3-4 Days for Free Fitting!

Lagi 3-4 hari lagi nak raye ni...korang x nak cantik ke?

Dah puasa di siang hari, tapi tewas time berbuka dgn pelbagai juadah...so last2... xgune jugak puasa kan...

Tapi raya dah aim nak pakai baju kurung peplum tu kan? Tu ha..kebaya yg dh beli tu, takkan nk biar dlm almari je? 

So....dpt kan segera korset DX dari Elken ni... Boleh buat bdn anda lebih cantik, slim, langsing, cantik tertarik anda memang da bomb! Adik perempuan saya yg dh bli korset ni bgtau sy smlm...saiz seluar die dh turun 2 inci! Dr saiz 34-35 boleh pakai saiz 31-32...so apa tunggu lagi?

Taknak beli pun, cube free boleh! Can call/SMS/Whatsapp me at 019-5543040 :)

 "Every woman deserves to be beautiful"

Elken DX Corset

Hey y'all, it's been nearly 2 months since I've tried on Elken DX Corset. Here are the result :

These are my pics a few months back...urgh....never wanna share it but hey...I'm too happy with my present body now...the 'old ones' need to be shown for "educational purposes"..hehe...

Omg, this one is uggllyyyy~ -_-"

And now, since Elken DX corset is too effective, there are days where I don't even need to wear the corset...my body is automatically aligned to its "new" places...tee hee....love!

*My, is Elken DX corset THAT effective? Well, if you ask me, the user, HELL YEAH it is! Hahaha...Bcos it's designed by Japan, and , yes, it's made of high-quality, ergonomic and breathable material! U won't feel itchy la, panas la..x selesa la...when wearing it....juz wear it for 8 hrs daily and ur good to go!

So....it's quite a shame aite if u just look at me getting a whole new body...y can't u? If you'd like a free-fitting and consultation, please Whatsapp me at 019-5543040 :)

"Fabulosity!" - Kimora Lee Simmons

Well hello there green bloggy! It's been awhile, yes...

OK, mlm ni xleh fokus tulis blog...ade keje sket...kne environment yg sunyi, hening, sambil pekena a cuppa hot coofee baru sdp..hehe~

See ya!

Apakah Definisi Baik & Jahat Pada Anda?

Apa yg bermain dlm minda kita bila orang mendefinisikan 'baik' dan 'jahat' kpd anda?

Pd aku, 'baik' dan 'jahat' tu subjektif. Sampai satu tahap, dlm dunia ni tiada 'baik' dan tiada 'jahat'...yg ultimate... sebab setiap org, tidak akan lari dari membuat kesilapan...

So mari kita mulakan dgn situasi2 biasa bila kita kata seseorang tu 'baik',

1) Baik anak si Senah tu...rajin ke dapur dan jaga maknye yg sakit, pulak tu, mengajar budak2 kampung ni mengaji lagi..beruntung sape yg dpt jd anak menantu..hihi~

2) Bagusnye bdk ni...post bnde2 baik kt FB..islamik, mst jnis xtgk cite2 unsur 'biru'.

3) Dgr2 ade kes curi kt hostel skg...eh kau jgn la ckp si Ahmad yg wat...baik budak tu, rajen ke surau, belajar bagus...hade ke die nk mencurik plak? Pe da....

4) Baiknye awk, Suzi...awk xpnah lg keluar mlm? Huhu....

So kita nmpk di sini, rata2 masyarakat Melayu ada definisi diorang sendiri ttg 'baik'...manakala org yg 'jahat', acapkali kite dgr bualan2 org yg sebegini :

1) Dasar kutu rayau! Dah xde keje dok melepak tepi2 jalan waktu senja, pastu mengurat anak dara org! Eeeee, mintak simpang la nk wat jd anak menantu aku, ey x kesior teman!

2) Weh, kau xboleh tgk cite2 mcm ni weh...kau tu budak surau!

3) Hai, si Hadi tu la...kne ngadap guru beso lg gamaknye...dah pangai cm antu, mmg ptt la kne..aku rse kalo die kne berenti skolah bru aman kot skolah ni!

4) Hmmm...kalau dah freehair tu, pkai lak mcm xcukup kain, kaki clubbing lg, cmane nk wat anak menantu? Pempuan2 cmni sonok buat main je!

Pernah x kita terfikir, mungkin 'anak makcik Senah' berbuat baik ada makna? Atau pelajar 'baik' itu pura2 baik je, tp pangai die lg antu dr antu yg kita mmg da masak pangai antu die mcm 'Hadi'? Atau...mungkinkah Hadi ada sebab kenapa die berkelakuan begitu? Dan tak lupe juga, 'perempuan yg clubbing' - apa, mereka dah xlayak dipanggil manusia ke, sbb mereka hny 'layak dijadikan alat permainan' lelaki2 yg ada inferiority complex.

Oh ya, contoh ketiga aku nk maksudkan ttg definisi 'baik' yg tipikal di kalangan pelajar. Ambil contoh lah, mcm zaman aku blajar kt U dlu, assignment byk, kdg2 weekend pn sibuk buat semata2 nk kejar deadline. So mmg xde life, (alah, mcm zmn kerja skg lah, tp zmn keja lain sket, anyway, tu akn diulas dlm next post)...

Pastu aku ni rajin jwb soalan dlm kelas...bkn nk tunjuk pndai, tp dah aku tau jwpn die, aku jwb lah.. but take note, ni bukan kelas yg comlicated, aku dlu amek kos bahasa inggeris, so yg aku jwb tu, bnda2 common sense n grammar...tu je...bkn lah sumthing like very scientifical and rocket-science-y or accounting kehape...juz, plain english...

But ppl often mistake me as someone yg konon 'nerdy' n 'smart' n like, sgt studious... (and it doesn't help that i hv an innocent face, not proud of it, i tell u)..when actually I'm just a person who prioritizes work / study above all else...I still enjoy fun stuffs like karaoke-ing, punk rock music, and I am FAR from a conservative person when it comes to lewd / controversial / suggestive ideas / movies / song etc. I just see it as my ability to be open minded and think outside of the box. Yelah, umur dah 20-an, xkan lah xtau tg bnda2 dlm kain? Nanti dah kawen mcm mane... heheh..

Anyways (alamak mati sume org igt aku pervert or smtg)

OK, so...my point is, ppl, n most ppl love to make a first impression...I don;t really blame them, cuz I'm guilty as charged as well. But to make a hasty judgment on someone just because how they dress, or how their past is, is just...well...a hasty generalization....

(But really, I just don't understand perogols, expecially yg makan anak / darah daging sendiri..they're like....urgh!)

OK, which brings us to, - 'jahat'...apa itu jahat...jahat means when one is not being 'nice', when it's something deviant (Sapian Mamat's word), when something is out of the norm of 'baik' folks...

But one thing that always left me wondering, usually all these ppl yg suke cop diri sdri 'jahat' (ok lah, kalo bkn yg jnis hardcore, label diri sdri 'notty' la - notty in the sense, wat2 kesalahan yg minor2 je...xbuat keje skolah skali skala, ponteng klas skali skala...tp budak pempuan la..bkn budak lelaki..n then claim diri 'jahat'.Sangat.)....sebenarnye dorg xla jht mane...jht manje2 je... (buwek!) tp ske nk claim diri 'jahat'...dan selalunye...org2 yg masyarakat slalu ckp 'baik' ni..dlm diri dorg, kdg2 lg evil /melencong dr manusia2 yg jahat2 manje ni...

Pada aku, sng ckp cmni lah...kite kn biasa tgk movie2 high school matsaleh kn, di mana, plotnya mst ade budak geek / nerd yg slalu kne buli dan lurus bendul, pastu ade watak budak2 jahat @ mean girls yg bitchy atau jock guyz yg ske membuli secara fizikal... pastu at the end of the movie, si nerd akan succeed...succeed tu mcm mane ? succeed tu, well, they gain confidence...they have the gut to bls balik what those bullies used to do to them...and then, makeover (ah, so tipikal, tanggal2 spek mata, pkai lelawa bagai)...anyway, my point is, yes....itu reasonnya...

Sdgkn dlm agama pn ade ckp, sekelip mata je Tuhan boleh balik2kan hati kita, org yg warak boleh bertukar jahat, dan org yg hantu pn boleh, tidak mustahil, untuk berubah menjadi org alim...kdg2 lbh alim dr org yg umum tahu mmg alim...

Jd apa lagi yg ingin aku sampaikan di sini?

Korang semua, please....jgn judge org, jgn cpat buat kesimpulan, dan jgn terlalu bencikan seseorang...sbb kdg2 bile kte terlalu benci seseorg, alih2 kita akn dpt blk apa yg kita bencikan tu...alah, bak kata org2 Melayu 'terkena balik batang hidung sendiri'...

And please, be more critical-minded and open urself up to ppl...pls don't be crammed up in a box, surrounded by the same mentality of ur clan / folks / ppl whatever...the world is massive n kita xtau ttg semuanya...

TQ.

*Poof!*

Him : "Sarah, aku sebenarnye, mmg dah lame suke kt ko..cume slame ni aku kne pendam perasaan aku...kau pn tau kn...knape..."

*kaget*

Me : "Aku fhm...Tp... aku igt, kite cume kwn rpt je..tu yg ko nk kn.."

Him : "Tipulah aku xde perasaan 'istimewa' kt ko Sarah...slame ni kn aku slalu lyn ko walaupun kdg2 kte byk gaduh...Tu la tandenye aku caring sgt kt ko dan ntah mcm mane..aku still boleh lekat kt ko..ko xpnah wat aku caring kt mane2 pempuan lg slame ni Sarah...Aku sggup tgu ko walau 10 tahun skali pn, Sarah..aku syg kt ko...aku sebenarnye jeles stiap kali ko cte sal ex2 ko mahupun laki2 len yg dok syok kt ko...ko cume utk aku je Sarah!"

Me : (mengalir airmata terharu) aku syg ko jgk...cume aku takut nk ckp kt ko...

Him : Dah, skg ko xyah ckp pape..babab kang! Hehe....jom kite naik pelamin, syg...ramai org dah tgu tu...

*poof!*

Bangun dari tido....~

Ngeeee~ ;")

Women Empowerment

Yeah, yeah, the music video might look cheesy, but I sooooo love these lyrics for 'Cinderella', originally sang by a Swedish girl band, 'Play' back in 2001... now, these type of songs are what they should produce more for girls naodeis~ ;)

CINDERELLA

When I was just a little girl

My momma used to tuck me into bed

And she'd read me a story

It always was about

A princess in distress

And how a guy would save her

And end up with the glory

I'd lie in bed and think about

The person that I wanted to be

Then one day I realized the

Fairy tale life, wasn't for me

I don't wanna be like Cinderella

Sittin' in a dark ol' dusty cellar

Waitin' for somebody to come

And set me free

I don't wanna be someone waiting

For a handsome prince to come

And save me all I will survive

Unless somebody's on my side

Don't wanna be, no, no, no, no

Oh yes, I'd rather rescue myself

I can save my own

(I can save)

Dragons, I can dream my own dreams

(My own dreams)

My knight in shining armor is me

So I'm gonna set me free

I don't wanna be like Cinderella

Sittin' in a dark ol' dusty cellar

Waitin' for somebody to come

And set me free

Kau Jangan Tertipulah Dengan Luaran Aku Yg Konon Angelic Ni!

Bukak paper, keluar mcm2 cerita masalah sosial remaja Melayu Islam. Seks bebas lah, clubbing la, arak la, buang anak n bla3...

Apa tindakan kita? Mcm biasa, mengutuk, menghentam "hai, anak sape la ni...x ajar...buruk perangai xleh wat bini..." bla3...

Lepas tu, kite sambung balik tgk TV or whatever.

Pernah x kite terfikir, "kenapa agaknya jadi mcm tu?"

Jarang kot. Yang aku pernah nmpk selalunya, masyarakat konservatif dan kolektivistik mcm kite ni lbh gemar 'go wit the flow' n membenci, menghukum mereka2 yg 'deviant' instead of finding the punca or solutions whatsoever.

Aku prnh dgr org ckp, x elok kutuk or benci something tu lebih2 sgt..sbb 1 hari bnda tu akan dtg blk kt kite...it's true..

Masyarakat kalau nk bg nasihat pun, dorang masih lagi gemar menyampaikan dgn unsur2 sinis mcm 'pandai buat, pandai la tanggung'...mcm ada elemen 'padan muka' di situ tapi disampaikan dlm nada yg berlapik lah...konon mcm dorg sdri xkn buat bnda2 mcm tu, konon.

To me, cara plg elok nk btolkan dgn budak2' sosial' ni (if u want), is not by giving a ceramah yg sejibik mcm dlm ceramah2 kt skolah2 or radio n remind them with balasan neraka... we hv to be close to them, understand them n talk their language...yes, talk their language....slow2 dlu, bg reasoning yg logical, instead of 'spritual', then mst punya lah akan masuk jarum...it's all about communication n persuasion, baby...heh..tu pn nk ajar ka? Speak their language n buat dgn cara berhikmah..heh,..Nabi dlu pn xde nk dok smpaikan ajaran die kt org2 kafir dgn cara extreme...

Golongan yg lbh senior yg x membesar dlm era MTV, AF, YouTube, swearing...ah, mcm2 lagi la..mmg la xkn phm peel budak2 skrg...tp yg phm tu, aku salute! Hey, life is tough now even for a 11-year-old, no doubt about it.

Anyways, buat golongan muda mcm u ol ni, sila dalami persoalan retorik aku tu dlm2....'why'? Alah, xkn korg2 dlu2 xpnah ade rase 'curious' dlm diri? Nak2 zmn remaja dlu? Or, maybe zmn2 korg jauh dr family n ade total ultimate freedom utk buat ape saje yg korg nk?

Look, aku kt cni bkn la nk suruh u ol yg baik2 ni go against the rule of our religion n culture (though I prefer religion than culture) just to get what u want. U wanna have sex with ur partner in ur bedroom? U wanna smoke pot / ciggie etc? U wanna dress sexily n hit the clubs with ur girlfriends? Go ahead, but remember, we're Muslims and Malays (translation : Kalau nak kene halau rumah or kene pelangkung makbapak, buat lah)

Do u get me? Yes, we HAVE to abstain from all those wrongdoings cos we're Muslims and Malays. But, as far as nature goes, human being, specifically teenagers, no, hormone-laden teens n youths, have a thing called 'CURIOSITY' in them. They WANT to do things that r forbidden to them.

Don't lie to me, tudung-ed girls that I know of, paling kuat desire 'nakal' dorang ialah to dress sexily n look 'nice', baru lah moden n up-to-dateyo...tp xleh, makbapak mrh kang.. (well, me included, heh to tu dlu la)....hey, if u got it, flaunt it kan? I mean, it's natural... tgk lah trend2 skrg...1 malaysia kan.. the media, peer pressure...n kata2 org (pkai tdg tp buat maksiat) lah yg membuatkan mereka2 lagi mahu turutkan kemahuan ini bukan?

SO yeah, every teenage girl DO dream of it, muslim girls included...to look desirable, young n up to date...

Lagi 1, about wanting to have a bf.. mcm aku time zmn2 masuk matrik dlu, bru nk ade bf kot.. tu pn sbb tgk org keliling ade bf mcm best je...so aku pn go wit the flow la jgk...see it's all abt peer pressure..

Ckp psl hal cintan cintun ni, kte move on to kes2 buang anak.... pernah x kite selami budak2 ni as to y dorg nk wat bnda2 terkutuk tu? Yg kite cume tau ckp 'ei,, bodo punya pempuan! habih la keturunan die...da xde dara tu, xde sape laki yg nak'..n bla3...as usual...

Girls usually give 'it' to the guy they want because of love.. L.O.V.E..but the problem is, guy will then turn up to be a real dick by saying that that girl's being a slut cos gave 'it' b4 her marriage...eventhough, yes, usually the guys r the one who ASKED for it. Worse, kes2 buang anak ni, pernah x kte tgk muke si lelaki tu dipampang kt paper? Knp mst muke gurls tu je yg berslh? Look, mmg lah gurl tu "dungu" sbb "x fikir sblm buat", tapi... tp antara gurl n boy, sape yg ade 9 akal? Sape yg sepatutnya bimbing kaum yg lemah? Sape? Btol lah...dah la lelaki makin pupus skrg, yg ada pun stok2 yg x berkualiti.. *geram*...mmg dunia nk kiamat..

Knp yg lelaki cpat benar nk lpas tanggungjawab n run away when the girl's already being knocked up? Kate nk sehidup semati...sehidup semati my ass... Die sdri pn berdosa skali, so..share la dosa ngn ur gf! Pernah x kite tgk kes buang anak kt Western countries? Bru2 ni aku de terdgr sorg white boy ckp 'hey, If my girl is pregnant with my kid, I'd man up and take responsibility of her'...now that's music to the ear.. Knp agaknye Malay culture yg sgt2 "cultured" boleh jd lg binatang dr Western cultures yg sememangnye bkn nye ade culture pon?

*sigh*

I don't know, not that I'm trying to act all saintly here, believe me, I myself am not excepted from having sinned myself. But it's just that, whenever I see these girls, Malay girls, who live a very social life, even drank liquor, had premarital sex, had their babies, or even aborted them to hide their 'shame', I pity them, I don't go haywire with 'murtad! murtad!' with them, I just...it's sort of like, I understand why they act that way.. I even befriended some of them and turn out, slalunye girls mcm dorg nila yg lbh honest dr girls2 yg bertdg mcm aku nih..but then, bkn la nk ckp sal tdg...tp aku tau...dorg mcm tu sbb they're confident ppl...they know what they want in life n persistent about it...and they're daredevils n risktakers...that's y...but not that I'm encouraging us Malay girls to go freehair and have a social life, just that, come on, there are more to these girls than what they look like outside..and honesty...now that's what I love in girls...I really2 hate hypocrite girls and girls who talk behind their friends' back..n usually these types of girls r the ones yg ade konon 'good girl image'..lg2 yg bertdg labuh...suke act as if they know better than everyone else..

*sigh*

Yes, it's the damned Westerns who have screwed up our Malay Muslim generation, everyone says that...we have soooo many bad influence from TV, radio etc. But hasn't it occured to u that, hey, we Malays are equally becoming social deviants, sometimes even worse than the Westerns themselves? (read : Mangga magazines, Akademi Fantasia, Melodi, urgh..bla3..)

So who's at fault? Is it the teens / youths alone? Yes, we do admit sometimes they come from good families, good parents, even religious parents...and we question our surprise , why is it happening so and so...

Hasn't it ever occured to you, that the more you restrict ppl from doing a certain thing, the more that thing becomes more interesting and intriguing to them? (lagi dilarang, lagi nak dibuat?)

Pernah x korang rase, zmn kecik2 dlu, bile korang nak pegi main kt satu tempat n mak korg larang jgn pegi tmpt tu....korg mst ade lg rase nk pegi kn? Walaupun dilarang...cube kalau reverse psychology, rse2nye korg pn give up n mls nk pegi...

And, knp agak2 masalah sosial byk berlaku kt Malays? Ape jadi kt Chinese and Indians? Kite tgk, selalunye Chinese and Indians la yg lg rajin study mudy, berjaya n dpt kerja bgus2? We? Sibuk dgn hal2 rumahtangga artis n gosip dgn jiran sblh... Urgh~

One more factor la...there ARE certain kids who just resent and TIRED of being 'nice', or pertaining a 'good girl / boy image'....it's no surprise to me when these news about 'eh, xsangke budak tu buat keje2 tu...bla3..' arises, bcos u know what, sometimes these ppl tend to be either gullible, or pressured by peers to do certain2 'bad' things, or just plain 'daring' to change who they are just for the sake of....wait for it...ATTENTION... tapi mslhnye once they try to act all deviant, ppl will judge them juz for that ONE thing they screwed up..

*sigh*

So my conclusion is, dear Malay society, friends, parents of friends, older people, please be understanding and listen to us new generation Malay kids more. .It doesn't hurt to listen, or at least please please please explain to us why we can't do certain2 things...we're very curious ppl and will only take logical explanation to not do what we want to do..and fellow friends, kalau korg nmpk kwn korg tu skema rama ke ape, tlg lah...xpyh la pressure them to be all 'bad'...they'll come out of their shell when they want to..don't go all screwing them and when they do, u'll ditch them.

Ass.