In 2025 I averaged a post a month on this blog, I think my Dayre account fared better but not much. I also wrote more in my last physical journal. It makes me think it’s time to stop this blog but I’ve kept it for so many years, since my uni days so I can’t bear to close it down. So once a month it will have to be…

The highlights of the year were easily our trips abroad. KL was so relaxing and fun, lots of good food, shopping and family activities such as Sunway Lagoon. I’m a bit sad we won’t be stopping by KL this year but we should really try other cities in Malaysia, we can always return the year after.

The Shanghai trip was also memorable and opened our eyes to the wonders of China. We were wowed by the convenience powered by technology and can’t wait to return. I’m hoping we can squeeze in a trip in 2026 but China requires quite a lot of planning so I’m not sure whether it will pan out.

One thing I loved about this year is the kids learning guitar from my father. I hope this continues for a long long time and the kids don’t give up halfway. I will encourage my girls to keep learning from their very talented Gung Gung, they have no idea how lucky they are to learn from him, but when they grow up they will understand.

My sisters and I accompanying my parents to watch Cliff Richard (and Hank!) live was probably another highlight. I wanted 2025 to be all about creating memories for my parents and I think we did have some wonderful moments.

Camping with friends, long dinners and catch ups were all lovely. Maybe we will be able to have more gatherings like these in 2026, certainly I feel we had quite a few gatherings in 2025 with my different groups of friends.

We had many family gatherings in 2025, from learning to make kuih to wrapping bak zhang. I’m excited for our upcoming Singapore trip too, it’s been a while since we’ve had a sisters and parents trip, the cousins will love hanging out together too.

This year was the year of lots of walks, daily running and being active.

I like it that the girls like walking to the park of the forum with me, that they love skating, cycling, swimming. It’s not something that I did as a child (so hot in Malaysia) so I hope they have an active lifestyle in Australia and get plenty of exercise and sunshine.

I’m pleased that I managed to close my minimum 30 mins exercise ring 338 days out of 365! I really tried to be consistent and make it a daily habit to be on the threadmill, it wasn’t easy especially during days when I was not well or hot summer days. I missed days mostly when we were travelling and on the plane, but I think overall I did pretty well! I want to continue this is 2026 and up my exercise goal, maybe 40 mins a day as a minimum?
While I don’t weigh myself and don’t see any difference in weight, I genuinely felt better and stronger in 2025. Being active and physical also helped me mentally feel stronger and I hope to grow from strength to strength in 2026.
Where I fell short in 2026 was my temper, my patience towards my family and especially the girls. Gentle parenting is definitely not in my DNA, and sometimes even though I knew my words were cruel I didn’t stop them from coming out. I really want to work on this in 2026, to be a more loving and caring mum, wife, daughter and sister. May 2026 bring us lots of blessings, an abundance of happiness, luck and good health.























































































