
Hello my friends! Summer is just rolling on, and I’ve been meaning to blog about 100 different things, so I just decided to put down my normal to-do list and just blog for the next half hour.
So two online news articles over the past weekend caught my attention, and then literally, my favorite blog featured one of the articles, and on NPR this morning they featured the other article. I would say both of these are getting pretty good publicity this week and for good reason, because as Americans we are all striving to find balance in this oh so busy world that we’ve created for ourselves.
The first article is “The ‘Busy’ Trap” on the NY Times and the second article is “Why Women Still Can’t Have it All” on The Atlantic.
The subject of time management first came to my attention by the oh so genius Cassie Dodds, who looked at all her 20 something babies in her small group, fresh out of college, and decided that we needed to spend at least a year and half talking about ‘margin’ and balancing our time. She is genius for foreseeing what she felt we needed to hear most because unbeknownst to us, we were about half equipped and just beginning jobs, marriages, and the like.
I guess these articles really speak for themselves, but what I love, I mean what I really LOVE, is that full blown America is catching on to this. Everyone from big ups on Wall Street, to doctors, to ladies that run Martha Stewart, are realizing just how emptying life is when we are on the constant go and never settle to reflect or spend time doing the things we love the most.
I’ve always felt like a bit of an old soul, but there is just this huge part of me, that doesn’t want to be connected 24/7, that just wants to spend time around a table with my good friends and family, and wants to be outside every day. I feel like I’ve learned so much from working full time these past three years, and it’s really lead to me to this place where I feel like I have my whole life before me, and the main underlying question is this simple:
“How do I want to spend my time?”
I’m in a season where I think of this often. At the women’s retreat this past year, I literally remember one statement, and it’s that we have time, we have all the time in the world in fact, we just have to decide how we want to use it. Saying yes to something, inevitably means saying no to something else (oh the self-discipline), whether you make that conscious decision or not.
If you ask anyone (well most I feel like), many of us would say the ideal would be if we didn’t have to work, we would then have so much time to ____ (fill in the blank). Or if you have found your dream job, sometimes that is even more challenging, because it’s easy to get so out of balance since you love what you’re doing so much. I’ve found this to be true even with just the bit of freelance graphic design I’ve done, because I’ll fill all the extra hours of my day because it’s what I enjoy and I feel the need to get “ahead”. So whether you’ve found your dream job or not, how do we balance what we invest into work and life period?
It’s a constant journey of finding balance that is ever changing, but I thought I’d share since I related so much. If you have any tips or tricks for being more self-disciplined or if these articles resonate, let me know :).
{photo via the oh so talented Max Wagner}
ps. I love how the author of the NY Times article, ran away to an undisclosed location to unplug… don’t you just feel like that some days?