Sunday, May 30, 2010

Lexington

While visiting Cofer we did venture into Lexington a few times where there is much more to see!
Like bicycle racks made from bicycles and beautiful stone buildings:
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and the Kentucky theater where Cofer's church meets:
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And we had pizza at Joe Bologna's, which was originally a Presbyterian Church and then a Jewish Temple, but now is re-purposed as a restaurant. The jury is out on whether or not the raised seating was an addition or  a part of the church. I think it was completely an addition - any thoughts?
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And I have share my inspiration for my blue table:
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However, there was one part of Lexington that I did not enjoy so much - spotting Calipari. As a true Memphian, he just disgusts me!
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Saturday, May 29, 2010

Wilmore

Also, affectionately known as Thrillmore because there is not much to do but look at beautiful scenery:
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Go to college (or seminary):
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Eat a sandwich named after your favorite Theologian:
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Drink Ale 8 in honor of Frase:
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And, craft, which I'm particularly fond of!
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Thursday, May 27, 2010

Travelling the South

I've had some time between working and moving in the last two weeks to relax and visit some friends. I have made trips to ARKANSAS:
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And KENTUCKY:
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-Lots of good fellowship and food with dear friends during my trips! 

The Blue End Table

I love a project. And a sister named Martha who will sand, prime, and paint with me for hours!
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We learned a big lesson with this project. Don't get oil-based primer on your body. 
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We tried to use paint thinner to clean the brushes, FAIL - that just caused the primer to get all over our hands and the fumes made us lightheaded. 
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Forget the brushes [don't tell my dad we threw them away] we just needed to get that stuff off our hands!
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Out comes the nail polish remover, but that wasn't going to cut it because all the rubbing and acetone was giving me a rash. So we asked Carolyn to google another way to get the primer off our hands. Two interesting suggestions 1. Mayo 2. Olive oil and salt. We chose #2, and it worked! Lots of laughs, but the result was much cleaner and smooth hands!

Monday, May 24, 2010

5 Dollars

Who needs a $5 footlong when you can get a $5 end table?

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I definitely got the table! I'll be back with the finished product.

Saturday, May 22, 2010

Graduation Time!

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This month was full of celebrations for Martha's graduation. A few weeks ago she graduated from Bridge Builders, a leadership and diversity program for Memphis area high school students. Although it was pouring down rain, they had one last blindfolded challenge that ended in receiving a very cool wooden trophy. 
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Then we had the open house that I blogged about last week, where we showed some more cute pictures of Mar and celebrated the fact that she is going to be a HOG:).
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Her graduation finally became official on Thursday night. Carolyn is back in town for a few weeks and our grandmother joined us to celebrate before and after the ceremony. We're so proud that Martha was recognized for being in the top 5% of her class, even if she was the last person!
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She might be done with high school, but she does need some lessons in not ordering BBQ Sauce when wearing a white dress so you won't have to wear napkins like a dork!

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Kingdom Assignment Update

Last time I blogged about Scott and Debbi was way back in February. There are so many updates. God has been so present in all of our lives in the last few months. 
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When I was asking for donations and advertising for the Craft Sale, I just told people I was going to use the money to help some needy families that I had met volunteering. I didn't know exactly what it would go towards, but prayed God would show me.
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About two weeks after the Sale, I was home one Sunday morning when Debbi called me to ask for help in getting groceries that week. Scott had been taken to the ER by ambulance and they had to use their grocery money for the week to be seen at the hospital. I packed up some sandwiches for Debbi to have to eat while she was waiting at the hospital and I spent the day with them as Scott was diagnosed with appendicitis and had an emergency surgery to remove his appendix. I shared with them about the Kingdom Assignment and was able to buy them groceries for the week along with emotional support for Debbi as she anxiously waited through Scott's surgery. We had such good conversations and I knew that I was experiencing the kingdom of God that day. 
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Thankfully Scott recovered quickly and was released the next day. I gained insight into both Scott and Debbi's health issues during the hospital stay, and I knew I wanted to use some  more of the Kingdom Assignment money to help them be seen at Christ Community Health Clinic, where my sweet friend Meredith is a nurse. They were able to receive affordable healthcare and prescriptions to get them both back on track and feeling better than they had in at least a year. I had not considered that the medications they each need were on the long list of things they couldn't afford.
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Scott was able to get back to work after about a week off, and that time without pay put them in an even tighter spot for groceries. As I had these opportunities to help Scott and Debbi with groceries, money, and rides, I shared with some of my coworkers that the money raised at the Craft Sale was helping to provide for some important needs. One lady told me about an organization called Angel Food Ministries that provides a box of groceries at a very reasonable price once a month to anybody. She also brought some extra laundry detergent for me to share with Scott and Debbi. I have helped Scott and Debbi get some of their groceries through Angel Food the last couple of months and it is a great way to help their money go further.
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Debbi and Scott have been incredibly grateful toward me and God for they ways they have been helped. Debbi has offered to pay me back on multiple occasions, and I have explained that the money was raised to help them, not straight from my checking account. I have encouraged them to help someone else when they have the stability to give. 
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One day after we had this conversation Debbi called me and she was very excited. One of her neighbors had broken apart a wooden table for the metal pieces to exchange them for some money and Debbi overheard his wife say, "Well now where are we going to get food." So Debbi went outside and asked if he was looking for metal and when he said yes, she invited him to the back of their house where she had two crates full of about $10 worth of metal scraps. She told me, "It felt SO good to help them! Now I know how you feel when you help others."
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My last day of work before I move and start MTR was a couple of weeks ago. My coworkers surprised me with a potluck (breakfast and lunch!) and a group of ladies got together to get me a Hobby Lobby Gift Card for $100 to continue my Kingdom Assignment. Their thoughtfulness is such an encouragement to me. I already have some new craft projects up my sleeve... but that is another post.
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There have been more answered prayers in the last couple of weeks for Scott and Debbi. Their utilities had been turned off again this spring, and last Monday they were turned back on because Scott's boss gave them a personal loan. The weather was so HOT and humid last week... I know that was such a relief for them. Also, Debbi has had some answered prayers in getting a job. She had one at a fast food restaurant that didn't work out, but this is her second week at another job with a dollar store. It is a much better fit for her, and has been a boost to her morale. I remember how hard it was for me last summer to be without a job. 
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I have seen God move in my life in increasing my passion to do something bigger than help Scott and Debbi have healthcare and enough to eat for a few months. These experiences have shown me first hand how important it is to him to dramatically improve education in the worst neighborhoods of Memphis. Money is not a long term fix to help people like Scott and Debbi, but education and relationships are. I have also learned from Scott and Debbi how little they really need to survive and I am very humbled when I start to compare their standards with my own "needs."

Monday, May 17, 2010

Martha is Growing Up!

Two weekends ago we celebrated Martha's graduation with an open house for all her people. I had fun going through pictures of her growing up to make these for her dorm room! [which just happens to be a room I lived in my sophomore year]
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Martha and I are far enough apart in age that we have always gotten along well, and I'm so excited she is headed to Arkansas in the fall. My cute baby sister has grown up on me!
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I know she will do really well at Arkansas and have a ton of fun! I'm excited to come to visit!

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Just look at the beautiful chica she has become! Yay Martha!
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Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Senior Walk

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The University of Arkansas has an awesome tradition called Senior Walk. All the graduates names since the school was started are engraved in the sidewalk. I was so excited that my class was finished for my trip this week!

Monday, May 10, 2010

Afternoon in Fort Worth

While in Texas for Christy's wedding, I stayed with some dear friends who live between Dallas and Fort Worth. We enjoyed an afternoon of perusing while I was in town. 

Proof I was in Texas:
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I very seriously considered buying some cowboy boots of my own, but decided they weren't so practical for my wardrobe. Maybe if I lived in Texas...

I enjoyed the design of the vines on this building near downtown:
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I was excited to meet and play with Eric, who's mom, Marta, gave me piano lessons when she was in high school and I was in middle school. Marta also drove Steven and me to school in the mornings in her VW bug. I thought I was so cool when I got to ride in the beetle!


Christy & Tom's Wedding

Two weeks ago, my grandmother and I flew to Dallas for my cousin Christy's wedding. The entire weekend was so nice. It was great to spend some time with family I haven't seen in a few years and to meet all the people who love and support Christy and Tom. 

We got to attend the Bridesmaid Luncheon and the Rehearsal dinner. Wonderful atmosphere, great food, and  delightful company.
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[Can you believe how much I look like my mom's sister, Kay, in the left picture?!?]

Christy and Tom are a fantastic couple and everything about their special day was beautiful. Christy's maids of honor were her sisters, Rachel and Kathryn.
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[Note the breathtaking view of downtown Dallas from the reception location]

And the reception was such a blast. It was so special to see my grandmother enjoy herself so much:)
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Here are some clips of the dancing - my uncle Jack danced an African dance with one of my aunt's cousins. It was such a hoot!



Congrats Christy & Tom!

Friday, May 7, 2010

Lamplighter Article

About a month ago, we finally reported back to Neighborhood Church about how we completed our Kingdom Assignments. It was so wonderful to hear the stories and see that the impact the assignment made is continuing to expand. I was asked to write an article for the Lamplighter, the Cooper Young newspaper, to share about the assignment and it came out this week. The article has Mandy's name as the author, but I did indeed write it:)

Enjoy!

[Coming soon is an update on Scott and Debbi and the stories that I didn't cover in the article.]


The $100 Challenge

On a cold January night, ten people at Neighborhood Church were each given $100 and an assignment. They were instructed to manage, multiply, and invest the money in some way that advances God's Kingdom in the world. And they were to report back in three months. Pastor of the church and Philadelphia Avenue resident Robert Grisham had heard about other churches undertaking a similar challenge as they studied the Parable of the Ten Minas (or Parable of the Talents), so during his sermon series on "God's Economy", he asked these ten people to be creative and follow God's lead in serving others with the money. In the parable, a group of servants is given an amount of money to steward. Some invest and multiply their gifts while others hoard it away. In the end, those who invested and multiplied were rewarded abundantly, but those who had essentially stashed it under the mattress had it taken away. So, the question was, how would members of Neighborhood Church do with the same challenge?

Nelson Avenue resident Josh Spickler, a lawyer, knew from experience in the public defender's office that the minimum bond to get a person released from jail is $100. And more importantly, he knew that if no one had shown up with that small sum to get you released, you were truly at rock bottom. Using his knowledge of the court system and his professional skills he chose to use his money to bond out a complete stranger who'd been sitting at 201 Poplar for a little too long on a minor charge. Josh's plan was to represent the person in court and engage them in a relational way to help them get back on their feet. Because of Josh's deft legal wrangling, the man was actually released without having to pay the bond. Although he ended up spending the money on a charity instead of on his client, the $100 challenge inspired this Neighborhood Church member to reach out and help someone no one else would.

Virginia Boyd used her money on supplies for crafts to sell at a bake sale her company was hosting. After advertising that the funds raised were going to help some families she had met volunteering with Idlewild Presbyterian's More Than A Meal, some of her coworkers donated their own crafts to sell. Not only was Virginia was able to triple her money, but she also engaged her coworkers in helping beyond the craft sale. Together, they gathered donations of laundry detergent and researched organizations that could help the families further. Some of her coworkers even became interested in volunteering at More Than A Meal.

Not everyone decided to go it alone. Kristi Vickers and Paula Peyton, two friends who work together at a photography studio, decided to continue their relationship with a shelter for victims of domestic violence for which the studio had conducted donation drives in the past. Instead of having a traditional drive, this time they wanted to do something personal for the families at the shelter. Kristi and Paula invited them to come be photographed at the studio. They visited with a few mothers and their children and not only took their photographs, but also gave each child an Easter basket overflowing with goodies. While most of the $100 went toward treats for the Easter baskets, it was clear that having a family portrait was the most valuable part of this ministry for the moms that were served.

Not all of the money stayed in the Memphis area, though. A few people were led to use their money to reach across the world. Amy Smith put up her money for a small business loan in Afghanistan through Kiva (www.kiva.org). Kiva connects individual lenders with low income people across the world who need a small loan to start or improve their business. The loans, which have an extraordinarily high repayment rate, are typically repaid within a year, meaning that Amy will be able to continue to use her Kingdom Assignment money to invest for years to come.

Everyone was amazed by the unique and wonderful ways this assignment enabled them to give. The most important part of each of the ten stories was not the money, but the relationships that were built and strengthened because people stepped out to help. Some of the money was invested in neighbors and organizations right here in Midtown and some was sent across the world to India, Lebanon, Afghanistan, and China. Some people invested in old relationships and some in brand new. Some people used their skills and talents and others invested in other people. Some people know exactly what their money helped to do and others have entrusted someone else to use the money. Though each aspect of the giving process was different, one thing was the same - everyone was changed and challenged to do more with their resources of time, talents, and money after this experience. They hope their experiences encourage the entire community to give what they have to share.