Monday, December 6, 2010

KYLEE'S ACCIDENT

May 10, 2010
changed our family forever.
Kylee was hit by a car on her way home from school.

Image It's amazing how quickly things can take a turn in life.

As Raegan and I witnessed Kylee lay lifelessly curled up in a ball in the middle of the road, her life flashed before me. For a few moments, I thought we had lost her. I lay in the street screaming for help. Everything was in slow motion. I began to pick up my non-responsive child, to cradle her and tell her I loved her. A nurse and firefighter on the scene screamed at me to lay her back down. They ran over and began assessing my sweet little girl. Raegan brought me my cell phone and I called 911. It seemed like forever before we got Kylee to respond. She finally came to, but only for a second. I knew Kylee needed a blessing. Within a few minutes my neighbor and parents were there to help but the paramedics and firetruck had arrived at the scene. They led me to the ambulance, put me in the passenger seat and sent us to the nearest hospital.

Image I can honestly say I have never prayed harder. I was terrified that Kye was going to leave us and this would be the end to her time here on earth. As we flew through red light after red light and the sirens blared, I tuned everything out and pleaded with the Lord.

At the hospital, a trauma team and grief counselors met us. They immediately took her in for tests. I remember Jason walking into the room, his look of fear torn with anguish. He immediately gave Kylee the blessing she had been waiting for. In the blessing I specifically remember Kylee being told she would "run and not be weary". She was told that she would be whole once again.

I prayed to know the truthfulness to these things and felt an overwhelming peace and confirmation that this was true. A feeling one cannot deny.

ImageResults came back quickly. Kylee had a small brain bleed. They immediately had sent for life support to transfer her to an ICU facility. Kylee was still in and out of consciousness. I was able to take the helicopter flight with my daughter to Rady's Childrens Hospital in San Diego. Not a word was spoken the whole flight other than her stats between the hospital and dispatch.

Image{My neighbor, Kelly, took pictures from her cell phone}

Image When we arrived on the roof of Rady's, a trauma team met us and raced her downstairs. They began reassessing her and running more tests. Another grief counselor came to my aide. They admitted her to the Intensive Care Unit in critical but stable condition. Jason met me at the hospital where we waited.

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and waited...
Kye was hooked up to so many wires. She had her first "awakening" about 24 hours later where she said a few words, but has no recollection up until Thursday. By Wednesday, we knew she had three small brain bleeds and was not responding to the treatment. They decided to insert a central line in her arm. This IV goes through a larger needle and directly to the heart, allowing medicine to transfer in a quicker fashion.

Image Meanwhile
Kylee slept...
I did not leave that hospital. Thank goodness for the Ronald McDonald House! They gave me a box of sanitary supplies and a shower!
ImageThe moment the accident happened, I began getting phone calls and text messages with people letting us know that they were praying for Kylee.

A family that we knew and were not of any particular faith
knelt down, held hands and prayed together for the very first time
for Kylee.
I felt the strength and assurance of every prayer.
ImageMy sweet friend Sharon had the whole second grade sign a banner.
Hundreds of cards were given to Kye of people showing their love and support.

Kylee had several people wanting to visit her in the ICU,
most of which she has no recollection.
By Thursday, the stress and emotion of the week had gotten the best of me.
I flipped out on our nurse. Needless to say, we didn't get along. The supervisor was even called in. Jason felt like it was time for him to take over. I came home that night to clean up and get a full nights rest...


I came home to a banner on the front door and writing on my vehicle.
"Pray for Kylee"
Words can't even explain my testimony of the power of prayer.

I truly believe that Kylee is a modern day miracle for everyone to see.
Heavenly Father answered all the prayers on behalf of Kylee.
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About a month before the accident another inspiring thing happened.
I was prompted to have our family start reading the scriptures daily before school.
I felt strongly that if we did this, we would be blessed.

Every morning I dragged everyone out of bed and we read,
reminding everyone the blessings that would come.

That first night in the hospital, as Kye lay in a deep sleep, an overwhelming feeling came to me that we had followed the Lord's promptings and were obedient to his commandments. Because of this, I felt strongly that Kylee was protected through this tragedy.

We have not stopped reading since...

Image Within 24 hours of inserting the central line
Kylee was awake and alert.
Her health amazingly and miraculously turned around,
literally over night.
I feel her hospital room was a sacred place
where a miracle happened.
With not a broken bone in her body
and a head that has almost completely recovered,
all Kylee has left to remember of this terrible accident
is a scar on her leg.
I'm thankful for that imprint
because it will always remind us of the important things in life.

ImageIt's so easy to get carried away in the world.
What we don't have, what we want-
particularly in these economic times...
But this trial taught me amazing principles and priorities in life
that I would never take back this experience.
What truly is important.
The gospel. My family. Together Forever.
ImageI have a testimony of this gospel and of my Savior, Jesus Christ.
He leads, guides and directs us. He comforts us.
He will not abandon us.
ImageMy sweet Kylee,
Never forget the second chance of life you've been blessed with.
Never forget the love that has encircled you.
Never forget the hand the Lord played in this experience.
Remember this always
and let it be a strength to your testimony always.
I know I will.
I love you.
Mom
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Monday, September 13, 2010

Sunday, June 20, 2010

CHORUS

Raegan's Spring time Chorus performance
consisted of a little tap number with her
and a few of her friends.

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Image It was nice to see her back up on stage and dancing.
She's such a great performer and hasn't been able to dance for two years.
She did a fantastic job and nailed the part!

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CRAZY CARNIVAL

The school hosts a Carnival every year
to earn money for the classes as well as extra curricular events.
The past two years they have had a rock climbing wall
which has proven to be a favorite to the girls!

Image This year Kye rocked the wall!

ImageShe made it to the top in no time at all!

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Raegan did a great job too!

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She struggled with her footing and height a little bit this year.
She bailed out almost to the top.


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The girls love getting their hair sprayed in various colors.
They play in the blow up slide.
Snow cones are a must.
And Jaida always insists on a train ride.
We haven't been able to support our school this year financially
as we have in years past,
but at least we supported the Carnival!
It's become an annual tradition for our family.

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BABY FACE

Macy girl at seven months.

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YUM-MY!

Macy's first solid experience!
It's funny how the more kids you have
the less urgent you are for them to grow up...

Image Raegan started solid food right at four months old.
Kye was introduced to it around five months old.
Jaida had nothing but a bottle till six months old.
And keeping with the pattern
at seven months old was Macy's first bite of rice cereal.
She spit out the first bite or two...
and after that the rest was history.
You don't get her thighs without work!
She is definitely my biggest eater...
Macy will drink five 6-8 oz bottles a day
plus two full solid meals which consists of a jar of veggies
and a jar of fruit at each sitting!
Not to mention snacking on bread, cheerios and apple juice throughout the day.
We might just have to start cutting her off...
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SOMETIMES I PLAY TOO MUCH...

Oops... My bad!
I walk by my Living and Dining Room every day!
How could I miss this?!
I guess I just don't really notice sometimes
until an unsuspecting neighbor or friend unexpectedly stops by...

Image Kelly thought she'd be really cute
and sign my dining room table
just to throw a subtle hint!
Image So I'm not the cleanest person...
but I do live life and enjoy it!
I will admit I sometimes neglect daily tasks
in order to have fun with my kids and friends.
After autographing my table,
my sweet neighbor Kelly helped me dust my entire front room.
DON'T JUDGE ME!!!

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BEAUTIFUL BABY

There is nothing better than
a beautifully bathed baby!

Image Macy at 6 months old

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MORNING WALK

I've been trying to walk every morning
after I get the kids off to school.
Macy is so incredibly good
and allows me a little exercise time!

Image I bundle her up and off I go!
Sometimes she even falls asleep...
which kinda messes up her nap schedule
but a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do!

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Monday, June 7, 2010

CRUISIN'

Jason started working part time as Regional Manager
for our good friends, the Proudfits
and their Security System Company Titan
back in February.
Titan had put together a Reward Trip
Cruisin' to Mexico...
At the last minute, some employees backed out of the trip
and we were able to go!
Booh-Yeah

Image We departed from Long Beach on Carnival Cruise Line.
The first two days were at sea
bummin in the sun and pigging out on cuisine!


Image Our waiter was rad. He danced for us every night and typically had riddles or puzzles for us to solve. They leave their families and set sail for six months, sending them paychecks along the way. Their income is so small, it doesn't seem worth it.

And we thought we had it hard.

ImageEvery plate of food came out in some kind of artistic form.
Can you guess what this salad is?

ImageMmmmmm.
My favorite. Every night.
Lava cake with vanilla ice cream.
Sometimes I even had two.



ImageHold me.


ImageNo really.
Couldn't get enough.
By far my favorite delicacy
on the cruise.


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It was so nice to spend some quality time alone together.
It had been a while!
We actually held hands and cuddled...

we'll stop there.



ImageOne of our favorite parts about the ship
ofcourse

was the soft serve ice cream!
Jason made it his goal to eat at least 15 a day.
But no one is a match for Mike and Mel.
In a week, the two of them most likely consumed
231 soft serve ice cream cones.

We figure Mike averaged around 25 a day

and Mel put down at least 8 a day.

ImageIt was so nice going back to our cabin every night
and having our beds turned down
with chocolates on our pillows.

The life.


ImageEvery night our towels were manipulated and shaped into different animals.
A swan, a monkey, an elephant, a cobra...
We couldn't help but think about how much the girls would have enjoyed that!


ImageTheir was so much to do on the ship.
Golfing, water slides, movies, buffets, hot tubbin, tanning, daiquiri's,
buffets, karaoke, clubbin, massages, buffets...
We spent a lot of time lounging in the sun, chatting, mocking
and laughing our heads off!

ImageWhat sunburn?!
This will be perfect by tomorrow,
right Becky? ;)
ImageOn the ship they also had different contests.
This particular one
can you guess
is my favorite!
The hairy chest contest!
I'm thinking Jason had a chance...
just sayin.

ImageMike!
Winner of...
the Biggest Splash?
Bellyflop?
Volleyball?

ImageEvery night we dressed up for dinner.
Most of the time
we weren't even hungry.
Feeding your face all day will do that to you.
We rotated tables and had a chance to get to know just about
the whole Titan crew
and some...right Mel?

ImageAfterwards, we would head over to the Karaoke lounge.
Mel and I had a blast making fun of
just about everyone.
That's what Karaoke is for, right?!
It was pretty funny...
Pee your pants funny.


ImageJason couldn't get enough of it.
Once we got him up there, we couldn't get him down!
He thinks he's Bon Jovi.


ImageI did not venture on stage.
Just wasn't feeling it this trip, I guess.
But I sure had fun dancing and rockin out to everyone else!
Some were pretty bad...
I'm not gonna lie.

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"Ralphieeeeeeeeeee!"

ImageAnd the infamous Ross.
We cheered him on once and couldn't get rid of him after that.
He loved us. We kept coincidentally running into him on the ship.
I think he was secretly stalking us.
He was pretty adorable.
I wanted to take him home.


ImageWoot! Woot!
At the club every night like we was sixteen!
Holla!
Jason doing Mikey's original
"Fish outta Water"
move.
A classic.


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No more ice cream!!!

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No more food!!!

Image Our first stop was Puerta Vallarta.
The first thing we saw coming off the boat
was bystanders taking pictures with this poor, drugged donkey.
PETA would have something to say about this!!!


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Our biggest adventure on the trip was heading to the mountains for the day
to ride ATV's and zipline.
We all packed into a van
who needs seatbelts?
and headed off to the middle of the jungle.
It was a little sketchy...

ImageOh yah...
and lapping it?
Totally legal in Mexico...
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The drive to our destination
was hot, long and rugged.
At one point we weren't quite sure
if this wasn't maybe the best idea...
a group of dumb Americans letting a strange Mexican
take us out into the middle of nowhere
in a foreign third world country...
yep
doesn't sound too smart.


ImageWhew!
We were relieved to see Mormon Missionaries!
We stopped and talked to them for a few minutes.
For some reason it helped us feel a little more safe.

ImageFinally
our destination!
Let the riding and zipping begin!


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There were 13 ziplines!
Jason was such a good sport... having a slight fear of heights and all.
It was quite the hike in between zips
and we had to carry our 10 lb dollies!
What a workout!
Not so good for my fresh off of crutches knee...
Jason was over it by zip number 10 and headed back to the restaurant.
I on the other hand loved it so much
I zipped upside down with the instructor holding my ankles
on 3 of the ziplines.
Awesome.


ImageWe also went ATVing up the side of a mountain!
It was intense. We rode right next to cliffs, through streams,
over rocks and dirt.

ImageWe were a little mischevious.
I don't think our tour guide liked us much.
People kept getting stuck in rivers, there were slow drivers and fast drivers,
people taking wrong turns and getting lost...
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And then, poor Mechelle, had a scary accident!
Her ATV flipped over in the river, trapping her beneath it and the water.
Luckily, one of the guys in the group was able to get it off her.
Our guide cut our adventure short after that and we headed back to camp.
ImageOur studly boys.

ImageThe next day we stopped in Mazatlan.
We spent the day at a hotel right on the beach.
Ahhhh
Fresh water pool!
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The last port was spent at our favorite Mexican getaway.
Cabo Baby!
Me and the boys went to Lovers Cove and did a little snorkeling.
The water was cloudy, cold and rough.
Wasn't the best snorkeling...
but we trailed behind the glass bottom boats that were feeding fish
and actually ended up seeing a ton!
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After snorkeling,
Jas and I went off on our own and did a little shopping at the Mercado.
We made a little stop at the farmacia.
And lastly, we called home to the girls.
We kinda start missing them by day five...

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We had such a fun and relaxing time on the cruise.
It has been such an intense two years for us,
a little vacation was so needed.
Thank you mom and dad for watching the kidlets back home!

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