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A lawyer with a well-stamped passport and a passion for human rights, Lisa-Jo Baker never wanted to be a mom. And then she had kids. Having lost her own mother to cancer as a teenager, Lisa-Jo felt lost on her journey to womanhood and wholly unprepared to raise children.

Surprised by Motherhood is Lisa-Jo’s story of becoming and being a mom, and in the process, discovering that all the “what to expect” and “how to” books in the world can never truly prepare you for the sheer exhilaration, joy, and terrifying love that accompanies motherhood.

Set partly in South Africa and partly in the US (with a slight detour to Ukraine along the way),
Surprised by Motherhood is a poignant memoir of one woman’s dawning realization that being a mom isn’t about being perfect―it’s about being present.
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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ 1414387857
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Tyndale House Publishers
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ April 1, 2014
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 240 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 9781414387857
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1414387857
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 8.8 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.63 x 8.25 inches
  • Best Sellers Rank: #1,671,881 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.6 out of 5 stars (370)

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LISA-JO BAKER is a bestselling author with a BA in English/prelaw from Gordon College and a JD from the University of Notre Dame Law School. Lisa-Jo has lived and worked on three continents in the human rights field and subsequently spent nearly a decade leading the online community of women called (in)courage as their editor in chief and community manager. Originally from South Africa, Lisa-Jo now lives just outside Washington, D.C., where she met and fell in love with her husband in the summer of ’96. Their story together spans decades, languages, countries, books, three very opinionated children, and one dog.

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Customers find this book refreshing and encouraging, with delightful writing that resonates with women everywhere. The memoir mixes real-life experiences with humor, making readers laugh and cry, while being totally honest and relatable for mothers in all stages of motherhood. They appreciate its readability and consider it a good gift for others, with one customer describing it as a beautiful gift to mothers everywhere.
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86 customers mention content, 82 positive, 4 negative
Customers find the book refreshing and encouraging, describing it as a satisfying read.
...Reading her story will give you something to think about. Great book, I've recommended it to and given it to a number of the women in my life.Read more
I loved this book. It brought about tears and laughter and it is a truly wonderful story....Read more
Very good read!Read more
Just what my heart needed to hear. LOVED this book!Read more
30 customers mention writing style, 30 positive, 0 negative
Customers appreciate the writing style of the book, describing it as delightful and poignant, with one customer noting how it resonates with women everywhere.
...Beautifully written. A must read for a Christian mama :)Read more
...It is a beautiful, poetic, real breath of encouragement and hope. It brought tears, laughter, and awakening as I read it....Read more
Such a beautifully written book. Thoughtful and thought-provoking and so, so encouraging. I have already bought several copies to give as gifts.Read more
...This book is written so well and speaks to the hearts of many mothers who have grand expectations over their lives and end up with something a...Read more
28 customers mention relatability, 26 positive, 2 negative
Customers find the book relatable and encouraging, particularly noting it as a must-read for all new mothers.
...Lisa-Jo Baker is more than likable, she's relatable in a way that feels as if she's reading and writing your own story, not just hers. As a daughter....Read more
...met her in person, it feels like I know her...all because of her vulnerability and honesty to crack open the truth about being a mom....Read more
Very personal, very heartwarmingRead more
...roses-and-chocolates romantic, but is real, and true and so very relateable....Read more
22 customers mention humor, 22 positive, 0 negative
Customers enjoy the book's humor, which mixes real-life experiences with laughter and tears.
...Absolutely recommend it to every new mother. Easy to read, funny, and inspiring.Read more
...It brought tears, laughter, and awakening as I read it....Read more
...This book made me laugh and cry as I reflected on my own experience as a mom, and I find myself refreshed knowing that I am not alone in my...Read more
...This book was laugh out loud funny, bold and bravely written, for all the Mamas out there. Highly recommend reading this book. I loved it.Read more
21 customers mention honesty, 21 positive, 0 negative
Customers appreciate the book's honesty.
...What I felt was normal! She's honest about the sometimes hard "trench" times of mommy-hood but she is also uplifting without being fake....Read more
...Insightful, authentic, gut-wrenching, thought-provoking and funny... all at the same tme... how does she do it?1...Read more
...isn't perfect and isn't always roses-and-chocolates romantic, but is real, and true and so very relateable....Read more
Her experience of motherhood is written straight from the heart. Very insightful and easy read! Would recommend to any mom!Read more
19 customers mention story, 18 positive, 1 negative
Customers enjoy the book's story, finding it lovely and relatable, with one customer describing it as a beautiful journey of motherhood.
An amazing story of a coming of age into motherhood. Vivid narrative brings her personal story and journey to life. HIGHLY recommended.Read more
It would’ve been a lovely story if it didn’t get so uncomfortably religious....Read more
...Her real life stories and candid humor mad me laugh and I wanted to pretty much highlight the entire book to share with friends....Read more
...It brought about tears and laughter and it is a truly wonderful story....Read more
17 customers mention readability, 15 positive, 2 negative
Customers find the book easy to read and worth their time, appreciating that it is less of a how-to guide.
Quick and easy read about one women's journey into motherhood.Read more
This is less of a How To and more of a Me, Too book. This is Lisa-Jo's story... but really, it is all of us!...Read more
...Highly recommended. Worth the time to read esp if motherhood is a struggleRead more
...Very much worth the read.Read more
9 customers mention gift, 9 positive, 0 negative
Customers find the book to be a good gift for others, with one customer describing it as a beautiful gift to mothers everywhere.
...a poignant, heart touching account of womanhood, bravery, the love of Christ, and what it means to be a mother....Read more
...Lisa-Jo is one of the most gifted, remarkable, real storytellers I have ever read....Read more
Beautiful Gift to mothers everywhere!Read more
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The only book on motherhood you will ever need!!
5 out of 5 stars
The only book on motherhood you will ever need!!
there is no other parenting book you will need. #SurprisedByMotherhood helps you believe in yourself as a parent. I know for me, living in the chaos created by myself has been one of the most integral parts of knowing that I am okay as a mom.. Get your copy, and go download the three sample chapters. You will be blessed beyond measure. Even if your mother days are over and you are a grandmother, or they haven't began yet and you are praying for a child or knowing you can't have children, praying for your friends that are mothers
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  • Reviewed in the United States on April 30, 2014
    This is less of a How To and more of a Me, Too book. This is Lisa-Jo's story... but really, it is all of us!

    Lisa-Jo walks you through the footsteps of her life in grace and beauty... the way she describes things with words will make you ache to see, to smell, to feel it for yourself, and then - when you keep reading, you could swear that you were aching, smelling, and feeling it for yourself right in the midst of these pages.

    There is a gifting that she has that builds up and encourages... a sisterhood in motherhood that simply lovingly just scooches on over and makes room. In her brave honesty of how she has loved and lost; how she didn't want to be a Mom and then all of the sudden she did...and she was; in how she shares those wretched hard days of babies and toddler years and the raw truth of having to learn to love, and forgive, and love, and... you get it... you've probably lived it too and that is the point!

    On page 30 - only page 30 - Lisa-Jo writes it clear - this ache in my heart for the season that I am in, and she is no where near it yet! I am a Mama to an Only Nearly Grown Girlie... we are in that lovely hard transition space of letting go and leaning in... the dance of becoming less Authority, more Friend. So when I read these words... I knew! I knew that whole book through would be filled with grace and knowing - even though she has yet to Mother through the latter years of childhood and teendom. She wrote this: "Mothers may want to find room to breathe, to weep, to panic. But they don't want it to end --this delivering, shaping, cheering, loving, bringing life into the world."

    Amen! We don't. I don't. I don't want it to end and here is the biggest Surprised by Motherhood reality:
    It doesn't!

    For better (on the good days!) or worse (on the less than good ones!) - it doesn't ever end! This Mothering that leaks out and over and fills in gaps and covers over wounds... it never ends! It has become part of who we are, it's not just what we do.

    We mother because we are Mama's. We are Surprised by Motherhood because who knew a human being could have this capacity to love so fiercly... to protect and serve... to care for a tiny (or not so tiny) human, even when we feel so unable, unworthy, unqualified? Who knew God could work through a sleep deprived, cranky post pardom Mama, and rock us all deeper and deeper in love at 3a.m.? Who knew that somehow - having your very heart beating on the outside of you changes how you breath and move and changes what you hope for and cling to?

    So whether you are a Mom, you have a Mom, or you know a Mom... Surprised by Motherhood should be at home on your bookshelf and in your gift closet... this book needs to be given on Mother's Day and at every Baby Shower from here on out because what we must know... what we must remember is that this Motherhood thing? We don't have to go it alone!

    He's got you. We've got you... and there is room on our bench, and we'll even share the chocolate!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on April 14, 2014
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    I admit, I wasn't sure I wanted to read "Surprised by Motherhood" right away. I have two young boys of my own; I'm up to my eyeballs in day-to-day parenting; I figured I didn't need to read about motherhood while I'm living it, right? Wrong! "Surprised by Motherhood" isn't just "another parenting book." It's so, so much more.

    It's the story of a mother and a daughter - a story of love, grief, healing, forgiveness and acceptance.

    It's the story of a marriage - of a partnership that isn't perfect and isn't always roses-and-chocolates romantic, but is real, and true and so very relateable.

    It's the story of boys -- wild, rough, stubborn, loving boys -- and their mom, and how she learns to parent each of her boys differently, because God made them different and unique.

    It's the story of a little girl who breaks her mom's heart open wide and brings healing and reconciliation and understanding that spans decades and even bridges death.

    It's the story of the power of community - friendships and family connections that can thrive and blossom despite thousands of miles and vast cultural differences.

    Lisa-Jo is one of the most gifted, remarkable, real storytellers I have ever read. I set out to read a chapter or two of this book and I read the ENTIRE thing in a single day (much to the chagrin of my husband, who perhaps felt slightly neglected that day!). It's THAT good, I kid you not. And as a voracious and fairly discerning reader, I don't say that lightly!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on June 19, 2015
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    As a young child, I much preferred playing with stuffed animals to playing house with dolls. As I grew older, I had far more dreams related to careers than motherhood. It took my husband several years to convince me that parenthood was something God might be calling us to. It wasn't until after we miscarried that I knew for sure I wanted to be a mom.
    Because my story stands in such stark contrast to those of people who always wanted to be a mom, I sometimes have a hard time relating to gushy mommy memoirs or blogs. For this reason, I was intrigued by Lisa-Jo Baker's book, Surprised by Motherhood. After all, it's back-cover copy begins with, “Most people who talk about motherhood start out by telling you how much they always wanted to be a mom. Not Lisa-Jo Baker.”
    Upon reading this, I decided this might be a book on motherhood I could relate to.
    Indeed, it was.
    In Surprised by Motherhood, Lisa-Jo chronicles her journey into motherhood, beginning with her own mother's death when she was 18. She talks of her focus on her career and the initial agreement she made with her husband NOT to have kids. She then shares how she ended up becoming a mom and how surprised she's been by motherhood – something I can relate to after just 28 days into my own journey as a mom.
    Throughout Surprised by Motherhood, Lisa-Jo's writing is poignant and relatable. At various points, I laughed and I cried. I found her observation that “pregnancy, like marriage, is an act of courage and faith” to be especially accurate after suffering a miscarriage. As she talked about how there is no roadmap for motherhood, sharing how “We had all the equipment for raising a child but no clue what to do with either” I looked around my house at all the baby gear we've assembled over the last several months and at my daughter – less than a month old – and thought, “Yep. That's right.”
    I also appreciated the astute observations Lisa-Jo makes about faith throughout Surprised by Motherhood, drawn from her own experience with motherhood. Among other things, she concludes, “I had confused faith in God with faith in what God could do for me.”
    Beyond that, what I loved about Surprised by Motherhood is how it left me encouraged. Lisa-Jo reminds us that “God doesn't ask us to trade who we are for the label of 'Mom'. Rather, He builds all the courage and calling of a lifetime into a story line big enough and rich enough to encompass kids, passion, work, creativity, and dreams that don't end in the labor and delivery ward.”
    In these early days of motherhood, Lisa's words have served as a lifeline to me. I'm sure they also will for others.
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  • Amy Weber
    5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing. Encouraging. Beautiful.
    Reviewed in Canada on April 19, 2014
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    Lisa-Jo has been one of my favourite bloggers for quite a while, and I was super excited when I heard she was publishing a book. I knew it would be amazing. And it is. In a world where we are constantly surrounded by "fake", Lisa-Jo paints and honest picture of motherhood, in all of its messy glory. This would be a PERFECT Mother's Day gift for any mom in your life!!
  • Mrs A
    5.0 out of 5 stars loved it!
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 10, 2015
    I have long been a fan of Lisa-Jo's blog and the wonderfully simple ways she encourages mothers so I was keen to read her book. It has moved me, blessed me and brought me to tears. Thank you Lisa-Jo, I look forward to reading your next book!
  • natalie
    5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
    Reviewed in Canada on January 16, 2016
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    Wonderful heart-freeing truths, every mother should have this book!
  • J. Hill
    5.0 out of 5 stars A very reassuring, honest, healing book. I'm ...
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on April 25, 2017
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    A very reassuring, honest, healing book. I'm grateful for the time I was able to spend being encouraged by it.
  • Sara Fitzgerald
    4.0 out of 5 stars Like a love letter
    Reviewed in Canada on May 17, 2014
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    Lisa-Jo's story is beautifully written and told. Her passion and love for mothers really came through in a very personal way...it's hard to explain! The book was an incredible encouragement and a wonderful reminder of how important our job is as mothers and just how much we are loved.