A few weeks ago (has it really been a few weeks all ready?!) my sweet little boy Penn volunteered to say the opening prayer in sharing time during Primary. I guess he was very adamant that he didn't need any help and proceeded to say a very long and detailed prayer. He prayed that everyone could keep their eyes closed during his prayer and that his daddy wouldn't be so silly. But the part that I would like to address is the part that he prayed that his mommy wouldn't be so mean! I feel like you're not getting the whole story and I wanted to set the record straight!
I promise I'm not a "mean" mom. His every need is provided for. He has warm and nice clothes, nutritious food prepared with love every day and plenty of toys and intellectual stimulation to help him grow up big, strong and smart.
Believe it or not I'm the "fun" mom. I liked to present a few exhibits to help illustrate my point.
After the big storm I helped the boys build a snow fort in the backyard and pretended to hide from giants for over an hour. When we got cold I made hot chocolate for everyone.
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| They have little shovels to help with the heavy lifting |
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| I love Penn's mischievous face |
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| Snow Mountains for them to play on! We also made a fun snowman. |
We have family movie night regularly. We sometimes blow up the air mattress and eat special theater treats and always have air popped popcorn.
| Just getting comfortable before the movie |
| It was a little loud and the ear plugs were too big for her ears |
Now to be fair, I can understand why he may misconstrue my love as being mean. I get to stay at home with him all day. Which means I'm the one that gets the most opportunities to remind him to make good choices. When he's opening coolers at the store that he shouldn't it's my voice that reminds him that isn't a good choice. When he's wrestling with his brother too roughly it's my voice that asks him to stop and apologize. When he takes a toy from his sister it's my stern look that says it all.
Maybe it's not so bad being the "mean" mom. Maybe being the mean mom is really just code for being a great mom. Thanks Penn, I love you too!






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