very happy 79th Birthday!! 

Dad, I love you very much and am so blessed to have you as my father.  You are the most loving, thoughtful, generous and kind man I know and I thank God for you every day.  I love you and, even though we are miles apart, you are always close in my heart.  I can't wait to see you at Christmas!

Also, a very Happy Birthday to my Uncle Dave as well!  I am blessed to have such a loving uncle, who happens to look just like my Dad (hehe) 

Happy birthday to the Somma boy Twins!

Here are some of my favorite photos of me and my Dad --

Weekend Recap

We just spent a fun-filled weekend at Legoland.  Two glorious days of roller coasters, water park activities, a journey through the Sea Life Aquarium and of course plenty of Lego building.  The weather was HOT, but the crowds were small, making for short lines and lots of water consumption.

While eating lunch at the Park yesterday, I realized that my "temporary crown" came out!  I was showing Christopher what it looked like and he just thought it was a regular tooth so he exclaimed, "That's GREAT Mom!! Now you can put that under your pillow tonight and you'll have money in the morning!!" 

How cute!  Didn't want to burst his bubble and tell him that at some point in life it's NOT a good thing to have teeth, crowns, fillings, etc. to come out of your mouth and that it will COST money...not BRING you money!  Going to the dentist tomorrow to get refitted.  Fun times!

Homework

One of the benefits of living in California is obviously the weather!!  This afternoon, Chris asked me if he could do his homework outside.  How fun is that!  Here he is reading (they are required to read for 20 minutes every day as part of their assigned homework). 

Happy he is enthusiastic about doing homework AND spending time outside.  

Emergency Kit

I find it both ironic and a "sign of our times" that today I sent my son to school with an "Emergency Kit" in his back pack.  All the kids at his elementary school are required to bring one in and it is stored in his classroom for the entire school year where he hopefully will never have a reason to open it.

On the first day of school, the emergency list came home with his papers.  We were asked to send in a towel, sweatshirt, some snacks, hand wipes, sanitizers, juice boxes, etc.  The things you would typically expect to be on such a list.  The last two items on this list caused me to choke up: a photo of your family and a note from you explaining that there has been an emergency and that you will get to the school as soon as you can to get him although you don't know how soon that will be.  As I was writing that note, I couldn't help but get emotional praying that such a day would never come.  But, as Sept 11 reminds us, you just never know....

Five on Friday

I haven't done one of these in a long time, but here is my Five on Friday.  Five ways California schools differ from those in New Jersey.

In California: 

1) School playground is on sand, not grass

2) Classroom has air conditioning

3)  Kids have recess more than once a day! (short breaks)

4) The school must provide the school supplies for the kids (wow!! Like this one!)

5) School gets out an hour early every Wednesday! 

Not sure how I feel about all of these differences...only time will tell.  

First Day!!

Here's a photo of my 3rd grader.  He was excited and nervous as he walked into his new school today.  My heart felt for him and I couldn't really relate because I never moved across country as a child.  He is a trooper and I know he is experiencing so many changes all at once!  So, say a prayer for Christopher today as he starts this journey.  He's a friendly kid, so hopefully he'll receive some kindness/friendliness in return.  As Mom always said to me, "In order to have friends, you need to be friendly".

So, on yesterday's blog I asked all of you what you did on your kid's first day back at school.  I had a whole agenda of things planned out, but sometimes things don't go as planned.  I received a call late last night from

 

saying that my patio table is being delivered between 9:30 and 11:30 today! 

 

After that, I am heading right over to this place...

 

There's a brand new Home Goods opening about a mile from our home TODAY, so I am going to head over and see if I can snag any good deals.  It's been a long time since I've wandered a store by myself and I think some good browsing/retail therapy is in order.

After that, I may just come home, have a cup of coffee and do absolutely NOTHING.  Doesn't that sound wonderful!! I may have to close my eyes though so I am not tempted to see all the work that needs to be done around here. 

Enjoy your day everyone!

 

What's Your Plan?

Tomorrow at this time, the house will be very quiet... Chris heads off to his NEW school, in our NEW town, located in our NEW home state.  Lots of "newness" in the air.  I think he is appropriately excited and nervous, but I know he will do great. 

So, as I ponder what I will do with my free time tomorrow, I thought I'd throw the question out  to all you Moms.  What did you do or will you do on your kids first day back to school?  Do you have to work?  Will you clean your house from top to bottom? Opt to tackle the laundry pile? Lay in bed in utter exhaustion from your summer? Pamper yourself? Shop? Get together with friends?

You'll have to wait until tomorrow to see what I have on my agenda - and it's NOT unpacking boxes.

PSA for Santa

Dear Santa:

I know it's only September, but I thought I'd write to you since I'm already seeing Christmas decorations in stores.  You know I've been a good girl this year so far (and what a year it has been!).  I figured I'd grab you before you get busy with requests from kids.  You see, I have a special favor to ask of you... and it would actually benefit you and me!  

I honestly don't have much of wish list this year (shocking, I know!).  In fact, my ONE request is that WHATEVER you bring me this year... please, please, please... for the love of God PLEASE... DO NOT put it in a box that needs to be unwrapped.. or opened... or stored somewhere.   If you have seen the ridiculous number of boxes I have had to open this last week, I know you understand and feel my pain.  Just throw my gift in a bag with tissue paper.  Better yet, just leave the gift (no box or bag or any decor) on my front step (sorry no fireplaces in Sunny California).  If the gift needs to be assembled, I'll pay the $10 for you to do it for me.  Just please, NO unwrapping or opening of boxes for this gal. 

That is all.  Carry on and thanks!
Beth

Dinner Talk

A few weeks ago while attending a business dinner with Steve's new boss, I had one of those moments as a mom, when I just wanted to hide under the table!  My lovable little 8 year old had been on his "best" behavior for this important dinner.  He had the pre-dinner lecture and knew what was expected of him.  I knew he would be good... I just didn't know for how long.

Everything was smooth sailing for the first two hours.  Then, I noticed Chris was growing a little more restless and my "keep him busy" activities weren't working as well.   So, I engaged him in conversation to keep his mind off wanting to leave because, in his book, this dinner meeting should have been over a long time ago.

Chris starting sharing about how much fun he had at the beach and how he especially loved digging in the sand.

"Mom, next time we go back to the beach, I am going to dig a hole to the other side of the earth!" 

"Wow", I said. "That would take a long time to do.  What would you do when you got there? "

Chris turned to me with his mischievous smile and said, " That's easy!  I would pop my head out and say...Well Helloooooooo Ladies!"

Thankfully Steve and his boss were deep in conversation and didn't pick up on the lively conversation Chris and I were having.  I was sure happy that the dinner wrapped up shortly after that.   One thing's for sure... I'm going to have my hands full with this little ladies man when he's older LOL.

Wish List

September is the month that we start talking about Christmas in my house. I typically buy Christopher's Advent Calendar in September (Lego, of course) because that's when they come out and I can usually get a discount using points I have earned throughout the year. 

True to form, Chris already has already started on his wish list.  I've "pinned" a number of K'Nex,   Lego and video games that he has pointed out.  This morning he lovingly came over to me with my iPhone and told me that it would "make sense" for him to ask for an iPhone for Christmas.   That way he wouldn't be interrupted when I receive phone calls (since he typically plays with my phone while I am driving, etc.)  LOL  unbelievable!! 

I told him the price of the phone.. he paused.. then said he'd still like it!  Hope Santa has some deep pockets! 

Say Yes to the House

Our house hunting journey over the last month can only be summarized as a cross between two of my favorite TV Shows..."Say Yes to the Dress" and "House Hunters"

In "Say Yes to the Dress" brides go to Kleinfeld's in NYC to hunt for their perfect bridal gowns.  Most brides have to try on countless dresses... the good, the bad, and the ugly, before coming upon "THE" dress.  They have their "aha" moment, tears flow and the fairytale journey ends. 
On House Hunters, the couple look at several homes all of which have "pros" and "cons".  At the end of the 1/2 hour show the couple have to determine which home they will purchase. 

Over the last 3 weeks, I have come to the conclusion that searching for a home to rent in the greater Los Angeles area is much like searching for the perfect wedding dress.  You have to see a lot of properties to have your "aha" moment.   Some homes are plain, some are ornate, some are on the low side of the budget and it is NEVER a good idea to see a home that is out of your price point.  As what happens on the TV show, the bride will ultimately fall in love with the unattainable dress and walk away discouraged and heartbroken. 

House hunting for a RENTAL, not even for a purchase, has been all of the above things... we must have seen over 30 homes and competition is fierce!  Who would have known that in L.A. there are bidding wars on rentals?? Most people can't afford the outrageous home prices out here for a home, so costs of rentals are at a premium.  The first home we saw was a nightmare.. NOT what we expected and not a place I would ever consider living in.  When we walked out my son turned to me and said, "That place was bad to the bones!"  And it was.  Lesson learned... ALWAYS do a drive by of a property before scheduling an appointment to see it.  Pictures can be deceiving and you never know if the surrounding area is good or not.  It may be a McMansion with a shack next door to it.  Another townhome we saw was perfect!  It was modern with tons of space and storage and could easily accommodate all of our things.  It was priced right, but was in the wrong part of town..even though it was gated, there was no way we were going to live in that neighborhood. 

In the end, much like on the show House Hunters, we had to choose between two homes... the dream 3 story beach townhouse that had ocean views, a modern floor plan, a HUGE kitchen, but an awkward layout and not enough space for all of our furniture which meant we'd have to pay for storage. Option 1 was what I think everyone would expect to see when coming to visit us in CA.  Totally unlike anything we've ever lived in.

Option 2 was a single family, older ranch home with a huge living room, new carpets, small kitchen and small bedrooms.  It fit our needs as far as space, but could use some updating.  The home itself was in great condition, in the school district we wanted.

In the end we said "yes" to Option 2 and are so glad we did.  Although an older home, I am sure we are going to have no problem putting our stamp on it while we rent it.  It's in a great neighborhood located 2 miles from the beach and 2 miles from great shopping and 5 short blocks from Chris' new school. 

So thankful to God for helping us through this often tiresome experience and leading us to the home we know he had meant for us. 

Working Women

Whether you work in a job outside the home or if you work by staying home with your family, you are a working woman.  I have been on both sides of the table and both are tough jobs!  Now that I am a work at home mom again, I am rediscovering how hard it is to keep the home and family on task and organized. 

I wanted to share a verse with you that I think applies to women regardless of whether you work in or out of your home.  "And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men." Colossians 3:23 

I had that verse posted on my desk at work for the last year.  There were some days I was pulling my hair out or was so stressed that I needed this reminder that I am doing all this hard work NOT for my boss, but for God.  That I had to give it my all for HIM and pray that others will see Him through me and my work.

Now that I am home full time with Christopher again, I find myself needing this reminder just a much! I need to take care of my family and the work around our house with a cheerful heart as doing it unto the Lord, and not just for the benefit of my family.  I find putting on some uplifting music sets the right tone at home.  Hope this verse will bless you too!

A Good Read

A few months ago, a friend of mine suggested that I read this book.  If you haven't read it, and you have a son, I would definitely recommend it.  I have been praying for my son's future wife since the day he was born..actually properly since I was pregnant!  It's never too early to pray for her and her family. 

This book offers moms great tips for boys of all ages so even if you have a teenager or son in their early 20s who is unmarried, it can be helpful.  I love the practical examples of how in our everyday lives, I can find teaching moments to show my son how to let me know he loves me and how his actions SHOW me his love.   I know it will help him in the future to love his wife and how to SHOW her his love.  Great book!!

Here is a synopsis of the book:
What Kind of Husband Will Your Son Grow Up to Be?

His is a generation of boys who have better relationships with their Game Boxes, i-Pods, televisions, and computers than they do with their families. His understanding of marriage is that it has little hope for success, witnessing a fifty percent divorce rate both inside and outside of the church. His world is one where pornography is no longer a hidden shame, but encouraged as entertainment.

Can you raise your son to one day love, lead, and protect a wife and family in a world like this?

The answer is yes. The heartbeat of this book is to give you the tools to help your son become a tender warrior who will one day fight for his family, a godly husband who will faithfully love his wife, and a leader who will be a man of his word.

The time is now to take your love, tears, prayers, and influence and pour them into his future. Even if our world does not change its moral fiber, you can influence your son and bring hope to the next generation. It’s an opportunity of a lifetime—yours. 

Never Let Go

This is what I've been singing in the car for the last few weeks.  Although my son says he is tired of hearing it... I still crank it up!  What a great reminder that no matter what we are going through, God will never let us go!

Rebecca St. James -

A Love Letter.. Sort Of

The other day I was feeling under the weather... then I received this note from my little guy that just made my day!

The Pilgrimage

This past Saturday, we took the first family pilgrimage to Legoland California.  It was a great time for all of us.  Christopher loved the water park and especially taking me on the Technic Roller Coaster which was in his words, "wild and wicked".  Indeed, indeed!   I love a good roller coaster but my I think I left a few brain cells on that wicked ride.  Wow!!  I guess my body isn't as young as it used to be (...sigh...)  If you have a little lego builder and are near one of their parks, I would highly recommend it!  Here are a few pictures from the first of many days we'll spend at the park. 

The Launch

Today marks the beginning of it all... the reason why we moved to California in the first place.. today is the beginning of the new Spanish language network, MundoFox.  If you are on the East Coast and care to tune in, check your local listings for MundoFox in your area.  Steve's newscast will air at 6:00 pm Eastern.   We are all excited as the team has been working very hard over the last few weeks to get this station up and running.  So, if you think of Steve, say a prayer for him today.

Let's Give Her A Hand

Up until two weeks ago, many of you know I had spent the last year working in NYC for one of the world's largest executive search firms.  l was blessed with a great job working for a fantastic company.  It was certainly a sacrifice of time .. A big commute via express bus into NYC each day as well as time away from my family.  My days started at 5:15 am and most days I would roll into our front door around 7:15 pm...  But the one thing I could count on every day...no matter what type of day I had in the office...no matter what time I got home at night was being greeted by my hubby and son at the front door.  Not just with a hug, but as I walked in they would stop whatever they were doing and run to the front door to greet me with a thunderous round of applause.  At first it took me off guard..it's not every day you enter a room let alone your home and receive applause.  I came to love this..it made me feel so special and so appreciated.  God knows you are not getting applauded at work for a job well done...it was so nice to get that validation from the people I love most.

Thanks you Steve for always making each day so special!  I hope to continue the tradition now that Chris and I will be the ones to greet you each evening!

The Revelation

As I walked down the corridor leading to the operating room, I looked back tearfully at my husband.  The last two minutes had totally rocked my world and my sanity.  Up until then, I was relatively at ease regarding my upcoming gall bladder removal operation.  I had the best surgeon and hematologist in NYC on my medical team and I was was in a fantastic hospital.  That gave me a sense of assurance.  But, as I was walking towards the operating room reflecting on those things, God had quietly whispered something to me that brought on the tears and convicted my heart.  All at once, the tears started flowing and I felt so ashamed.  You see, I prayed that God would watch over me during the surgery and to especially take care of my blood disorder so there would be no complications.  I thanked God for the surgeons, doctors and the hospital that I was in.   In my heart I knew that I felt confident because I had the BEST.. best surgeon and  best hospital so it eased my fear.  And that's when God said to me, " But Beth.. I have been with you all along.  You should have had confidence in ME all along..but you feel at ease right now because of the people I have placed in your path.  You should draw your strength and confidence from ME alone.  "   I cried.. I repented.. I told the Lord that I was sorry for not finding my confidence in Him.  I wished I had more time to talk to God and tell Him how much I loved Him and how thankful I am for all he has done for me and to tell Him that I DID believe that he was in charge and would see me through.  But my time was up.  I was in the operating room.  The anesthesia was being applied.  So, I just whispered  "I love you Lord.. I trust in YOU. "

I know that God uses doctors and physicians.. I am not knocking that at all.  In fact, I know that God orchestrated everything leading up to my surgery.  It's just that my fears were so great that I forgot to remember that peace and comfort should only come from knowing the Great Physician, while being thankful for those he uses to tend to our needs. 

The operation was a great success with no complications...and I am more careful to remember that God is the giver of peace and comfort ..even in our greatest hour of fear. 

"The Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth. He fulfills the desires of those who fear him; he hears their cry and saves them." (Psalm 145: 18-19)

What I Have Learned So Far

It's hard to believe we've been in California for an entire week.  In some sense, it feels like an eternity.. in another, every day feels like we are still on vacation and starting our adventure.

You'll be happy to know that I've managed to successfully navigate the notorious LA highways BY MYSELF without incident... okay, perhaps one wrong turn, but I am blaming that on my GPS.   Everything you have heard about LA highways are true.. they are big, they are crowded and there is a ton of traffic.  But, having said that, I honestly don't see what the big difference is from NY highways and traffic.  In fact, I dare say that the traffic at least crawls here in CA as opposed to dead stand stills in NYC.   I am happy that my first road trip without my husband was a success and I feel more confident in using the highways to get around.

On the house hunting front, we've seen over a dozen places... honestly, I feel like I have just finished shooting a week's work of house hunter episodes.   Trust me when I say that house hunting is a full time, agonizing, stressful job that can definitely put a strain on your sanity.  And that's only when you are looking to RENT a property let alone BUY one.

Here's a photo of what you DO NOT want to see on the entrance to the community you are looking to live in.. don't worry, we didn't even step inside this building..

We'll save the "buying a home headache" for a later date.   We felt it was more important to rent initially and get comfortable with a community/school, etc. before taking the plunge and mortgaging my life away in the ridiculously over-priced real estate market here in LA.    I am happy to say that we have found a house that looks extremely promising.  Hope to have more news on that later this week, so please pray for us especially this week!

In other news, Steve is hard at work at MundoFox.  If you are interested, the "launch" is next Monday at 6:00 pm Eastern Time so check your listings for channel information.   We are all pretty excited although I am still traumatized that I won't be able to see ANY of the broadcasts my husband is overseeing because they are ONLY airing on the east coast.. ironic, isn't it? LOL.  Thanks to my Dad who is going to tape a few for me. 

Off to the local supermarket for a few last minute things.  Looking forward to some quiet time at the pool later today (it's a tough job, but someone has to do it!)

Here's a photo of the sunset we got to enjoy at the Manhattan Beach Pier last night.  Have a great day everyone!

Change is in the Air (again!)

You know it's been a while since you've blogged when you forget your log in ID and passcode!  So sorry.  I can't believe my last post was in January!!  I'm sure you are all saying "it's about time" and I hope you've missed me.  I know several of you personally connect with me on facebook so you know all about the adventures, trials and joys that my family and I have experienced in these last few months. My hope is to give you a more "behind the scenes" look at what's been happening.

Our journey has taken us to California and that is where I am blogging from. So this NJ Housewife has switched coasts and I guess I'm an OC Housewife even though I am technically further north than the OC.  My body is still on east coast time so give me some grace as I am adjusting to a new time zone and a new life all at once.  Talk about stepping outside your comfort zone! 

Thought I'd leave you today with my list of what I'll miss about NJ and what I am loving about CA... will blog again soon (I promise!!)

What I will miss about NY/NJ:
- My family and friends
- Dunkin' Donuts (I am outraged that there are NONE in California-- feel free to send me a care package!)
- Delicious fresh NY bagels/pizza (again.. care package!)
- Not having to pump gas (Jersey Girls don't pump gas! LOL)
- Watching the leaves change colors
- Celebrity spottings (most recently the Manzo boys on the Garden State Parkway!) -- although one could argue that I will likely be seeing more celebrities here... So far.. zero

What I love about CA so far!
- the SUN !
- the temperature
- being close to a beach -- always!
- the relaxed pace
- not having to WORK in NYC every day! (Woohoo!!)
- Did I mention the abundant SUNSHINE?

The Room

17-year-old Brian Moore had only a short time to write something for a class. The subject was What Heaven Was Like . "I wowed 'em," he later told his father, Bruce. It's a killer. It's the bomb, It's the best thing I ever wrote." It also was the last.

Brian's parents had forgotten about the essay when a cousin found it while cleaning out the teenager's locker at Teays Valley High School in Pickaway County.

>Brian had been dead only hours, but his parents desperately wanted every piece of his life near them, notes from classmates and teachers, and his homework. Only two months before, he had handwritten the essay about encountering Jesus in a file room full of cards detailing every moment of the teen's life. But it was only after Brian's death that Beth and Bruce Moore realized that their son had described his view of heaven.
>Very thought-provoking...

>It makes such an impact that people wanted to share it. "You feel like you are there," Mr. Moore said. Brian Moore died May 27, 1997, the day after Memorial Day. He was driving home from a friend's house when his car went off Bulen-Pierce Road in Pickaway County and struck a utility pole. He emerged from the wreck unharmed but stepped on a downed power line and was electrocuted.

>The Moore 's framed a copy of Brian's essay and hung it among the family portraits in the living room. "I think God used him to make a point. I think we were meant to find it and make something out of it," Mrs. Moore said of the essay.

>Here is Brian's essay entitled:

>"THE ROOM"

> In that place between wakefulness and dreams, I found myself in the room. There were no distinguishing features except for the one wall covered with small index card files. They were like the ones in libraries that list titles by author or subject in alphabetical order. But these files, which stretched from floor to ceiling and seemingly endless in either direction, had very different headings.
>As I drew near the wall of files, the first to catch my attention was one that read "Girls I Have Liked." I opened it and began flipping through the cards. I quickly shut it, shocked to realize that I recognized the names written on each one. And then without being told, I knew exactly where I was. This lifeless room with its small files was a crude catalog system for my life. Here were written the actions of my every moment, big and small, in a detail my memory couldn't match. A sense of wonder and curiosity, coupled with horror, stirred within me as I began randomly opening files and exploring their content. Some brought joy and sweet memories; others a sense of shame and regret so intense that I would look over my shoulder to see if anyone was watching.

>A file named "Friends" was next to one marked "Friends I Have Betrayed." The titles ranged from the mundane to the outright weird. "Books I Have Read," "Lies I Have Told," "Comfort I have Given,""Jokes I Have Laughed At."

>Some were almost hilarious in their exactness: "Things I've Yelled at My Brothers." Others I couldn't laugh at: "Things I Have Done in My Anger", "Things I Have Muttered Under My Breath at My Parents." I never ceased to be surprised by the contents. Often there were many more cards than expected. Sometimes fewer than I hoped. I was overwhelmed by the sheer volume of the life I had lived.

>Could it be possible that I had the time in my years to fill each of these thousands or even millions of cards? But each card confirmed this truth. Each was written in my own handwriting. Each signed with my signature.

>When I pulled out the file marked "TV Shows I Have Watched," I realized the files grew to contain their contents. The cards were packed tightly, and yet after two or three yards, I hadn't found the end of the file. I shut it, shamed, not so much by the quality of shows but more by the vast time I knew that file represented.
>When I came to a file marked "Lustful Thoughts," I felt a chill run through my body. I pulled the file out only an inch, not willing to test its size, and drew out a card. I shuddered at its detailed content. I felt sick to think that such a moment had been recorded. An almost animal rage broke on me.

>One thought dominated my mind: No one must ever see these cards! No one must ever see this room! I have to destroy them!" In insane frenzy I yanked the file out. Its size didn't matter now. I had to empty it and burn the cards.
>But as I took it at one end and began pounding it on the floor, I could not dislodge a single card. I became desperate and pulled out a card, only to find it as strong as steel when I tried to tear it. Defeated and utterly helpless, I returned the file to its slot. Leaning my forehead against the wall, I let out a long, self-pitying sigh.

>And then I saw it. The title bore "People I Have Shared the Gospel With." The handle was brighter than those around it, newer, almost unused. I pulled on its handle and a small box not more than three inches long fell into my hands. I could count the cards it contained on one hand.

>And then the tears came. I began to weep. Sobs so deep that they hurt. They started in my stomach and shook through me. I fell on my knees and cried. I cried out of shame, from the overwhelming shame of it all. The rows of file shelves swirled in my tear-filled eyes. No one must ever, ever know of this room.. I must lock it up and hide the key. But then as I pushed away the tears, I saw Him.

>No, please not Him. Not here. Oh, anyone but Jesus. I watched helplessly as He began to open the files and read the cards. I couldn't bear to watch His response. And in the moments I could bring myself to look at His face, I saw a sorrow deeper than my own. He seemed to intuitively go to the worst boxes.

>Why did He have to read every one? Finally He turned and looked at me from across the room.. He looked at me with pity in His eyes. But this was a pity that didn't anger me. I dropped my head, covered my face with my hands and began to cry again. He walked over and put His arm around me. He could have said so many things. But He didn't say a word. He just cried with me.

>Then He got up and walked back to the wall of files.. Starting at one end of the room, He took out a file and, one by one, began to sign His name over mine on each card. "No!" I shouted rushing to Him. All I could find to say was "No, no," as I pulled the card from Him. His name shouldn't be on these cards. But there it was, written in red so rich, so dark, and so alive.

>The name of Jesus covered mine. It was written with His blood. He gently took the card back He smiled a sad smile and began to sign the cards. I don't think I'll ever understand how He did it so quickly, but the next instant it seemed I heard Him close the last file and walk back to my side. He placed His hand on my shoulder and said, "It is finished."

>I stood up, and He led me out of the room. There was no lock on its door. There were still cards to be written.

>"For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life." John 3:16

>If you feel the same way forward it to as many people as you can so the love of Jesus will touch their lives also. My "People I Shared the Gospel With" file just got bigger, how about yours?

Trusting God

We are doing an awesome study on the Book of Joshua at church....if you are having trust issues with God...wrap your head around Joshua chapter 3. Think about your biggest obstacle (for Joshua it was the Jordan river that was at flood stage that he had to get across). Then think about what the worst scenario would be and then the best scenario . Then trust God with the rest. I have some big decisions that I am trusting God for...praying for wisdom and guidance. God can roll back the waters of your Jordan river if you step out in obedience and put your foot in the water!

The Five Finger Prayer

Came across during my devotions and thought it was good...

Thumb...pray for those closest to you

Pointer finger...pray for those who point the way

Tallest finger..pray for those in leadership

Ring finger...pray for those who are I'll or troubled

Pinky...pray for you

Twins!

Before you get all excited, let me say I am not pregnant. A couple of week's ago, Chris started calling me his twin. When I asked him why, he said it's because we look alike and we have a lot in common. He has twin boys in his class and his grandpa is a twin, so deep down I think he wanted to have a twin too. I explained what the term twins really meant. I think he is still wrapping

his brain around the idea of a woman having two babies in her belly at the same time. He is at such a cute age and I am soaking it up...at least he still wants to hang out with me and wants to look like me...wait a few more years and I am sure he will be singing a different song.

What You Didn't Know...

Hi! My name is Beth and I talk to myself...out loud...often...at work. I would like to say that this is a new habit, but unfortunately I started doing this years ago. I have a stressful job and in order to keep my sanity I have to act insane. Makes sense, right? I don't feel too bad because a lot of people do it at work. It would be funny to have a hidden camera to catch the conversations, little squeals of joy, and grunts of frustrations that emit from my desk every day. Throw in the hand gestures (not those hand gestures....I am a Christian lady after all) I constantly use because I am Italian and I talk with my hands, and there you have the makings of a great reality tv show.

I don't know if that will make you chuckle or start emailing me with names of counselors. Lol.

Thought for the day

Nine is a wonderful number when referring to a child's age or a shoe size...not so great when referring to the temperature outside your house while waiting for the bus this mornin. Missing Florida right now..sigh....

The Party is Over

Have you ever noticed that it is more exciting to pack for a trip then to unpack after it is over? Or how much fun it is to prepare for a special occasion whether it's a birthday celebration, an anniversary or just a fun get together with friends, then it is too clean up after the party is over? That's kind of what it feels like after Christmas and New Years, isn't it? The preparation, the excitement..you can feel it in the air. Today as we were taking down the tree and all the decorations, I kind of felt sad. Another Christmas come and gone... a new year is here. It was almost like the anticipation was over and ..now what? Tomorrow life goes back to what ever "normal" is for you and me. My son will head back to school, and my husband and I will work.

Don't get me wrong - there are plenty of exciting events coming, up.. plenty to look forward to... so I said a little prayer as I was closing the boxes and putting away the lights. Lord, let me never lose my excitement over the things that you have planned for me. May each day I wake excited as I anticipate how you are going to use me each day.

My heart feels lighter and I know that I don't have to feel like the party is over.. the party is just beginning!