**warning–this post involves a lot of jumbled up thoughts that are poorly written and full of grammatical errors. Hopefully you can still understand what I am saying!
I am having a hard time believing that 2010 is already here! The years since Y2K have absolutely flown by. The other night I was on my way to meet my best friend from high school for dinner. As I was dancing to Lady Marmalade playing on the radio I began to reminisce on just how many positive and negative eventful happenings have gone on in my life over the last decade. So, for anyone who might care, here is a review:
1. December 2000- My family’s house unfortunately burns to the ground in what is assumed to be some sort of dryer fire.
2. May 2002-I graduate from college with a degree in Speech Communication and leave my two dear roommates. One of which I lived with for three years and the other who moved in with us for the last two years. I love you both!!!
3. August 2002-I accept a job in North Georgia, working for a school I had hardly ever heard of. I am having fun making (a very little amount of )money and living on my own, but am also very homesick for my family who is five hours away. That fall I begin to apply for jobs in Tampa because I am determined to live there with one of my childhood buddies.
4. January 2003-Woah, I meet my future husband! I always knew he would come packaged with dark hair in a tall frame, but who knew he would come with hunting rifles and a big truck! NICE!!! 😉
5. February 2003-I bring this big hunk of cute fella home to meet the fam. By all standards, including mine, it was WAY WAY WAY too early to be bringing a guy, whom I met while out on the town with a girlfriend, “home.” The fam loves him, especially my sweet mom.
6. April 2003-My sweet mother suffers a stroke. After a few days on a ventilator, my dad, sister, brother and I are forced to make the decision to pull her off. So the grieving process begins…
7. August 2003-My dark-haired hunk proposes to me. It doesn’t take a fool to figure out that I should most definitely marry this hunk of man who is CHOOSING to tolerate me in my grieving process and possibly the worse state that I will hopefully ever be in during my life. I make the decision to move to the county where he was born and raised. I did this only knowing he and his family there. (a plug about his fam as well–I am very thankful for some great, great, great, very normal and laid back in-laws! God worked that one out for me too! Phew…)
8. May 2004-We get married, buy a house and a car all within weeks.
9. December 2005-I complete my graduate program and gain a Masters in Leadership. I do think however that my sweet sister should at least have half a masters degree in Leadership since she spent HOURS proofreading my gazillion papers!
10. July 2007-We welcome our sweet, hilarious and adorable Little Man into our lives! Those 40 hours of induced labor were worth every second!
11. July 2007-We also make the decision for me to begin my stint as a stay at home mom.
12. My BFF from high school and I run a half-marathon. I would consider this one of my bigger physical accomplishments. Who cares that my body hasn’t been the same since and now I have tendonitis in my knee. Geez…
13. April 2009-I am contacted by my Alma Mater about recruiting for them. At this point I am getting the itch to head back to work part-time and this is exactly what they offer. This job literally fell into my lap. When I got off the phone with my now boss, Luke and I were in the backyard. I let out a huge joyous scream and so my almost two-year old cutie joined me. I love that kid!
14. June 2009-We find out we are expecting another baby who will soon come to be known as Harper Ann Moody!! She will be here, March 2010. The Hubster and I are both super excited and shocked that we are having a little girl. (A dear friend told me that she just knew God would give me a girl because of the close relationship I had with my mom. I love that thought and pray that I can be half as good of a mom as she was to me.)
So, here we are. January of 2010. I feel like I can confidently say that my life has run the gambit of emotions and experiences since 2000.
Some lessons that I have learned:
1. God’s plan for me has worked out so very different from what I could have ever dreamed up. For that I am thankful. God is a whole heck-of-a-lot smarter than me! It was God that prompted me to take my new beau home WAY TO EARLY in our relationship. Had I not, he would have never met my mom and she couldn’t have ever approved of him. It is God that randomly led me to my college recruiting job at a random private school in North Georgia. Had I not lived up here, I would have never met The Hubster and additionally would not have provided me with the job experience to be able to have the job I currently have. The results of God’s plan in my life go on and on and on.
2. I like North Georgia, I love the town I live in, the church I go to, the little house I have and the buddies I have made right here in my community. When I began to embark on my new life as a stay at home mom, I kindly asked God to give me some girlfriends right here where I live. He didn’t give me just girlfriends, he gave me GREAT girlfriends! I have some GREAT quality girlfriends right here, across Atlanta and in Florida. Good girlfriends are hard to come by and mine are all better to me than I have ever or could ever be to them
3. Lastly, family is the most important thing I have. This extends beyond my husband and my son. Kissing my mom goodbye the morning of her 50th birthday and never getting to talk to her again really put into perspective how important family is and how we are never promised our next breath. I am thankful for that lesson learned and will NEVER ever take a family member for granted.
So, those are my thoughts from this decade–all brought about by Christina Aquilera and Lady Marmalade! I am hopeful for what the coming years might hold, but not wanting to rush one second. I love the spot I am in, and am so very very thankful for all that God has given me!