When you deny someone what they need or want, after a certain amount of time has passed, that need or want is gone, replaced by resentment. (Is it really gone though? Or just repressed?) And after time even the resentment goes, replaced by complacency.
Potty Punishment
I made a post on my Fetlife page last night in reference to SirL: "Am I allowed to call him a greedy slut when he cums three times and is still rock hard?" MistressV commented: "Maybe you are the greedy slut" And, always one to dig myself a hole, I couldn't help myself. I replied: … Continue reading Potty Punishment
The SNAIL
It has arrived! The SNAIL Dual Stimulator from SVibe. Here is the unboxing: 1. Front 2. Back 3. The opening 4/5. Carrying case 6. As is. 7. Unrolled It's charging now. I can't wait to try this unique toy! My initial thoughts as I unboxed this beauty were.... It's bigger than I thought, but very, … Continue reading The SNAIL
“Why Would a sub Need Another sub?”
I almost wrote a longer post in regards to my previous one, but I didn't feel like getting into it, so I purposely left it brief: "Feeling the need for more kink, BDSM, D/s in my life. Perhaps it's time I find another submissive? Something to think about."And left it at that. And then along … Continue reading “Why Would a sub Need Another sub?”
Need
Feeling the need for more kink, BDSM, D/s in my life. Perhaps it's time I find another submissive? Something to think about.
Cumming Soon …
I'm working on a collab with this new toy company. Stay tuned for details. I'll be able to offer a discount. But as someone who owns and has tried just about every style of sex toy out there, I have to say these are very different from anything I've seen before. I'm intrigued and excited … Continue reading Cumming Soon …
He Leads and I Follow… it’s that simple
Here's where we are currently.... We went to about four sessions with the couple's therapist. It was helpful, in that it generated some good discussions between us outside of therapy. Therapist was a very nice lady, just not super skilled. But like I said, it was beneficial. He realized he allowed himself to take me … Continue reading He Leads and I Follow… it’s that simple
Things Are Looking Up
Things are looking up between SirL and I. We had our second couple's therapy session yesterday. I am impressed by his buy-in to therapy. He's enthusiastic about it. He is taking seriously the suggestions from the therapist and is really thinking about the things that we discuss. We have been communicating about those things outside … Continue reading Things Are Looking Up
Quick Update
Just a quick update because I have to pack for an overnight at the spa with the girls... SirL and I talked about ending our relationship. I forget who suggested it, him or I, but we decided to give it one last try by going to couples therapy. We had our first session this week. … Continue reading Quick Update
Topping Our Friends
Last month SirL and I visited friends out of town. The male is the submissive, she is the Dom. He is a masculine submissive, that rare breed of male sub. The kind of man you know can and will protect you. The kind who will fuck you hard and rough because that's how you like … Continue reading Topping Our Friends
Just Call Me D 
