God Is Listening (Even When It Feels Like He Isn’t)

My earbuds had been missing for weeks—a fact that felt both baffling and frustrating. Baffling, in that I knew they had to be somewhere in our home, but scour as I might, they refused to turn up. Frustrating, in that this would be the second pair I had lost, and I just couldn’t rationalize purchasing yet another pair.

Obviously, this was an inconvenience and not a tragedy. Okay. So I had to turn the volume up while I went for walks so I could hear podcasts and audiobooks over passing vehicles. No biggie. And yet… it just kept nagging at me. They had to be somewhere in the house. But where?

I almost felt silly the morning I sensed the Lord’s nudge.

“Have you even asked Me where they are?”

“Oh, well… I mean… no, not specifically. I haven’t prayed about it.”

Then came a deep impression as the Lord made sure He had my full attention.

“Ask Me. I’m going to lead you to exactly where they are, but I need you to mark this down. You won’t always see My answers this quickly, but you can have confidence that I hear your prayers, and I answer your prayers.”

I confess I felt hesitant. Was this really the Lord? What if I asked, and He didn’t answer? What if this was all just me? What if I walked to where He had placed in my mind, and they weren’t there? Would it just serve as evidence that I can’t really hear from Him?

I lifted up a short, sincere prayer, asking Him where they were, and had an immediate impression of where to look. As I slowly headed into my bedroom, the refrain in my still doubting mind was, “This is crazy, this is crazy. Kimberly, you are just being crazy.”

Yet there they were, in the exact spot He had shown me. And it was the exact encouragement I needed. This wasn’t about the earbuds. Not really. It was about all the hard I had been lugging around in my heart, all the prayers I had been lifting up for what felt like too long, all the doubts beginning to bubble up about whether or not it even mattered that I was praying, all the questions about if my feeble prayers were making any sort of difference.

The truth is, He has answered so many prayers over 27 years of walking with Him. I have seen the power of prayer. I have witnessed Him move in mighty, kind, personal, and compassionate ways. But these fragile human hearts, they grow weary. Fear can get loud as our hope begins to wear thin. God is good and gracious, though. Instead of being done with us, He encourages us. He meets us in our weariness with hope and truth. And so I marked it down that day, and I am praying you will mark it down, too.

I don’t know why you haven’t seen Him answering some of your most desperate prayers yet. But I know we can trust His character. I know we can trust His heart, His timing, and His ways. And I know we can trust that He’s leaning in close to listen. Don’t stop praying, my friend. Don’t hesitate to start praying. He calls us to pray. He hears when we pray. And He knows how and when to answer our prayers.

“I love the Lord because he hears my voice
   and my prayer for mercy.
Because he bends down to listen,
   I will pray as long as I have breath!” Psalm 116:1-2 (NLT)

“The Lord is near to all who call on him,
   to all who call on him in truth.” Psalm 145:18 (ESV)

“Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.” Hebrews 4:16 (ESV)

Clinging to the Lord and calling on Him with you,
Kimberly

Here’s Why I’m Praying Your Day Holds Laughter

I remember running errands with my girls when they were young, and something one of them said made me laugh out loud. Katie immediately piped up from the back seat of the car, “That’s a REAL mama laugh.”

Her words struck me to the core.

For one, it told me they could see more than I realized – that my girls recognized when heaviness of soul resulted in laughter that was often fake, forced, or completely absent. It also showed me I was healing – that glimmers of hope were seeping in and shifting my perspective.

Google the benefits of laughter for both body and soul, and you will find plenty. It is a stress reliever and anxiety reducer. It increases oxygen to your body and can help with pain tolerance. Oh, how I love laughing long and loud with my people. It truly does shift things within me.

Proverbs 17:22 tells us, “A joyful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit dries up the bones.” And Dallas Willard wrote that joy is “not a passing sensation of pleasure, but a pervasive sense of well-being.”

I love that quote. It’s the reminder joy isn’t about me faking happiness or even looking for the always illusive perfect circumstances. It is a heart resting in the knowledge that my God is with me, for me, and loves me. He can and will take care of me. It doesn’t all rest on my shoulders, so I can be at rest. I can “laugh at the days to come” (Proverbs 31:25) because I know HE is already there, ready to love and provide for me.

All of that to say, I pray your day holds laughter. I pray that joy catches you off guard and leaves you trying to catch your breath. I pray that you feel permission not to try to carry it all on your shoulders. I pray you know that God is holding you when it feels like everything is falling apart. I pray that glimmers of hope break through the clouds that have felt continuous and heavy. I pray you know that it’s possible and even okay to hold joy and sorrow at the very same time. I pray that you let yourself celebrate even the tiniest of victories and the faintest signs of healing.

I pray your day holds laughter. I pray you know that you are safely held.

Much love,
Kimberly

A Prayer About Prayer

Good morning, friends. This isn’t my typical kind of blog post, but this prayer has stayed on my heart, and I wanted to share it with you today. It’s so easy to pull back from praying for so many reasons. Maybe we don’t see God moving like we hoped. Perhaps we’ve started to wonder if it really even matters. We could feel unheard, unseen, unloved, or even just unsure of what to say.

But the very fact He has called us to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17) tells us that He is listening and it matters. So, if you’ve been struggling to pray, this prayer is for you.

Father God, I wonder if sometimes I cease to pray because there are things I have ceased to believe are true about You. And so I ask You to help me pray …

Help me pray without ceasing.
Help me pray without ceasing to believe You hear.
Help me pray without ceasing to believe You care.
Help me pray without ceasing to believe You are good.
Help me pray without ceasing to believe You still move.
Help me pray without ceasing to believe Your love for me.
Help me pray without ceasing to believe You know best.
Help me pray without ceasing to believe You are mighty.
Help me pray without ceasing to believe prayer matters.
Help me pray without ceasing to place my faith and hope in You.
Help me pray without ceasing.
Help me pray.

Amen.

May He kindly show us any places of unbelief hiding out in our hearts, and may we keep growing in hope, trust, and surrender,
Kimberly

Praying for Our Children {Part 2}

Hi, dear blogging friends!

I wanted to be sure to come back by and link out the remainder of the series on praying for our children.

As a mom of three girls well into their teens, I know what it’s like to go through seasons where you don’t know what to pray for your children. To be so overwhelmed by all they are facing and all of the ways you feel inadequate as a parent that you aren’t sure what to say. You want to pray purposefully, you want to press past “just keep them safe, Jesus,” but where do you start? That’s why I pulled these prayers together for us. Because while we may not always know what to say or how to pray, God’s Word shows up as an incredible guide. 

Ultimately, I pray these prayers will help you put words to so many of the things stirring in your heart for your child. I pray they help you feel less alone in the struggles that come along with the joys of being a parent. And I pray that you know you are never alone in praying for your child. Jesus is praying for our children, too! (Hebrews 7:24-25, 9:24; Romans 8:34)

Isn’t that incredible to think about? The One who made all things and holds all things together… the One by whom and for whom our children were made… the One who exists outside of time and sees their beginning, their end, and every day in-between… the One who knows His plans and purposes for them… the One who knows their deepest fears, their greatest joys, and their fiercest struggles… the One who knit them together intricately and knows how to reach them powerfully… the One who is aware of their every need, even before they are… the One who knows the number of hairs on their head at any given moment… the One who counted them worth dying for and who now sits reigning in majesty at the right hand of God the Father is praying with us for them.

Let that sink in deep. Let it lift the crazy weight that everything depends on you right off of your worn-out shoulders. Our Lord, Savior, and King is praying with you for the ones you love most. He’s praying for you, too. We’re never alone – not as we parent and not even as we pray.

Praying with you and for you,
Kimberly 

(NOTE: You can purchase a download of ALL 40 prayers HERE.)

40 Days of Praying for Our Children {Days 21-40}

Day Twenty-One: Praying for Godly Spouses and Marriages

Day Twenty-Two: Praying for an Abundantly Fruitful Life

Day Twenty-Three: Praying for Endurance to Finish the Race

Day Twenty-Four: Praying for Healing in Strained and Broken Family Relationships 

Day Twenty-Five: Praying for Their Minds and Thought Lives

Day Twenty-Six: Praying for Hearts of Forgiveness

Day Twenty-Seven: Praying against Forgetfulness

Day Twenty-Eight: Praying for Their Hearts and Mouths

Day Twenty-Nine: Praying for a Legacy of Faith

Day Thirty: Praying for Their Hands

Day Thirty-One: Praying for Their Feet

Day Thirty-Two: Praying They Honor God, Their Parents, and Others

Day Thirty-Three: Praying They Live Spirit-filled and Spirit-led Lives

Day Thirty-Four: Praying Psalm 23

Day Thirty-Five: Praying for the Grace & Commitment Needed for Spiritual Growth

Day Thirty-Six: Praying for Clarity of Purpose, Wisdom, & Direction

Day Thirty-Seven: Praying for the Boldness to Live Differently and Proclaim Christ Openly

Day Thirty-Eight: Divine Interruptions

Day Thirty-Nine: Praying for Lives Filled and Overflowing with Christ’s Extravagant Love

Day Forty: Praying for Lives of Full Surrender

Praying for Our Children {Part One}

Hi, friends!

If you follow me on social media, you know that I have been going through a 40-day series of praying for our children specifically and scripturally. But just in case you haven’t seen any of those posts, I wanted to provide you with links here. I will put the first half that I have finished in this post, and then I will send out links to the second half once I am completely done.

Why are these longer prayers? Honestly, because that is how they have poured out daily. We just carry so many burdens and concerns for our children, and I have wanted to cover these topics well. But please don’t let their length overwhelm you or discourage you from praying! You can let my long-form prayers inform your short-form prayers. Grab a sentence, a paragraph, or a verse or two from these prayers and make them your own. I want these prayers to help you feel less alone in the struggles we face as parents and to leave you feeling better equipped in knowing what you can even pray.

Lifting you up today as a parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle, teacher… whatever position of love and influence you hold. ❤️

May these prayers be a blessing and a help to you,
Kimberly

(NOTE: You can purchase a download of ALL 40 prayers HERE.)

40 Days of Praying for Our Children {Days 1-20}

Day One: Start with Me

Day Two: Praying for Salvation

Day Three: Praying for Wisdom & Revelation

Day Four: Praying for a Deeply Rooted Life

Day Five: Praying for Community

Day Six: Praying Against Self-Harm

Day Seven: Praying for Spiritual Hunger & Thirst

Day Eight: Praying for Spiritual Alertness

Day Nine: Praying for Hearts of Trust

Day Ten: Praying for Sexual Purity

Day Eleven: Praying for Hearts of Humility

Day Twelve: Praying Peace in the Face of Fear

Day Thirteen: Praying for Kingdom-Hearted Lives

Day Fourteen: Praying for a Deep Love of Scripture

Day Fifteen: Praying for Godly Friends & Mentors

Day Sixteen: Praying for the Prodigals and the Spiritually Blind

Day Seventeen: Praying for Eyes that See Clearly

Day Eighteen: Praying for a Deep Sense of Belonging

Day Nineteen: Praying For Quieted Hearts, Minds, & Bodies

Day Twenty: Praying Hope and Help for the Suicidal