We’ve Got it All Wrong

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Let me start by saying that I know that some educators out there will say “This is easy for you to say.  You’re in an “A-rated” school and you’re in an affluent community.”

And those people would be correct.  It is easy for me to say.  That’s the point.

Because it is easy for me to say, I need to say that school grades based on a single test measure do not and will never accurately portray the true value of a school.  There have been many opponents to standardized testing in the past but those of us who have benefitted from these assessments and the subsequent school ratings have to stand up for our colleagues in the education field.  Because while my school staff and community will be celebrating how well we performed, there are friends of mine throughout education who are crushed right now.  Devastated because the perception of their school will change because of a single letter grade.

This is wrong on so many levels.

Florida released school grades a few days ago.  This time the scores are based on the two-year comparison of the FSA (Florida Standards Assessments) that was first implemented last year.  These school grades are the first “official” grade to be given with our new assessments.  The school grades that were released for the previous year were termed “Informational Baseline” with the preposed caveat that there were no consequences for those grades (I will get back to that in a moment).

So the grades came out and my school is “A-rated” once again.  But what does that mean? I honestly don’t feel that this tells anywhere near the complete story of what my school is.  Walk through our halls, talk to our students and staff, ask the community.  I believe you will hear about a school filled with love, happiness, a desire to help all students, and individuals seeking to innovate so that our students are always exposed to the best possible practices, strategies and technologies that help make their lives better.

And I believe that most schools are filled with the same love and happiness, the same desire to do whatever it takes for kids.  But, unfortunately, so many schools are living under the fear of the almighty school grade.  Numerous schools are forced to deliver curriculum and strategies designed specifically to raise test scores.  And yes they are forced, because there is always a consequence for school grades, whether the State says so or not.  The biggest consequence is public perception.  We are so conditioned to believe in school grades based off of a test that only measures how well students do on the FSA in English Language Arts, Math, and Science (for elementary schools).  Schools that don’t perform well on these accountability measures aren’t always afforded the opportunities to innovate and try new ideas like those of us who do perform well.

I have been talking to educator friends of mine, both teachers and principals, from different schools these past few days.  Some are so distraught because their school grade “dropped”.  One of my friends, who is one of the best teachers that I have ever met, said “Does this really mean that from last year to this year we just sat around and did nothing to educate our kids?  We still have the same passionate and dedicated teachers.”  All of our schools are filled with caring, compassionate educators who are relentless in their pursuit of helping make kids’ lives better.  All of our schools have students who deserve the best each day.

This madness needs to stop.  We need the general public to wake up and realize that we are demoralizing entire school communities and reducing their efforts to nothing by placing a grade on them.  While some of us have freedom and are highly regarded because of these grades, there are so many more educators who don’t have that opportunity.  We need everyone to talk about this and spread the word.  Our schools are so much more than a letter grade.

 

 

 

 

Grasping at Time

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I have been contemplating a lot about life recently and how fleeting time can be.  I often wish I can grab time and hold it still but I constantly feel it slipping through my fingers.  Music is a big part of my life and I often get swept up in the emotions and my connection to the lyrics and the sound.  Two songs that have haunted me since my childhood have come into my mind recently.  Our school family was shattered this year as we lost several individuals connected to our school due to car accidents, including two little girls who were students here.  These tragedies make you question why something like this can happen to those who are so young.  There is a line in Neil Young’s Rockin’ in the Free World that always hits home to me when I hear it:

“There’s one more kid that will never go to school.  Never get to fall in love, never get to be cool.”  

I always get choked up when Neil sings this because of the lost opportunities for a child who will never get to experience so much of life.  We can never make sense of losing young people.  All we can do is hug each other a little bit tighter and love each other a little bit more.

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“When you comin’ home, Dad
I don’t know when, but we’ll get together then son 
You know we’ll have a good time then.”

I can’t really explain how the lyrics to Harry Chapin’s Cats in the Cradle have affected me for pretty much my whole life.  I mean, how is it possible that I internalized the meaning to that song and held it within me even at a very young age?  But I can promise you that I cannot listen to that song without tears welling up in my eyes.  I can’t even read the lyrics without getting emotional.  As long as I can remember, I made a silent promise to myself that I would never be the Dad in the song, the one who is too busy for his son and then watches his son become exactly like him, too busy for family, too consumed with work.

My wife and I were walking to the park with our two boys the other day.  Along the path to the playground, each of the boys took turns doing a different stunt, whether it be climbing on monkey bars or simply walking along the edge of the path.  Throughout the walk, Maddox and Jagger went back and forth calling for my attention.

“Daddy, watch this!”

“Did you see that Dad?”

If I tell you they said these things about twenty times in a minute, I would be lying.  It would be so easy to get frustrated and exhausted with always having to see what the boys are doing.  Luckily though, I caught myself and remembered that these moments don’t last for long.  I can remember when Maddox wouldn’t do anything on the baseball field without first looking to make sure that I was watching.  But those times aren’t as frequent anymore.  They won’t always call for me to watch them so I want to see everything they want to show me.

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I connect these stories and songs because I feel compelled to promote the messages of “be here now” and “now is good” at every available opportunity.  Our families, our students, and our colleagues need us to appreciate and to be fully present in those moments that we are together.  While what we do in education is important, we must also remember that our families are more important.  Give of yourselves each day while at school but then go home and engage with your families.  They are the motivation to keep on giving.  They deserve your undivided attention.

I think this message that a parent emailed me at the end of the school year says it all:

“The years move too fast.  I’m still trying to find a way to slow it all down,                                   because it’s so good and so much fun.”

What if we could…appreciate each moment; not worry about the past or the future, but simply treasure the present?

We Don’t Need to Know Right Now

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Full disclaimer to this post – I read the articles mentioned and took the attached picture using my cell phone.  You will see why I pointed this out as you read.  

ISTE 2016 was an amazing experience, from the learning and connections, to the food and culture of Denver itself.  There are so many great moments that stand out for me, but one in particular has been on my mind for the past few days.  This revelation took place at Red Rocks, the historic concert venue carved into the Colorado mountains.  My fellow travelers and I decided that we would add to our ISTE adventure by taking in a concert at this site.  Lucky for us that Ben Harper and the Innocent Criminals were in town and played one of the most amazing concert sets that I have ever seen live.  The music, venue and the ominous skies with lightning flashing in the distance all came together to create a truly special evening.  But it was something that Rachel King, one of my teachers, noticed that really hit home for me.  She pointed out during the concert that fewer than 10 people at a time had their cellphones out.  We really couldn’t believe it as we have all been to shows where almost the entire crowd was taking video and pictures throughout.  What a shame that we would be shocked by this.  But there we were taking in this amazing music set, surrounded by beautiful nature, and encircled by a crowd that was simply interested in enjoying the moment as it happened, not worried about recording it to be viewed at a later date.  Nor was this crowd concerned with answering texts or checking their social media pages.

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A few days later as we were waiting at the Denver airport for our flight home, I read a post that was sent to me that aligned even more with this thought.  The post contained photos from a series entitled “Removed”, by photographer Eric Pickersgill.  Pickersgill’s photos show real life with cell phones taken out of the pictures.  He is attempting to highlight our dangerous addiction to our phones and to being constantly connected.  You can see more of his photos and the philosophy behind them at his site – Removed.

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This gets me to wondering about this insatiable need that we have developed where we need to know right now.  We need to have answers immediately.  We need to answer that text right away.  We need to scroll through our social media feeds on such a regular basis that we often miss out on the connections and conversations of those that are present with us.  My fear is that as we become more connected to each other online, we are further pushing ourselves away from each other in person.  A recent post by CNN states that  Americans devote more than 10 hours a day to screen time, and growing.  Scary stuff indeed.  I just watched a TED Talk by Pico Iyer entitled, The art of stillness.  Pico has been a traveler for most of his life and has been to some amazing places.  But he states in his Talk that he can gain more from just sitting still because doing so allows him to appreciate where he has been and gets him to wrap his head around the impact that his visits have on his life.

My biggest takeaways from ISTE were the connections that I made in person with the educators I had already met via Twitter.  So I believe that we can utilize social media and screen time in a positive way, especially if we use it to enhance our lives and build additional relationships.  However, we need to move away from this sense of urgency with immediately connecting.  We have to remind ourselves that the answers don’t have to be learned right away.  I believe that we can.  We live in an amazing time – the world is right there at our fingertips.  Take advantage of that.  Connect with those who you might not have met if it were not for social media.  But then put your phone down.  Take time to be in the moment.  Be present to those in the same space as you.  And most important of all, please remember that you don’t need to know right now.

 

Everybody Needs a Nonni

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Back in November I presented a TedX Talk entitled “Our Schools Should Teach Kids How to Fail”.  This was an amazing experience all the way around, from developing the concept and going through various re-writes with an amazing teacher of mine, Lynn Mitchel; to rehearsing my Talk numerous times in front of my sons (who both could have gone on stage that night and delivered); to the connections with the staff at the host location, West Broward High School, especially the organizer, Horace Buddoo; to meeting the students who were part of the production crew at the school; to the feedback that I received that night.

The best part of the event was that my wife and my parents were in the audience.  Getting to present in front of them was such a source of pride for me.  I really rely on my family for energy and support as I push forward with changing the way we view education.  I have received a lot of feedback from family, friends, and strangers this past week.  My favorite response came from my Great-Aunt Helen, who is the matriarch of my mom’s side of my family.  I have so much love and respect for her so hearing from her meant a great deal to me.

Aunt Helen showing her pride in me really made me feel a connection to someone who wasn’t there the night of the Talk, someone who will never see my accomplishments, but someone who continues to drive me and motivate me.  That person is Nonni, my grandmother who passed away over seven years ago.  Nonni and I had a special bond.  She always used to say that we were connected by our souls.  Whenever I think about her, I remember how she used to look me in the eyes and tell me that I was going to do great things.  She said it so much that I started to believe it and continue to do so to this day.  Nonni never got to see me become a principal, as she passed away about six months before I was promoted.  But I know that I am living up to her ideal and that I am constantly trying to do more and be more because of her belief in me.  I also realize that I’m not done yet, that there is so much more left to accomplish.  Nonni’s faith keeps me pushing myself.

So this brings me to the title of this blog post, Everybody Needs a Nonni.  My wife, Susie, and I were talking about Nonni’s belief in me and it led to an amazing conversation about someone having so much confidence in you that it completely drives you.  Susie then made the profound statement in the title of this post.  It is so true.  Everyone truly does need a Nonni.  It doesn’t necessarily have to be a grandmother who expresses pride in you, but someone in your life who fully believes in your capabilities.  Nonni’s faith in me was so overwhelming that I don’t think that I had a choice but to become the person that she believed I would be.

So I wonder, do you have a Nonni?  Do you have a person whose belief in you is so strong that it compels you to think beyond your current state?  Or are you that person for others?  Is there someone in your life that you have expressed total confidence in, someone who needs that support?  If not, can you think of someone who you can do that for?  I think about those who don’t have that type of person in their life and wonder what that type of belief could do for them.  How many of our students need that one voice to be on their side.  Can you do that for at least one person who needs it?  Can you be for a child or a colleague what my Nonni was for me?  The opportunity is out there.  Go take it!

 

 

More (my one word)

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I have read many blog posts in the past week talking about the book One Word That Will Change Your Life by Jon Gordon, Dan Britton and Jimmy Page.  The book’s authors encourage you to pick one word that will guide and motivate you rather than making New Year’s resolutions that you probably won’t keep.  I originally read the book a few years ago and I have chosen words which have truly motivated me throughout each year.  My word for 2015 was “moment” and this word helped steer me and remind me that each moment that we spend with each other is the most important moment.  By focusing on this one word I was able to appreciate the now as often as possible.

As I read the various blog posts, I was inspired by my fellow educators’ words and how they expressed the importance  of why they were choosing each word.  I spent a few days contemplating what my one word would be and I found inspiration yesterday in the same way that I found my word last year – swimming in the ocean.  My family and I spent New Year’s Eve at the beach and during a swim I started thinking about what my choice would be.  My one word had to be something that would inspire me throughout the year and get me to a place where I would be happy at this time next year.  I realized then that my guide would be “more”.

The word “more” came into my mind because of two sources.  One was from my late grandfather, Adolph “Tuffy” Tirri, who used to tell us “I love you more” whenever any of his kids, grandkids, or great-grandkids would say “I love you Poppi”.  While this became a catchphrase of his, it also opened up my eyes to the prospect of loving someone at an even greater level, a level only gained by wisdom, experience and from someone who had been through life’s hardships.  When Poppi told you that he “love(d) you more” you could tell just by looking into his eyes that the man truly felt it.  I learned from him that there is always another level that you can go to.

The other source came from a fortune that I opened a few weeks ago:

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My wife laughed this one off as she sees me pour my heart and soul into doing what’s best for kids each day.  The people closest to me also joked about this because they see me as someone who is “all in” for kids and for my school.  My wife is actually a little concerned about this because she sees the downside of putting your entire being into your school.  She sees the stress, the headaches, and the physical toll that being extremely passionate can bring about.  But I put those aspects aside because I know that I can really make a difference in kids’ lives.

So this year I will be focusing on “more”, as in “do more”, “be more”, “connect more”, “listen more”, and…well you get the idea.  I truly never feel that I do enough and that there is more that I can do.  In 2016 I will explore the concept of more.  I know that there is more of who I am to discover, more that I can offer.  I will seek to become more both personally and professionally.  This is my third year at my current school and I believe that I have formed some great relationships and solidified my place in the community but I will find ways to connect more.  I feel that I accomplished a lot in 2015: finished as a participant in the Florida Commisioner of Education’s Leadership Academy and now training to be a facilitator; attended my first edcamp (edcampsoflo); started a weekly Twitter chat with two of my teachers (#SoFLEdChat); attended Miami Device, an amazing conference, that left me inspired that there is more to do; and gave a TedX talk that I cannot wait to share with the world.  But with all that said, I still feel that there is more that I can accomplish, but not for personal gain.  All of those things that I mentioned are done to help further my guiding philosophy of making  kids’ lives better.

Part of my passion is to help bring about change in education and in what school can and should be.  I believe that I have to be connected to kids and to school in order to make this happen so that my voice is relevant (I honestly don’t envision myself as anything but a principal).  However, I know that there is more that I can do both inside and outside my school.  More that I can bring to education.  A famous statement from the Marvel comic book Spider Man is “with great power comes great responsibility”.  I believe that those of us who have the ability to make a change need to do all that we can to bring that change about.  So I will continue to believe that I have never done enough.  I will build more connections, write more, speak out for our students and teachers more.  I will strive to do “more” each day for our kids.

So join me this year.  What will your “one word” be?  Think about where you want to be at this time next year.  What goals do you have for yourself, both personally and professionally?  Then pick a word that will help to get you there.  Happy New Year everyone and I hope that we can connect more in 2016!

 

“All In” – Message for a New Year

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Another year is upon us and I couldn’t be more excited for our students to return.  This week with our teachers has been filled with positive energy and good spirits.  This promises to be an amazing school year.

I rolled out the following unofficial motto for our staff for this year – Feedback, Support and Growth.  My question to my staff is “What do you want to do and what do you need from us to make that happen?”.  Our focus needs to be on the learning and teaching in the classroom above all else.  Teachers’ roles are to make students’ lives better.  Those of us in support positions are here to help make our teachers’ lives better so that they can make students’ lives better.

I also brought up some “What if” questions based on my summer reading and my interactions on Twitter.  Questions that I feel that if answered the right way, can take our school from very good to great.  These questions are not mandates.  However, just imagine the type of school we would have if we could make each of these a reality:

  • What if” – every teacher presented their best lesson on the first day of school and waited until the second day to discuss the rules?
  • “What if” – every teacher called the parents of each of their students within the first two weeks to say something positive about them?
  • What if” – each of us started simply each day by greeting each other with a smile and by saying “Good Morning”?
  • “What if” – every teacher identified areas where they wanted to grow and worked with an administrator or coach to improve in these areas?
  • “What if” – every student had the opportunity to direct a portion of their learning?
  • “What if” – every teacher used technology in the classroom to allow students the opportunity to create rather than consume?

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Finally, our official motto this year is “All In”.  When you play Texas Hold-Em Poker, there is a bet called “All In”.  There are many ways that this bet can be used.  It can be because you only have a small stack of chips left and you are desperate.  You might also use it to try to convince your opponents that you have a great hand when you don’t.  Finally, you can use this bet when you have confidence that you have the absolute best hand.  I truly believe that we have the best staff and that we are going to do amazing things together this year.  Please know that I am “All In” on each of you.  I want you to try new things without fear and with all of the feedback and support that you need to be successful.  Each staff member will receive a poker chip like the one above.  By accepting this chip, we are creating a bond that I am “All In” with you and that you will be “All In” with me and with each other.  This means that we uplift each other, only speak positively about our profession and each other, and agree to constantly learn, collaborate and try new things.  So please join me this year.  Let’s be “All In” with each other.  Make this the best year ever!

Would You Get the Job if You Had to Reapply for Your Current Position?

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We didn’t build schools to give people jobs; we built schools to educate children.

I’m not sure where I first heard that statement but it has definitely stuck with me and helped to guide me during some seriously difficult decisions.  My belief is that my primary role is to help make children’s lives better.   My secondary role is to help make teachers’ lives better so that they can, in turn, make children’s lives better.  It is a pretty simplistic view at what can be a very complicated process.  At times it can turn decisions that I have to make into dilemmas that can truly twist my soul.

In order to properly fulfill my primary function, I have to work as best as I can to ensure that every student in my school has the absolute best teacher in the room with them.  This is sometimes very hard to do because not every teacher can be just like the best teachers in a school (and some teachers really have no interest in doing so).  So we have to work to build people up and provide the support and guidance that they need in order to improve every day.

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the question in the title of this post.  Part of this is because our school district has repurposed several schools recently, which has forced the staff at those sites to reapply for their own jobs.  I have also been interviewing candidates within the past few weeks and I find it interesting how differently people think to sell themselves for a teaching position and what qualities they choose to highlight.

I have had to interview for several positions many times myself in the past ten years.  I find myself constantly updating my mindset as I progress in my journey to become a better educator.  Interviewing and building a resume of accomplishments is a regular occurrence for administrators and educators who seek advancement.   But what about those teachers who stay at one location their entire careers?

What would you say at an interview in order to obtain your current position?   What qualities do you possess that you would choose to highlight?  How have you grown since you first took your job?  How have you grown in the past year?  How do you stay connected to the current trends, strategies, and ideas that are being implemented in schools throughout the world?

What it really boils down to me is this – do you possess the requisite passion to facilitate learning at our school?  I believe that we can help anyone become a better teacher through coaching, modeling, professional development, and feedback and reflection.  What I can’t instill in you is passion.   You either have it or you don’t.   I can look no further than one of my very own teachers who is retiring at the end of the next school year.  One might think that someone in this spot would be winding down, ready to head to retirement.  Pleasantly however, this teacher has reinvented herself as a leader in technology integration and social media connectedness.   The bar has been set for me.  If someone near the end of her career can do these things, then all teachers must be able to do so.   Constant learning and reflecting are non-negotiables to being a quality educator.  The challenge before each of you is to continually self-reflect, learn, grow, collaborate, and share.   And think, do I see myself as someone worthy of my current position?

Celebrating Diversity

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It hit me sometime during the performance from Ecuador.  I looked across the school’s cafeteria and saw all the joyous faces, smiling and dancing.  We were all one.  A feeling of immense pride came over me.  Pride in how our wonderfully diverse school community came together on this evening, the night of our Multicultural Festival.
The brainchild of one of our amazing parents, our 1st Annual Multicultural Festival was a combination of culture, education, music, food, friendship, and celebration.  About 25 countries representing the make-up of Gator Run Elementary put on display booths in which attendants could learn a little bit about each country’s heritage, play a game, do an art activity, or eat some food.  Each student who attended received a luggage bag (a decorated brown paper bag) for collecting souvenirs and a passport that they could get stamped at each country.  There was an awesome representation of our over 1300 students and their families, which caused our building to be a little cramped and slightly warm, but that was a small price to pay for the rewards that were gained that night.
I believe that for the first time ever, every member of our school community felt welcomed and valued for their heritage and culture.  It was an evening of respect for each other; a night to celebrate our differences and that which we all share in common.  It is amazing to be at a school where parent volunteers coordinated the presentations, decorated the school and then worked tirelessly that night to ensure that everyone had an amazing time.  Our school staff who attended and volunteered really rocked the house by donating their time to work the door, serve food, and help to clean the school at the conclusion.  Being a Principal is the best ‘job’ ever but getting to do this ‘job’ at a school like Gator Run Elementary is unbelievable and inspiring.  A night like this makes me want to do more for our kids and community.  Thank you to everyone who participated in making this a most special night.  You have transformed our school forever moving forward; for on this night, all cultures truly became one as the Gator Run family. Image
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The Dilemma of the Inverted Pyramid (a Parable of Sorts)

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FullSizeRenderOnce upon a time there was a pyramid that was utilized to define what school was all about. The base of the pyramid was filled with all of the assessments that teachers give on a daily basis; all of the formative data guiding instruction and helping to ensure that students were successful.  The rising levels of the pyramid moved through the different types of assessments that are used in education.  As the frequency of the assessments decreased, so too did the levels of importance for each type of assessment.  The teachers were happy because they were valued for what they knew about their students.  They weren’t subjected to the pressure of an end of the year assessment defining their students, defining them and defining their school.  The teachers knew that assessment was a key component to the education process because that was how they measured student progress toward learning goals.  The feedback that they could provide their students was immeasurable.  The end of the year summative was an important piece of judging student performance but it was just that, a piece of data.

FullSizeRender 01Unfortunately one day a group of test creators and policy makers got together and flipped the triangle upside down.  They wanted to define teachers and schools and determined that the inverted pyramid would be the best way to do this.  They did this without consulting with educators (which is kind of strange when you think about it – one would think you would collaborate with those in education in order to define education; but I digress).  What this did was place all of the importance on a single end of year assessment, one that could benefit the test creators and the policy makers, earning money and power for both.  While the general public might not have bought into the concept at first, time and convenience clouded their minds and soon enough they forgot what the true purpose of school should be and they soon couldn’t imagine schools existing without grading students, teachers and schools on these summative assessments.  The result was no one was happy, not the teachers, not the principals, not the students, not the parents, no one.  The problem was obvious to see: giving assessments and not using them to inform instruction did not benefit the students, and wasn’t the true purpose of school to educate students, in effect making their lives better?  Now all the attention from those inside and outside school was focused on the end of the year assessment and somewhere along the line the value of teacher opinion and daily formative assessments was forgotten.

Anyone looking at the inverted pyramid could see that there was a major design flaw.  How long could the pyramid stand by balancing on its top point (which of course was now the bottom)?  All of the educators in the world knew that if it wasn’t returned to its original state, the weight of the pyramid would cause it to fall over and crush all of public education along with it.  The only hope that the educators had was that the general public would wake up and see what was happening before it was too late.  Perhaps then the inverted pyramid could be righted and the most amazing profession of education could be saved along with the lives of all of the students.  Indeed hope existed but for how long?

Moral of the Story: Don’t let those outside of education guide the policy and practice of what occurs in education.

As a matter of fact, keep those people as far away from education decisions as you possibly can.  The pyramid is toppling…

Big Wave

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“I feel the need
Planted in me
Millions of years ago
Can’t you see
The ocean’s size?
Defining time
And time
Arising
Arms laid upon me
Being so kind
To let me ride”
– Pearl Jam, from their song Big Wave

I was at the beach today on the last day of winter break with my family (apologies to those in my PLN that live in cold weather areas – yes, swimming in January is indeed a possibility). What a glorious way to end two weeks of resting, relaxing and reflecting. One of my favorite things in the world is swimming in the ocean, riding the waves or just soaking in the sun. The ocean water is rejuvenating and it helps me to meditate, as I am able to block out all of the outside noise while the waves are crashing around me. Being at the beach at the beginning of a new year is a perfect way to help me take stock in where I am in life and where I want to be.

When I am in the ocean I feel connected to the entire world. It’s a spiritual experience for me in which I imagine all the people in various parts of the world swimming in their ocean at the same time as me. I appreciate that we are all one, we are all connected, we are in the same water. Let’s appreciate the connections that we have with each other. Even though our paths may be different and we go through our individual struggles, we are still all part of the same body of people. Love each other. Forgive each other.

My sons, Maddox and Jagger, brought shovels and pails with them so they could play in the sand. I watched them as they began to dig a hole, moving sand and pouring water in it. Soon a few other children came by to help them, children who my boys didn’t know and who they probably won’t meet again. And that’s OK, because people come in and out of our lives on a regular basis. I began to think about our collaborations throughout life and the people who come into our lives even for the briefest moment. Our collaborations with each other are truly what life is all about. Appreciate the time that you are with each other.

Last year I read the book One Word, which encourages you to pick one word that will guide you and motivate you throughout the year rather than making resolutions that you probably won’t keep. My word for this year will be “moment”. A big part of my belief system is focusing on the “now” and putting my energy in each moment. This year I will continue to do this and work on inspiring others to do the same. We must learn to appreciate each moment. Our time together is too fleeting and we don’t know when our connection will end. Too often we are caught wishing for the weekend or a big vacation. But when we do that, we are really wishing for the days leading up to the weekend or vacation to speed right by and we miss out on the wonderful experiences that can occur on a daily basis. I ask that you do not wish your days away, because truthfully, weekends only make up a small portion of our lives. Do you really want to wish away over 70% of your life? I do not and I am sure you don’t either.

So join me this year. Appreciate the conversation with your colleague. Treasure the daily interactions with your family. Value each minute of each day. We never know when our last minute might be. And if you need some inspiration, get yourself to the ocean and ride a wave.