
(not my favorite pic from the day, but 1st I could find)
July 10th marked 7 years of martial bliss for us. Some days it feels like we've been married forever and other days, we can't believe it's been 7 years. This year for our anniversary we decided we wanted to have a fun evening, not so much the romantic night out we always do. With having 2 young kids, we rarely just get to go and play together any more.
One thing we love about Charlotte is all the fun things there are to go do and see. One really neat place is the US National Whitewater Center. Not only do they have rafting, but they have rock climbing, kayaking, ziplines, biking, geo-traking and more. We decided for our anniversary that we would go ziplining. We felt like it would be a fun memory from our days at camp where we met.
Emily, one of Jeremy's awesome co-workers, volunteered to babysit for the afternoon so we took off to the center mid-afternoon. Because of time, we could only zipline but it was sooo fun. I wasn't allowed to take a camera so you'll have to just imagine it with this picture from their website. It's a 1,123 foot zip-line that takes riders off from the top of the 46 foot Mega Tower and fly over sections of Class III and IV whitewater rapids.

It was so hot that day and we had to wait a while, but it was worth it. Jeremy and I really want to go back and do more stuff. After that, we went and had dinner Cabo Fish Taco . Cabo has been featured on Food Network and we can see why. We both had these AMAZING tuna tacos! After dinner, we headed over to Amelie's for dessert. Because of the time, we took our desserts to go.
After the boys went to bed, we enjoyed our desserts on the back porch. While we were eating, I made Jeremy do a little reflection. Together we thought about 7 things we had learned in the last 7 years. Here they are in no particular order:
1) God always provides. No matter the situation God has always provided the money, the job, the wisdom, etc. that was needed.
2) Having lived in 5 different places in 7 years, we are great packers and unpackers. We can do it at super pace (hence the reason my house looked like we had lived in it forever just 2 weeks in). We have also learned not to be pack rats.
3) Our first year of marriage our small group read the book Sacred Marriage. The author stated that marriage was like a mirror; it helped you to see your own sin. This has never been more true. I have seen more of my own flaws, esp. selfishness and pride, come out than ever before.
4) We aren't cut out for small town living (sorry Mom and Dad!)
5) We balance each other out well. For example, he calms me down when I get worried or anxious and I help him get a little more excited about things. Also I help him be more social. :)
6) Life doesn't always go as had planned but everything worked out beautifully and better than we could have imagined.
7) We are never settled. Both of us are always looking toward the next stage or project.
We feel very blessed to walk this journey together and there is no one else we would rather do it with. I hope that we have many many more years together and are able to look back and name hundreds of things we have learned together. I love you Jeremy and thank God every day for you. :)