Friday, January 21, 2011

Memorial for Border Patrol Agent Brian Terry

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In attendance were:
Terry's family
DHS Commissioner Alan Bersin (escorted by body guard, I noticed)
Senator John Kyl
Ron Barber (Senator Giffords representative)
4 House Reps
a US attorney
Former DHS commissioners Bonner and Ahern
Others had attended Terry's funeral held previously in Michigan.

The service can be seen here:

The second speaker, Kirk Martin, (11:20) was a friend from MI. He spoke on behalf of the family. If you have never heard the story of the sheepdog before, it's definitely worth it. DHS Commissioner Alan Bersin's comments begin at 17:55. The three promises he makes to the family (25:00) is stirring. At 40:00 is the reading of a letter that Terry wrote. Although it wasn't much over 70, and they were slowly rotating in and out, one of the color guard (composed of many different agencies in full dress uniform) collapsed and was carried off the field by four BORTAC or BORSTR agents standing by. Shortly after the first guy collapsed they started tapping out another one every few minutes. Tim was supervising the trainees as they conducted traffic before the memorial, so he missed the beginning but did get to come into the arena and watch most of it. The arena was sectioned off, with about 6 sections of BP, one armed forces, one for other uniformed personnel, one DHS, and one "public". There was quite a bit of press there, and the total in attendance was stated to be over 1,200.

Also, the ceremonial moments at the end (1:00:00) (rifle salute, fly over in missing man formation (which you can only hear on this recording), presentation of his service streamer to his family, riderless horse, echo taps, amazing grace and last call) are total tear jerkers but a beautiful tribute.

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Rifle Salute


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Riderless Horse while Echo Taps is played


Riderless Horse while Amazing Grace is played


Family attaches service streamer to guide-on.

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Last Call


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Saturday, January 8, 2011

The New Addition

After our sweet Dallas died last September I told the family I wanted to take some time off from pets, maybe a few years. Tim begged, Tessa begged, I stayed strong...for about three months. I searched petfinder.org for the perfect dog for us and found lots (too many, sadly) that looked like wonderful animals. I printed out a few and we set out to meet some of them. Petsmart was holding an adoption event and a rescue had set up open pens in one area of their store. I found the pretty brindle pups I had seen online and they were adorable, but boy, were they hyper. I watched as they wrestled and barked and ran in circles, having lots of fun being very wild. I decided maybe we should keep looking, and spent a few minutes petting and visiting with the other animals they had brought that day.

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I started to get interested in a gorgeous German Shepherd but had to move on when they told me that he was prone to running away. We got spoiled with Dallas, who loved to run around with the neighborhood kids in the cul-de-sac and never, ever ran away. I knew it would only take a day or two before Tessa would leave the door open and the dog would be gone forever.

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Next, they praised the personality of another dog, maybe a chow mix, and really tried to convince us how wonderful she was. She was very calm and patient with the kids but didn't really interact with us and there was just no bond forming while we spent time with her. (Behind Tessa in the first picture)

The kids were getting bored, Tim was getting annoyed and claimed that he had no preference at all and I should just hurry up and decide if our dog was here or if we should move on. Walking back to the pens I saw another puppy that we hadn't spent any time with and I had to stop myself to think of why. She was alone in her pen, being a pretty calm little thing, and I remembered seeing her play in the store's training room with some customers who had come in with their own dogs for some socialization training. She had been running around chasing a ball and acting like a puppy but now, back in the pen she was calm and quiet. Hmmm. This could be a sign of a good personality. I picked her up and showed her to Tim and the kids, who all just wanted to leave, with or without a dog, at this point. She fit right into my arms, didn't act nervous or restless at all and I started to get a good feeling. I put her down on the floor and she walked under Phoebe's wheelchair and laid down. I just knew that this one would fit into our family. I think I skipped over her at first because she was a female, black with brown eyebrows, etc. I had even told Tim while we were searching that I would try to find him a male this time, so he'd have some company. I also thought it would be fun to have a white or yellow dog for a change. So much for making plans!

12 weeks old. Waiting for the rescue to fill out our paperwork.
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At her new home.
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Being mauled affectionately.
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Tessa is quite convincing as a puppy.
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Wrestling with her fellow pup.
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When she's had enough rough play, she sticks close to Phoebe. She seemed to understand the girls' personalities and environments right from the start.
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After about a week of debate, brainstorming, and testing, we named her Charley Lou.
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Sunday, April 25, 2010

Historic Charleston, S.C.

We woke up around 8 and did a head count. Tessa was still in the room, although she HAD messed with the brakes on the wheelchair, possibly trying to escape? Another shot of our fabulous room.

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Phoebe had leaked a bit overnight so I asked the hotel to please change the sofa bed sheets, but not to worry about anything else. They ended up replacing all the linens, but at least they left the furniture in our temporary arrangement. I made sure to book all hotels that served some sort of breakfast on site, because I knew with our group it just wasn't going to be possible for all of us to be ready at the same time to head out to a restaurant. The Windham had a nice, large breakfast room with enough choices to satisfy everyone.
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By the time we were done eating, Phoebe was ready for a nap already. Since we were heading just a few minutes into historic Charleston I knew she wouldn't have any other opportunity to nap. I put her to bed while Tim put the car seat back together and rearranged the car. Heather liked looking over the tourist brochures and magazines trying to decide what places would be the most fun to see. Phoebe slept for an hour and we finally got into old C-ton around noon.

When we first exited the freeway the neighborhood looked pretty run down, and we were a little nervous to not know our way around. I had a guide book that highlighted some of the oldest buildings and places that had historical interest. We drove a few blocks and started feeling a little more at ease as the homes looked a little less dilapidated and showed some pride of ownership. There were some of these three story buildings that amazed us because they defied gravity by leaning so far over that some of them required 2x4s to be propped against the leaning sides. We drove down one block and saw some really beautiful and interesting homes, and then a couple of churches. The guide book told us about how important the "Aiken Rhett" mansion was, but most of these noted homes were being hailed as fine examples of such-and-such architecture, decor, furnishings, etc. We were NOT going to pay money to tour these places with our hyper 4 yr old and our 8 yr old in her wheelchair! Helllooooo?!!?!

At the corner of Charlotte and Elizabeth streets Heather and I said we just had to get out and walk the block. Tim drove around with the kids while I tried to quickly capture some of the interesting sights. Church was letting out at the red brick, New Tabernacle Fourth Baptist church on one corner. When I went to look up the name of it I found out that in 2007 the city refused a request by the pastor to turn the church into a theatre. The congregation of 300 couldn't afford the upkeep of the 1859 church, built to hold 1200. The neighbors in the area said they would rather have condos or a single family residence in it's place. I couldn't find a more recent article for an update, but I did see it listed on Ticketmaster as a venue. Since they were holding church services the day we were there I will consider it a victory for the church! One corner had a building that used to be Smith's Groceries, according to the faded sign on it's wall.

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Directly across the street from the Baptist church was a huge white Presbyterian church. The Second Presbyterian Church was dedicated in 1811 and some of the headstones in the cemetery were equally old. This one is for a 15 yr old girl named Sarah who died in 1817. I can't read the one next to her but obviously a child's with initials S.H.P. I couldn't decide if the 'modernization' and ADA compliance of the building over the top of these graves was commendable or reprehensible.
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Looking from the front steps across the street to yet another old church. The Mother Emanuel AME church, founded in 1818.
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At the end of the block Tim picked us up and we continued toward the historic downtown. We paid to park in a lot at the corner of Market and Meeting Streets. We were all hungry at this point, so we asked the parking attendant for a recommendation. He suggested Hyman's Seafood just down the street and gave us a coupon.
Waiting for a table outside Hyman's Seafood on the weird rocking bench. In case you can't read it, Heather's shirt is Oscar the GROUCH.
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The interior was funky, but restored to it's previous glory. Lots of famous people ate here. We debated which ones we wanted to be associated with depending on our seat at the table. You can see the plaques on the table.
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Tim's catfish po'boy
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Phoebe's fettuccine and sweet potato souffle
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My stuffed crab
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Tessa's grilled cheese
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crab dip
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You can also see some of the hushpuppies and boiled peanuts in the background. It was the usual fight with Tessa to get her to eat and not crawl around, under and over the table.

Our waiter talked to Heather for a loooooooong time. He said he was married, but I couldn't quite tell if he was flirting. Heather is a manager in the restaurant industry so they did talk shop most of the time. After dinner they gave us some coupons to go next door to the General Store and pick out a free popcorn or ice cream. Tim also decided to get a souvenir hat, pretty cheap.

We walked back to the car to swap out a few items, I walked back toward the restaurant when Tessa said she needed to potty. Back to the car again, we were ready to do some touring. I mapped out our route that afternoon and it only came to about 2.5 miles but it sure felt longer. It was amazing views and scenery, especially, but not limited to, the old restored homes.


U.S. Customs House
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We stopped to chase squirrels and dip our feet (well, for some of us it was our whole legs) at Waterfront park.
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The pier that walks out to the Cooper River. It has swings under the ramadas but we had to wait for a turn on one. I tried not to be annoyed at people who just sat and didn't swing. Isn't that what regular benches are for?
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Tessa looked like she might fall asleep.
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Phoebe enjoyed it but wanted off after a few minutes.
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A beautiful magnolia blossom.
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My beautiful girl.
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A gate leading to the fountain where we played.
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And a ton of pics from our walk. It was so hard to choose just some of them to share.
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I notice I was behind everyone in many of the pics. I really had to make myself keep moving. I just wanted to capture every intricate detail of this neighborhood.
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A butterfly landed on Tim's butt which Tessa thought was hilarious. Okay, we all did. Especially me, since after 15 years of marriage he still tries to convince me that his farts smell like roses.
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These trees had branches that grew together.
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We discovered the East Bay Playground and had to let the girls relax for a bit.
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When she tried to get out of it, she fell.
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But didn't stay down for long!
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Continuing on our walk at sunset...
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We walked along a boardwalk type of path next to the river on E. Battery.
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The homes there were incredibly ornate and grand.

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We asked a lady who was out walking for exercise (thinking she must be a local - no camera or guide book) about the doors to the porches we kept seeing. She said that the rich families liked to show off their homes and gardens for passers-by and would leave the door open if they were receiving visitors. If it was closed, you could still appreciate the beauty (and their wealth) but you knew not to bother the residents. We wondered if this is where the term "open door policy" comes from?

At the end of the street we had to choose to continue along the waterfront or turn back north along one of the streets that ended where we were; White point Garden, aka The Battery. It was basically a park with lots of memorials. I didn't take pics of any of the statues dedicated to people I don't know who defended the confederacy. Sorry. I did take this of Tessa and her now infamous "Coconut butt" inspiration. Much more interesting, don't you think?
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Walking back north now, along Meeting St. This is the Calhoun Mansion. I copied this from their website:
"...built in 1876 by George W. Williams for $200,000.00 and the lot itself was purchased for $40,000.00 (Confederate Currency).

...24,000 square foot structure has 14 foot ceilings, ornate plaster and wood moldings, elaborate chandeliers, a stairwell that reaches to a 75 foot domed ceiling, and a music room with a 45 foot covered glass skylight.

...After Mr. Williams's death in 1903, the house went through a succession of occupants and uses, gradually deteriorating until, in 1972, it was condemned .The house was subsequently purchased by a Charleston native who spent the next 25 years and 5 million dollars restoring it." Just a good reminder of why we were not actually touring any of the insides of these homes!
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Tim loved the half-round porticos.
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Gate's open...should we go in?
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First Scots Presbyterian Church (1814). There are quite a few tombstones dated in the 1700's but we did not go in and look.
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St. Michael's Episcopal (1752)
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The Mills House Hotel, 1853
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Skyline at dusk
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The old city market (1841 front structure, around 1800 was the initial use of stalls behind this)
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Which is back to where we parked. It was obviously getting dark and we were hungry, but since it was so late we figured we should avoid another sit down meal with the kids. We loaded up, headed back to North Charleston around 8:30 and found a good place called the East Bay Deli near our hotel that was just getting ready to close. We got the food to go and ate a late dinner in our hotel's breakfast room then headed up to bed.