I really need to post here more often! I recently heard from a Blogger that I followed many, many years ago. This made me think about all the Blogger friends I've made and then lost over the years as they stopped posting and their domains were deleted or taken over.  I'm part of the problem - not posting on a regular basis.  I need to re-start!

Chastity Cages

 I recently started my journey into chastity cages.  I had know about them for many years thanks to the Internet and started feeling that they would complement my crossdressing and submissiveness.

There are so many chastity cages available - Amazon and Etsy are easy places to find them, as are adult stores/websites and there are many manufacturers that have their own websites.

I found my first one on Amazon. It was a pink silicone cage with a few different sized rings and extensions. For a first try I thought this would be a good place to start as silicone is easy to cut through if I ran into problems.  I liked the texture and the different sized base rings.  I found the base ring that fit the best, and started out with all of the extensions installed. I removed the extensions until I found the right level of length restriction. However, the sleeve was too a bit too big in diameter for my taste - I would have liked a smaller diameter sleeve to feel more constricted.  Overall this is a good place to start for someone with no experience with cages or someone looking for a non-metallic and flexible cage.

My next cage was also from Amazon and it was a rigid plastic cage.  I bought the standard size in clear with sparkles (fun!), and it also had multiple base rings.  I liked this one better than the flexible silicone cage. It felt much more secure / snug / hands-off. Erections were much more confined. The only dislike was the lock mechanism. I would have preferred a padlock rather than the insertable rotating lock.  The alignment between the base ring and sleeve made the insertable rotating lock sometimes hard to remove. I guess that's the point of a chastity cage, but I think its more of a manufacturing measurement tolerance issue.

I considered a metal cage for the next. There are so many different designs available that I got lost in the choices. While looking for a metal cage I found penis sleeves, again something I had heard about a long time ago. I though this might be something to try. I'm hoping this one from Amazon will be a good one, so I'll give you my review once I receive it. I'm hoping that it will do several things. Primarily I want it to prevent me from stroking my cock (similar to a cage) while confining it when flaccid and erect. I can stroke the sleeve but not my cock. Secondarily provide some constriction around my cock and balls. And lastly it may provide some level of humiliation as it will be a visual reminder that it is bigger than me, that I'm in a cage, and if I do show anyone else that they can laugh at me.

I also bought a new pink dress and pink stockings to wear with it. Panties and bra I have. The sleeve will be hard to hide in the panties.

While looking for the metal cages and sleeves, i was looking at the very smallest cages - they kind of look like a button with a ring around it. To me this could be the ultimate in confinement and humiliation - there's not much to see other than one's balls.  However, I did find something new - a penis clip or fufu. Amazon gave no clue as to how to use it, but I did find some info on Reddit.  Basically, you push your penis and balls inward and behind the clip, pull the scrotum flesh out through the middle oval, and then spread it out and push it behind the inside of the outer ring. Its easier to see a video of someone doing it.

Anyway, the effect of wearing the fufu is that the penis and balls are not visible as they are behind the clip inside the body, giving the wearer the look sort of like an engorged vagina. I think this would provide the most humiliation and submissiveness as the male is visibly emasculated, especially if crossdressed.  The downside I see with this is that there's no lock to enforce the wearer's conformity. I need to do more research...