Benjamin Maxwell has grown too fast for this mama. 5! FIVE! (gulp) I adore him now even more than 5 years ago.
I only cried a little, and then we went to NATO to have lunch with Eric. The dear lady gave him a little chocolate and asked him how old he was and he held up every finger. Then my lip trembled and my eyes watered. And then the tears splashed down my face. I want him to be my little boy forever. He is my full-time buddy, and dash it all if he doesn't have to go to school next year.
Five Fabulous Years with Benjamin. Here is the list of loves and hates.
LOVES:
Seth
Hobby kids (little show with kids getting/reviewing toys
Batman
Nutella, Nutella Nutella
Raw vegtables...he'll eat 'em all, loves a salad, but don't even think about cooking them
Wearing gloves. All the time. Even in the summer.
Jesus and Heavenly Father (he told me so last night as I was leaving bedtime)
Anything that Seth and Isaac say they love
Batman imaginex stuff, and lining up the bad guys in a straight line.
Ham and cheese sandwiches
Beach
Trampoline, but don't jump high with him on it. He HATES being launched.
Gabby Friedhoff and Sophia Burkhardt
Playing with his brothers.
Telling something funny and then squishing up his eyes and nose at his own joke (see 2nd photo)
Uncles, and grandpa, especially wrestling with them
Snuggling into my bed, after he squeals into my room to hide from having to take a bath
Singing. He sings a lot. He sings to himself. He sings with the CDs in our car, and makes requests for songs he especially loves. Even our primary chorister mentioned that Benj loves to sing and she can name the songs he loves the best. In fact they were thinking of having it be a solo or something and she said, "Ahh Benj loves to sing that one."
iPad games and minecraft with his bros.
HATES:
Getting soap in his eyes. But really who likes that, but it makes him not want to bathe.
Walking through the back forrest, he doesn't want to get anymore poison ivy.
CYSS childcare, and babies crying there
Scary things on cartoons. He climbs in Eric's or my lap and then says, "I don't wanna watch this. It's
boring."
Benjamin is reading easy readers. His primary teacher loves him and often times tells me it's good to have him in class cause he knows the answers and is well behaved, and that she wants her small2yr old to be like our boys. Benj doesn't stay seated at the dinner table. He always gets up and wonders around and has to be called back. If he doesn't want to do something he can be VERY hard to convince, but usually if I express why I want him to do it and then give him time, he almost always comes around. He is very affectionate, if and when he wants to be. But don't ask for a kiss cause he will turn you down 99% of the time. He is a giggler. He is an easy child. And we LOVE LOVE LOVE him!
Update: Tonight at the table Eric heard a squiker type noise and exclaimed "What was THAT?" Benj responded with out stop, "A little baby Elephant." That put us all under the table with laughter. And the side jokes were priceless the whole evening long. This is VERY typical Benjamin. I feel like the most blessed mother on the planet that I get to belong to him.
5 months ago




