Thursday, December 31, 2015

Thankful

Living nearby my parents is absolutely wonderful. I feel like this time I have with them is a gift, that it may not always be this way, and so I savor every visit with them.
This year we were able to spend Thanksgiving together. While I helped in the kitchen, Rus played the boys at chess. Aren't they such handsome boys?
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We had SO MUCH food because we made things that each person wanted. Rus wanted a cherry pie, my dad wanted pumpkin pie, and my mom wanted pumpkin roll. Jacob really wanted to break the wishbone so my parents cooked a turkey. Bekah wanted ham. I love sweet potatoes so I made a casserole that looked delicious (crumb topping, mmm. I practically ate the whole pan by myself, too. Rus never even tried it.) Bekah wanted rolls and helped me make them, and Rus was in charge of the mashed potatoes. Throw in the green bean casserole and dressing that my dad made and we were in full-on feast mode! Needless to say we enjoyed leftovers for the rest of the weekend! The kids were delighted when we declared that pie was a suitable breakfast dish! (Don't worry, Rus is not sleeping or grumpy in this picture...he has just given up smiling for pictures this year.)
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 My mom had everything decorated so beautifully, like she always does. She remembered having Thanksgiving with her grandparents and how they would all sit at the same table to share the meal with fancy dishes and place settings, and she really wanted to do that with our family. It made it really special for all of us!
And here is my very own Thanksgiving decoration - the adorable MariTurkey!
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Jacob and Beau were able to split the wishbone, and they somehow did it exactly in half! I think that means they both got their wish...
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After the meal was eaten and cleaned up and a satisfactory rest time was achieved, we all headed out to the garage to make some wooden toys with the kids. My dad helped them with m&m dispensers and Rus and I helped with catapults. I love spending time in the shop with my dad, and time cooking or visiting with my mom!
And one more picture...The hands-down cutest turkey I saw this year, my nephew Leo!
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Wednesday, December 30, 2015

Hey Hey We're the Monkeys!

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 I love it when cousins have a chance to play together! Especially when we shuffle kids around so I have the boys and Carla has the girls or DeAnn has the boys and I have the girls...it changes the whole dynamic in our house and it can be really fun! I love these pics of my monkeys with their cousin Ben!
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 Beau was our jack-o-lantern for Halloween with a couple teeth missing here and there...and then he lost his two front teeth in time for Christmas!
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 I had my professional artist sister-in-law Carrie and my professional woodworker brother James for Christmas this year! What in the world do I make or buy for them?! I went with a fun sewing project for Carrie because I know she doesn't sew...It was a fun pieced quilt-as-you-go pillow that I think turned out good!
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Sunday, November 22, 2015

A few woodworking projects...

You know how your kids will be happily playing with one thing, and then all of the sudden it seems, they are totally addicted to something else...like stuffed animals and then sea creatures and then dragons and then hot wheel/matchbox cars!
Jacob steadily collected matchbox cars over the summer and then announced that he needed a shelf to hold them all. He has way more than what you see pictured...he's actually up to 84 cars.
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 Beau, who is never too far behind Jacob, decided that he also needed a shelf. He wanted his a little different, with black strips along the front that he could write on with chalk. I didn't want to put a finish on the shelf (lazy!) so we compromised with using MDF for the shelves and spray painting the lips with chalkboard paint. Success!
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 My friends Kristine and Taffy and I decided that we needed some time in the woodshop! We didn't even care what project it was, we just wanted something to do together. So I decided on a ladder shelf that I had pinned a while ago and that I continued to admire. It was a fun project because we came up with the measurements and plans and angles together (the pin was in another language!), and worked out problems together. And I really enjoyed finishing it with a process that made it look weathered.
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 Here is my shelf at home with my plants! I love it! And I love my time with Woodshop friends! (Don't judge my plants. They are alive and that's enough, okay?)
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Happy Halloween!

It wasn't too hard to come up with Beau's costume this year. He was still quite enamored with his new pet cockatiel Cheeky, and so when I suggested that he BE cheeky he was readily on board. I made him a feathered cape and a mohawk-beanie and then we attached some long feathers to a belt for his tail. Here he is with the real Cheeky. Oh and I painted his cheeks bright orange just like Cheeky's. It was quite possible my most favorite costume I have ever made. Maybe it's just cause I enjoy that bird. But more likely, it's because Beau is just SO DANG CUTE.
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 Marianne had an extremely difficult time deciding on a costume. I really wanted her to be Doc McStuffins and use her new doctor kit from her birthday. She sort of liked that idea, but also wanted to be an alligator and a pumpkin and every other costume she laid eyes on. Then we found out her preschool was having a harvest festival, and that she could come dressed up like a farm animal. She still wanted to be an alligator, and I admitted that there were alligator farms out there, but ultimately we decided on the more reserved but still quite adorable cow. I made her this costume from a girl's XL white sweatshirt while she serenaded me with an assortment of "moos." There are an assortment of shapes hiding in the black spots...a heart, bat, pumpkin, butterfly...And she wore an old cow bell that originated with my own family at some point. (I tried to dim the ding of the bell so it wouldn't drive her teachers crazy, but I don't know that I was very successful.) We called her MariBelle MooAnne Payne.
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 Here she is with her class at the harvest festival. I'm not sure why more kids didn't dress up...
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 Jacob wanted to be a hunter. Not just any hunter, though. He wanted to wear a ghilly suit (didn't know that's what it was called before now!), which is camouflaged suit that hunters wear to heavily disguise themselves in different kinds of foliage. We had a blast trick or treating with this kid because he would walk up to the door and then crouch down so he looked like a bush. The other kids would ring the doorbell and Jacob would just sit there until the perfect moment and then he'd yell "boo!" or "trick or treat!" It was very entertaining!
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I don't know how I missed getting a picture of Bekah! She was a very adorable pirate. I love that she is always my most simple costume-person. The boys are always very imaginative and Bekah just uses whatever we have on hand. It helps simplify my work at Halloween time!
Happy Halloween!

Saturday, November 7, 2015

Marianne's Birthday!

Marianne started planning her fourth birthday last November, shortly after her third birthday. She wanted it at Luke's house (her cousin), in Flagstaff, with Luke making her a cake and Joshua providing the balloons. She invited every friend, acquaintance, and even quite a few strangers to her birthday at Luke's house, and was only slightly disappointed when she realized they wouldn't be able to make it. (Because they didn't know the way to Luke's house.)
She even requested that Cutesy drive her to Flagstaff in her red sports car...and that's how she wound up in Flagstaff, a day before the rest of us, with Cutesy and Grandad. She got spoiled rotten and loved all of the attention.
On the glorious morning of her birthday she got to open presents (yay Doc McStuffins!),
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and the softest white tiger from Grandad,
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 and she was only upstaged by her super adorable baby nephew...Leo you're killing me with that smile!
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We decided to have a picnic party at the park and play minute to win it games. The older kids and adults were thoroughly entertained by this plan, but all Marianne wanted was to have Luke push her on the swings...which he did for the better part of an hour. It's no wonder he's her favorite!
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 The most photographically satisfying game that we played was one where you had to get the cookie from your forehead to your mouth without dropping it. Rus won. It turns out that a beard is like an ace in the hole in this game. Tyler deserves an honorable mention though for impressive facial contortion.
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 Marianne's favorite part of the day was when she got to open all of her presents. She got an umbrella which she has wanted for a long time (think tears at Marshalls numerous times), a little succulent plant from Luke, clothes, and I'm sure much more that I've forgotten.
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 Later that night, after she conked out for a much needed nap, we were able to make pizza in Mike's pizza oven. Best. Pizza. Ever. Doesn't she look a like she's still half asleep?
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 And finally, here are the cupcakes we made, that Marianne specifically picked out, that we never actually ate. We were too full from all of the delicious pizza.
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Happy Birthday Buggy! I love everything about your big spirit. You fill my life up to overflowing!

Friday, September 4, 2015

Stained Glass Class

I am seriously the luckiest girl alive sometimes. Blessed. That's what it really is. Heavenly Father knew I needed an inspiring, creatively fulfilling project, so he had my friend Melanie add a second story to her home, creating a crawl space behind three large windows, which she was inspired to declare should be replaced with stained glass. And THEN, the true miracle, she emailed me saying, "Do you have any interest in learning a new technique and doing 3 murals on stained glass??!!"
I told her I was definitely interested but that I'd have to learn how...and I asked if she'd have time for that. She replied that if I was interested she'd give me the time. And she said a friend of a friend knows how to do stained glass, "but I thought I would try you first - we already know and love YOUR work." 
How COOL is that!!?? She trusts that I can learn a brand new medium well enough to make three large pieces for her home!
So I signed up for a stained glass class at a great place here in ABQ run by two older women. It's called "Hot Flash Glass." ;) Karen helped me and she was so super flexible with the scheduling and very direct in just teaching me how it's done and giving tips.
I thought I'd share what I learned:
The white paper is the pattern I chose from two that she had available for the class. I traced it onto the brown paper with carbon paper. The brown paper is sturdier and holds up better later when the glass is being cut and ground. The numbers are underlined because later when you cut out the pattern pieces you will need to keep track of which direction the glass goes.
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I cut the pattern out with special scissors. These scissors cut away a thin strip of paper that accounts for where the copper foil will later go. See that thin black line on the left part of the scissors? It will remove a really thin strip of paper between two pattern pieces.
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Here's what the pattern looked like after it was cut out:
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The hardest part of the project might have been picking out the glass! Karen said to not mix transparent and opaque glass because the opaque glass gets all of the attention and the piece looks unbalanced. There were so many options but I eventually went with a yellow and orange flower, blue green leaves and stem, and a clear background.
Once the pattern pieces were cut, I glued them onto the glass with rubber cement.
Here are some of the tools I used: 
This one is a pistol grip glass cutter. It has a tiny carbide wheel that scores the glass and leaves a super thin white line on the glass. The grip has a little bit of lubricating oil that wicks down to the wheel.

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These are groziers. They are for breaking off curved pieces of glass after they have been scored. You have to use them directionally - see how the bottom of the pliers is curved up? Karen called it a happy face. You have to have happy face pliers to make them work.
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I don't recall the exact name of these pliers, but they are used when you are making a straight cut. So first you score the glass with the glass cutter, and then you place these pliers on the edge of the glass with the white line on the pliers centered on the score line. Just a little pressure and the glass breaks.
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I would cut a few glass pieces and then take them to the grinder to smooth out any rough cuts or edges. Here's what the grinder looks like:
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The edges have to be smooth so that when you go to line them with copper foil they won't tear the foil. The copper foil comes in different widths. I think we used 7/32 (???). It has to be centered on the edge of the glass and wrap around both sides evenly.

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Later when you go to solder the glass pieces together, the copper foil is important because it is what the solder sticks to. It doesn't stick to glass. So the copper foil has to be in place to successfully join the pieces together.
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Here is my project with a few of the pieces wrapped in copper foil.
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Once all of my pieces were wrapped in copper foil, I was ready to begin soldering. Karen had a piece of sheet rock on the table and metal push pins to hold the glass pieces in place. I pinned everything down.
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Solder has to have something called "flux" to enable it to flow. I used blue flux and applied it with a cotton swab to all of the joints. I soldered each of the joints and then applied more flux to the remaining edges.
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Soldering was not as hard as I worried it would be. It just takes a steady hand and slow steady movement. Once I had the front soldered, I flipped it over and soldered the back. We cut thin pieces of zinc framing to fit each side and pinned them in place. Then I soldered the corners of the frame and the parts of the glass that needed to be soldered to the frame. I also soldered jump rings onto the top two corners so that the piece could be hung later. (Not shown.)
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Once it was all soldered I had to clean all of the flux off of it. I think she said that if the flux doesn't get cleaned off, the glass will later have a foggy appearance. I used soap and water, and then applied a black patina that changed all of the soldered lines to black.
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I cleaned it up with a finishing compound and it was done!!
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Now I am looking forward to doing Melanie's project! It will be much more detailed and complicated, not to mention MUCH larger, but I'm looking forward to the challenge!

Happy Lucky 13 to Rus and Keri!

Once upon a time a boy took a girl out for a picnic complete with Subway sandwiches, flowers, and - the saving grace - chocolate covered strawberries. She tried to help him unload the blanket and he panicked because, of course, all of the beautiful red roses were stashed there. He nervously made it down on one knee, and though he was absolutely sure of what he wanted, the words that came out were no less shaky than the hand holding the gorgeous diamond ring. She was thoroughly smitten by love and couldn't help but eagerly agree to a life - an eternity - together. 
Moral of the story? Always have chocolate covered strawberries nearby when something momentous is about to happen.Image
Like a few Mondays ago when it was our anniversary...Bekah was the first child home from school so she helped me make these chocolate strawberry beauties. Specifically she was a masterful "random white chocolate dripper." Then we made signs to hold up for Rus as he huffed the painfully uphill quarter mile to our house on his bike. (He bikes home from work every other day.)
We printed the signs out in parts just for comic effect:

(Bekah held these two signs just down around the corner from our house)
"We have traveled at least 35000 miles on the road together."
"Which means we've had at least 105000 interesting conversations."
(I wish everyone could travel with Rus. He is a talker. We have our favorite conversations that we always bring up on trips, like about our future plans, places we'd love to live, and how we can swing it to someday live in a small town.)

(Beau held these ones)
"I have watched you grow..."
"At least 300 inches of facial hair."
(Rus later googled the average growth of facial hair and was super disappointed that my number was extremely high; in truth I've probably only watched him grow around 75 inches of facial hair in the last 13 years.)

(Jacob held these)
"We have changed..."
"At least 17520 diapers"
"And at least 325 lightbulbs"
"In 5 houses, 3 cities, and 2 states"
(The diaper number is based on 6 diapers per day for 2 years for four children...it could be a little high, but even a low 2 diapers a day for 2 years for four children is a staggering 5840 diapers!!)

(Marianne and I held these)
"We have shared..."
"At least 9496 kisses in the last 13 years."
"Probably more like 18992 kisses."
"We have said 'I love you' just as many times"
"And I hope to say it at least 77380 more times"
(Upon later discussion and a flurry of kisses - not the kind that would make anyone blush really - we both agreed that this number is very low. What can I say...we like to kiss each other...)

 When Rus parked his bike we led him to our own indoor family picnic. (It was HOT outside!) We served sub sandwiches, grapes, and, of course, chocolate covered strawberries.
We told the kids stories of dates that we went on, and how Daddy proposed, and our wedding day.
It was a really fun anniversary!

Here's a pic of us then...When Rus had less facial hair, I had a perm, and overalls were cool.
*sigh* I just love US!
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Monday, August 31, 2015

Second, Fourth, Sixth Grade!

I can't believe I have a SIXTH grader!! I remember sixth grade, moving to middle school and feeling grown up and little all at once. Much like this beautiful girl...
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She was SO excited to start school! I guess backpacks are not cool now; she took a bag I made a few years ago instead. She came home after the first few days and said, "there are all these kids that have these binders that are covered in fabric, and they have a zipper all the way around and handles..." A trapper keeper? Yep, I guess trapper keepers are back in now.
Jacob started 4th grade with a teacher we haven't had before, Mrs. Spaulding. He was nervous for his first day, and admittedly he came home much less than happy. Apparently his teacher wanted him to write verbatim in his agenda what she had written on the board and he broke down crying because he hates to write. The teacher emailed me, concerned, and we both had a talk with Jacob. He hasn't had any problems since! I really like his teacher - she seems to be a very low key, low stress person, which is good for Jacob.
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Beau was able to get the same teacher for second grade that both Bekah and Jacob have had - Ms. Grady. I love her so much! She is an excellent teacher who really cares for her students.
Can you guess what Beau's favorite color is? Orange!!
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Marianne didn't want to be left out of the photo shoot! This BIG girl starts her preschool tomorrow! She has a new backpack and lunchbox and she's SO excited!
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And what did Rus, Marianne, and I do when all the other kids were at school? We went for a 10 mile bike ride on the bosque trail, stopping at Tingley Beach to see the ducks, and turning around only when we had finally glimpsed an elephant at the zoo. Marianne wore herself out as a passenger and complained that she was so tired when we finally made it back to the van.
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It's going to be a great school year, I can just feel it!!

Tea with Nana

The last weekend before school started we were able to have a wonderful lunch date with Nana to go out to tea. We went to one of my favorite places, the St. James Tea Room here in ABQ. (Nana had actually given a tea date to Bekah as a Christmas gift...it just took a little while for us to get around to it.)
Bekah was SO excited! She loves tea as much as she possibly can, which means that she can stand about two flavors if they have enough sugar stirred in. And she loves the treats that tag along with the tea on fancy trays - treats like cookies and sugar cubes. She is not an adventurous eater, however, and trying new things gives her anxiety. I know this about her, but it completely slipped my mind when I suggested that we go out to tea. She made the best of it though, trying the teas and nibbling on the amazing cream scones.
Doesn't she look lovely? 
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Our room was the Beatrix Potter room. The menu for our tea was themed on Pride and Prejudice's Mr. Darcy. I thought everything was DELICIOUS. Mmm.
The best part of our tea party was Bekah interviewing Nana. She came prepared with a list of questions like "tell me about your unicycle," and "what were your friends like in school?"
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It was truly a lovely afternoon. I'm grateful for a sweet daughter and a loving mother in law!
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