小枫叶…看世界

气死我了！气死我了！原以为今天法官会给judgment, 岂知却应为对方没有像我那样准备好written presentation, 所以又再次adjourn我的case!

我反对再延迟，应为我不可能一直应为对方的无能而牺牲自己的时间，也不可能一直给他们机会想到新的辩护词嘛！法官要我把我的written presentation给对方一份，以方便他们defend自己，对我不是很不公平吗? 我的presentation全都公开给他们，他们却没有做任何written presentation, 要是他们有对我无利的facts, 那我不是更加吃亏? 法官看到我无奈的样子，问我是不是在哭！我当时真的是哭笑不得！哭是应为对我是那么的不公平，笑是苦笑！

到底要延迟到几时呢？我的leave都已经是拿到明年的去了，还要叫我再拿？咳哟！！！吐血啊！

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今天是我的大日子，不是我结婚啦，而是我exercise我的消费人的权利，向我的美容师讨回做绣眉失败的钱。

8.30早上，我就踏入了mahkamah 2, 一进门就看到美容院的男性老板，10分钟之后，女性老板和助手进来，一眼也不望我的直走到前面坐下，之后他们三人就8粒眼睛（助手是四眼妹）头也不回的往前看，直到法官进来。

我将我的case一一清楚的呈上给法官，还有“美丽”的照片一起给他看，他看了很满意。之后到了另一方的时候，法官问来问去，都问不到什么，结果给我们一个钟头出去做庭外妥协。一走出去，另一方就很不甘心的跑掉了，我和大哥在哪儿傻习习的等他们回来谈判，但是过了半个钟头后还是不见人影，就打了个电话去那美容院，就他们的手下打个电话给他们（因为法官之前问来问去，那女老板都答非所问，所以我怀疑她的语言了解力有问题），告知一下法官给我们一个钟头的原意。但是一个钟头过去了，还不见他们的人影，我和大哥就先再进去mahkamah 2. 之后他们三个（three stooges）才慢慢的走进来！

我向法官说出刚才的状况，法官大吃一惊，问我们是不是到了不可谈判的程度，之后又再叫我们出去谈！出去之后，对方很骄傲的说，“I will not settle out of court because i have my pride as a professional!!!” 去你的pride啦！出手“伤眉”之后还要什么pride!!!  我就说好啊, 那我们就继续斗啦！看法官相信谁！我有人证物证，才不怕你呢！

再次进去，还是一样，法官完全的不到答案，对方解释到他ling long sek!!! 加上我们之间不能同意某件事，所以法官再给就给对方一个机会，叫她回去好好准备，下个星期再审过！真是冤枉，还要多等一个星期。我在想对方的理解力那么差，她所谓在伦敦大学的文凭，到底是不是买回来的呢？ 咳！

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最近工作越来越繁忙，差不多每天都要做O.T.到7，8点才回家 （其实必须做到更夜的，但我怕鬼，所以boh pian, 八点就赶快逃之夭夭）。回到家，家里的两个瓜好像已不怎样认识他们这个老妈子了！

话说回，因为工作太繁忙，有时忙到没有时间上厕所，实在很phek chek! 但是受人钱财，当然一定要替人消灾啦！Boh pian!  不明白的是为何我的上司那么从容一些人，要什么旧有什么, 就算是没有理由的要求也给批准。在众同事的鼓励下，我终于鼓起勇气向老板要求把另外一个部门多余的同事调过来帮我，但是可能当天我的头发梳得不美，又或者因为我没有喷法国香水 （因为我天生丽质嘛，不必用法国香水都那么香了嘛！），所以老板拒绝了我的要求 （其实他是说“看啦！看到时候怎样啦”，但通常酱的回答都是凶多吉少的啦！），咳… Boh pian, lang sui mia li boh sui (人美命不美) , 是酱的啦，很难有两全其美的啦！

自从被拒绝后，心里好像越来越不平衡，更加sot sot!!! ( 好彩我在感情路上，没有被拒绝过，不然今天可能会在Tanjung Rambutan写blog) 尤其是去厕所的路途中，每次都看到某某部门的员工都无所事事，游手好闲，过着好日子，有看杂志的, surf internet的，有蹲着偷吃东西的，谈天的，几好命，自己呢却做到像”虾”一样！所以不sot呢，也会siao啦！

最近听说公司会有很大的变化，有些乐龄同事不会被公司续约，要回家学两道好菜，那就是吨冬菇和炒鱿鱼！其中一个就是那个不像样的某某部门经理… 他走了之后，不知道会有谁来接管这个不像样的部门呢？我的命运不知道会不会有所改变呢？如果还是一样的话，不知道需不需要拾包袱走人呢？ 不走会更加sot, 走人呢，又不知道遭遇会比较好还是更坏呢？ 咳… 命呀！命呀！

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From the Live Traffic Feed i could see that i have guest arriving from Germany, Texas, Singapore, Shah Alam, Dandenong & Geelolng Australia, Kajang, Seremban, Ireland, Minneapolis, Penang, Ipoh and many other places.

Really would like to know who has been supporting this blog … if you don’t mind, can you identify yourself please.. Thanks…

Cheers!

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今天，我不知道是不是得罪了一位同事… 心里有点着急！

话说，这位同事是位50+岁某个部门的阿头，人很好。 打从两年前我进入这间公司工作开始，他就对我很好，也蛮疼我的，每次有好东西吃，就会预埋我一份，虽然我和他不同部门，也不同office (两隔壁)。每次他来找我的大和二老板，经过我的房间时都会和我大招呼，聊一下。

后来，因为我减肥，不吃carbohydrate, 他知道后就不再叫我出去一起吃饭。每次一见到我，就埋怨说为什么要减肥？都不能请我吃饭了！我瘦身后，他就开始complain, 说现在不再bak bak 的，不好看了！一直嚷着要带我去吃，要我再增肥！每次见到我就问几时能带我出去吃！ 现在，我因为要吃鱼，而且我们office外面的马来档平时都有卖鱼，所以我就很多时候在那儿吃。除此之外，也方便我赶回来做工。我的其他同事现在也笑我要变马来妹了！

今天，我和往常一样，也打算到那马来档吃，上了车后，农场的兽医看到我一个人，问我去哪里吃，之后他就我上他的车，一起去吃饭。我就问他是不是去马来档，他说哪里都可以, 所以我就上了他的车。可是一上了车之后，当他驶过马来档时，我就知道我们不是去马来档。结果呢，我们就去吃肉骨茶。

吃完后，在回office的路上，兽医的车刚好在交通灯哪儿停在我的那位同事踏的另一辆车旁，那辆车载满好几位其他的同事，由于他们很喜欢开我的玩笑，所以一个，两个都搅下窗口，和我在那边比手画脚，胡乱对话一番，个个都笑哈哈！后来我发现到我的那位同事，好像脸色很不好看，心里就开始着急，想到他是不是不开心我和兽医吃饭，而不跟他一起吃 （这是因为有人曾经向我提起过他是个好好先生，但是有时会比较小器一点）??? 希望不是啦！

可是呢，回到office时，他下车后，我遇到他，他还是显得不是很开心，也没像平时那样和我打招呼… … 咳！怎么办呢？真难处理，順得哥情失嫂意！可是，问题是我并不是要和兽医一起去别的地方吃饭，我只是想跶他的顺风车到马拉档而已嘛！

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两个星期前，在988听到了一个很感人的爱情故事，想在这里和大家分享 ~

故事发生在60年代的上海，话说一对恋人，来自家境贫穷的男主角，是一位作曲家，女的是当地富豪的千斤小姐。当年的作曲家，大多数都找不到吃，并不像现在的作曲家，有royalty抽，个个都饱漆，男主角当然也不例外啦!  就因为他穷，所以他们的恋情遭受到女主角家人的极力反对。为了撤散他们，女主角的家人便安排把她嫁去外国，从此两人就不能再见面。

这对恋人当然不会放弃他们的恋情，所以两人就计划私奔，但是最终他们还是被女主角父亲的手下捉了回来，并把男主角殴打了一顿。女主角因为不想爱人继续被毒打下去，就答应父亲安排的亲事。临走之前，男主角把他身上仅有的一个大洋给了她作纪念，然后他们俩就含泪离别。。。

话说，20年后，女主角终于回乡，心中对男主角还是念念不忘。当她到了码头，下了船之后，走到街边，眼睛一望，就看到在码头当三轮车车夫的男主角，但是男主角却认不出她。于是，女主角登上了他的三轮车，一路上都不出声，也没有标明身份。当她到达了目的地，男主角就向她要5文钱的车费。 女主角就把当年男主角给她的一个大洋给了他，之后就离开了。

男主角看到哪个大洋后，往事一片片的呈现在他的脑海里，感触多多，于是就决定赶回家作曲。结果就作了下面一首家户喻晓的歌：

三轮车,
跑得快,
上面坐着个老太太,
要五毛,
给一块,
你说奇怪不奇怪?

讲到这里，那DJ已不停的笑，差不多要爆肚！我在车上也笑个不停！对不起，浪费了你们宝贵的时间！哈哈哈哈哈！

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ARrrRRRRgGGGGGHHHHHhhh!!!!!!!

有一些人… 其实是指一个人，真的beh tahan他！很想要开口骂粗话，但最终还是临崖勒马, 保住了我的淑女形像！（嘻）

刚刚拨了一个电话给一位同学，问他汇了回校日晚宴的钱没和会否参与7/6的回校日。他问回校日有什么活动，我就照据我所知的告诉他，有telematch.  原以为他会高兴委员会安排此节目，岂知他却一大篇论语，啊鸡啊左的表实不满这安排，又问委员会有没有问过所有的同学，同不同意举行telematch, 说什么不能理解为什么要他晒太阳啦，又问委员会有没有考虑到小孩子们啦？又说如果有小孩子，Telematch怎样进行啦？讲了一大堆废话之后，我就告诉他，“你… 可以选择不出席，可是你不可以批评我们的委员会会员，他们为这个回校日辛辛苦苦的贡献了那么多，你一分力都没有出过，你没有资格批评他们！如果你有那么多complain, 为什么当初你不参与策划呢？”他说没有人通知他！听到了这句话后，我更加火滚！ 我寄了那么多的email出去，委员会的minutes全都写到很清楚，他不但没有看，还在这里complain多多，真是%$@!?&*!!!!

之后，我叫他快快汇晚宴的钱给我，同时叫他如果能的话，汇多一点 （因为他很有钱嘛！）。他一听到我叫他汇多一点钱，就马上指责我，说我借晚宴来做私法勾当，要骗他的钱!!!  气到我半死！我差点又要开口骂粗话，但是我毕竟是个淑女嘛… o(^ ^)o  我很不客气的跟他说，我叫他汇多点钱是为学校捐款，还有不要把自己的钱看到那么大，也别以为每个人都稀罕他的钱啦！hmmm… 大部分的人，是不是一有几个臭钱就只以为很了不起？ 省起来吧！嗨呀！管他什么淑女型像啦！我忍不住啦！他真是他妈的狗眼看人低！去死啦！其他的朋友们，希望你们能原谅我不雅观的语言…

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“Pa is not doing too well, Ma asked you guys to come over now”

That was the sms my abang and I got when we were having our breakfast in the hospital canteen.  We had just saw Pa before going down to the canteen.  Immediately we rushed to the ICU where he had been staying for the past few days.  Upon reaching there, we found Ma, NL, my eldest brother in law who just flew back from Australia on that morning itself and Girl (my youngest sister in law)  were in tears.  It seemed the doctor had told them that he was not going to make it this time.

I could see his irregular heartrate on the monitor and it kept going lower and lower from 40 bpm to 20 bpm to 10 bpm and then up again to 20.  We were all silently praying that another miracle would happened and that he would survive this episode. 

Suddenly the room door opened and CL cried, “Thank you Pa for waiting for us!” CL who is my youngest brother in law, LT his wife and YK, their daughter who is my father in law’s favourite grand daughter, had just rushed from home to the hospital after receiving Girl’s call.

Eventhough Pa was heavily sedated, and attached to the life supporting system , it seemed he was aware of the surrounding as each time when his heartrate was going towards zero and Ma whispered to him, his heartrate will go up again.  It was like he is still lingering around, undecided whether to leave or to stay.

“Pa, don’t leave!  You have not had any grandson yet!  So, you can’t leave just yet!”  I cried, trying to persuade him not to give up.  Then Ma said, “Ya, Darling, you wanted a grandson, right, so you must not go!”  Everyone was crying and looking at the heart rate monitor fearfully, fearful that the figure would turned zero. 

After struggling for some time, Ma finally whispered to him, “Darling, if you want to go, you may go….”  And with Ma’s consent, Pa breathed his last breath and the heartrate monitor fell to zero with the fearful sound toot………………..

My whole world came tumbling down at that moment.  My beloved Pa has left us and I felt like going with him.  As a Christian, I know he was going to heaven, where he no longer has to endure any pain and suffering that he had for 18 long years (from kidney failure).  However, how long more do i need to wait before I could ever see him again???  I wanted to die at that moment…  He was a father that I have never had and he had loved me and cared for me, even more than my own father.  I had a joyful relationship with him.  I love to care for him, to make tea for him, to do foot massage for him and to do whatever that he wanted me to do.  Whatever he asked of me, I would always happily obliged.

Since he had been in and out of the hospital very often towards the end of his life, I was optimistic and believed that he could recover and be home again with us.  I told myself that when he was discharged, we would moved back home to spend more time with him.  However, he never came home.  I have always regret not being able to speak to him before he slipped into coma.  There was no last word from him, none… 

Today is the exact day 8 years ago he went home to the Lord.  Eventhough he is no longer with us, but his memory lives on and he is always in our hearts and our mind. 

Pa, we missed you dearly and we hope to see you soon…

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When the High Court declared that Nizar was the legitimate MB of Perak and ordered Zambry to vacate the office and to show cause and give information under what policy, power or authority he allegedly held office and exercised the responsibilities, functions and duties as MB, I was cheering inside out and felt that justice was done and that Nizar was vindicated.  Padan muka si Zamry itu.  However, to my despair and horror, the Court of Appeal granted Zambry a stay of execution on the High Court’s declaratory order.

If you have been following this MB saga, one look at it and you will know  who  the actual MB is.  This saga came about because certain people were power crazy and power hungry that they will do just about anything and interpret the law according to their own likings.

When the 3 assemblymen crossed over from PR to be independents, their actions  invoked their pre-signed resignation letters and hence they forgo their assemblymen post and this in turn resulted in a deadlock in the house as PR and BN each has 28 members.  So where is the majority?  Was there ever a majority which BN claimed and based on which provision of the Perak Constitution that gave them the right to appoint their own candidate as the MB then?

The Perak state assembly’s Committee of Privileges suspended Zambry and 6 other BN assemblymen for violating House rules by taking over the state government through unconstitutional means.  Since they were suspended, they were not allowed to attend the State Assembly Meeting on 7 May 2009.  This would have left BN with 21 seats.  Therefore BN’s motion to remove Sivakumar as the Speaker would not have been carried by the House.

Apart from that, the “new” Speaker, Ganesan claimed that he was appointed Speaker before ousted Speaker V. Sivakumar was asked to move from the Speaker’s chair to the seat for Tronoh on the assembly floor.

The Deputy Speaker claimed that she invoked her power under Article 36(1) of the Perak constitution to chair the session since Sivakumar had lost the support of the House.

Question :

1. The meeting was not even convened as the Speaker has insisted the 6 suspended assemblymen leave the hall before he convened the state assembly meeting.
2. Deputy Speakers are nominated to act on behalf of the Speaker when he or she is unavailable.  Since Sivakumar was available, how can the Deputy Speaker take over the Chair? She cited democracy; is this democracy?  NO!!!  It is outright mutiny!!! (I suggest she go and look up on the definition of democracy!)
3. If the meeting was not convened, how can the Speaker possibly lose the support of the House and if there’s no meeting and Deputy Speaker has no right to assume the Chair as the Speaker is available, how can Ganesan possibly be appointed as the Speaker?  What is Ganesan talking about?
   

Anyway, bak kata pepatah, gajah sama gajah berperang, pelanduk mati di tengah tengah…  Amidst all the court battles, BN suing PR and PR suing BN and the power struggle between both parties, it is the people of Perak whom these people claim to be serving that are now suffering.  They used to have 2 MBs, but now they have one who is declared by the Court as the legal MB but couldn’t occupy his office in the state secretariat or discharging his duty as MB and another one who is unlawful but going about discharging duty as MB.  The civil servants were also left in a state of confusion, not knowing which MB they are supposed to take order from.

MIDA has also reported that the continuing crisis in Perak has crippled the economy of the state as the total investment in terms of performance dropped drastically.

The PR government was the people’s choice during the last 308 GE.  BN cannot claim that they are the people’s choice since the crossing over of the 3 assemblymen was not done with the consent of the people of Perak.  So, the most rational thing to do is to let the people of Perak exercise their voting power and to decide once and for all which party they want to govern their state.  However, will BN agree to this? … go figure!

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“Hey!  LY, have you heard of this product called LM?”  我的一位前同事，在我们分道扬镳2年后，一天突然打电话给我。

“Ya ya!  A friend of mine told me about it before”

“So, are you free this weekend? Can i meet up with you? I wanna show you some demonstration la…”

“Errrr…..  No la… I’m not good in doing business….”

“But this is a very good business; low capital and can do it anytime you want and you don’t really have to sell aggresively, just do demonstration like i do.  And for your info, I’ve just started 2 months ago and for the 1st month, my income was RM3k, this is my 2nd month and so far i’ve earned about RM1K plus… … …”

我？做生意？不亏本才怪呢！我是一个不懂得经商的人，一辈子就是打工仔命.  朋友们说，你没试过又怎样知道呢？

从大专学院毕业后，我曾经在一间融資租賃公司任职过2年；在这2年中，其中一年我被调到营销部门做营销管理人员，被逼到那些重型设备公司推销我们的产品。由于接触到的顾客，大多数都是小型生意者，工作艰难，赚的钱也不多，我心想反正我的公司那么大型，又赚大钱，赚这些小型生意者少一点钱也没关系嘛！所以我通常都会以最低的利息给他们贷款。

我的同事们，他们通常以9% – 13% 给顾客贷款，我呢却以6%-7%给顾客贷款。说真的，我实在不忍心以高利息给他们贷款，因为我心想，他们辛辛苦苦转来的钱，一大半要还利息，很可怜的…  公司请到像我这样的员工，真是亏大本！

除此之外，如果叫我做直销，lagi teruk… 我赚不下朋友的钱，又怕被朋友知道我赚了他们多少，多少的钱后，他们会不高兴，我也很难做。我宁愿不赚他们的钱，也不要失去他们的友情。或许你们会觉得我很苯，做生意本来就是要赚钱的嘛… 可使我就是做不下，看来我一辈子肯定只能做个打工仔！

老帅哥，现在你知道为什么你的blogger朋友之中，只有我一个是打工的？！

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