The Total Money Makeover mantra is “live like no one else so that later you can live like no one else” and I keep having to repeat it to myself over and over. Just a couple weeks into the plan and we’re confronted over and over with the things that got us here in the first place. Shawn’s mom wants to know when we’re coming to visit. The first instinct is to say, “let me check the calendar” when really what we need to say is “we can’t afford it right now and won’t be able to for a while.” My mom sends me an email informing me that I finally have my chance to see Wicked. I was happy and then remembered that $300 for a date night isn’t really in the cards right now. Poop. It very quickly becomes clear how we ended up here. We need to learn to say no.
We can do this.
