On Decemeber 7th I flew out to North Carolina to surprise my oldest Best Friend for her 40th birthday party. An added bonus was being able to spend time with my family, of coarse. I got to go to Caylyn's school and see her in a school performance with Callie and Connor, spend time with Jocelyn and Fletcher one day, Skylar, Jonas, and Liam another and Tua, Sefa and Pelu (well, kinda Pelu...lol!) the last day. I didn't bring my camera because I only brought a carry on and couldn't fit my camera in the bag or my purse so all of these pics are compliments of others cameras.
Rachael helped me plan how I was going to surprise Jen. Jen was already at the club house having a "before" dinner party with her family (which I thought I would be doing this out in front of her house but didn't know she had a dinner party at 4pm). Rachael walked in and told her that she wanted to come down and say happy b-day but that she couldn't stay long because she had to study (she's in school to become a phlebotomist),that she was there early because this was the only time she could come and that she had promised me, because I couldn't be there, that she would play Bruno Mars song "Count on me" as a b-day dedication to her. She started to play it as I waited nervous as heck out in the hall for the second verse to start. I came in singing, "If your tossin' and your turnin' and you just can't sleep at night...I'll sing a song beside you. If you ever forget how much you really mean to me....Everyday I will remind you..." Well, I knew I wouldn't get far and I didn't. I barely got that line out before she turned around....
threw her hands up to her mouth in surprise (wish we would have gotten a pic of her face) and started crying. It was so fun to surprise her!
"Find out what we're made of....when we are called to help a friend in need. You can count on me like 1, 2, 3 and I'll be there...and I know when I need it I can on you like 4, ,3, 2 and you'll be there....cause that's what friends are supposed to do, on yeah."
I gotta take a moment and tell you that Jen really is the kind of friend that I hope everyone has. Back in 2001 when I had a 4 yr old, a 2 1/2 yr. old and 3 month old triplets Jen quit her job, flew out to Utah from NC for a month and helped me with my babies and the boys. In fact, one of my favorite pics of her is when she was out here helping me with the babies and I took a snap shot of her practically asleep holding one of them. I will post it in the next blog if I can find it.
When all the crying was done we sat down and began the fun. I joined the Grigg family for dinner (well, I wasn't hungry but I sat down with them) and got to catch up with all of them.
Then the party started and we ate, danced line dances, read the memory wall and listen to a group called "the Gardner sister's" (look them up on youtube).
Greg and Jane, and Nate and Amy came down to the party too. We've always considered Jen part of the family.
Jen with Rachael (before she took off cuz she really didn't stay for the party and had to study), Angela Morphies (who also came down from W-S for the party), and her hubbie, Mark, who was the only one to know (besides my family) that I was flying in and did an awesome job hiding it.
What an evening. I got to spend time with some of my very best freinds...my friends for life (and that includes you, Greg and Nate
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That night I stayed the night with Jen in Concord which is just outside of Charlotte. We stayed up till nearly 3:00 talking (well, she did. I fell asleep just before 2:30 while she continued looking through the scrap book that her good friend, Tamara, put together). The next day we had till 2:15 cuz I got a late flight out so we hung out and talked some more and made a cake with the boys.
I am so glad that I got a chance to show Jen how much she really means to me. This is going to be one of my most favorite memories. I am so blessed to have a friend like her. I love you, Jen!