I love the weekend for the most part. Sometimes everyone has a different idea of what we should do (watch a movie, play the N64, work in the yard, pour marbles in the sink....) but over all we get the work done and have time to play together and usually make a good treat.
Then Conference weekend comes. I personally love Conference, but surprisingly my 4 and 5 year olds don't love to sit and watch men and women talk about stuff that is more then they can understand. I often hear people saying how much fun they had with their kids playing games like Conference bingo or they come up with other coloring pages for the kids to do. And I think, I wish that worked for us. Someday I won't dread Conference weekend, right? Like after the boys move out of the house? I just never hear people talking about how hard it is to get their kids to sit down. Could someone just let me know that this happens at their house too? Or is it REALLY just me?
All parents have the responsibility to teach their children to sit and listen. This is something I think is a very important part of being a parent. Saying that- all children are born at different points on the "listening scale". The scale goes from "Child sitting quietly without very much help or support from the parent from a very early age" to "The parent will have to sit on their child to make them stay, and tape their mouth closed but the child will still make noise. There is no bribe or deal the parent can make that will make this child sit and be quite for more then 5 or 10 minutes."
Most kids would fall somewhere in the middle, but maybe a little more on the right side then left. Also, it depends on the day of course. Some days I can find something to keep Collin busy for a full 20 or 30 minutes, and Landon busy for maybe 10 as long as they are separate. (By the way, for those parents who have children who are naturally quite and keep themselves busy I hope you fully appreciate that child.) Landon actually stays very busy if he is allowed to make a mess (playing in flour, sugar, salt, or water. He can use just one or all, it doesn't really matter.) but right now I'm not big on cleaning up his mess so I usually try to keep him busy with other things.
Conference weekend is hard for the boys for several reasons.
1st- we only have one TV and it is downstairs where the boys playroom is. This would work out nicely if the boys would play quietly, but more often then not we are consistently saying "Please be quiet. Boys, be quiet. BE QUIET. Go upstairs. Go outside. What is Landon doing- oh, playing with the soap and putting ripped paper in a plugged sink. Come back downstairs. Be quiet." The boys don't get why they have to be quiet in the play room.
2nd- we would send them outside but Conference is not known for it's wonderful weather. It actually looks like it's supposed to be good weather, but more often then not it's raining, or worse off, snowing.
3rd- I love Chase, and I know he does the best he can, but I often feel like I am supposed to tune the kids out and let them do whatever just to watch Conference. Chase doesn't mean to ignore the kids, he just gets so...involved... in Conference that he doesn't realize what is going on, or that we actually have to entertain the boys.
So I'm just going to hear what I can and then know that I can read or watch them again.