
This was the first of Anne Tyler’s many novels that I’ve picked up, and I wasn’t entirely sure what to expect. As it turned out, I found it to be a gentle, closely observed, and quietly moving book. Tyler takes the narrow frame of a wedding weekend and uses it to reflect on far broader themes: the weight of societal expectations, the different ways people respond to past traumas, and the messy complexity of family dynamics.
The story unfolds over three days: the day before, the day of, and the day after a wedding. It is really a character study rather than a plot-driven tale. Gail, her ex-husband Max, their daughter Debbie and her fiancé, and the various in-laws and hangers-on are all rendered with enough detail to feel convincingly real. I warmed to them, flaws and all. There was a real sense of a lived-in family world: the tensions and misunderstandings were familiar, but so too were the flashes of tenderness and humour.
Reading this just after Nella Larsen’s Passing and Andrew Sean Greer’s The Story of a Marriage gave it an added dimension. Each of those novels, in their different ways, looks at the interplay between love, loyalty, and social constraints. Taken together, they feel like a thematic triptych across time: Larsen’s 1920s Harlem, Greer’s 1950s San Francisco, and Tyler’s present-day Baltimore. Each reveals something of how individuals navigate the gap between private feeling and public expectation, and how private trauma can shape a lifetime.
Stylistically, Tyler’s prose reminded me of Fannie Flagg—light on its feet, yet full of warmth and detail—though this is firmly grounded in the contemporary world. She has that knack of making small domestic moments feel significant, without tipping into sentimentality.
At heart, Three Days in June is a short, understated novel, but one that lingers in the mind. I enjoyed spending time in its world, and I came away feeling I’d met a cast of characters whose lives, while fictional, seemed to illuminate something very real. I thoroughly recommend it.







