One of the innovations of the early internet was “long games”: games made up of comment chains on forums where the only way to lose was not to reply or for the game to end. One popular long game was trying to post a statement that the subsequent poster could not find objectionable in some way. One of the best moves in that game was:
“I don’t think innocent babies should be left to die in the street”
Followed by
“Oh really? So you want to take a dying baby and remove its opportunity to see a beautiful street before it dies?”
The lovely subtext of this long game was of course that communication based one one-upping someone is no communication at all. Social media thrives so much on correcting the op that we’ve not only forgotten that this kind of communication is worthless, we’ve started to think it’s the only kind that’s worthy. Takes must be hot, dunks must be savage and faux iconoclasm the greatest virtue. Another practice of the early internet was to scorn the “me-toos” because they added a post but no content. As I said at the time, this was an insane and horrific idea because nothing is so important in a conversation as the (typically nonverbal) affirmation of our interlocutors.
Agreeing with someone might be a radical act of insurgence, in a world where disagreement is a commodity. Cosy, low-conflict games are appealing perhaps because they step away from this world. We’re tired of marketing constantly asking us to choose between Coke and Pepsi, or feeling envious of instagrams. We’d rather just get along and be understood, and the demand for conflict is so overwhelming now we are fleeing from it.
Indeed, gamification is so often seen as nothing but the things that made people want to play World of Warcraft so much that it continues to backfire when applied to things like health programs. It turns out that using the same mechanisms that get people to addicted to poker machines, calling it “a game” and slapping it on things was bad for the things and not much to do with gaming either.
In a similar way, I think a lot of people are drawn to the new trend of cosy games because social media and hustle culture seem so keen to measure us all the time. Numbers must go up is the catch-cry of capitalism and social media, which reports at every second how much you are liked, in precise numbers. It seems to be everywhere too – computer game high scores gamified into everything we do. My friend has a car she hates because it rates every drive she takes by how efficiently she drove. I mentioned this to another friend though and she remarked that for her, she’d love to get extra information, like another beautiful insight into the world around her. My friend very wisely pointed out that information, even when it is a rank or a measure, does not have to be a judgement. Age is just a number and so is a score out of ten. Even if that number is important, even if we need it to be high or low for a purpose, it doesn’t have to become a value, or a virture.
Last entry I talked about how the orthogame is inherently a critique-machine. Even cooperatively, a game is designed to evaluate your efforts and report back. It is natural for humans to take that as a challenge and a judgement. As much as we would like to say that what matters is how much fun we had or the friends we made along the way, the points are not awarded for that at all. Competition and measurement are not emotionally neutral: NASA tests have shown that board games are a bad thing to take on long term space missions because they inevitably cause resentment and division. Games are constantly likened to war and conflict and success in them used as proof of greatness and virtue.
However we can, as my friend observed about the car measure, get over attached to things too. We can see in the long game discussed above that the contrariness was contrived and the antagonism existed only to create comic interactions. Competition and competitiveness and scoring are just mechanics. They aren’t necessarily, even in an orthogame, why we are playing. We must act as if we want points in order to get the most out of the game, but we can do so without getting too attached to them.
The same of course is true of rules: we can get over attached to them and think following them is the point, but that doesn’t mean we want to get rid of them entirely. Sometimes rules are part of the fun in themselves – another famous long game trend of the early internet were several based on Mornington Crescent, a game that is about rules that cannot be won. How much rules actually matter though and how much we value them can vary between people. I remember once playing Elder Sign, a cooperative game, and we lost on the final roll. A friend said he was going to fudge that, obviously, because as he put it, we are here to have fun, not “get screwed over by the rules”. I was totally able to have fun and lose on one roll, because I was aware of that contract going in, but it didn’t ruin my fun to take on his values of play over rules. I also remember learning to play solitaire as a child and excitingly telling my father that I had won by only cheating slightly once and he sucking the wind out of me entirely by telling me it didn’t count. The point is that to a large extent how much we care about rules and how much we care about competition are extrinsic things we bring to the table, not intrinsic to rules and competition themselves.
Naturally a lot of people were a bit confused by my last entry about games being too competitive because to them competition was both the accepted standard and a thing that didn’t really concern them very much – they did not attach a strong value to it. It was no big deal. Some were so invested in the idea of the former, though, that they were surprised I would even call it out as an issue. I can understand that: much like rules, if you don’t see competition as a lever you can pull on, you might never examine its presence at all. That does bother me a little when it comes to designers, but then again I’m always the person who pulls on EVERYTHING because it’s probably a lever. Some have accused me of destroying bookshelves as a result, if you follow the metaphor.
Some even suggested that I was wasting my time playing games if I was going to insist they not have competition. Again, I can understand that somewhat. One can drive oneself mad and be permanently unhappy if you spend your whole life demanding every single cat be a dog. (Although this is also a great way to explore what you might be assuming or forgetting are pre-established assumptions. I once had the privilege of watching someone see a play for the first time and be outraged that he was expected to just accept that if a person walked off stage and changed hats they were a different guy. I also once had a friend who had never encountered anything to do with superheroes until they saw the Dr Who episode about superheroes which talks about the trope of “not killing” and watching them deal with how stupid that idea is was the greatest thing ever. Untainted eyes are wonderful and help us better understand everything, especially how things appear to outsiders, which we so easily forget.) You can also drive yourself crazy insisting that the things you think are important are so to everyone – sometimes a cigar is just a cigar and competition is just a means to an end, a mechanic that doesn’t matter because of course we are just playing for fun. Losses don’t make us feel stupid, attacks don’t make us feel mean. To me it seems really strange that so far, every game about cats and dogs that’s come out has been competitive, not cooperative, but it clearly doesn’t strike anyone else as odd whatsoever.

But I also think that assuming anyone wanting to think outside the box should just get a new box is a thought-terminating cliche. So too, is the idea that all game mechanics are neutral and don’t bleed into us because “it’s just a game”. It is true that we add things to them, and we can get hung up on them being things they are not. It is true that competition is just another mechanic. But it is also true that every mechanic is not just anything, and just because we realise that competition is a mechanic, not the goal doesn’t mean we shouldn’t look at what the goals are and how competition moves us towards or away from that. It is also true that mechanics can and have immense power, even if they have more on some folks more than others. We also have to be very careful of saying “well all games are like that” – because they are not – or that gamers should just get over it and like a game regardless of its mechanics. The whole wonderful thing about living in the post golden age of games is we should have learnt by now that even the orthogame is full of variety and possibility and levels of subtlety and intensity that appeal to different people in different ways. I don’t really “get” why some people find timed games stressful, but I respect it. You might not get why I don’t really like competition, but you have to recognise it is a thing, inside the world of games.
Also, you know what else is like rules and like competition, things that are very useful but we attach way too much value to but don’t actually mean as much as we think sometimes? Categories. A lot of people tend to act like categories are an absolute truth handed down by God, which is why they got so mad when Pluto stopped being a planet, as if that means anything. I remember someone saying that they should have waited until Percival Lowell’s widow died before changing it, as if a category change is a demotion or at all worth anything. Categories exist for the same reason rules and competition exist: as a tool to get where we are going, and the goal is the thing that matters. So when you say to me “well, games just are competitive, move on”, I’m going to say you’re putting way too much truth value on a category. Or more briefly: “says who?”.
I can respect that you put a lot of value on categories, but a category is just an exercise in understanding, and not one I value highly. I really believe games, even orthogames, can be anything we want them to be, without falling into a meaningless soup of nothingness and dadaism, and it’s our job as artists to break the rules. Even when our art form is making rules.
