True Love

I have decided that I know exactly what true love is after years of contemplating. It may seem obvious what love is, but I would say no. After all every girl is told at least once in her life "He just did that because he likes you" excuse me, but no boy/man is mean when he likes you. That's a proven fact right there. I think that, that saying warped my mind into believing something I should not have until I entered college and met the person who showed me that is not what love is.

When you love someone:
you find the annoying things they do quirky and full of personality.
you meet their friends and make the best impression you can.
you always back them up every time, even if their rationing is completely flawed.
you let them have their own friends.
you spend time with your own friends.
you both lead separate lives (there is no need to be with them 24/7).
you watch their favorite show, no matter how mind numbing it truly is.
you help them when they are down.
you praise them when they are up.
you are honest with them all the time.
leave them notes/texts once in a while that lift their hearts.
you never bring up past relationships or mistakes.
you kiss them like it’s the last time you will see them.
don't be a bully to them and don't accept crap.
listen to their hopes and dreams and help them make them a reality.
do tiny favors once in a while.
ask questions about their hobbies.
and most importantly:
you will love them for who they are, not who they are going to be.

I know these may seem obvious, but the truth is I never did all of these until I met him. And I have had the most fulfilling relationship. I may not like everything he does or says, but that is okay. I have learned it is okay to argue and still love a person. I have also learned that I do not need to do everything myself I have someone who will help me when I need it and offer me advice when I ask*.

Love is a beautiful thing so don't look for it, it will come to you. <3

*Do your man a favor and DO NOT vent. He likes to fix things not listen; your girlfriends are for that.

Happy Tuesday!

I can tell its going to be a fantastic day!
1. I was able to sleep in this morning! YAY!
2. I FINALLY got to my programming class on time (and I walked from my parking structure).
3. I did great on last week's quiz that I really knew nothing about since I was missing my book still.
4. I was able to get a seat at the cafeteria at school, even though people still believe their back-pack represents them and their present. ( I say no, if it doesn't represent you in a court of law it doesn't represent you in life.)
5. I did not forget my cell phone at home today, this has become more frequent than I would like.
6. I can scratch off one of my Bucket List entries.
7. I have on homework!
8. I get to have dinner with Barry and Stephen.

As I said this is going to be a fantastic day! So as long as I (or no one else for that matter) screws it up. :D (Also I didn't spell anything wrong. Go me!)

When good days go bad...

Last Wednesday was probably one of the worst days I have ever encountered in my life (so far anyways). I was at work continuing my cross training into reception, when I got the call that ruined a good day at work. I got a call from an anonymous person mumbling something about a bomb. When I asked the caller to repeat what they said they said "There is a bomb in the building." I had to go tell a manager about the incident, while I was telling the manager we got 2 more calls and we were told to evacuate the building and all the people in the building. We evacuated everyone in less than 5 minutes, and the cops were called. And there was no bomb thank goodness, but still who calls in a bomb threat? I just hope this does not become a habitat I'm not sure how much much stress I can take.

First Post All!

This is my very first post! This year my goal is to write down my thoughts and share them with others. So wish me luck!