Tag : Indonesia - Asep Haryono | Bonnie Blue and the Harassment of the Indonesian Flag in London - Powered by Blogger

Recently, the name Bonnie Blue became popular on social media in Indonesia. Many people were confused and asked what really happened.

Hold your horses. Who Is Bonnie Blue?
Bonnie Blue is a British online content creator. Earlier this month, she was in Bali and got into trouble with Indonesian authorities. After an investigation, she was deported from Indonesia and banned from returning for several years. At that point, many Indonesians thought the issue was finished.

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However, things got worse.

After returning to the UK, a video appeared online showing Bonnie Blue near the Indonesian Embassy in London. In the video, she wore the Indonesian flag attached to her clothing in a way that made it drag on the ground while she walked. For many Indonesians, this felt very disrespectful.

In the video, she was seen wearing the Indonesian national flag (Merah Putih) attached to her clothes in a way that made it touch and drag on the ground while she walked. We saw this as extremely disrespectful to  a simbol of a sovereign of a country Of Indonesia
Source : MIFA TV Youtube Channel

Following the immoral content case in Bali,
Bonnie Blue is up to no good again by insulting the Indonesian flag
See the video

Source : VIVA Youtube Channel

Freedom of Speech or Disrespect?
After the controversy involving Bonnie Blue and the Indonesian flag, some people began asking an important question: Was this freedom of speech, or did it cross a line?

Freedom of speech allows people to express opinions, criticism, and ideas without fear. It protects open discussion, even when opinions are unpopular. However, freedom of speech is not unlimited.

In this case, the issue is not about expressing an opinion or criticizing Indonesia, my country. I have an opinion that the controversy comes from how the Indonesian national flag was treated. A national flag is not just fabric. It represents a sovereign country, its people, and its history.

For many Indonesians, seeing the Merah Putih dragged on the ground felt like a deliberate act of disrespect, not a form of political or artistic expression. That is why the reaction was strong and emotional.

Is it harassment? That depends on local laws, especially since the incident happened outside Indonesia. Is it hate? Some people believe it shows contempt toward a nation, even if it was meant as provocation or attention-seeking.

This situation reminds us that freedom of expression works best when balanced with cultural awareness and respect. In a connected world, actions can travel far and their impact can be bigger than expected.

My friends...

The Indonesian flag is not just a symbol. It represents independence, history, and sacrifice. That’s why people reacted strongly. Social media quickly filled with criticism, and public figures also spoke out.

The Indonesian government later made a formal complaint to British authorities. Even though the incident happened outside Indonesia, officials said that disrespecting a national flag is not acceptable.

Many Indonesians see her actions as disrespectful to the Indonesian flag, which is why the reaction was so strong. Please do not do that again.

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | One God, Many Beliefs: An Islamic Reflection on Christmas, Jesus, and Respect - Powered by Blogger

DISCLAIMER : This article reflects my personal beliefs as a Muslim and is written with respect for all faiths.

Every year when December comes, the world seems to slow down just a little. Streets light up, songs about peace and love play everywhere, and people greet each other with words like Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays. For many, it is a joyful time. For others, especially those of different faiths, it can also bring questions, reflections, and sometimes confusion.

As a Muslim, I often get questions like: Do Muslims believe in Jesus?Why don’t Muslims celebrate Christmas?Why does Islam reject the Trinity?

This blog post is not written to attack or convert anyone. It is simply a casual and friendly reflection from an Islamic point of view, while fully respecting other religions and beliefs. Faith is personal, and mutual respect matters more than winning arguments.

Jesus in Islam: Nabi Isa (Peace Be Upon Him)
Let’s start with something many people don’t realize: Muslims do believe in Jesus. In Islam, Jesus is known as Nabi Isa (عيسى عليه السلام), and he is one of the most honored prophets. Muslims believe that:

• He was born miraculously to Maryam (Mary), who is deeply respected in the Qur’an 

• He performed miracles by the permission of Allah 

• He preached worship of One God • He will return near the end of time

So when Muslims hear about Jesus during Christmas season, it does not feel foreign or strange. We respect him deeply. However, the difference lies in who Jesus is believed to be.Christians believe Jesus is divine the Son of God. Muslims believe he is a prophet, not God, and not the son of God. This difference is important, but it does not cancel out respect.

One God, many beliefs an illustration symbolizing respect, dialogue, and understanding between Islam and Christianity.
Illustration generated using AI for editorial purposes.

Why Muslims Do Not Celebrate Christmas
Many people assume that Muslims reject Christmas because they reject Jesus. That is not true.Muslims do not celebrate Christmas mainly because:

• The Qur’an does not mention a date for Jesus’ birth 

• Islam does not support celebrating religious events that are not part of its teachings 

• Christmas today is both a religious and cultural holiday, often centered around beliefs Islam does not share

This does not mean Muslims are against joy, family gatherings, or kindness. Islam encourages all of these but within its own religious framework. Many Muslims still say things like Happy Holidays or respond politely to Christmas wishes. That is about good manners, not religious agreement.

The Trinity: Why It Feels Confusing to Muslims
One of the biggest questions Muslims have about Christianity is the concept of the Trinity: God the Father God the Son and God the Holy Spirit Christians say this is one God in three persons.

From an Islamic point of view, this concept feels confusing and difficult to understand. Islam teaches absolute monotheism, known as Tawhid.This belief is clearly summarized in Surah Al-Ikhlas, one of the shortest but most powerful chapters in the Qur’an:

“Say: He is Allah, the One. Allah, the Eternal Refuge. He neither begets nor is born. And there is none comparable to Him.” (Qur’an 112)

For Muslims, this verse answers the question of God completely and clearly. Allah is One no division, no partners, no offspring. This is why Muslims respectfully disagree with ideas like the Trinity or the Son of God. It is not confusion it is a different theological foundation. Is Christmas “Made Up”?

Another common discussion point is whether Christmas is divinely commanded or human-made.Historically speaking: The Bible does not state December 25 as Jesus’ birth date The date was chosen centuries later Many Christmas traditions come from older cultural and seasonal customs

From an Islamic perspective, this reinforces the idea that Christmas is a human-established tradition, not a divinely mandated event. That said, this does not mean it is meaningless to Christians. Faith gives meaning to traditions, and people experience spirituality in different ways.

Respecting Differences Without Compromising Belief

Here is an important point: believing Islam is the truth does not require disrespecting others. Muslims are confident in their faith. Islam teaches clarity, consistency, and pure monotheism. At the same time, Islam also teaches adab good manners, humility, and respect.

The Qur’an itself says there is no compulsion in religion.

So when Muslims interact with Christians, Jews, or people of any other belief, the goal should not be to argue aggressively, but to: Explain beliefs honestlym Listen respectfully and Maintain peace

Disagreement does not equal hatred.

Why Interfaith Conversations Matter
In today’s global world, we interact with people from many cultures and religions online, at work, and in daily life. Misunderstandings happen easily. Someone may think Muslims reject Jesus. Someone else may think Christians worship three gods. These ideas usually come from lack of communication, not bad intentions. Talking openly but politely helps remove fear and stereotypes.

I can say: “This is my belief as a Muslim.”, “I respect your faith, even though mine is different.” And “We see God differently, and that’s okay.” These simple sentences can keep conversations peaceful and meaningful.

Conclusion
Faith is deeply personal. For Muslims, the message of One God as described in Surah Al-Ikhlas is complete and satisfying. It leaves no confusion about who Allah is.For Christians, Jesus and Christmas hold deep spiritual meaning.

We do not need to agree to respect each other. As a Muslim, I am confident in Islam as the truth. At the same time, I believe good character, honesty, and respect are just as important as belief itself.

If this reflection feels uncomfortable to some, that is understandable. Differences can be uncomfortable. But respectful dialogue is always better than silence or hostility. At the end of the day, peace begins with understanding and understanding begins with listening.

Happy holidays to those who celebrate, and peace to everyone. 

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Tag : Indonesia, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Eating with Bare Hands in Indonesia - Powered by Blogger

Indonesia is one of the most incredible countries in the world, known for its rich national character and diverse cultures. Today, Indonesia is gaining more international recognition not only for its amazing cuisines, but also for its deeply rooted cultural heritage. Among these traditions, two simple yet powerful practices often surprise and captivate people from other parts of the world: kissing hands known in Bahasa Indonesia as cium tangan and eating with bare hands.

At first glance, these practices may seem old-fashioned or even unusual, especially to people who come from highly modern and fast-paced societies. In many countries, physical contact such as hand-kissing may feel too personal, and eating without cutlery may be considered impolite. However, in Indonesia, these traditions carry deep meanings. They reflect values of respect, humility, togetherness, gratitude, and strong emotional bonds between people.

Growing Up with These Traditions
When I was a child, especially during my elementary school years, I saw many children my age naturally practicing these traditions in their daily lives. Kissing our parents’ hands before going to school or after returning home was not something we learned from textbooks or formal lessons it was simply part of everyday life. We did it almost automatically, without being told, because we saw adults and older siblings doing the same.


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Eating with bare hands during family meals was also very common. Whether it was breakfast, lunch, or dinner, sitting together and sharing food using our hands created a special atmosphere. There was a sense of closeness and equality at the table. No one felt distant or superior. Everyone shared the same dishes, the same space, and the same experience.

These simple routines shaped our attitudes from a very young age. They taught us manners, respect, and emotional awareness in a natural way. They were not strict rules enforced by fear or punishment, but habits formed through love, repetition, and example

This is my hand as I eat a traditional Indonesian meal with bare hands, a daily practice rooted in simplicity and togetherness.  Photo by me

I am on the right side having meals with bare hands in Bali together with staff and personnel from KangGuru Indonesia, most of them Australian nationals, sharing a relaxed and friendly moment.

Samuel Donner is a U.S.-based content creator and social media personality, best known for his work on TikTok and other platforms. He is recognized as a TikTok star and online personality, and he is also involved in podcasting and storytelling content.Recently, he visited Bali for his content and was seen enjoying meals with his bare hands, just like the local Balinese people.
Source : IG @samueldonner

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The Meaning Behind Eating with Bare Hands
Eating with bare hands is not just about tradition it is also about connection. In many parts of Indonesia, food is enjoyed not only with the mouth, but also with the sense of touch. Using hands allows people to feel the texture and temperature of the food, creating a more intimate and mindful eating experience.

This practice also symbolizes togetherness. When people eat with their hands from shared dishes, it encourages patience, sharing, and mutual respect. People become more aware of others at the table. They take only what they need and make sure everyone has enough. In this way, eating becomes a social activity, not just a physical necessity.

For many Indonesians, eating with bare hands also represents simplicity and humility. It reminds us that happiness does not always come from luxury or sophistication. Sometimes, it comes from simple moments sharing rice, side dishes, and laughter with family or friends.

Seen Through Foreign Eyes
In recent years, many foreigners have shown interest in these Indonesian traditions. Through YouTube videos, travel vlogs, and cultural documentaries, people from different countries have expressed admiration for the simplicity and warmth of Indonesian daily life.

Many of them say they feel touched by how children respect their parents and elders. Some are surprised to see families eating together, using their hands, laughing, and talking without distractions. For people who live in stressful and highly individualistic environments, these scenes feel peaceful and meaningful.

What Indonesians often consider ordinary turns out to be extraordinary to outsiders. These traditions represent something many people are searching for: connection, calmness, and genuine human interaction.

Adopting Indonesian Values
For foreigners who live in Indonesia for a long time, these practices often become familiar and comfortable. Some begin to practice kissing hands or “cium tangan” in Indonesian language when greeting older Indonesians. Others start eating with bare hands, especially when sharing meals with local families.


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Slowly, without realizing it, they adopt parts of Indonesian culture into their own lives. What once felt strange or outdated begins to feel logical and deeply human. These traditions stop being seen as cultural curiosities and instead become meaningful life lessons.

Tradition in a Modern World
In a world that is becoming more digital and fast-paced, traditions like especially eating with bare hands may seem old-fashioned. However, they offer an important reminder: modern life does not have to erase human values. Technology can move forward, cities can grow taller, and lifestyles can change but respect, humility, and togetherness should remain. Indonesian culture shows that tradition and modernity can coexist. Simple gestures can still carry powerful meanings.

Through eating with bare hands and cium tangan, Indonesia quietly teaches the world that true progress is not only about innovation and speed. It is also about staying connected to family, to community, and to our shared humanity.

My friends...

Have you ever experienced eating with bare hands or greeting elders with cium tangan in Indonesia?

Share your thoughts, memories, or experiences in the comments below and let’s keep this cultural conversation alive ..


Happy weekend everyone

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"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | Antisemitism - Powered by Blogger

Hello world. How is it going?
Hope you all got a fabulous day, right
Happy Tuesday my friends

As we all knew that on 14 December 2025, a terrorist-style mass shooting took place at a Hanukkah celebration near Bondi Beach in Sydney’s eastern suburbs during the first night of the Jewish festival. Around 1,000 people had gathered for the “Chanukah by the Sea” event when two gunmen, believed to be a father and son, opened fire from a footbridge beside Archer Park

Many media reported that by the end of the incident, 16 people were confirmed dead, including a 10-year-old girl, an 87-year-old Holocaust survivor, and community leaders at the event; dozens more were wounded, including children and police officers. One of the shooters was killed by police, and the other was wounded and taken to hospital in critical condition. A bystander was widely praised for tackling and disarming one of the attackers, likely saving many lives.

The attack began in the early evening and lasted about 10 minutes, with witnesses describing chaotic scenes as hundreds of people fled in panic. Authorities and international media quickly characterised the shooting as a targeted antisemitic terrorist attack.

Today article is not talking about the moslem guy as a genuine hero which got internationally attention by his bravery and widely praised for tackling and disarming one of the attackers. I am interested in discussing why people associated as a targeted antisemitic terrorist attack. 

The word “antisemitic” became widely known and internationally recognized during the Palestine–Israel confrontation

My friends......


The prejudice and discrimination against Jews, has a long and disturbing history that spans centuries. It is rooted in stereotypes, misinformation, and irrational fear, leading to widespread persecution and violence against Jewish communities.Antisemitism persists to this day and can manifest in various forms, including hate speech,

vandalism, exclusionary policies, and even acts of terrorism targeted specifically at Jews.Research has shown that exposure to hate speech and discriminatory attitudes can contribute to the normalization of antisemitism, leading to a decreased sensitivity towards its offensive nature and an increase in inter group contempt towards Jewish individuals.

Furthermore, societal factors such as media representations and political discourse can either perpetuate or challenge antisemitic beliefs.Jenkins and colleagues conducted a study to examine negative attitudes toward Arab-Americans.

Their research found that participants were less willing to interact socially with Arab-Americans compared to other ethnic groups, indicating a bias and discrimination towards this specific group. This supports the idea that discrimination and prejudice exist across various ethnicity and can impact different groups differently.

Antisemitism, the prejudice and discrimination against Jews, has a long and disturbing history that spans centuries. It is rooted in stereotypes, misinformation, and irrational fear, leading to widespread persecution and violence against Jewish communities.Antisemitism persists to this day and can manifest in various forms, including hate speech, vandalism, exclusionary policies, and even acts of terrorism targeted specifically at Jews.

Research has shown that exposure to hate speech and discriminatory attitudes can contribute to the normalization of antisemitism, leading to a decreased sensitivity towards its offensive nature and an increase in intergroup contempt towards Jewish individuals. Furthermore, societal factors such as media representations and political discourse can either perpetuate or challenge antisemitic beliefs.Jenkins and colleagues conducted a study to examine negative attitudes toward Arab-Americans.


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Their research found that participants were less willing to interact socially with Arab-Americans compared to other ethnic groups, indicating a bias and discrimination towards this specific group. This supports the idea that discrimination and prejudice exist across various ethnicities and can impact different groups differently.

Antisemitism is not only a form of hate speech but also a deeply ingrained prejudice and discrimination against Jewish people. It is characterized by negative stereotypes, scapegoating, and systemic oppression that have persisted throughout history.These biases and discriminatory behaviors not only marginalize and harm Jewish individuals but also contribute to the perpetuation of harmful stereotypes and the exclusion of Jewish communities from society.


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In order to address this issue, it is important to educate individuals about the harms of antisemitism, promote inter group understanding and empathy, and actively work towards dismantling the structural and cultural factors that contribute to antisemitism. Antisemitism, a form of prejudice and discrimination against Jewish individuals, has a long-standing history marked by stereotypes, scapegoating, and systemicAntisemitism: A Historical and Present-day Issue Antisemitism: A Historical and Present-day IssueAntisemitism:


A Historical and Present-day Issue
Antisemitism, the prejudice and discrimination against Jews, has a long and troubling history that spans centuries. It is rooted in negative stereotypes, misinformation, and irrational fear, leading to widespread persecution and violence against Jewish communities (Brustein & King, 2004).

Historically, antisemitism has manifested - in various forms, including pogroms, expulsions, and the Holocaust, which saw the systematic murder of six million Jews during World War II. Today, antisemitism persists in different guises, from hate speech and vandalism to exclusionary policies and even acts of terrorism.

Research has shown that exposure to hate speech and discriminatory attitudes can contribute to the normalization of antisemitism, leading to a decreased sensitivity towards its offensive nature and an increase in inter group contempt towards Jewish individuals (The Surprising Way to Tackle Prejudice in the Real World, 2023). Furthermore, societal factors such as media representations and political discourse can either perpetuate or challenge antisemitic beliefs.

The impacts of antisemitism are far-reaching, as it not only harms Jewish individuals and communities but also undermines the values of diversity, inclusion, and human rights. To address this issue, it is crucial to educate individuals about the harms of antisemitism, promote inter group understanding and empathy, and actively work towards dismantling the structural and cultural factors that contribute to this form of prejudice and discrimination


What Happens Now
This is a complex and sensitive issue, and it’s important to separate criticism of a government’s policies from prejudice against an entire people or religion. Here’s a careful breakdown:

1. Protesting actions vs. attacking a people: Protests against the Israeli government’s actions in Gaza are usually aimed at specific policies or military actions, not at Jewish people as a whole. Criticizing a state’s military operations is not automatically antisemitic

2.   Allegations of antisemitism: Governments or officials sometimes label criticism as antisemitic to delegitimize protests or shift the narrative. While antisemitism is real and serious, it is important not to conflate legitimate political protest with hate speech against Jewish people. 

3. Global perspective: Around the world, people have the right to peacefully protest human rights violations. Accusing all protesters of antisemitism risks silencing important conversations about human rights and accountability. 

4.Nuanced approach: Each protest or statement needs to be examined individually. Are protesters targeting a state’s policies, or are they spreading hatred against Jews as a group? This distinction is crucial.

In short, while antisemitism is unacceptable, labeling all criticism of Israel as antisemitic oversimplifies a complex situation and risks undermining genuine human rights advocacy.

why this labeling happens politically and strategically?
And how it affects international responses.

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Tag : Indonesia, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | When Freedom Meets Tradition: The Bonnie Blue Bali Case - Powered by Blogger

Hello there
How is it going?

Do you know about Bali my friends?

Well Indonesia, especially Bali, is often imagined by Western visitors as a land of total freedom. Beaches, parties, nightlife, and social media content create an image that Bali is a place where almost anything is allowed. However, the recent case involving adult content creator Bonnie Blue shows a very different reality

This story is not merely about a foreign tourist being deported. It is a clear reminder that Indonesia has its own moral standards, cultural values, and legal boundaries. For Western travelers, influencers, and digital content creators, this case delivers an important message: freedom in your own country does not automatically apply when you are a guest in another nation.

Adult film actress Tia Billinger, better known as Bonnie Blue, has been deported by immigration authorities after being found to have abused her visa. Bonnie was discovered to have used a visa on arrival, which is normally intended for tourism purposes, to create commercial content.

Please do not misunderstand the situation. British adult film star Bonnie Blue, who appeared in court in Bali after being detained earlier this week, was not producing pornographic content while on the Island of the Gods. The case attracted public attention mainly because of her professional background in the adult film industry.

The Indonesian police investigation found no evidence that Bonnie Blue produced or was involved in the production of adult content during her stay in Indonesia. As a result, the primary charges that were initially brought against her were declared unproven.

The court therefore imposed only a minor penalty related to a traffic violation, which was the only offense supported by law. This resulted in a fine and her subsequent deportation.

Bonnie Blue is the online persona of a British adult content creator who became internationally known through controversial and provocative online activities. In many Western countries, adult content creation is legal and often socially accepted. Social media platforms allow creators to gain popularity, influence, and income with few restrictions. Because of this environment, some creators believe their lifestyle and work can continue anywhere in the world.

DEPORTED: An Adult content creator Bonnie Blue is being deported from Bali, Indonesia, a court finding her guilty of a traffic offence. 
Image from Pikiran Rakyat Youtube Channel

Check one of the news videos here

Source : Pikiran Rakyat Youtube Channel

Indonesia, however, operates under a very different social and legal framework. Morality, public decency, and respect for cultural harmony play a central role in daily life. What may be considered entertainment or personal expression in the West can be viewed as inappropriate or offensive in Indonesia.

In early December 2025, local residents in Bali reported suspicious activity at a rented villa. The concerns were related to possible filming that could violate Indonesian law. Acting on these reports, police and immigration officers conducted an inspection. Bonnie Blue and several foreign men were questioned, and authorities found filming equipment and other materials that raised serious concerns.

Several Indonesian local and national media outlets covered this case, and their reporting focused more on law, culture, and immigration, not sensationalism.

Indonesian media such as Detik, Liputan6, and Tempo reported that Bali police did not find proven pornographic content, but the case continued due to immigration violations and public concern. Local residents were cited as reporting the activity because it was seen as potentially harming Bali’s cultural image. Police emphasized that Indonesia takes public morality and visa misuse seriously, 

Later, investigators clarified that no evidence of distributed pornographic content was found. This detail led many international observers to question why the case resulted in deportation. The answer lies not only in criminal law, but also in immigration rules and cultural responsibility.

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Indonesia strictly prohibits the misuse of tourist visas. A tourist visa is intended solely for leisure activities, not for work or monetized content creation. Filming content for profit, including social media or entertainment projects, is considered work under Indonesian immigration law. Authorities concluded that Bonnie Blue had violated these regulations by creating professional content while holding a tourist visa.

Beyond visa issues, the case touched a deeper concern: public morality. Indonesia has strong laws governing decency and pornography, reflecting the values of a society where religion, family, and community play a major role. Even in Bali, which is often seen as more open and liberal, moral boundaries still exist and are taken seriously.

For Indonesian authorities, allowing activities that appear to challenge these values could harm social harmony and the country’s image. Bali is not only a tourist destination; it is home to millions of people who live by tradition, religious rituals, and communal respect. Protecting that balance is a responsibility the government does not take lightly.


A Lesson About Morality, Law, and Cultural Respect in Indonesia
As a result, Bonnie Blue was deported and reportedly banned from re entering Indonesia for several years. While some international audiences viewed this action as excessive, from Indonesia’s perspective it was a firm but necessary response

To fully understand this situation, Western readers must look beyond their own cultural lens. Indonesia is a country where personal freedom is closely linked to social responsibility. Actions are not judged only by personal intent, but by their impact on the wider community. What one person sees as self expression may be seen by others as disrespect.

This case also highlights a recurring cultural misunderstanding. Many Western visitors believe that Bali operates under different rules from the rest of Indonesia, or that tourists are exempt from local laws. In reality, Bali is an inseparable part of Indonesia, and national laws apply equally to locals and foreigners.


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The digital age has made this misunderstanding more common. Cameras, smartphones, and social media platforms allow people to create content anywhere at any time. However, online visibility does not remove legal responsibility. Content created in one country is still subject to that country’s laws, regardless of where it is published or consumed.

For influencers, digital nomads, and long term tourists, this case should serve as a serious warning. Traveling abroad requires more than a passport and a camera. It requires cultural awareness, legal understanding, and humility. Learning basic laws, respecting local values, and adjusting behavior are not limitations; they are signs of respect.

Don’t forget to go shopping anytime you’re in Bali. It’s me in the photo, buying some lovely and unique Bali souvenirs to take home

I miss Bali so much. I have five years of experience as a volunteer worker in the Indonesia–Australia Partnership projects from 2001 to 2005. During that time, I visited Bali ten times, and every meeting was always held at Indonesia Austealia Language Foundation (I/A/L/F) Sesetan Denpasar, Bali

It was a long time ago, but it has never slipped from my mind. I have so many friends there. This photo was taken at IALF Denpasar, Bali, during a lunch moment with Australian teachers and members of the board and trustees of KangGuru Indonesia.

 Bali should not be treated as a playground without rules.
Behind its global image are families, temples, ceremonies, and traditions that have existed for generations. When visitors ignore these realities, tensions arise, and the consequences can be severe.

Indonesia’s decision to deport rather than imprison reflects a balanced approach. Deportation sends a strong message while avoiding prolonged legal conflict. It shows that the country is open to visitors, but firm in defending its values.

Indonesia is not against Western culture, tourism, or freedom of expression. It simply expects visitors to adapt rather than impose their own norms. Being a guest means observing, learning, and respecting the host’s way of life.


The Bonnie Blue Bali case is more than viral news.
It is a lesson in global citizenship. In an increasingly connected world, cultural intelligence is just as important as creativity or influence. Respecting local culture does not reduce freedom; it gives it meaning.

Indonesia remains a beautiful and welcoming country. But respect is the foundation of that welcome. For anyone planning to visit, work, or create content here, the message is clear: understand where you stand, honor local values, and remember that true freedom begins with respect.

If you are planning to visit Indonesia, especially Bali, take time to learn more than just the tourist attractions. Learn the laws, understand the culture, and respect the values of the people who live here. Traveling responsibly is not only safer, but also more meaningful. For content creators and influencers, remember that your audience does not protect you from local law.

Create wisely, travel respectfully, and always place cultural understanding above online popularity. If you found this article meaningful, please share it with friends, fellow travelers, or anyone planning to visit Indonesia. Let this story be a reminder that respect is the key to truly enjoying another country

Welcome to Indonesia.
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Almost everyone in this world, young or old, has their own mobile phone or cellphone, am I right? Teenagers today, often referred to as Generation Z, are deeply involved with social media platforms. They act almost like citizen journalists, able to record, upload, and share anything at any time they want. Social media has become a normal part of daily life now. But is that completely harmless?

What about the safety issues we face while using these platforms? My name is Asep Haryono from Indonesia, and I worked in social media for almost thirteen years. Today, I want to share what I know about safety issues on one of the most widely used social media platforms in the world: Facebook.

When people talk about social media, one question always pops up: “Is Facebook still the most popular platform for communication, or has it been overtaken by newer apps like Instagram, X (formerly Twitter), LinkedIn, and others?” The answer is a bit more layered than just yes or no. Facebook remains massive in size and influence, but its role in how people communicate has shifted over time depending on age, region, and purpose.

First, let’s talk numbers. Facebook is still a giant. With over 3 billion monthly active users worldwide, it holds the title as the largest non-messaging social media platform. That’s more than Instagram, X, LinkedIn, or even TikTok can currently claim. In other words, if you’re measuring “popularity” by sheer audience size, Facebook is still on top. People all over the world log in daily to connect with friends, join groups, share photos, and comment on posts. It’s also still a top choice for businesses, marketers, and community leaders because it reaches almost every demographic, from young adults to grandparents.

This is the front page of my personal Facebook account, which I have been using for the past ten years. I use Facebook both for business and for building friendships with people around the world.

But size isn’t the whole story. Communication styles are changing, and this is where Facebook’s dominance starts to show cracks. For example, younger generations teens and early 20s are drifting toward apps like Instagram, TikTok, and Snapchat, where visuals and short-form videos rule. For them, Facebook sometimes feels old-fashioned, even if they still keep an account. On the flip side, older users remain highly active on Facebook, using it not just to chat but also to manage community events, join interest-based groups, and keep up with family

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Another point to consider is the type of communication. Facebook is versatile: it offers Messenger for private chats, Groups for community interaction, Pages for businesses, and News Feed for updates and discussions. It’s almost like a one-stop shop for staying in touch. Compare that with LinkedIn, which is focused on professional networking, or X, which thrives on real-time news and trending conversations. Each platform has carved out its own niche. If you want to talk business, you open LinkedIn. If you want to share a quick thought or follow live commentary, you go to X. If you want to post photos, stories, or reels, Instagram might feel more natural.

Still, Facebook has one big advantage: familiarity. It’s been around since 2004, and most people are comfortable with how it works. That comfort often makes it the “default” tool for communication, especially in regions like Southeast Asia, Africa, and parts of Latin America where Facebook is not just social media it’s practically the internet itself.

In terms of user base and overall reach, yes, it remains a heavyweight champion. But in terms of cultural influence, youth appeal, and specialized communication, the crown is increasingly shared with other platforms. In today’s social media landscape, people no longer rely on just one app. Instead, they mix and match, using Facebook for family and community, Instagram for creativity, X for news, and LinkedIn for career connections.

How to keep your FACEBOOK account secure
Just the other day, one of my good friends came to me with a worried look on his face. He told me that he kept receiving emails from Facebook saying someone had requested to reset his password. The weird part? He never asked for it. Not even once.

At first, he thought it was just a glitch or maybe spam. But when it happened again and again, he realized something fishy was going on. He suspected that someone was trying to log into his Facebook account using his email address or phone number. When they couldn’t guess the password, they clicked on “Forgot Password” and tried to reset it. Thankfully, my friend still had access to his email, so the hacker didn’t succeed.

That experience really made me think. What if that happened to me or you? What if someone else is out there, trying to gain access to your Facebook account without you even knowing? Unfortunately, this kind of thing happens more often than we realize, and many people don’t know what to do when it does.

So, here’s what I told my friend and what I’d tell you too if you’re facing a similar issue:

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Step 1: Change Your Password Right Away
Even if no one got in, don’t take any chances. Head over to your Facebook settings and change your password immediately. Make sure it’s a strong one: use a mix of uppercase and lowercase letters, numbers, and special characters. Don’t use common passwords like "123456" or your birthday.

Step 2: Enable Two-Factor Authentication (2FA)
This is a must! Once you activate 2FA, Facebook will require a special code sent to your phone (or generated by an app) whenever someone tries to log in. It’s an extra layer of protection that makes it 10x harder for hackers to succeed.

Step 3: Review Login Activity
Facebook has a helpful tool that shows you where your account is currently logged in. You can find it under Settings > Security and Login. If you see any device or location that doesn’t look familiar, log it out right away and secure your account.

Step 4: Check Your Recovery Info
Make sure the email and phone number linked to your Facebook account are up to date and secure. If there’s anything there that you don’t recognize, delete it immediately

Step 5: Report the Issue to Facebook
Don’t just ignore it report it! Go to facebook.com/hacked and follow the steps. Facebook can help you secure your account and prevent future attacks.


My Opinions
My friend was lucky. He caught the warning signs early and secured his account in time. But not everyone is that lucky. If you’re getting random password reset emails from Facebook, take it seriously. It could be someone trying to hack into your account.

Stay safe online, use strong passwords, turn on 2FA, and always keep an eye on your login activity. Social media is funbut only when it’s secure!

Have you ever experienced suspicious activity on your Facebook account?

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A few months ago, I stopped by Transmart Kubu Raya to redeem my Point Reward vouchers from Astra Motor Pontianak at Wendy’s and Coffee Bean.

Each point could be exchanged for one menu item at those outlets. At Wendy’s, I received a package consisting of two pieces of chicken, one portion of white rice, and a cup of cola. At Coffee Bean, I got a slice of chocolate cake (I don’t remember the exact name) and one cup of ice-blended drink—also no idea what it was called. Hahaha. I rarely eat “fancy” food like this. I’m not familiar with fast-food names, so I don’t really remember them.

Foto Asep Haryono / www.simplyasep.com

 Foto Asep Haryono / www.simplyasep.com

 Foto Asep Haryono / www.simplyasep.com

Not Just to Fill Your Stomach

This part is subjective. People go to fast-food outlets for different reasons. One thing is clear: fast-food lovers should not be judged as “junk food eaters” just because these places are often labeled as junk food.Culinary preferences come in many forms, and everyone is different. When it comes to taste especially personal taste here’s no need for debate.

Food is still food. It doesn’t matter whether it’s considered elite, like caviar served on a first-class flight. (Sorry, that’s an extreme example!) For those who don’t know, caviar is a very expensive type of fish egg. It’s one of the priciest foods in the world.But does eating caviar automatically make someone a member of the elite class? And does loving simple traditional snacks like kerupuk or bakwan make someone “lower class”? Of course not.

Even though caviar and bakwan are very different, food is still food. Many office workers love traditional snacks bakwan, kerupuk, and others even though they work in professional settings. So what really counts as “elite” food? Is it just the price? Does eating expensive food really raise someone’s social status?

Fast food, for example, doesn’t increase or decrease the prestige of the people who enjoy it. Food is simply part of human needs whether it’s to survive, to feel full, or just to enjoy eating with style. Everything is fine, and everything is valid.

Fast Food Is Not Just a Lifestyle
People often say that eating fast food is a “lifestyle.” They talk like it is simply a choice you make every day. You choose to eat burgers, fried chicken, or instant noodles because you like it, and that becomes your lifestyle. But for me, fast food is not just a lifestyle. It is much more complicated than that. There are many reasons why people eat fast food, and most of them have nothing to do with style, trends, or personal taste. They are connected to real life, real problems, and real situations.

First, fast food is about convenience. Many people today are very busy. Some work more than one job, have long commutes, or take care of children and family. After a long day, not everyone has the energy to cook. Cut vegetables? Season the meat? Wash dishes? That takes time and effort that some people just don’t have. Fast food is quick. You order, you wait a few minutes, you eat. That’s it. For many people, it becomes a solution, not a lifestyle choice.

Second, fast food is often cheaper. In many countries, including Indonesia, cooking at home is not always the cheapest option. Ingredients can be expensive. Not everyone has access to fresh vegetables or a nearby traditional market. Some people live in kosts or small apartments with limited kitchen space. Buying fast food for Rp20.000–Rp30.000 sometimes feels more practical than buying groceries, especially for people who live alone. In this situation, fast food becomes an economic decision, not a fashion statement.

Third, fast food companies know exactly how to attract us. They spend billions on advertising. They use bright colors, catchy songs, cute mascots, and special promos. Their goal is simple: make you crave their food. When you see a juicy burger on your phone or a hot crispy fried chicken on TV, your brain reacts. You start feeling hungry even if you were not hungry before. This is not about lifestyle; this is marketing. And they are very good at it.

Fourth, fast food is everywhere. In big cities, you can find it on nearly every corner. Even in smaller towns, delivery services like GoFood and GrabFood make fast food super easy to get. When something is always there, always open, and always available, people will naturally choose it. It becomes part of daily life not because people want to be “fast food people,” but because the system makes it convenient.

Of course, fast food also affects health. Many people talk about it as if eating fast food means you automatically have an unhealthy lifestyle. But I don’t fully agree. Health is not only about what you eat. It’s about sleep, stress, exercise, mental well-being, and many other habits. A person who eats fast food sometimes but exercises, drinks enough water, and gets enough rest can still be healthier than someone who cooks every day but never moves their body or sleeps only four hours a night.

So for me, fast food is not just a lifestyle. It’s a mix of many things: time pressure, economic situations, marketing influence, convenience, and modern city life. It is something that many people use to survive their busy days, not something they choose to show their identity.

In the end, the most important thing is balance. Fast food is okay sometimes. Cooking at home is good too. We don’t need to judge ourselves or others based on what we eat. Life is already stressful enough. If fast food helps you get through the day, that’s fine. Just make sure you also take care of your body in other ways. Because at the end of the day, your lifestyle is more than just what’s on your plate.

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The rise in media coverage about Vietnam’s “cyanide coffee” that went viral a few years ago made me curious about what real Vietnamese coffee actually is. I honestly didn’t understand the hype. But eventually, my curiosity, the marketing buzz, and even my doubts about Vietnamese coffee were answered.

A few months ago, I finally tried Vietnamese Drip Coffee for myself. And not only thatthere were many tempting dishes to enjoy at Red Zone Café on Ahmad Yani Street in Pontianak, West Kalimantan, Indonesia. So, what does this Vietnamese Drip Coffee really taste like? What exotic and exciting menu items did I try at Red Zone Café? Let’s get into it. Please find the photos at below

Vietnamese Drip Coffee in its early stage freshly brewed with condensed milk waiting to be mixed. Photo by Asep Haryono

After being stirred, the Vietnamese Drip Coffee turns creamy and smooth, ready to enjoy. Photo by Asep Haryono

Hello there  Its me I am enjoying my first Vietnamese Drip Coffee experience at Red Zone Café, Pontianak.



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Vietnamese Drip Coffee: A Taste as Elegant as It Looks
To be honest, I’m not really a coffee lover. But hold on what I mean is that I don’t like certain types of coffee.
The kind of coffee I usually dislike is the one served with thick grounds at the bottom, looking like lapindo mud inside the glass. And for me, no matter what kind of coffee is mixed with sweetened condensed milkwhite or chocolate it usually still tastes okay.

But this Vietnamese Drip Coffee gave me a completely different sensation from the coffees I had tried before. Starting with the brewing equipment, everything was already set up nicely when it arrived at my table.


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I saw a top filter, a bottom filter, and a lid. As someone who doesn’t know much about coffee, I had no idea how much water or coffee grounds were used.I also didn’t know why it was served the way it was already fully brewed, with the grounds neatly separated. My guess was that it had been prepared earlier before being served to me

If you’re wondering about the price, Vietnamese drip coffee in Pontianak is actually pretty affordable. Most cafés sell it for Rp13,000 to Rp25,000 per glass, depending on whether you want it black or with milk. At Kahveh Coffee Shop, for example, the cold Vietnamese drip starts at just Rp13,000, or Rp15,000 if you prefer it with milk on GoFood. Meanwhile, Karya Ranum X Roemahh Coffee offers their Vietnamese drip for about Rp24,000.

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Overall, the price range is quite friendly, and it really depends on the café and the menu you choose. Just keep in mind these prices are for the drink only, and they can change anytime based on promotions or each café’s policy..

When I received the Vietnamese drip, I noticed sweetened condensed milk at the bottom of the glass white condensed milk. That made me wonder: why condensed milk? Is it simply to reduce the bitterness of the coffee?

And then… a small accident happened. Since this was my very first time trying Vietnamese Drip Coffee, I didn’t realize the coffee grounds in the top filter were not meant to be mixed in. I thought they were part of the drink! So I took a small spoon, scooped the “coffee,” and stirred it into the drink. Hahaha! Turns out I had mixed in the used grounds. Shhh… don’t tell anyone.


Why Sweetened Condensed Milk?
According to the Otten Coffee Magazine website, sweetened condensed milk has been a traditional “recipe” for generations in Vietnam. At one time, Vietnam experienced food shortages, including a scarcity of fresh milk. As a result, people turned to sweetened condensed milk as a coffee companion. The tradition continues even today.


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I slowly sipped the Vietnamese Drip Coffee, enjoying its aroma and the combination of condensed milk with a delicious caramel-like sweetness in every sip.
The taste was so creamy and rich that it felt like a waste to drink it too quickly. It was simply delicious. So for anyone visiting Pontianak, make sure to stop by Red Zone Café, located in the West Kalimantan State Museum complex.

Ready to taste the authentic charm of Vietnamese Drip Coffee? Visit Red Zone Café at the West Kalimantan State Museum complex in Pontianak and enjoy a uniquely rich, creamy brew you won’t forget. Try it today and experience the flavor everyone is talking about!(Asep Haryono)