I had a wonderful first Mother's Day! I spent Mother's Day in Wenatchee with my parents, sister and her family. I went for a beautiful run in the morning with a good friend. It was so nice to catch up. In the afternoon we went to my sister's house for a BBQ. My sister is an amazing cook so everything is always great! She made key lime cheesecake and cookies for dessert! It was a beautiful and sunny day which is such a refreshing change from the rain in Longview. During the evening I got to do a little shopping while my mom stayed home with Porter. Shopping is so much more fun without a baby! We played cards later that evening. Porter decided he did not want to sleep so he ended up hanging out with us until almost 10pm which he never does! His bedtime is between 7 and 7:30pm but he got off schedule with all of the travelling. Our first long road trip was mediocre. He made it 3 of the 5.5 hours on the way there but had a crying fit for 45 minutes. It was getting dark and we still had another pass to cross so I had to drive with him screaming in the back seat. The drive home went better since we stopped at a friend's house to play for almost two hours. I definitely think that's the better way to do it. It mades for a longer trip but more bearable!
When I returned home I found a cake decorated with 'Happy Mother's Day' waiting for me. Trevor had a bouquet of flowers and a very large card (I"ll post a pic this week). It was very thoughtful of him. He got several different colors of cake decorations for the top of the cake! It was the longest he has been away from Porter so they got some quality time together, and I got a break after a LONG weekend.
While my first Mother's Day was wonderful, the entire weekend was overshadowed by my friend's memorial service. Her funeral was very emotional. They showed her life in pictures which had many pictures of Hawley and her friends and family. The most difficult part was watching videos of her and her babies, you could see the joy in her eyes as she played with them. It is devastating to look at my beautiful, healthy friend how I remember her and then to see her health deteriorate in her last two years. She is such a beautiful person, inside and out. She will be truly missed by so many. I cannot even begin to think about her two young children growing up without her in their lives. She was such a great mom and absolutely loved it, it's unfair that she won't be able to watch them grow up and witness all of their milestones. Her husband has a big job ahead raising these two little ones on his own. It is also hard to enjoy the day knowing that this is her mother's first Mother's Day with out her, and her children's first one without their mama.
While in Wenatchee I was able to spend some time with my close friends from high school who were also in town for the memorial service. I have such wonderful friends and it was very therapeutic to see all of them. I was able to meet my friend's new baby girl only 1.5 weeks old! Last summer we all get together (including Hawley) at a cabin in Lake Chelan. We had a blast reminiscing about the past and talking about our lives and families. I will cherish that weekend forever because it was my last with Hawley and we had so much fun! We hope to have another reunion later this summer. Of course, it won't be the same without Hawls.