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Welcome to my Medium

Thank you for visiting the little corner of the internet that holds my thoughts

Jan 7, 2024

Me, with a big crayon

Jan 7, 2024

Thoughts about suicide: Who you are is not what you did

A love letter to my cousin and how she deserves to be remembered

2d ago

My cousin and I at a wedding as children

2d ago

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Let’s Talk About Enthusiastic Consent

Why is the bar “no means no” when it should be “yes means yes”?

Apr 30

Let’s Talk About Enthusiastic Consent

Apr 30

Doing it for the love of the game

In a world focused on extrinsic motivation, Olympians sacrifice everything for their passion — and I respect it so much

Feb 25

Doing it for the love of the game

Feb 25

The Value of Hollywood Portraying Asian Men as Attractive

Heated Rivalry has made something of Hudson Williams that I don’t think Western Media has done with an Asian Actor

Feb 9

The Value of Hollywood Portraying Asian Men as Attractive

Feb 9

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My 2026 Bingo Card

Finding a way to feel fulfilled by my achievements again

Jan 24

My 2026 Bingo Card

Jan 24

A Love Letter to the Toronto Blue Jays

Thank you for reminding a whole country how fun sports can be

Nov 4, 2025

A Love Letter to the Toronto Blue Jays

Nov 4, 2025

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Being the Damsel in Distress to a White Man in Hong Kong

Apparently, I need a White Knight in Shining Armor to save me even when in Asia

Jul 15, 2024

Being the Damsel in Distress to a White Man in Hong Kong

Jul 15, 2024

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I Just Want Asian Grandmas to Like Me

Or at least stop looking at me like I am a great disappointment

Sep 11, 2023

Local asian market

Sep 11, 2023

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Unpacking why I’m Ashamed of my Asian Culture

My Goal of Breaking Away From Stereotypes Lead to an Extreme I Never Wanted

Aug 24, 2023

Unpacking why I’m Ashamed of my Asian Culture

Aug 24, 2023

Jessica Lim

Jessica Lim

Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing … or both | Reach out 👋 jessicalim813@gmail.com

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