Sometimes I go back to the beginning of my blog and wish I had written more details! But here are the bits and pieces that I can remember from the time leading up to the arrival of Blaise :)
I found out I was pregnant with Blaise on April 2nd and when I called to tell my mom about it she thought it was a late April Fool's joke. I can't remember, but I think we told everyone right away. I went to
Sutter West Women's Health, where I saw a different midwife each time. I learned a lot about natural child birth from my neighbors (Davis is very hippie/granola/natural) and I really wanted to have a different experience than what I had with Rae. It was nice to know that I'd have a lot of options at the
Birthing Center. I really wanted to do water birth.
I was probably the most nervous about leaving Rae with someone while we went to the hospital. Even though I knew she would be fine, I just like to be in complete control of things, so it was hard to relax. I had about 3 pages of instructions written up for our neighbors. The plan was to leave Rae with our neighbors and good friends John and Patience. Their son Abe was Rae's age and they were best friends. My mom was planning to come, but in case I went early they were our backup.
I started having a lot of cramping about 9 days before Blaise was due. I was checked at my appointment a week before his due date and I was already dilated 3cm, but since I wasn't having steady contractions I just went home to see what would happen! I would have contractions everyday, but I was able to go on with my daily activities without too much discomfort. My mom and I were trying to figure out when she should come. She didn't want to come too early because she couldn't stay for too long because my brother was getting married later in the month. Finally she just decided to surprise me and showed up on Thursday.
Saturday December 9th was Roy's birthday. In the morning I had some diarrhea but I didn't think much of it. We went to the ward Christmas breakfast that morning and just hung out the rest of the day. We had Roy's birthday celebration and went to bed. At around 3am on Sunday the 10th I woke up and was in pain.(This was two days before Blaise's "official" due date) I sat on the couch in the living room and my mom joined me after a while, wondering if I was in labor. I started feeling worse so I decided to take a bath. After my bath I was in a LOT of pain, so I called the midwife. I wasn't really feeling any steady contractions that I could time, so the midwife didn't think it was the real thing. Right after I got off the phone with her I started bleeding and feeling really sick. I threw up and it was then that my mom said I really had to get to the hospital!
I remember that I could hardly walk down the stairs to the parking lot. I had to stop halfway down to get through a contraction. When we pulled out of the parking lot it was exactly 6:00am. It was only a 10 minute drive to the hospital, but I was worried we wouldn't make it. When I got there I kept telling Roy that no one was helping me fast enough! They had me change into a gown and asked me if I still wanted a water birth. I said "no way, if there is time to fill up the tub for a water birth then that is too long and I want drugs instead!" My midwife came and apologized for not believing I was really in labor! She checked me and said that I was 10cm and could start pushing anytime. Well, I pushed and he came! It all happened so fast and I never had a chance to relax and figure out what was going on!
Blaise Werner Wright joined our family on Sunday December 10th 2006 at 6:43am weighing 9lbs, 3 ounces - 21 1/2 inches long. It was amazing to have him put on my chest immediately and be able to nurse him before he was even cleaned off. But I do remember thinking that he was really stinky and after a while I asked the nurse to go ahead and take him and clean him off! (I nursed him before he was even weighed) It was really an amazing experience, and I felt so good afterwards!
I was moved to the recovery room after a while. It was so nice! I got my own room and bathroom, which was lovely. My mom and Rae came to visit at around 10am. It is funny that I worried so much about Rae being left with someone but I was only away from her for 4 hours before I saw her again! I was able to go home on Monday in the afternoon. It was a simple childbirth and I am so grateful that I had such a good experience! Here are some pictures that never made it onto the blog:


I said that I felt great, I didn't say I looked great!
