Note: I am playing catch up from 2012. This is mainly for journal purposes.
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It all happened on a Monday (Nov. 5), 3 days before my due date. Kenny was at work and I figured I would be having the baby sometime in the next week and my house wasn't even close to being ready. So that morning I got started cleaning up my basement for any guests who would come to help with the baby. Logan was being very good for me, thank goodness, and was just watching some shows on TV when the cramping began (around 10:30am or 11am). I just kept on cleaning and organizing and the cramping kept getting worse. I gave Logan a little bit of lunch and told him it was nap time. Usually he fights me on this, but for once he was cooperative and went to sleep.
Kenny and I had taken the Bradley Method Childbirth Class, and it says that if you are unsure whether or not you're in labor you 1) drink something, 2) eat something, 3) walk around, 4) take a shower/bath, and 5) take a nap. If you continue to have contractions after all that, then you are most likely in labor. So I had some lunch, walked around my house, and packaged up some steaks that needed to be marinated and put in the freezer. While I was marinating the meat the contractions were getting pretty strong, but I still wasn't sure if it was true labor. So I took a bath and started timing my contractions. They were less than ten minutes apart and lasting about one minute, so I sent Kenny a text telling him that. He interpreted my text as me saying the contractions were more than ten minutes apart and responded saying, "Keep me posted, it would be good for me to stay at work as long as possible." By this time, the contractions were getting pretty strong and I was thinking, If this is only the beginning of labor, I'm not sure if I can do this! I got out of the bath, got dressed and called my midwife. My contractions at this point were less than 5 minutes apart and my midwife told me to come in as soon as possible. My problem was that Kenny was 45 minutes away, and the birth center was another 40 minutes away. My midwife offered to come to my house, but I told her we would drive in to SLC...I don't know what I was thinking. So I called Kenny...no answer. I called again...still no answer! I called again...no answer. So I called his co-worker and asked if he'd seen Kenny. He said, "Yeah, he's right here. Do you want me to--", me, "Just tell him to come home!" Click. So I just laid in bed, breathing through contractions until Kenny got home.
Kenny woke up Logan, took him to a friend's house, helped me to the car, then drove like hell. I am pretty sure I was going through transition in the car, and there were a couple times that I had to hold back from pushing. We got to the birth center at 4:30pm, my midwife, Adrianne, met us outside to help me in. Unfortunately, another couple had beaten us to the birth center about 30 minutes before that and had the main birth room. So that put us in the smaller triage room, which was fine because as soon as I got in there I stripped down, Adrianne checked baby's heart rate (fine) and checked me (fully dilated), and told me I could start pushing. I pushed once, my water broke all over the bed. I pushed again, not quite there. I pushed again and Baby's head was crowning, pushed again, Baby's head out. I reached down and touched Baby's head, and at that point I was ready to be done. I gave one final push and Baby was out and Adrianne put him straight on my chest. Birth time was 4:56pm and we'd had a BOY!

It was such a feeling of elation. I had done it! When so many people said that I wouldn't be able to withstand the pain and that I would be asking for the epidural, I DID IT!
Baby Boy got to lay on my chest for almost an hour and in that time I was able to breastfeed him. Kenny cut the cord at nearly an hour after Baby had been born. For some reason, in that hour, I hadn't had any contractions to push the placenta out, and I had started to hemorrhage. Adrianne gave me a shot of Pitosin to get the contractions going again, along with something else to stop the bleeding. She also put in an IV cath with some fluids. The cramping started up again and I was able to push the placenta out. Adrianne kept working to get the bleeding to stop, and eventually it did. She figured I'd lost more than double the normal blood loss, but I actually felt fine. After she stitched me up I was able to walk to the the shower and wash myself with the help of the birth assistant, and they had a nice cushy robe and slippers for me to wear. :)
After I was all taken care of, we got to do the Newborn Check:
Weight: 7 lbs. 12 oz.
Length: 20 in.
He was a healthy baby in every way. He did have hydrocele, which is fluid in the scrotum, but that wasn't anything to worry about and it would soon go away.
We hadn't decided on a name at that point. We were going back and forth between Ryder and Ashton, but neither one seemed quite right. So we thought we'd take a few more days to get to know him and decide on a name more suited for him.
Our other midwife, Becky, who had just finished up with the other couple, decided to order pizza from Cous Cous. I'm sure it was really good, but I ate one bite and knew I shouldn't eat any more. They told me that they couldn't let me go home until I ate something, so I ate one of the frozen dinners they had in their freezer and drank some juice. They let us go home at 11:30pm and we were able to sleep in our own bed that night! So, we were in and out of the birth center within 7 hours.
In the meantime, Kenny's mom drove down and picked up Logan so he was asleep in his bed when we got home. He was able to meet Baby Boy in the morning. :)
In the meantime, Kenny's mom drove down and picked up Logan so he was asleep in his bed when we got home. He was able to meet Baby Boy in the morning. :)
Brevyn Kent Garrett
We had finally decided on a name for our baby boy. It was on our original list, but we had crossed it out because Kenny didn't like it--it was too "different". I had known a guy in high school with that name so it didn't seem "different" to me. As we were talking about a name, that name kept coming back to me, so I threw it back on the table and that's what we decided on. My dad's name (actually his middle name) is Kent, and we thought it went well with Brevyn.
We took our own newborn pictures, and, although not professional-looking, we thought they turned out pretty good.
We had finally decided on a name for our baby boy. It was on our original list, but we had crossed it out because Kenny didn't like it--it was too "different". I had known a guy in high school with that name so it didn't seem "different" to me. As we were talking about a name, that name kept coming back to me, so I threw it back on the table and that's what we decided on. My dad's name (actually his middle name) is Kent, and we thought it went well with Brevyn.
We took our own newborn pictures, and, although not professional-looking, we thought they turned out pretty good.
Work Christmas Party
Kenny's work always does a big Christmas Party at the Marriott in Downtown SLC. They have dinner, dessert, and prizes. This year they had a Gingerbread House making contest. We feel like we should have won for most Creativity, but alas we did not. Here is our Gingerbread House held up by Kenny's co-worker, Chris.
Kenny's work always does a big Christmas Party at the Marriott in Downtown SLC. They have dinner, dessert, and prizes. This year they had a Gingerbread House making contest. We feel like we should have won for most Creativity, but alas we did not. Here is our Gingerbread House held up by Kenny's co-worker, Chris.
Random Christmas Fun
Logan got a letter from Santa in the mail with a one dollar bill in it. He was pretty excited to get a letter in the mail.
We decided to have a little fun with science, so we had a tray of baking soda and some bowls of colored vinegar. The idea was to drop the different colors on the baking soda, but Logan had a different plan--just dumping them all together! I had to learn to not be a control freak and let his own creativity shine.
Brevyn's Blessing
Our families came down on Dec. 23 for Brevyn's baby blessing. We put Brevyn in the same blessing outfit as Logan and, even though Brevyn was bigger and older than Logan was, it still drowned him! Oh well, it was only for an hour. Kenny did well on the blessing, short and sweet. :)
Christmas
For Christmas we hosted most of my family: my mom, stepdad, Julie and her family, Ryan, and Grandma Logan. It was overwhelming having so many people in our house not long after having a baby, but everyone was good about helping cook and clean.
I never got around to decorating our Christmas tree, so Logan and I did that the night before Christmas Eve.



































