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Life and times…

ImageThe thing with ‘people’ is that you know them because of some reason.Like, your college friends are friends because of college, gym friends are friends coz you know them from gym and so on.I can not recall any friend without a prefix like gym,face book,blog etc.. at least in my case.

First, we hang out like ‘friends forever’ with those never ending talks, pranks,sweet secret sharing ( in case of guys-not so sweet abuses) and endless shopping sprees.Eventually, we get bore and drift away so slowly that we don’t even realize and remember that we no more talk to each like ‘friends forever’

It goes like circle, I guess First you are strangers , then you become aquiantances and slowly you step on the ladder of friends and after that best buddies which eventually ends with being just friends and later ‘ ya-we-use-to-be-good- friends-but-now-no-more’ . Only very few, ( very-very few) sticks on the stage of best buddies or friends forever .Though, I am not a person who tags people on stage of friendship but life calls for a general observation sometimes.isnt it??

People have always been the center of my life. I live for ones around me. I like to see people around me happy.And its like a great deal for me to hurt them.But it also makes me sad when life takes takes them away from me.Things never hold my attention for a long time but people always do.They make my life interesting. Besides , living for things always makes labels you as materialistic,isnt it?

I wish things would never change between friends.Between people I love,like and belong to .

I wish I would have been less demending form life or wait a minute, is it life that is demanding? But then it has always been so , ‘a nagging wife/a cold husband’.isn’t it??

A Sms from one of my cousin ;

sometimes we knowingly dont have time for people and sometimes we unknowingly have time to hurt them.

ImageOn my last destination of my journey of MBA.I just need to win the last battle and i will lose my college life forever 😦 

Pondering over my past 5 years in college and looking forward to my last few days left, I have realised that it’s a sad end and also a new and exciting beginning ,exactly like we the way we are about to finish the chocolate shake and waiting for the yummy crispy pizza 🙂 ( OHH..I am so hungry :-P) All you need to do is to chill and just move with the flow.Just let things go and accept super hot pizzas on your way.One can not just live on sweet and chocolates shakes!!

MBA is more of a mental and physical challenge than management study.One fine day, I will wake up with a message to submit assignment in just 1 hr and otherwise for days, I will be jobless..People come close and start talking with each other at the time of exams and placements but otherwise we wont even look at each other.College politics is at its best at the time of college fest, and the involvement of administration is pretty amazing in politics.

I have seen it all, from hue and cry to awesome and fake friends to enemies.From wonderful  teachers to the ones that makes you puke.From sweet juniors to wonderful seniors.From subjects in which you top to the subjects in which you score 33 :-P.From long lectures to short attendence.From guys who study for you to the jealous gals who don’t let you study.And the list goes on…. 🙂

Sometimes life has been a dry flower and sometimes your favourite book that you never want to part with.For me college life has been all about a new flavour to taste everyday. Its been picking up dead leaves and still trying to find colour in it.Its been like those good and bad priceless moments captured in clumsy camera. Most of all, Its been meeting strange ,unexpected ,wonderful and interesting people when our roads meet and those painful moments when they chose to travel in other direction.

I adore those tears which my friends had for me in there eyes and also those uncontrolled laughs on deadliest of PJ’s.I will miss those mornings ,when I use to get up for 8 o’ clock class at 7:50 AM. 😀 and those ‘I wish I get to know just one question of  tomorrows paper” nights.Those silly fights and those “Gyaan vali” chats.I will miss those ‘Pani puri’ parties and those ‘jabran ki treats’  snatched by friends.I want to redo those word to word copied assignments and those unique weird answers.I will miss those mass bunking and then fear of getting suspended.I will miss my college parking popularly known as ‘Chaman Vatika’ and those long days in college making  huge art works for college fest. I will miss those UTD matches and those induction program ( read ragging) …..Gone are those days….left are just memories.

And with this note, I promise myself that I will keep tight hold of these beautiful memories in the same way in which kids like to hold the dupatta of their mothers.hehe 😀

Now its time for the song of the post 🙂 — “Hum rahe ya na rahe kal..kal yaad aayange ye pal…” 🙂 🙂

Pic  courtesy –> Vineet Sharma.

P.S.:–> A post after a long time.It feels good 🙂 I missed this place.

 

 

Here I begin….

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Here I start a new journey,

And, hope it never ends,

There may be hurdles in my way,

But, I will treat them as my friends.


I just want few milestones in my way,

So that, I get a chance for rejuvenation,

I wish they come every day in my life,

And it becomes a never ending celebration…

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P.S.–>This post is written by a new author “Vineet Sharma”,and also the person you can partly see  in the picture above..

P.S.–>>I  thank him for his contribution to my blog and for this small and subtle creation.

Journey of a relationship…..

Relationships are quite fussy.Its difficult to live without any relations and also difficult to manage them.Still,We live it and we love it.

I have categorized a couple’s relationship in 8 heads from their start to end in form of the cost attached emotionally.

1: REGULAR–> This is the initial stage, regular baatein, meetings and quiet routine .This stage is best one.Everything goes well and nice.” They can forget eating but wont forget calling each other”

2: IRREGULAR–>Slowly – slowly, regular stage becomes irregular.Meetings and baatein becomes sporadic.” Aaj thak gaye hai -baad mai baat karange types jawab aate hai ladke se”

3: STICKY–> Evident form the term itself, Like guy says ” Bahut chaat ti hai yaar….bathroom bhi jaata hu toh bata ke jaana padta hai ” and girl says to her friends ” aree apne kutte se bhi baat karti hu toh shak karta hai vo ” 😀

4: RECALLED –>Here, they have to remind each other and to themselves of their love again and again.Some times this recalling helps and in most of the cases, it doesnt.

5: SUIT FILED –>  Some initial ‘dhamkiya and tantrums’ starts from either side.Everything becomes intolerable.Some last strings of the rope remains in the hands.

6: DECREED –> Now,this stage comes as the last and the final try to stay together.Either you have it or you don’t.

7: DOUBTFUL –> Everything is quiet doubtful .There is very little chances of things to settle down.Very less chances of returning back to each other.

8: COSTS–> This is what you have to pay sometimes with your emotions.The cost is sometimes to heavy which can never be realized back in the future.

Accept it or not, This is the fact.Sometimes it fun ,sometimes it fuss.But it teaches us for sure.

Thought for the day…

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