This month we have been working with Emmy on potty training. I HATE potty training. When Maddy went through it I was prego with Emmy and I got so frustrated and mad about cleaning up piles of poop and puddles that I quit. I absolutely refused to potty train Maddy for the duration of my pregnancy. Adam didn't like this and voiced that Maddy was going to be in diapers until she was 27. I didn't care at that point. I was willing to change her diapers until that age, what ever it took for me NOT to have to potty train. Well, I went into potty training Emmy with this same attitude and at first it showed. Emmy didn't want to use the potty or would pee in her diaper and then tell us she had to use the potty. So again, I quit. Until she was ready and could tell me on her own that she wanted to use the potty at the appropriate time, I wasn't going to do it. More frustration on Adams part. Well about 2-3 weeks ago Emmy said she had to go potty and she did, in the potty. But only pee pee. She would hide and go poop in her diaper just like her sister. Then one day she said she had to go potty, but nothing came out. Then 45 mins later she said the same thing with the same result. Then 45 mins after that she had to go potty again....this time I made her sit on the potty until something came out. That was the last day that she was afraid to go poo poo on the potty. She just had to get over the anxiety of pooing on the potty. So we've graduated to pull ups and she is going all day keeping it dry and clean. And now, we've graduated to panties. Other than one day, 20 mins after I put her in them she peed in front of the potty trying to get them off, she has kept her panties clean and dry. I'm so proud of Emmy for potty training so well. This experience has been much easier than with Maddy. But then they say the second one is. I'm so excited to know that I will only have one more to potty train and then I will be done. Done, done, done!!!
Monday, September 27, 2010
ongoings
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Wednesday, September 8, 2010
So it's been awhile...
Well, school has started again for all of us.
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Friday, June 25, 2010
It's a ....It's a.....
Well, we found out on Thursday what we are having. Another girl!! I am excited, Maddy not so much. She was grumpy walking out of the ultrasound room and Adam called me once in the parking lot to let me know she was crying. :( I really hope she doesn't try to give Rebekah away like she threatened. Adam is ok, due to the fact that he will now have a man room all to himself in which to escape the side effects of 4 women in his home. :) Emmy is ok with whatever, she says she wants a brother, but I think it's only because she hears Maddy say that's what she wants.
I figured that this would be another girl. I have two friends who just recently gave birth to their 3rd girls, a friend who gave birth to her 3rd boy and another friend who is pregnant with her 3rd boy. Who are we to be different and break the cycle?
Rebekah Claire is the name we have for the most part settled on and everyone seems to agree with it. I'm kinda going back and forth with Evelyn, but can't come up with a decent middle name. I'm sure we will stick with Rebekah.
This little one is modest, keeping her legs pulled tightly together and up. I had to roll on my side for the us tech twice, to get her to move. I have yet to scan the photos to the computer to put on here....one day. I'm sorry I'm horrible at pics.
We are right on track for November 25 as a due date, but will go a week before, barring any water rupture or unforeseen events, for a c-section. I'll be home in time for Thanksgiving, which will appease Maddy who has been uptight about the thought of me being in the hospital for the holiday.
I am 18 weeks and enjoying my pregnancy now that the pukes are done. I feel much better and only need a spit cup when I don't have gum on hand. I still love to sleep, that has yet to fade! All is well.
I am very excited to be having, not only a baby at the same time as Lanie, but a girl as well!! These cousins will be very close!! It's nice to have Lanie to go through this with. Sorry we can't donate our clothes to you!! :) I know Jeanne prayed to have girls in the family, but this is ridiculous!! :)
Congrats to the grandparents! 4 granddaughters on both sides! Whomever has that first boy is going to be spoiled!!! (It won't be us!!)
Much love to all!
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Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Leaps and Bounds



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Monday, June 14, 2010
Maddy's Surgery





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Saturday, May 29, 2010
Surgery Date
We visited the ENT this week and found out that Maddy is definitely going to be having tubes. She will also be having her adnoids taken out. She has yet another ear infection. We've been off antibiotics for 12 days and she has another one. This is her 5th one since December. June 11th is the day. It will be outpatient which will be nice so we don't have to stay in the hospital.
Other news from this week...I had a dr's appointment and everything sounds and looks great with the baby. We have 4 weeks untill we find out what this little bug is. They told me I was going to have to wait 7 weeks because I won't be far enough along to measure and all that jazz. Adam and I decided we couldn't wait that long so we will be going in for just a gender check. I want to know if I can get rid of the tubs of girl clothes or hang onto them. :) That and since this is our last one...we are just itching to know what it is!
Only two more days of school for Maddy and Three for Adam. Then Summer!! We went swimming the other day for the first time this season and had a blast! This summer is going to be so much fun! Not much else going on. I promise one of these days I will get some recent pics of the girls on here. Loves!
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Saturday, May 15, 2010
Slight Hiatus
Well I'm back after a slight hiatus. I've been finishing up my semester in school and as far as I know I passed both my classes with A's. Finals were this past week and all went well, no stress. I am now 12 weeks along and can't quite figure out if I'm really on the down hill slope of this sickness thing or what. I have good days and really bad days. But either way, hopefully I'll be out of the woods soon.
Not much else has been going on around here other than waiting patiently (or not) for the school year to draw to an end. Adam has 3 more weeks and Maddy has, as she tells us every week, 2 more Mondays left in Pre-School before she gets to go to Kindergarten. We are all looking forward to this summer. It will most definitely be a relaxing and well deserved one. We will get to spend lots of time together as a family which has been nill these last 10 months. We are looking forward to my dad coming to visit, maybe with my sisters, may not. Either way we are looking forward to seeing him. I know Mike and Lanie are as well!! :)
Maddy is thinking about doing T-ball this summer...we're still not sure. Summer gets awfully hot here so hmmmm...
Maddy had to have her blood drawn again this week and did VERY well. I was so proud of my brave girl. They missed the vein on the first try and had to dig to see if they could find it. She didn't move an inch the whole time. Then when they poked her a second time it was in a more sensitve spot and she yelped, but once again, did not move. I didn't really have to hold her down, more just be close for support. She did great. She is a great kiddo and I love being her mommy. We visit the ENT for a second time this coming week and find out if tubes are in our future. I think we are headed that way....but there could be different news. We'll see and keep ya'll posted.
Emmy is still Emmy. She was weighed at granmas last week and is weighing in at 25 pounds which is a little heavier than she was in February, but only by 3 lbs. I need to do her height and see if she's changed that way...our little midget. She has been enjoying her afternoons playing with sissy while mommy naps. I couldn't ask for better sisters. Emmy can now count to 10 and recognize her numbers. She knows all her colors and shapes. She's smart just like her older sister. She also loves to sing. Everyday on the way to school the girls watch Barbie in The Princess and the Pauper which is a musical movie. Emmy sings all the songs loudly and knows most of the words. She loves to sing to herself throughout the day. I love listening to her little voice. She's going to make a great singer one day!! Maybe if Adam's plan to have a boy and retire on his sports career falls short, we can retire on Emmy's singing career.
This past Sunday was Mother's day and I hope all the mothers reading this had a great one!! I know I did. Being part time has been the best. I was able to come home on Sunday morning and catch a quick nap before getting up for church so I could hear Maddy sing to me. Beautiful...brought me to tears. She did great. Then Adam and I went home and caught another nap before heading to Mike and Lanies for dinner which was delicious!! I got roses from Adam and the girls, a black pearl pendant and homemade cards from Maddy. Oh and a portrait of me by Maddy. I'll have to take a picture of it and post it...it's cute. It's of me being surprised. :O
I love my kids and my husband. I couldn't ask for a better family for me. Hope all is well with you, thanks for reading. Lots of love!!
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Tuesday, April 27, 2010
ramblings and such
So I'm sitting here supposedly working on homework for a class that I haven't attended in two week due to being sick. Yet I can't get passed one of my stupid questions and if I don't get a 100 on this assignment, I will have to add 2 more assignments. grr. I hate this class. But anyway, I thought to take a break I would post....about who knows what. I just need a break.
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Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Why I like being pregnant in the 21st century...
So I've been pretty down lately with being so sick, wondering what the heck was I thinking wanting to do this again. I'm not really sure if this time is worse, or I just can't remember being this sick last time...who knows. One of the "gifts" of child bearing...you don't really remember the pain so that you will have more to continue the race.
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Saturday, April 17, 2010
Hearing problems
Maddy went in to see the audiologist on Tuesday and came out with a referal to an ENT. She completely failed the hearing tests in the left ear. She passed in the right.."but there's still something not right." as said by the audiologist. She's not sure if it's just fluid behind the tympanic membrane in the right ear or what. So off to the ENT we go to see what can be done. They will find out if the hearing problem in the left ear is hearing loss or just fluid as well. If it's just fluid then it can easily be taken care of with tubes. However, if it is actually loss...we'll go from there. Please pray for Maddy. Keep her in your thoughts and prayers. I'm not completely worried yet...she hasn't had any setbacks thus far from not being able to hear, but I would like to keep it that way. I don't think anything will really hit home until we see the ENT and know for sure what is going on.
As always we love you all. Please keep our family in your prayers we need them. Thanks and until we meet again! Loves.
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Monday, April 12, 2010
And the world goes on....
So I'm now 7 weeks and 4 days along and puking my guts up. yay. It started 2 weeks ago and I am reminded what I don't like about being pregnant. This is basically it..the first 4 months of puking after that it's not so bad. So things around our house have been pretty laid back. I lay around on the couch or bed and the girls...poor things..watch tv. I've had a wonderful friend that I can't say thank you enough to, come clean my house, feed my kids, wash my dishes and run to the pharmacy to get my anti nausea medication (which doesn't really work) ...I don't know what I would have done with out her!! Thank you Kelly!!
Maddy got the results back from her cholesterol check and apparently they were bad because we have to go back for another recheck in 4-6 weeks. She has to be on a low fat, low cholesterol diet with more excercise in the mean time....do poptarts count in that diet...that's about all she's been eating lately because I haven't been making dinner. She also has a recheck on her ears this week. Hopefully she passes that because if not, surgery is in her future. It's only tubes...but it's still surgery.
Maddy got her report card from school this passed week and everything is perfect...there isn't anything she could have gotten better. She is very bored in her Pre-K class and hates getting up in the morning. But I know that she loves her teacher, Mrs. Killalea. She is doing very well and has come along way from the beginning of the year.
Emmy is getting over being sick. Poor thing was throwing up from Saturday night to Tuesday afternoon and had a bloody bum. She is so sweet. We got lots of cuddle time in this past week. Everyday when I get out of bed she asks,"Momma you feel better?" if I say yes she runs around the house yelling " Momma feel better, momma feel better!" if I answer no, she asks until I say yes. She doesn't quite know what's going on with Mommy throwing up all the time and loves to hug and kiss me to help me feel better. :)
Adam has been busy with baseball games and work. And last weekend he was on puke clean up duty. He also found out this week that he will not be able to be an assistant coach next year for the baseball team...but there are other options out there. So we are looking forward to what the future holds on Adam's coaching career!
That's about all with our news...nothing new really or exciting. But hey, that's what you get with us.
We are glad that spring is finally here and the warm beautiful weather has arrived. Maddy and Emmy planted flowers again for the balcony. We will try to keep up on those as they bloom. I love to see all the green...the trees, grass and the flowers. It's like the earth has come out of a deep depression.
I must write about something that happened the other day. I was in a hurry to get the girls to Kingwood to spend time with their favorite Aunt Lanie and Uncle Mikey, and was slightly stressed and not feeling well. As I pulled up to a red light, I looked to my left as another car pulled to a stop. In the front passenger seat of this car sat a girl maybe 8 or 9. I looked at her and kinda smiled and she in return gave me a HUGE smile. I couldn't help but smile after that. My heart felt warm and it brought tears to my eyes. A simple thing. A smile. The following morning on my way home from work after a semi rough night at work, I spotted a rainbow. These two things, bring a smile to my face everytime I think about them. And lately, I've needed lots of smiles. My Father in Heaven loves me, this I know. He knows what I'm going through and how hard it is on me. If that's all I have to get me through this...it will be enough.
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Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Babies continued.... :)
Maddy still stands by her decision to give the baby away if it's a little sister. Adam and Mad are counting on a boy. I still want another girl and Emmy, well she just doesn't understand yet. Congrats to all the Uncles and Aunts, Gram, Poppy, Granma and Grandpooba!! We are due November 25th! We just found out on Monday...what a great spring break this turned out to be!! Loves!
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Monday, March 1, 2010
Babies
I was taking my pre-natal vitamins today and Maddy asked me what they were for. I told her that they help Mommy get ready to have a baby. She thought I said that I was going to have a baby and got very excited. I asked her if she would be excited to be a big sister again and she replied with a loud yes! But she wants a baby brother. I asked her, " What happens if you get another sister?" She gets a sad face and says, "Then I will give it away. I'll give it to someone else who doesn't have one and you can take more pills and then it will be a baby brother." Hmmmm.
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Sunday, February 28, 2010
Scariest Moment of My Life Thus Far!
On Tuesday I went in to wake the girls up to get ready for the day. I started with Emmy on the bottom bunk. When I stood up to get Maddy, I realized her bed was empty. Figuring I just didn't notice her on the couch I go out to the living room. Yeah, no Maddy on the couch. So I go into the bathroom to look, no Maddy. I start to call for her and she doesn't answer. I search the whole house yelling for her...storage room, the closet in there, the closet in the girls room, my room, my closet, my bathroom ....no Maddy. At this point I'm starting to panic and wonder how the heck someone got into my 3rd floor apartment with the door double dead bolted and stole my kid. I'm starting to think about what I'm going to tell the police when I call them ...and then I think I haven't checked the balcony yet. Maybe she's out there for some reason.
As I'm walking to the door my eye catches a glimpse of white on the floor along the bottom of the back of the couch.
And there, with her legs and arms completely tucked into her night shirt with her blanket covering her head and face, is Maddy.
I walk over to her and yell her name. She moves the blanket and looks up at me and says, "Mom, I don't want to go to school."
One of these days...that child is going to kill me.
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Friday, January 1, 2010
Things I heard on my trip to PA
So there will be a full discloser of things that went on on our trip to PA and our Christmas. But I wanted to get down before I forgot the funny things I heard on the way there (and a few on the way back).
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