today i had a simple outing with my beloved secondary buddies.
went to my friend's house to make sushi and played with her nephew...is amazed by the high technology toys kids play nowadays, i wish to have one too! laugh a lots while chatting with friends, short gathering yet it was so fun to catch up with old friends
happy that i finally succeed to go for hill climbing near my house this late evening. It was quite easy to climb up the hill, climbing down was even easier and faster. even I, whom has a very limited stamina level can do it. Saw many young kids who climb up the hill with an ease....hahaha
will be celebrating Mother's day by going out for dinner tomorrow. Bought a few pieces of cakes from Secret Recipe just now. Knew that parents seldom eat cakes but still i bought some to let them have a taste, they quite like it.
will be going back to Kl to start my new semester in a week time. omg! my holidays only left a week time...gonna relax at home to the max before going back home. gonna enter second year of my degree life..huh...i must do my BEST!
Saturday, May 7, 2011
Thursday, May 5, 2011
criminal minds is back to my life ^^
Yeap! My all-time favorite show-Criminal Minds is back to my life again!
So happy that i can spent my holidays chasing back all the episodes i had left out...hehe
planned to go for hill climbing just now but it started to rain...have to cancel off the initial plan...is still drizzling now out there.
Yesterday my friend came to pay a visit at my house..chatted for three hours plus while having nescafe and egg tarts..is like having high tea but is at my house's living room. kinda funny indeed but fun...was a very nice talk after all.
Just realized that it had been a long time i do not go for a trip with my hometown friends, really have to plan for it!
heard a very meaningful quotation in Criminal Minds yesterday:
"Tomorrow, you promise yourself, will be different, yet, tomorrow is too often a repetition of today " Mccay, James T.
ia definitely a true reflection of my bad habit as i love to procrastinate a lot. must always remind myself of this quotation
smile! *(^-^)*
So happy that i can spent my holidays chasing back all the episodes i had left out...hehe
planned to go for hill climbing just now but it started to rain...have to cancel off the initial plan...is still drizzling now out there.
Yesterday my friend came to pay a visit at my house..chatted for three hours plus while having nescafe and egg tarts..is like having high tea but is at my house's living room. kinda funny indeed but fun...was a very nice talk after all.
Just realized that it had been a long time i do not go for a trip with my hometown friends, really have to plan for it!
heard a very meaningful quotation in Criminal Minds yesterday:
"Tomorrow, you promise yourself, will be different, yet, tomorrow is too often a repetition of today " Mccay, James T.
ia definitely a true reflection of my bad habit as i love to procrastinate a lot. must always remind myself of this quotation
smile! *(^-^)*
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
secret
back to english again my blog...is faster this way...haha
rotting at home made me think of many things..actually mostly some nonsense things.
The more i think about them, the deeper i went into the questions, the more i feel all this are rather troublesome and annoying. Human being's mind and emotion get more complicated when we are growing older and older. As i always love to observe people and asking myself why they behave in such ways, which in psychology we call this making attribution. Since i am having my semester break and relaxing, doing nothing at home, so my targets of observation had changed to my family and my hometown friends who i meet once in a while during yumcha session. In the end, i found that i am reflecting my own thoughts and behavior the most and found myself to be quite a conflicting people.
Many issues came across my mind, such as my future prospect, how to earn my bread and at the same time enjoying jobs i am working with, is it a must to get into a relationship? I find it kinda annoying as people always ask about all this.I know that some people really want to know me better and care about me, but i am somehow quite exhausted answering all these questions.
Well, what can i only said is, i will work out my best to enjoy my future career life and as for relationship thingy, just let it be as destined by God's will and serendipity. Despite the fact that i am not religious but i believe the existence of God! Not trying to be secretive as i am never that kind of girl, in fact all my little little secrets are known by my close friends or families, but none of them know every secret i have of course. Is rather creepy and scary if there is a person who knows everything about you right? I still want some privacy for my own and i think everybody will agree with this.
So, can i announce that i am 'secretless' now? create new word again. i shall go search for my new secret which will not be known by anyone...haha...too free! Somehow i am very curious about the definition of the word secret. Thus, i had googled it and below is the answer i got from Answers.com:
a secret is a a private peace of information that is not shared. if you tell someone that had nothing to do with the secret it is no longer a secret. if you have a secret it can not be told to anyone that has nothing to do with it. now if you do tell a secret it is a private peace of information now.
In my humble opinion, a secret which we normally told our friend or more than one persons and and ask them not to tell others is no longer a secret anymore as people will just continue the same routine and expect the person they told will not leak a word from their mouths. Therefore, the moment i am willing to speak out things which i viewed as secret to someone, i will no longer deemed it as secret and i will not hold high expectation that s/he will not say a word to another people, either is mutual friends or strangers. Is not that i am not being trusting to my friends, is just that everyone have their own definition for the word 'secret' and sometimes the issue you regard as very important issue maybe just a small matter to others and they do not feel that it will cause any harm to tell someone else. This is just my personal opinion, and that is why i will only choose whether to tell out everything once and for all or just keep it to myself. Normally, i choose to tell! I think that is a better way to just let go rather than suffer myself (i am optimistic deep down i suppose!)
I found that people are really amazing as there will not be the exact same person and thoughts in this world. People who are normally talkative and extrovert when socializing may have even more secrets and more reluctant to tell people about them compared to people who are more introvert and reserved when it comes to social world. The latter may be more willing to reveal their inner feelings to their close friends rather than the formers. Some of my friends fit into this and i think so am I. YES! No doubt i am talking about you! haha....please don't think that i am talking about you although i may sound like that...LOL
Usually, i am quite talkative even though with friends who i am not close with because i dislike awkward condition to take place. Hence, unconsciously or consciously i will normally be more extrovert and sociable. there are friends who are quite alike with me and I discovered that we also share the same conditions that we seldom talk about our inner feelings except with very close friends, depending on the severity of the problem also. May be is because we seems to be optimistic and always crack jokes in front of others, so people are less aware that we are actually not in good mood. It happens quite often to me actually, my close friends can easily sense my bad mood but normal friends would not realize anything.
Is it a disguise? As what Shakespeare said: we are all actors!
We play different roles everyday according to situations, whether we did realized it or not, somehow everyone also has their own masks, to protect them from getting hurt mentally and for the sake of our self-esteem.
Very long-winded today, too much about my own observations and analysis.
Just type out to express my own thoughts, hope that no one will read till here also. feel my inner feeling is quite exposed already....*shy shy*
hahahaha. Many of my friends have private blogs, i am thinking should i do so or not? Shall i made this as private blog? HMMM....actually this blog is quite private already as not many people know about my blog, i do not like to tell people to go read my blog...hahaha
rotting at home made me think of many things..actually mostly some nonsense things.
The more i think about them, the deeper i went into the questions, the more i feel all this are rather troublesome and annoying. Human being's mind and emotion get more complicated when we are growing older and older. As i always love to observe people and asking myself why they behave in such ways, which in psychology we call this making attribution. Since i am having my semester break and relaxing, doing nothing at home, so my targets of observation had changed to my family and my hometown friends who i meet once in a while during yumcha session. In the end, i found that i am reflecting my own thoughts and behavior the most and found myself to be quite a conflicting people.
Many issues came across my mind, such as my future prospect, how to earn my bread and at the same time enjoying jobs i am working with, is it a must to get into a relationship? I find it kinda annoying as people always ask about all this.I know that some people really want to know me better and care about me, but i am somehow quite exhausted answering all these questions.
Well, what can i only said is, i will work out my best to enjoy my future career life and as for relationship thingy, just let it be as destined by God's will and serendipity. Despite the fact that i am not religious but i believe the existence of God! Not trying to be secretive as i am never that kind of girl, in fact all my little little secrets are known by my close friends or families, but none of them know every secret i have of course. Is rather creepy and scary if there is a person who knows everything about you right? I still want some privacy for my own and i think everybody will agree with this.
So, can i announce that i am 'secretless' now? create new word again. i shall go search for my new secret which will not be known by anyone...haha...too free! Somehow i am very curious about the definition of the word secret. Thus, i had googled it and below is the answer i got from Answers.com:
a secret is a a private peace of information that is not shared. if you tell someone that had nothing to do with the secret it is no longer a secret. if you have a secret it can not be told to anyone that has nothing to do with it. now if you do tell a secret it is a private peace of information now.
In my humble opinion, a secret which we normally told our friend or more than one persons and and ask them not to tell others is no longer a secret anymore as people will just continue the same routine and expect the person they told will not leak a word from their mouths. Therefore, the moment i am willing to speak out things which i viewed as secret to someone, i will no longer deemed it as secret and i will not hold high expectation that s/he will not say a word to another people, either is mutual friends or strangers. Is not that i am not being trusting to my friends, is just that everyone have their own definition for the word 'secret' and sometimes the issue you regard as very important issue maybe just a small matter to others and they do not feel that it will cause any harm to tell someone else. This is just my personal opinion, and that is why i will only choose whether to tell out everything once and for all or just keep it to myself. Normally, i choose to tell! I think that is a better way to just let go rather than suffer myself (i am optimistic deep down i suppose!)
I found that people are really amazing as there will not be the exact same person and thoughts in this world. People who are normally talkative and extrovert when socializing may have even more secrets and more reluctant to tell people about them compared to people who are more introvert and reserved when it comes to social world. The latter may be more willing to reveal their inner feelings to their close friends rather than the formers. Some of my friends fit into this and i think so am I. YES! No doubt i am talking about you! haha....please don't think that i am talking about you although i may sound like that...LOL
Usually, i am quite talkative even though with friends who i am not close with because i dislike awkward condition to take place. Hence, unconsciously or consciously i will normally be more extrovert and sociable. there are friends who are quite alike with me and I discovered that we also share the same conditions that we seldom talk about our inner feelings except with very close friends, depending on the severity of the problem also. May be is because we seems to be optimistic and always crack jokes in front of others, so people are less aware that we are actually not in good mood. It happens quite often to me actually, my close friends can easily sense my bad mood but normal friends would not realize anything.
Is it a disguise? As what Shakespeare said: we are all actors!
We play different roles everyday according to situations, whether we did realized it or not, somehow everyone also has their own masks, to protect them from getting hurt mentally and for the sake of our self-esteem.
Very long-winded today, too much about my own observations and analysis.
Just type out to express my own thoughts, hope that no one will read till here also. feel my inner feeling is quite exposed already....*shy shy*
hahahaha. Many of my friends have private blogs, i am thinking should i do so or not? Shall i made this as private blog? HMMM....actually this blog is quite private already as not many people know about my blog, i do not like to tell people to go read my blog...hahaha
Sunday, May 1, 2011
劳动节
三点三，正是喝下午茶的时间，喝着一杯香浓的咖啡，躺在床上再打着部落格，我这宅女生活还真是蛮写意的嘛！
今天是劳动节，对我来说没有什么影响，因为现在处于假期中，我好闲着没事做哦。
在家的日子，就是不停地吃，吃，吃
然后，就是睡，睡，睡！哈哈哈哈
其余的时间就是上网，看电视，跟家人聊天，看看书。。。简直就是闲透了
然而，我还是挺享受当宅女的生活
弟弟在很努力地读书，而我就闲着没事做。。哈哈。。天是不公平的！
今天，我非常有兴致打华语，原因是我太得空了！
那天看到朋友在面子书上上载自己的短文，突然勾起了我写作的瘾
从以前就很爱看短文与小说，虽然我也很想自己有感而发地写一篇短文出来，但是写故事从来就不是我所擅长的。以前尝试过了，但写得没很好，我毕竟不是个想象力丰富的人，所以我很羡慕想象力很好的人。
中学时期习惯了写议论文，因为我都是比较擅长给实例，爱用语言去争辩是与非。。。这一点是连老师也认同的！
突然很想念中学时的华文老师，说起来她还真的是我的启蒙老师。她让我爱上了华文，爱上了写作。
一个人的影响究竟可以多大呢？我也不晓得，只是觉得她改变了我的思维，也加深了我对华文的热忱。
所以，现在我还是会在心血来潮时，在小簿子上写写我当下的心情。虽然在网上时不时更新一下部落格十分方便，但是碍于我打字的速度实在是慢得可悲，而且我很喜欢写字的感觉，所以我依然很爱用写的方式。很奇怪吧！竟然会有人会喜欢写字，以前我朋友都很讨厌有写作文的功课，因为得花上好一段时间来完成，而我就会很开心我又有机会长篇大论。结果是，大学是不喜欢罗嗦的一堆废话，论文是要简洁有重点,我可是好不愿意也得改了爱写废话当论点的习惯，当然考试时还是不管三七二十一地把我所记得的，所了解的，通通写下去。哈哈！
因此，有机会写废话我是决不会放弃的。
天啊！我竟然花了12个小时写这一堆废话，现在已是凌晨3点30分了。
别惊讶，我并不是呆在电脑荧幕前呆了那么旧，其间冲了凉，吃了晚餐，跟朋友出去喝了喝茶，回来一边上网聊天，一边看面子书，一边听歌，一边打着键盘，势必要完成从昨日下午到今天要发表的肺腑之言。。。哈哈！太夸张了!
明天我是否还会有吃兴致又来这用华语废话一番呢？我也不懂呢！看心情吧！呵呵
今天是劳动节，对我来说没有什么影响，因为现在处于假期中，我好闲着没事做哦。
在家的日子，就是不停地吃，吃，吃
然后，就是睡，睡，睡！哈哈哈哈
其余的时间就是上网，看电视，跟家人聊天，看看书。。。简直就是闲透了
然而，我还是挺享受当宅女的生活
弟弟在很努力地读书，而我就闲着没事做。。哈哈。。天是不公平的！
今天，我非常有兴致打华语，原因是我太得空了！
那天看到朋友在面子书上上载自己的短文，突然勾起了我写作的瘾
从以前就很爱看短文与小说，虽然我也很想自己有感而发地写一篇短文出来，但是写故事从来就不是我所擅长的。以前尝试过了，但写得没很好，我毕竟不是个想象力丰富的人，所以我很羡慕想象力很好的人。
中学时期习惯了写议论文，因为我都是比较擅长给实例，爱用语言去争辩是与非。。。这一点是连老师也认同的！
突然很想念中学时的华文老师，说起来她还真的是我的启蒙老师。她让我爱上了华文，爱上了写作。
一个人的影响究竟可以多大呢？我也不晓得，只是觉得她改变了我的思维，也加深了我对华文的热忱。
所以，现在我还是会在心血来潮时，在小簿子上写写我当下的心情。虽然在网上时不时更新一下部落格十分方便，但是碍于我打字的速度实在是慢得可悲，而且我很喜欢写字的感觉，所以我依然很爱用写的方式。很奇怪吧！竟然会有人会喜欢写字，以前我朋友都很讨厌有写作文的功课，因为得花上好一段时间来完成，而我就会很开心我又有机会长篇大论。结果是，大学是不喜欢罗嗦的一堆废话，论文是要简洁有重点,我可是好不愿意也得改了爱写废话当论点的习惯，当然考试时还是不管三七二十一地把我所记得的，所了解的，通通写下去。哈哈！
因此，有机会写废话我是决不会放弃的。
天啊！我竟然花了12个小时写这一堆废话，现在已是凌晨3点30分了。
别惊讶，我并不是呆在电脑荧幕前呆了那么旧，其间冲了凉，吃了晚餐，跟朋友出去喝了喝茶，回来一边上网聊天，一边看面子书，一边听歌，一边打着键盘，势必要完成从昨日下午到今天要发表的肺腑之言。。。哈哈！太夸张了!
明天我是否还会有吃兴致又来这用华语废话一番呢？我也不懂呢！看心情吧！呵呵
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