Yesterday marked a big day... only one month to go until our little girl arrives. I've been meaning to post for a while about the funny/strange things that are going on with me and my big belly, so here goes:
The biggest thing that has happened this past month is Joel being away in Thailand for work.... for the whole month! It has been a long month, and sad because we were apart for Father's Day, our 7th anniversary, and my 29th birthday. He sent flowers for the last two occasions, and we celebrated Father's Day before he left. He finally comes home on Thursday, I'm SO glad! Now that we've hit the "one month and counting" mark every day I pray that this little girl waits to come home until her daddy does! He did buy her some adorable Thai linen dresses, and took some pictures with her little baby shoes at various Thai monuments, which will be posted on flickr when he's home.
The other big milestone that happened just last week is my "retiring" from landscape architecture! I am now officially a stay at home mom! I always dreamed of this day, and can't believe it's actually here. Of course, right now my baby is pretty easy to care for, and I'm thankful to have the time to rest (two naps a day, minimum) and nest (hanging picture frames, making hair bows, etc).
A lot of people have asked about cravings. I haven't had many instances where I "need" something oddly out of the ordinary, although 2 nights ago I sprung out of bed with a really desperate case of "needing" peanut butter and banana on toast. It was 4:24 am. Thank goodness I actually had the ingredients! A few nights ago I "needed" to eat just about everything I could think of, so even though I was by myself, I headed to Golden Coral for the buffet. It definitely hit the spot for variety but since there's mostly baby in my belly, and not much stomach room left, I came home feeling pretty sick. No regrets, though.
One thing I have noticed about eating when you're pregnant is certain things that used to be so-so before are now the most amazing things in the world. And these are where it gets a little weird: My mouth waters over radishes, cucumbers, and ketchup and mustard (has to be on something, I'm not that desperate!). Strawberries and watermelon are also two of the most wonderful things I can think of, which I liked before but not like this...
I also remember a friend telling me that nothing tastes as good as ice water when you're pregnant, and I remember thinking that was odd. Well, Melody, you were absolutely correct. I probably drink at least 100 oz of ice water a day. I go to a restaurant and slurp down 3 or 4 glasses, then leave the restaurant and 5 min later need more water. It's insane. Speaking of water, where is my cup?... (I will put in a little plug here, if you love ice water as much as I have lately: I splurged for this "Tervis Tumbler" from Bed Bath and Beyond- bought the biggest one I could find (24 oz) with the lid, straw and travel lid. It's insulated (but clear) and amazing! Yesterday it was in the car for 4 hours at 80-90 degrees (outside temperate, sure it was hotter in the car) and there was still ice when I got back in! Highly recommended for the $20. I know, I thought it was steep too but I figured I'd take it back if I didn't like it. Well, it's not going back and is attached to me pretty much 24/7).
While Joel's been gone I have been able to do some fun things. One of these included two weekends spent with my friend Nicole and her mom in Ocean City, Md. The weekends are the longest part of being by yourself, and I'm so thankful for her being willing to take me along. The other fun thing has been my pool pass. About 15 minutes from my house there is a little waterpark called "Volcano Island". It's really a huge pool, splash pad, 2 water slides (no, I didn't go down them!) and a shallow entry play area with a big bucket and other squirty things. I bought a season pass (although my "season" will be short!) and have gone almost every day for the past week. The water is so helpful for back pain, and I walk in the pool which is good for doing some exercise... gravity is not my friend right now- this is one heavy baby!
That's about all I can think of for now. Regarding the baby herself, she's now about 6 lbs and over 18" long, according to babycenter.com. She's been head down for the past 6 or more weeks, and hopefully that means she's camped out that way. I love being able to feel her little pieces. Sometimes she really gets going in there with her feet/heels/elbows? and she feels so close. I am just so amazed at this little blessing who just 30 or so weeks ago was the size of a poppy seed! We are beyond excited to meet her, even if it means going through labor and carting around this big belly for another month!