Monday, February 27, 2012

Thirty. . . Acts of Kindness

Here's the list of 30 kind things that I spent the weekend doing to celebrate my 30th birthday, which I by the way have survived. I don't think the 30's are going to be too bad after all.


I thought about not posting this list - I hope you know that the point of this post is not to brag about what I did. But instead to give you ideas of ways to do random acts of kindness - not just for my birthday but any day!!!


So here are all 30! A big thanks to Ryan who chauffeured me around and helped out. And Addyson and Braden got to help on a few too. Thanks to the Fanning's for watching the kids Saturday so we could accomplish a huge chunk of the list. Sorry I didn't get any pictures - I know it would have made this post much more interesting to look at. Oh well!!

  1. Dropped off bags of groceries at the Newton food pantry
  2. Baked a cake to take for break to The Citizens State Bank (where I worked before having the twins)
  3. Sent appreciative note to the man who grades our country sand roads (I am so thankful for being able to go on walks and be able to push the stroller without dodging multiple puddles, ruts, and washboards. And not every township is as blessed as we are. Super thankful for decent roads!!!)
  4. Left candy bar and note for our mail carrier (this guy earns his pay - have I mentioned I like to shop online?? and he delivers our mail right to our door lots of times because the packages are too big to fit in our mailbox!!!)
  5. Sent appreciative note to our pediatrician (Addyson & Braden "drew" a picture for him)
  6. Mailed item on wish list to Youthville in Wichita (they work with foster children in our area)
  7. Made a donation to Living Water International (less than $1 will give a person clean water for life, seems so much more important than that Starbucks mocha I purchased that was good for less than an hour)
  8. Left bag of preemie clothes at Wesley NICU where Addyson and Braden spent their first days
  9. Left magazines with encouraging notes to put in the pumping rooms for new mamas at Wesley NICU
  10. Chocolate chip cookies and note for NICU nurses and staff - we even got to see a couple of our favorite nurses who were working!! Super nice to see Walsh and have some good laughs.
  11. Little coloring books, crayons, notepads, and magazines in labor and delivery waiting room for new families waiting to meet their babies
  12. Taped an encouraging note and Chipotle gift card on the lockers where NICU parents leave their things while visiting their babies
  13. Dropped off bag of stuff at Wesley Peds Unit - colors, coloring books, bubbles, sippy cups
  14. Put quarters in washing machine at laundromat
  15. Dropped quarters at a park in Newton for children to find
  16. Tucked happy notes into windshield wipers of vehicles in various parking lots
  17. Paid for a Redbox movie for next person to use machine
  18. Taped quarters to gumball and candy machines at the mall
  19. Handed a Dillon's gift card to a person shopping for groceries
  20. Taped coupons to items at Dillon's (I would really appreciate this one personally, since if I actually manage to remember to bring the coupons to the store I usually forget to pull them out when it's time to pay!!)
  21. Pushed stray shopping carts back into stores throughout the day
  22. Opened doors for people
  23. Gave notes and candy bars to Addyson and Braden's Sunday School teachers and other nursery helpers
  24. Put candy bars and notes into random mailboxes at church
  25. Walked into Chili's and gave the hostess a gift card for the next people she seated (it was fun to watch a family walk in as we drove away knowing they had no idea what was waiting for them!)
  26. Left an extra nice tip for our waitress at supper
  27. Paid for Starbuck's for the car behind us in the drive-thru
  28. Stuck a note and $10 bill on a huge box of diapers at Target
  29. Gave away a Carter's coupon to someone headed there
  30. Dropped off paper products at Harvey County Homeless Shelter (OK, so the sack is still sitting in the back of our car. I didn't plan ahead very well and no one was there when I planned to drop it off. So does that mean that I'm still 29 since I only completed 29 things???? I guess not. I'll drop it off soon - promise.)
I really did have a good time sharing. It was fun!! And since I've been coming up with the list of things to do -- over the last week or so I have noticed that my mind actually looks for ways to be helpful randomly throughout the day even still. So that's a nice effect of this little project too! Hopefully this can continue as part of my daily life. 

I did get a little discouraged wishing that I could do a lot, lot more for all of these people/places and lots more ideas I didn't end up doing. I mean a few preemie clothes just doesn't begin to touch the needs of those tiny babies and families, or the small donations I made various places. So even though I'm sure these 30 small random acts of kindness didn't drastically change anyone's lives, hopefully God used them somehow. And hopefully the few people I could help will pass it forward and help someone else. And I'm still challenging all of you to do an act of kindness - it really is fun!!!


Here's the blog post that inspired this idea. I really can't take credit for most of the things on my list!


http://mixmingleglow.com/blog/?p=1358

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Prepping - Thirty Random Acts of Kindness

This is my last week in my twenties. I didn't think that I got that hung up on myself most of the time. But I have really not been looking forward to my birthday on Sunday (February 26). It's time for a new decade - the 30's. I know I am so blessed and it's just another day - it's not like I'm not a whole day older every single day of my life!!! But still, I guess it's just the thought.

Anyway, I was hoping I might be able to spend my birthday in a different country this year with a certain little boy we don't know yet, but that doesn't seem to be God's plan -- so this has been my back-up plan for awhile. I spotted this blog post a few months ago and thought it was an awesome idea!! What better way to celebrate my 30th birthday than to spend it doing nice things for other people. One nice thing for every year of life God has blessed me with so far. Sure has to help take the focus off me . . . and onto something that is much more important than being bummed about getting older.

So, I've been busy making lists and shopping lists. Finalizing some ideas. I won't get all of them squeezed into my actual birthday - having a birthday on Sunday makes some of my ideas tough to complete. But never fear - I plan on stretching this out over a whole weekend. Can't hurt to celebrate a little longer anyway right???

And I'm challenging you to help me celebrate!!! And I'll even give you longer than I'm giving myself. Here's your assignment:

Sometime between now and Sunday, do your own random (or not so random) act of kindness for someone else. And then comment and let me know what you did. OK? It will make my birthday even more special and less sad. Please, please???? I'm looking forward to hearing from you!

Oh, and if you need some ideas go check out the link to the blog post that inspired me! I'll share next week some of the stuff that I did (I've managed to convince Ryan, Addyson, and Braden to help me) - I'm not spilling the beans just yet so you don't steal all my ideas!!

OK - Go!!! Share God's love and do some acts of kindness!!! And don't forget to tell me about it! :)

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Skittles

It's no secret that Ryan and I are not good at giving birthday gifts on time to our children. Their 1st birthday present was given a few weeks early because we just couldn't wait; last year the swingset showed up late; and this year the gift is early once again!!

Meet Skittles!!!!


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We were out yesterday with another goal, but we saw this little pony and we couldn't resist. And you can't make them wait until their birthday - that is just plain mean!!! So Happy 3rd Birthday Addyson and Braden!!! And welcome to the farm, Skittles!!!

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I think Braden's favorite part at this point is leading her around like a little puppy dog!

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But Addyson loves pretty much everything about her!

She is pretty cute and easy to love! 

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

what i want to long for

This song has been running through my head over and over lately. There has been a shorter version of it in the playlist but this has the lyrics too which makes me concentrate on them so I thought I'd share. Maybe someone else needs the same encouragement I do for your own restless heart.

So go pause the music on the side and play this song.



I've been thinking about how I don't want my emotions to be so controlled by my circumstances. No matter what is happening I want to be able to truly say that I want God's will to be done and that I long for nothing else as long as He is glorified. I want to let Him quiet my restless heart because nothing and no one else can really do that. To abide in His love while he accomplishes whatever His will is - whether that's something that's easy or hard or happens quickly or slowly. I wish I could say I was doing decently well at this, but I'm afraid I have a really, really long way to go. Amazing how much a potty training accident (or three or four), or tantrums (sometimes the kids . . .  and sometimes mine), or my impatience can totally throw me into a doubtful, crabby, selfish mood. That is not how it's supposed to be. I'm supposed to be longing for more of my Savior and less of the "things" I want - no matter how good they seem. So this is the part of the song I've been praying - and I think I have to say it over and over because even three "quiet my restless heart"s don't seem to be enough some days!! :)

"So quiet my restless heart
Quiet my restless heart
Quiet my restless heart in you

Oh let Your will be done in me
In Your love I will abide
Oh I long for nothing else as long
As You are glorified"



Monday, February 6, 2012

small joys


I don't have a lot to say lately.

But look at these cuties!!! Working together.

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And oh the cuteness - these two in their horsey towels they got for Christmas all snuggled up.

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And guess what was more exciting yesterday than the Super Bowl?????

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Two 2-year olds who had dry undies all day - even naptime!!! Yeah!!!!