Blessings, affirmations, grace, and reflection

What Shampoo brand do you use? Creme of Nature What Conditioner do you use? Right now some Wella-type deep conditioner in a jar. Trying to find the kind used by the Dominicans Do you use a flat-iron daily? Nope What styling products do you use? Lock and Curl gel, Parnevu leave in conditioner and some shea butter hair grease. If I had access to CD I would be using her oils, hair milk and hair creme. Do you prefer your hair to be up or down? On the weekends free as can be. During the week I pull it back tight. Is your hair long or short? Relatively long. It hasn't been blown out in a while. I am considering cutting it all off though. Salivating over Rihanna's short hair cut that I used to rock yeeeeaaarssss ago. Do you dye your hair? 'Bout to because I can't pluck out those grays fast enough. Do you use the same color, or do you experiment with other colors all the time? N/A Do you wear make-up? I'll usually slap on some mascara and lip gloss. Just bought som...

Maybe we should make it official...seems I only get on here to blog about once a month. So it must be about that time of the month. Lately I've been thinking about what is relevant and irrelevant. I tend to think that I am pretty irrelevant right now. When I ponder the past it seems like lifetimes ago. Little pockets of events...high school, college, grad school, New York and now this new phase. Did I mention that in a few weeks I will be 39 and I have the gray hairs to prove it! I haven't dated since SupaStar which leads me to believe that I am no longer relevant. As an only child who has grown into a single woman (never married with no kids) I often wonder what is relevant? Would I still feel this way if I'd instead set my sights on getting married and having a family rather than trying to be successful in a career? What is your definition of success?