Monthly Archives: July 2013

Through Dreams

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God speaks to me through dreams.

Those of you who know me well know about the dream I had just about a year ago. 🙂

Last night, I had another dream. This time it was about Eastern European adoption.

Hubby and I were in Eastern Europe, perhaps Ukraine or Moldova. We were walking into an auditorium, because we were supposed to “pick” out a child to adopt. (Can you imagine?)

The orphanage workers began to bring the children in by the dozens. Lines and lines…rows and rows of children. The expressions on the their faces was one of discouragement and lack of hope.

Especially on the countenance of the older children and teenagers.
Who would pick them?

And how in the world would Hubby and I “pick” a child out of so many who needed a family??

Then I saw her.

This lovely young lady, about the age of 16 or 17.

I recognized her! She was a young lady that had been with (in my dream reality, of course) a ministry that brings orphans to the United States during the summer to speak to local churches.

I walked up to her. “Do you know English?” I asked.

With tears streaming down her face, she jerked her head around, “YES!”

Then I called her name, specifically. “Are you, ______?” (In the dream I knew her name…now it escapes me.)

Again, she frantically replied, “YES!”

My heart broke. This child, who once tasted what life and freedom could be, was now imprisoned in this place, with what seemed to be no way out.

I walked over to Hubby, as he stood in the back.
“I know we agreed that we wanted a younger age-range of children, but, do you think we could adopt this one? Since I already know who she is??”

“Yes,” Hubby replied seriously, not hesitating for a second.

In disbelief, I hurried over to the orphanage director, and asked about this young lady. Surprised, she acknowledged that this young lady was indeed available for adoption, but for the life of her, she couldn’t understand why we would want to adopt a child of this age.

Overjoyed, I was awakened by our youngest child, wanting a glass of water.

Friends, where were you at age 10? 12? 15? 17?

Were you a little unsure of who you were? Did you, perhaps, need a bit of encouragement or direction? Or just someone who loved you and believed in your potential?

There are SO MANY older orphans out there who need loving families. Last I heard, nearly 90% of children in orphanages were over the age of 6.

Who will love the “least of these?” In our Father’s eyes, they are among the greatest.

Washing Dishes By Hand

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There is a saying in the adoption community that goes something like this: “You know you are in the process of adopting when…” and then one fills in the blank as to what has broken down in their household or vehicle to bring up unexpected expenses.

 

Ours is the dishwasher.

 

A few weeks ago our dishwasher began to sound like a freight train, gush water onto the floor, and make the hardwoods sound like there is a raccoon setting up camp underneath them. ?? Who knows. All I know is that the thing hasn’t been cleaning properly for months, despite using Dishwasher Magic, cleaning the filter, and changing detergents multiple times.

Oh well.

Honestly, not having a dishwasher hasn’t been the end of the world.

I’ve discovered that I really don’t hate washing dishes by hand. I actually can find some enjoyment in it. Maybe it’s the bubbles. Or maybe it’s how surprisingly quickly a kitchen can get clean when one just does it instead of piling up dishes for the dishwasher to clean at some later time.

Or maybe it’s something else.

This past week–at least twice–something has happened in our kitchen that never happened before. Something simple yet remarkable.

Father-son bonding time over dishes. Hubs has been training our eldest as how to properly wash, rinse, and dry dishes by hand. And then clean the sink. It takes them about half an hour.

Half an hour of one-on-one man-building father-son time. It’s been beautiful.

There is a calm that comes over the house in the evenings. A bit of work, a bit of training. This is good. But it’s more that that. This is life-changing, memory-making attachment time.

All because of a broken dishwasher.

I love it.

In order to cut costs for our adoption, we also cut off our TV provider. Now Hubs and Big Boy wash dishes together. When Hubs isn’t home, the boys and I take walks, jump on the trampoline, or paint together. It’s been wonderful.

Convenience? Easy Entertainment?

Who needs it? 😉

 

Blessings