Wednesday, October 12, 2011

My mother keeps asking me if I'm writing this all down.

I've written down lots of things that Madeline says, but I'll admit, I haven't been as good lately as I could be. So I'm starting out right here!

She's going to be 2 in less than a month, which is ridiculous. The second year has gone much faster than the first did. I was looking down at her still-kinda-fuzzy head the other day, and I suddenly thought, "AAaauauaaghghghhh... she's going to be twelve soon." It made me want to hold onto her tight.

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She has starting saying "My Mommy" and "My Daddy," and it's completely adorable. (I'm pretty sure this is because I call her "my Madeline" a lot—as in, "How are you doing, my Madeline?" And when Josh asks her what she wants, she'll point to me and say, "My Mommy!") Not so adorable is the continuous "Mommy-Mommy-Mommy-Mommy-Mommy" (etc.) that she uses to call me from another room, or to tell Josh that she wants me to do something instead of him. She has recently started using "Daddy-Daddy-Daddy" too, though, which is kind of nice for me, lol.

ImageLook—chickens!

She has started to use "I" correctly at the beginning of first persons sentences. She still says "Did it!" sometimes, but more and more it's "I did it!" or "I got it!"

She has started demanding "More!" and she's been an expert with "No!" for a long time. It is really fun to hear her use new words; lately she talks about fish and sharks and bugs and cards (a pack of sight-word cards that she loves to take out of the box and then put back in a card or two at a time) and grass and going to the kark, which means park. Actually, anytime we go out the front door, she points out to the sidewalk and says, "Kark!!" She cries when we drive past it and don't stop, and no matter how long we stay, she cries when we leave. She loves the slide (both for sliding and for pushing things down), the swings (but she wants to sit on your lap to swing), the teeter-totter, and the little playhouse that both of our little neighborhood parks have. The bigger one also has a tunnel and a merry-go-round, and she's a fan of those, too.

ImageSummer days in Alexandria—complete with sunglasses and a baby.

When we're home, she asks to go on the deck (which sometimes sounds like she's asking for a duck, but then she says "Outside" and you realize what she means); she loves to throw helicopter leaves down from our balcony, but our landlord just had our big tree cut down, so there aren't any helicopter leaves on the deck anymore.

She still loves babies of all kinds, and airplanes (especially playing Lego airplanes with Daddy). She still has a love/fear relationship with Daddy's remote-control helicopter. She still labels anything and everything as a mommy, a daddy, or a baby. (For example, we've been at airports where there were mommy, daddy, and baby airplanes; however, every single plane at Heathrow was a mommy airplane.)

ImageDisassembly is her favorite part (well, besides the little Lego mommy).

Oh, the other thing she loves lately is playing tent; this means we go upstairs and climb under the covers on Mommy's and Daddy's bed. This is a favorite delaying tactic at bedtime—we head upstairs talking about pajamas, and suddenly she says excitedly, "A tett! A tett!"

She got a little plastic walker bike from our neighbors; she does ride it, but her favorite thing to do with it is to pull it around the house. Sometimes she calls it a bike, and sometimes she calls it a car. She's started pretending something with it, I'm not sure what, but she'll walk around talking to it, and she stops every few feet to tip it sideways, pat it a little, then help it back up and keep walking. The other day I walked into my bedroom to find them both lying down on the floor, taking a pretend nap (Madeline had a blanket over herself). I'm not sure if she's pretending it's an animal or if it's just alive (think Disney's Cars), but I think it's great!

It was so funny the other day... most of the time, when I ask her a question and she gives a response anywhere near the correct one, I say, "You're right!" We were looking at a picture of a cat, and I asked, "What does a cat say?" Madeline hasn't really meowed yet, and she didn't respond. So I said, "Does it say meow?" And she said brightly, "Wite!"

ImageThe more, the merrier.

She usually likes to color; she has a coloring book with Disney princesses in it, and she's seen enough of the movies to know that these princesses usually sing. So now instead of coloring in that book when she gets it out, she's more interested in getting me to sing the songs. She still demands singing the same way she has for the last 8 months or so—she points to the song reference, usually a picture, and then points firmly at your mouth. She also asks me to sing "Odette" fairly often ("Far Longer than Forever," the song from The Swan Princess, which was the only movie she would watch for a few months). I'm really excited these days because she is finally trying to sing herself, which she wouldn't ever do before—usually she does that at church, when Daddy and I are both singing. She doesn't believe in singing during movies; in fact, if I start singing along with a movie, I quickly get a stern "No!"

ImageMom, it's Vaseline—you're supposed to put it on your face!

She's such a character, and we just love her. She has such a quick mind; she's got a social, friendly personality; she's got some two-years-old starting to show, but overall, she's pretty obedient (or at least willing to compromise when something is important to us). As long as she's got her mommy and her daddy, she likes going anywhere (especially with stairs, and preferably not too long in a carseat). When she's watching something, she wants one of us to sit by her and hold her hand.

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I'd like to hold her hand forever. :-)

Monday, August 1, 2011

Conversations with M

Our girl has always been expressive—she's a big fan of her own homemade sign language—but she is definitely finding her voice. And she understands everything, even if she won't try to say it. I laughed the other day when I was telling Josh something that she had expressed to me; we were talking about how she understands pretty complex ideas, and I turned to her and said, "Do you understand complex ideas?" She nodded solemnly.

Things she says clearly:
No-no-no-no-no!
Yeah
A doggy!
A car!
Daddy
Mommy
Pease (meaning please, but this is rare—she usually signs it; it's one of her two ASL signs, please and milk)
bath
kitty
water
duck/quack (Sometimes it's hard to tell which one she's saying, but you know what she means.)
moma (This means movie. She used to say moomee, but it's evolved.)
paci (meaning pacifier)
A baby!
church
Jesus
ball
outside
bird
stairs
diaper
treat
Me too!
My turn!
aNAno (caps for emphasis—this is "another," which she uses to say another and again)
toes
She has also been known to say Grandma and Grandpa (and our family's variants), Anna, and Joslyn, and she says Ginger very clearly—Ginger is Grandma and Grandpa's dog, whom M loves.

Things I'm starting to realize she's saying (not quite clear yet):
Read it
apple
picture
computer
ri der (right there)
shoes
jelly bean
get in
light

Recently...

M (to Daddy): Want to! (points to him, points to herself)
Mommy: You want Daddy to hold you?
M: Yeah.

M finds a DVD with a lady wearing a dress on the cover. She points to the dress.
Mommy: Is she wearing an orange dress?
M nods emphatically and starts pulling at her pajama shirt.
Mommy: Would you like to wear a dress?
M (nodding): Church!
Mommy: Do you like to go to church?
M: Yeah! (points to the door)
Mommy: There won't be anyone at church today—should we go on Sunday?
M nods and points to me.
Mommy: Do you want me to go to church too?
M: Yeah!

We went to her closet to find a dress to wear; no matter what other dresses I suggest, she always wants to wear her Easter dress, dark blue with bright flowers all over it. (Would it make me a terrible mom to forget to wash it this time, so that she can wear something else to church this weekend?)

M is pulling on her almost-too-small and definitely-too-warm snow boots, which she loves because she can put them on all the way all by herself.
Mommy: Sweetheart, can you wear some different shoes today?
M: I wik dis.
Mommy: I know you like those, love—
M (brightly): Yeah!

When you add all of this (and more that I'm not remembering right this second) to her already expressive gesture/sign language, it makes her a really good communicator. If she wants to go somewhere, she points or uses a word, and when you acknowledge it, she points to herself. (If we're in the backyard, she'll point to the pool and say, "Water!" I'll repeat it—"Water?" And then she nods and points to herself. "Would you like to swim in the water?" "Yeah!" We have different versions of this particular conversation very often—the girl is part fish.)


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Somehow she is becoming a real toddler, not just a baby toddler. I really appreciate that when I ask her if she is my baby, she promptly answers yes. :-)

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Lessons from dinner, and other just-got-home ramblings.

Saved as a draft for several months... sorry guys! :-)

So, it's December, and we are back in Germany! I really do intend to blog about more of the adventures we had before we got back; sadly, many of them involved a very sick baby and packing and trips that didn't turn out quite the way we planned, but that's okay. All's well now.

As I was making dinner yesterday, I discovered something: you know how you can give yourself a little burn if you hold a piece of ice too long? You know freezer burn, that stuff that makes ice cream taste funny? Well, my friends, you'd never believe it, but freezer burn cooked the edges of my frozen chicken. I got it out of the bag, thinking "I don't remember leaving this much chicken in here... 6 months shouldn't hurt it, it was frozen the whole time..." And then I noticed that the edges looked cooked, under the ice build-up. Science! Who knew! :-D (Also, I cooked it and put it in chicken pot pie, and it was fine. There were two edges that would have been really chewy, and those I cut off and put in the bio recycling.)

Also, M is at the age where she wants to HELP. Usually I find her something safe to stir and she's happy, but lately she really wants to stir the thing I am stirring. :-) Nice try, Mom.

Have I ever explained, for those of you who don't know, about our German trash laws? We separate all trash into 4 categories: bio trash (food, basically... anything that would make clean compost... dead potted plants, for example, not that I have ever had to do that much...), paper, packaging (of the non-paper kind: most plastics, aluminum foil, tin cans, Styrofoam—anything like that that can be rinsed out), and regular trash (everything else). Oh, and we have to recycle glass; it doesn't fall into the other categories, and it doesn't get picked up by the sanitation department like everything else does, but it's not a big deal. We have a big glass-recycling container just down the street.

Also, I am pleased to say that I love our German house just as much now as I did before. We had a good little apartment in Arizona, but it's so nice to be home with our own real beds, and cooler weather, and good friends whom we missed, and more toys and books for M, and my kitchen full of everything I need to really do some good.

Now, let's see if we can make it through M learning to walk with all-tile floors... and much-in-need-of-childproofing stairs...

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No, Mommy, it'll be fine! I'll be really careful!

Monday, November 1, 2010

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Another one!

My friend Holly has the best giveaways... I didn't win the last one, but maybe this time we'll have better luck!

Click here to see this different baby carrier giveaway.

This one's meant for toddlers, 15 to 45 pounds, and has some cool features. Cross your fingers for me!

(Sorry that I don't have a cute picture for this post... I need to clear off my camera. Lots of good stuff on there, just isn't on here yet.)