I took my time arriving at work today. I saw Destiny placing her flip videocamera on the edge of my cubicle and as I rounded the corner, and Michelle popped up out of the next cube. Streamers, horns and confetti bombs greeted me on my 33rd birthday. And, of course, a birthday tiara. After I got birthday hugs from Michelle and Destiny, the rest of the office came up to shake my hand and wish me a good day. In the afternoon, we had cake and took part in the Indian tradition of feeding cake to one another. I’m sure I wasn’t doing it right, in part because it felt like I was taking part in a mock wedding, or sharing a drink with my best friend Ryan (although no arms were intertwined here).
Office party!

Michelle feeds me birthday cake #2

For dinner, we went to Zara’s – an Indianized tapas restaurant nearby, one of the few that serves cocktails. Lika joined me, Destiny, Michelle and my roommate Namrata for pitchers of sangria and lots of tapas. Another birthday girl was seated at the next table over, and she sent us over some cake - my 3rd in 3 days. The girls got me some food treasures of America for my birthday. The frappucinnos tried hard (but failed) to top Kody’s present to me – a fantastic new bike! [I’m a little jealous that he’s already ridden my amazing new bike down to Jacob Riis beach, and my first chance to do the same won’t be until the dead of winter. I hope the spring of 2010 comes early!] Of course I also got a birthday dance from the Zara’s waiters, and an amazing lotus flower candle that sings. Unfortunately, I didn’t blow out the candles soon enough so it turned the small cake (my 4th birthday cake) into a plastic covered mess. But since it was loaded with walnuts (a no-no since I developed a tree nut allergy) I wasn’t too upset not too eat it.
Sampling cake#3

Cake #4, with music!

This is the first birthday that I’ve spent so far away from the people that know me well. I landed in India exactly 2 months ago today, and have known some of my friends here for scarcely a month. Nonetheless, they did a great job of making me feel cared for on my birthday, which has sometimes been in short supply since I arrived. Thank you everyone for making this a surprisingly good start to my 33rd year.
Official Birthday poster, courtesy of Michelle with technical assistance from Amudha!