2014, The Roller Coaster Year

I know I'm extremely behind on blogging, so this is my pitiful attempt to catch up. I decided it'd be easier to recap 2014.

2014 was a roller coaster year, with incredible highs and lows:

  • We (Michael) started a big garden/fruit orchard in our yard and we enjoyed the first year's yield.
  • We submitted our application to adopt a baby and had fun making the announcement on Mother's Day.
  • We celebrated 7 years of marriage.
  • Shortly thereafter, we had to say goodbye to our furry son, Fred, and put him to sleep.
  • We enjoyed an amazing plant-based McDougall vacation in Costa Rica
  • We added a new furry child to our family, Maddi, whom we adopted from the humane society.
  • On September 9th, we came home to a horrific scene of Maddi's leg being stuck in the door to the washing machine, badly broken...most traumatizing thing I've experienced yet. Thankfully she is fully recovered now.
  • In late September, Michael's mom, Lisa, was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer and told she had a month or two up to a year or two left to live. She didn't want treatment for the first couple months because she wanted to enjoy her quality of life. She had been treated for cancer two times previously in her life and knew how awful treatment could be.
  • In mid-November, her pain worsened to the point that she wanted to begin radiation treatments to help with the pain. But by early December, it became clear that she was not going to survive this battle. She could no longer walk or care for herself.
  • On November 18th, Christine turned 30! On the 19th, we got the greatest call we could hope for: a birth mother chose us to adopt her baby that was due in mid-December!
  • Because we would be expecting a newborn baby and dealing with Lisa soon to be passing away, we felt extremely overwhelmed with life, but tried to take care of as many things as we could before receiving the baby. We sold or moved Lisa's stuff, sublet her apartment, adopted her dog, and took ownership of her car.
  • We felt the body of Christ like never before! We were so touched and awed by the outpouring of love and support from friends and family. Dear friends threw me a baby shower on December 7th. Friends and co-workers generously gave baby gifts and items to us that they no longer needed or bought from our registry. We had everything we needed to receive a newborn, plus a network of friends who were happy to care for our pets while we went to the hospital to celebrate her birth and bring her home.
  • On December 19th, we welcomed EVY into the world and our lives!
  • Lisa got to meet EVY before she passed away on December 27th. We hadn't seen her that energetic in some time, so that was a beautiful moment.
  • The memorial service for Lisa was so special and a beautiful way to remember her. We're sad she is no longer living, but we rejoice in knowing that because she trusted in Christ and Christ alone for her salvation, she is in heaven with Him, fully healed and at peace.
Although there was lots of heartache in 2014, there is ALWAYS something to be thankful for, you just have to focus on what you have and not what you don't have. Our faith has been greatly strengthened through this year and we look forward to what 2015 has in store.



Storms Lately

In just one month since my last post, a lot has happened in our lives. The title of this post does not refer to the weather, but to some difficult circumstances we've encountered in the past month. We would appreciate your prayers as we navigate these storms and ask for God's strength and wisdom to get through them. Thank you!

Maddi
Literally the evening of my last blog post, Maddi had a terrible accident.

We left all our pets inside the house while we attended our Tuesday night Bible Study and were gone for about 2 hours. Before we even opened the utility room/garage door to enter the house, we could hear Maddi meowing and it wasn't a normal sound.

When we opened the door, the dogs were freaking out, and Maddi was hanging by one leg from the front loading washing machine door. She had somehow gotten her right back leg wedged into the crevice of the door hinge. We think maybe she tried to jump up onto the washer and didn't quite make it. (And we usually leave the washer door cracked or fully open so it doesn't mildew...never in a million years did it occur to us that this could pose a threat.) This picture shows my finger oriented how her leg was caught, but I could not get my finger as deep down as her leg was, just to give you an idea of how stuck she was.

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The scene was awful and very traumatic for us. Maddi was frantically crying in pain, had relieved herself, and there was some blood and scratch marks on the wall. Michael rushed to her and held her body up to relieve the weight of her hanging. But Maddi (like all cats in a frantic situation) bit his hand multiple times. Praise the Lord He put the thought in my mind to tell him to grab her by the scruff of her neck (which tends to immobilize cats).

This gave us a chance to take a breath and figure out what to do. I put the dogs in the backyard and then tried to look closer at the door and her leg. It was wedged down deep, and the way to door is designed, there's no way to make that space open wider by either opening or closing the door -- that space remains relatively the same width. So then I got a screwdriver to try to remove the door, but also by the way it's designed, you cannot access the screws unless you open the door past 90-degrees. But this would have required us to pull the entire washing machine towards us, while holding Maddi up, and then crush her leg more to open the door past 90 degrees -- not an option!

At some point during this chaos, I frantically called my parents who live about 10 minutes away. I don't think I said anything coherent, just bits and pieces of panicked yelling "Maddi...leg...stuck....help" I'm amazed my mom understood anything I said, but she said she'd be right over.

Also while we were frantically trying to figure out what to do, I decided to dose her with liquid pain medicine I had leftover from Fred, just to help take the edge off.

We were struggling with what to do for about 15-20 minutes. We were both so panicked. Thoughts kept running through my mind that I wanted to call someone to rescue us. I thought about calling the police, but realized that no police would rush to aid an animal when they have people to save. We couldn't remove the door. We couldn't take the washing machine with us to have someone else help. It finally just hit me that no one was coming to rescue us, we would just have to figure out how to get her leg free.

The most important thing to do was to get that leg free. So I grit my teeth, told Michael to hold her tight, I put my fingers underneath her leg, and just forced it straight upward and out of the crevice. It was awful (I could feel clearly that her leg was broken badly)...but it worked. Her leg was free, praise God!

We quickly placed her in a cat kennel and started driving to the emergency room at the vet school. Michael called my parents and told them we had just left. (I'm so thankful that my mom - who is as much of an animal lover as me - did not have to witness her still stuck in the door.) I drove like a maniac and literally honked and flashed my lights at people to move out of our way. I put our emergency flashers on and speed like crazy, running at least 5 lights. I'm shocked no police cars were in the vicinity, but I would not have stopped until we reached the vet school -- another praise to God.

We rushed her inside and handed her over to the wonderful staff at the vet school.

And then I broke down.

Literally a basket case. The weight of that scene overcame me and I just needed to release all those intense feelings. They said they see it happen all the time. ;)

My parents were there as well and were a huge support to us. I'm so glad to live close to family!

At the vet school emergency room, they stabilize the situation and then give you a recommendation. That night, they told us that her leg was badly broken and likely involved the ankle bone, which would be difficult to fix and would likely require amputation. But they would show her case to the orthopedic vets first thing the next morning and let them make their recommendations.

So we went home that night with heavy hearts and prepared ourselves to raise a three-legged kitten. We even watched YouTube videos of three-legged cats to comfort us that they could still have a happy life. Michael selflessly offered to clean the utility room so we would not have to be reminded of the accident. He even re-painted the scratch marks on the wall that night, and you really cannot tell unless I point it out. He did a wonderful job, and I was so thankful for him doing that (while I had a large alcoholic beverage to take the edge off.) And his brilliant solution for the washer door: wedge a rolled up towel in the crevice so the door can still remain open to avoid mildew, but nothing can get stuck in the crevice anymore.

We then stayed up as late as we could watching The Big Bang Theory to try to avoid sleep. Even when we eventually went to bed, we could not sleep well because the images of the night kept coming to mind. It was seriously the most traumatic event either one of us had ever experienced. I have so much respect for people who deal with scenes like that on a regular basis (doctors, vets, emergency responders, military, etc.)

The next morning God bestowed yet another blessing on us -- the orthopedic vet, Dr. C. called us and said that she looked at Maddi's case and thought she was an excellent candidate to have her leg repaired through surgery instead of having to amputate. Her leg was broken in two places: the tibia and fibula, but it did not involve the ankle bone. Because she was a kitten and it was a relatively clean break, Dr. C. thought her chances were really good. She even petitioned the board to partially match the cost of the surgery. Her care has been above and beyond the norm.

So Maddi had surgery on Wednesday, September 10th. They put in a metal plate and several screws. Here is a picture we took of her after her surgery.

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She came home with us on Friday, September 12th. She is a tough, tough girl. We have to keep her confined to a dog kennel to prevent her from running or jumping. On October 22nd, we'll take her in for another set of x-rays to check how well the bones are healing. Dr. C. may relax the activity restrictions after that point, but it could be longer.

Overall, Maddi is doing well. We have to leave her cones on because otherwise she will bite at and irritate the incision site. This means we have to feed and water her twice a day since she can't eat or drink with the cones on. She is NOT happy about having to be confined to a kennel, but she's just going to have to trust us that we're doing what is best for her in the long run. We're hopeful that she'll make a full recovery and regain full use of her leg. She already walks with equal weight on her legs. We're just so thankful she was able to keep her leg!

We call her our little Daisy Flower because of the cones:

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Cancer
Another storm in our lives is a very close family member as well as a family friend suffering with cancer. I don't want to share the details of other people's lives, but these two people are very dear to us. We would greatly appreciate your prayers for healing, and that the ill would keep their eyes fixed on Christ. Lord, help us to encourage them, love on them, and enjoy every moment that we do have left with them. God is always and only good.

Thank you!

Meet Maddi And The Rest Of Our Summer

Shortly after our return from Costa Rica, our hearts were aching to try to fill the space that our Freddie Boy left behind. So we went to a local shelter to look at kittens. Michael was excited about this because ever since he met me, I'd had the three adult cats. They took a while to warm up to him, and he never felt like they truly accepted him (typical cat attitude, huh?) So he looked forward to the idea of picking out a kitten together that would be just as attached to him as to me. So on that note, we'd like to introduce you to our newest addition to our family:

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Her name is Maddi, short for our favorite kind of date, the Medjool date. The shelter lady was so excited for us to adopt her and said that unfortunately the black cats are harder to adopt out. Silly superstitious people!

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Although there is some truth to the fears...Maddi does act possessed by a demon on occasion. We joke and call her Mad Cat or that she has an evil twin, Caddi, who sometimes takes over her personality.

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Seeing as how our other two cats HATE her (perhaps because Maddi keeps trying to chew on their tails and pounce on them?), she has resorted to buddying up with the dogs. We think she believes she's a tiny dog too.

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The dogs were so curious about her from the beginning, sniffing her underneath the bathroom door.

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She's crazy sometimes, but she's a cute fit in our family.



Other updates since Costa Rica:

More Pet Cuteness
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Someone who wanted to workout with us.
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And a whole lot of sleepy going around.
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Garden
God has blessed us well with the garden this summer. We've been swimming in squash, cucumbers, tomatoes, and watermelon. We even hunted around town and found a very mature fig tree that no one was harvesting from - their loss is our delicious gain!

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A Very Thoughtful Gift
Suzanne, the student intern who attended to Fred while he was hospitalized was so kind to paint a watercolor portrait of him and send it to us to remember him by. She will make a wonderful veterinarian with her heart of compassion!

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Approved and Waiting
We found out we were officially approved to adopt through our agency and are now waiting to be chosen by a birth mother. You can follow our adoption journey on Hope Does Not Disappoint.

Family and Home Life Pictures
Because we have been approved, the next thing we had to do was finish our profile book, which meant taking some pictures of family and our home life.

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Silly pictures and all. Hey, we're just being ourselves.
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We even had a Family Movie Night. We watched God's Not Dead, ate dinner together, and had banana chocolate pudding for dessert (all plant-based of course). It was so much fun!
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Travel System
We also started shopping around for a travel system because an infant car seat is the one thing we absolutely have to have in order to bring a baby home. We have decided on the Graco FastAction Fold Jogger Click Connect Travel System/Click Connect 35 travel system. But it had to pass The Michael Test first (a.k.a. running around the store like a crazy person to try to test it for weaknesses).

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One Republic Concert
We attended a One Republic concert and had a great time. This time around, we bought pre-assigned seating tickets so that we could get there whenever we wanted to (rather than first come first serve on the lawn). It was worth the increased price in my opinion. We shopped around at a Babies R Us (where we confirmed the above travel system is the one we want to get someday), ate dinner at Salata, and then went to the concert. Christina Perri was one of the opening acts, and she was wonderful too. One Republic was really good and they played a lot of familiar songs.

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