On Monday we carved pumpkins for FHE.
Mondays are a little tricky lately; Emma, Charlotte and I don't get home from ballet until 6 pm. The kids watch themselves until Andy gets home. Nathan and Katie did have a conflict of needing a ride home from swimming while I was at ballet not sure if I could leave the kids because wow they have been difficult for girls who really wanted to do ballet. Every week at least one of them would cry or throw a fit. One week Emma completely refused to go to class -- AArgh. Anyway so the older kids were supposed to get a ride, but it didn't always work out.
Aaron and Matthew got home about 20 minutes before everyone else and they were told to help each other with homework and then play video games to keep them occupied and happy.
A couple weeks ago I called home about 4:20 to make sure everyone got home and in the house all right; the first words out of Nathan's mouth were complaints about how the little boys had been playing the computer for too long and it should be his turn. I fixed that fire and thought all would be well. Andy stopped to get a haircut that night so he wasn't home quite as early and I got a call from Nathan. Katie was screaming in the background and he yelled at her to send her to her room. Then he reported that Matthew got mad when he had to stop playing the computer and he pulled out a knife that Katie tried to get from him and ended up with a cut in her hand. It wasn't too bad, but it did bleed a lot -- Katie doesn't do blood -- once when Aaron was 2 and she was 3 he split his head open and was bleeding everywhere, but Katie was the one that went into shock.
I told Nathan to send Matthew to his room until dad or I got home, and go help Katie, because while she was irrationally screeching she really needed some help. Fortunately Andy got home shortly after.
Needless to say I am not as eager to leave the kids alone on Mondays. To make it more interesting Andy has been working the 4pm to 12pm shift at work so does not come home part way through!
This week I gave them all assignments. Swimming is over so Nathan and Katie are home early. Nathan was supposed to work with Matthew, to type up his reading fair stuff, and then help Aaron make dinner - so he could pass off a Faith in God goal. Katie was supposed to work on her reading fair project and then help Matthew do his regular homework. Aaron was supposed to do the dishes and then make dinner with Nathan. And most importantly Nathan was supposed to watch over and diffuse things that might get out of hand.
They did pretty good and the overall goal was achieved -- nobody got hurt. The boys actually all played together and enjoyed each other's company!! Although I did get home to find Matthew's homework wasn't done, because Nathan told Katie he saw Matthew doing it and Katie assumed that meant she was off the hook. Also dinner was just being started as I got home so we had another half hour to wait --the ultimate point of this tangent is that things were running a little behind!
Now back to FHE: Aaron has been very excited about carving pumpkins and roasting the seeds, so I figured I would have to do it. We had our lesson and then off to carve. Aaron had a great idea to have one kid do the eyes, one do the nose, and one do the mouth -- since we had two pumpkins and six kids -- it worked out perfectly!!
Team one was Nathan, Charlotte and Emma. I was impressed because Nathan did most of the scraping and seed separating -- he does not do messy hands - so he got major points that night. He was a very good sport about working with the little girls too.
Team two was Katie, Aaron, and Matthew. They all worked well which was also surprising since Katie can't seem to stand Matthew's existence most of the time. Over all I think both of their pumpkins were pretty cool and I think people had fun. I was meanwhile trying to rinse off seeds and roast them and help the little 3 carve their parts. It was such a great division of labor because nobody bossed anyone else around, everyone got a say, and they even communicated with each other about what they should do. On the down side I haven't slept much in the last week and a half and I was tired and wanted a break, but the carving took a while and since we started late kids were in bed about 45 minutes late.
Wednesday we had a Harvest Party at the church.
Charlotte was a "wedding girl" she also had a fairy costume but only wanted to be a wedding girl. She is wearing the dress that Katie wore when I married Andy - even though she is about a year younger than Katie was at the time - she is a tall little girl. She also refused to wear the poofy skirt under it, but she was awfully cute.
Emma wanted to be a witch, but didn't want to have her picture taken. She had taken off half of her costume before the activity even started.
Nathan was a wizard, but he also took it off in the first 10 minutes of the activity. This was a costume my mom made for my brother and we swiped it the last time we went home.
Katie is a renaissance lady - not necessarily a princess because I think that is too girly. She is the only one I made a costume for this year. We had a lovely time making it together. It was fun because she had some great ideas that I never would have done and they turned out great. She was very particular about what she wanted though, so I actually even bought a pattern to start with and modified things like the sleeves, belt, gold stripe at the bottom, and the cinching rope on the front. She made quite the impression at the YM/YW activity the week before, in part because she was really pretty and in part because it was so out of character for her to be girly!!

Matthew has been waiting for about 2 years to be Harry Potter. We bought him some cheap black hair spray paint but he ran off with it and we couldn't find it when we needed it so we used black shoe polish! It worked, but it sure stank. I even had him wear a winter hat to bed to keep it off his sheets so I didn't have to totally reapply it on Thursday.
Aaron is the grim reaper. He was even made some tickets to the underworld that he passed out that night. He also had a half mask that he was very excited about but he couldn't wear it that night at church and I didn't get a picture on Thurs.
Group pictures -- Emma still wasn't excited about the pictures -- oh well.
For the school storybook parade at school Thursday, Emma went as Pinkalicious. I was pretty excited about painting her pink -- I had to bribe her with candy so she'd let me paint her face. Matthew was Harry Potter again, and Aaron almost dressed up as Percy Jackson, but a brotherly squabble and a pot being dropped on his head by Matthew made him change his mind. Although I think I killed his joy some, by not letting him write Camp Halfblood on his orange shirt.
Wednesday and Thursday I went and did a craft with Emma and Matthew's classes where you glue marshmallows to a paper in a ghost shape. I also taught a ghost song and read some books. Emma is interesting when I go to her class because she gets clingy -- all through the stories she just wanted me. The last time I went to read she cried when I left her so her teacher suggested I come at the end of the day this time -- smart lady!
Trick or treating was kind of a bust. It was really stormy all day so we thought it wouldn't happen at all. Fortunately a friend reminded me of trick or treating at the mall so we went there and that was fun -- we should have called it quits then.... We went around the neighborhood. The last couple of years there have been fewer and fewer lights on so we have to walk further for less stuff and it is hard for the little kids who are over exhausted from the days of excitement. This year maybe because of the rain, I don't know, there were only about 10 houses handing out candy. The most frustrating thing was we kept seeing lights in the distance but there was no one home. We walked about 1 1/2 miles - which shouldn't have been bad, but Emma was whiney and Matthew kept lagging behind and complaining -- especially after he lost his cool wand! (I did feel a bit more sympathy when he threw up last night - I guess he wasn't just being difficult)
Next year maybe I'll just stay home and buy discount candy the day after!!