Heyyy, Yoderverse readers, I won’t say much. This was more of a personal reflection, but I decided to share it. Maybe it’ll help.

Thank you for being here 😁😁

I passed my exams.

High school. Done. Over. The thing I’d been working toward for months, maybe even years if you count all of it, finished.

And I got the score I wanted. Better than I expected, honestly.

So I should feel… what? Relieved? Proud? Excited?

And I did. For like, a day.

And then… nothing. Just this weird, hollow feeling. Like, “Okay. So what now?”

Because here’s the thing nobody tells you: the moment you’ve been grinding toward doesn’t change your life the way you think it will. You pass the exam. You get the job. You move to the new country. You hit the milestone. And then the next day, you wake up, and you’re still you. Your life is still your life. And all that pressure, all that stress, all that *”if I don’t finish this, I’ll…”*it just… evaporates. And you’re left standing there thinking, “Wait. That’s it?”

So I want to talk about that moment. The moment after. The one nobody prepares you for. Because I think a lot of us, maybe all of us, are living our entire lives like this. Grinding toward the next thing. The next deadline. The next goal. The next “if I just get through this, then…” And we never stop to ask: what happens when you get there? And what are you missing while you’re too busy getting there?

Let me paint a picture of what the last few months looked like. Wake up. Study. Stress. Study more. Practice exams. Worry about the score. Imagine the worst-case scenario. Sacrifice sleep. Skip things you enjoy. Tell yourself, “After the exams, I’ll rest. After the exams, I’ll live again.” And then the exams come. And you sit there. And you do the thing. And it’s over. And you realize: you’ve been living in the future for so long that you forgot how to live in the present.

Because that’s what the grind does. It teaches you to defer life. “I’ll be happy when I pass.” “I’ll relax when this is over.” “I’ll start living when I get through this.” But here’s the problem: there’s always a next thing. You pass the exams, and now it’s time to apply to universities. Or finding a job. Or figuring out what’s next. You get the job, and now it’s the promotion. The next level. The next goal. You move to the new country, and now it’s adjusting, building a life, proving yourself. The grind never ends. Not unless you choose to stop. And most of us don’t stop. We just roll right into the next deadline, the next pressure, the next “if I don’t…” And we spend our entire lives like this. Living in the future. Grinding toward the next thing. Never arriving. Never present.

So let’s talk about the lie we tell ourselves. “If I don’t finish my exams this year, I’ll…” I’ll what? Seriously. Finish that sentence. “If I don’t pass, I’ll…” Disappoint my parents? Fall behind? Ruin my future? Prove I’m a failure? And here’s the thing: none of that is true. Not really. Yes, exams matter. Yes, there are consequences to not passing (not always). I’m not saying they don’t. But the catastrophizing? The belief that one exam, one job, one decision will define your entire life? That’s a lie.

Your life is not a pass/fail test. You don’t get one shot, and if you mess it up, it’s over. That’s not how life works. But we act like it is. We act like this one thing is make-or-break. Like if we don’t nail it, we’re doomed. And that pressure? That fear? It doesn’t make us perform better. It just makes us miserable. It makes us grind ourselves into the ground. It makes us sacrifice sleep, joy, rest, relationships, all for this one thing that we’ve convinced ourselves is everything. And then we get there. We pass. We do the thing. And… life just keeps going. The world doesn’t stop. The pressure doesn’t disappear. There’s just a new “if I don’t…”

So here’s what I want to say: stop letting the next deadline hold your life hostage. Yes, work hard. Yes, show up. Yes, do your best. But don’t sacrifice living for the illusion that this one thing will finally make you okay. Because it won’t. The relief is temporary. The goal posts always move. And if you keep living like this — always grinding, always deferring, always “I’ll be happy when…” you’ll wake up one day and realize you missed your entire life.

So what’s the alternative? How do you stop living in the future and start living now? Here’s what I’m learning: you have to create a life that’s bigger than the next deadline. Let me explain. Right now, your life might revolve around the exam, the job, the move, the thing you’re grinding toward. And when you achieve it (or don’t), you’re left empty. Because that was your whole life. And now it’s over. And you don’t know what to do with yourself. But what if your life wasn’t about the milestone? What if the exam was just one part of a much bigger life? A life that includes relationships that matter, hobbies that bring you joy, rest that’s non-negotiable, creativity that has nothing to do with productivity, moments that won’t make it to your resume but will make it into your memory. That’s the life beyond the milestone. And you have to build it while you’re grinding. Not after. Because there is no after. There’s always another thing. So you have to learn to live now. Even when you’re busy. Even when you’re stressed. Even when you’re working toward something. You have to protect the parts of your life that make it worth living.

For me, that looked like still drawing, even when I had exams. Not because I should. But because it made me feel alive. Spending time with people I love, even when I was stressed. Because those relationships matter more than a test score. Resting, even when I felt guilty. Because I can’t show up for my life if I’m running on empty. Saying no to things that didn’t align with what actually mattered to me. And here’s what I realized: the exam didn’t define me. My life, the relationships, the creativity, the rest, the joy, that’s what defines me. The exam was just something I did. It wasn’t who I was. And once I internalized that, the pressure lifted. Not completely. But enough. Because I knew that whether I passed or failed, I still had a life. I still had people. I still had meaning. The exam couldn’t take that away from me.

One more thing I want to say: people’s opinions won’t change your destiny unless you let them. I know that’s easier said than believed. Because when you’re grinding toward something, it feels like everyone’s watching. Everyone’s judging. Everyone has an opinion about what you should do, how you should do it, and whether you’re doing enough. And if you don’t meet their expectations? It feels like you’ve failed. Like you’ve let them down. Like you’ve proven them right. But here’s the truth: their opinion is just noise. It has no power unless you give it power. Your parents’ disappointment? It’s real. It might hurt. But it doesn’t define your future. Your friends’ judgment? It stings. But it doesn’t determine your worth. Society’s expectations? They’re heavy. But they’re not yours to carry.

You are not defined by the score you got, the school you got into (or didn’t), the job you landed (or didn’t), the path you chose (or didn’t). You are defined by how you treat people, what you create, how you show up when things are hard, the life you build, one choice at a time. And no one, no one, can take that from you. So if you passed your exams and people are proud, great. Enjoy it. And if you didn’t pass, or if you didn’t meet expectations, or if people are disappointed — listen: you’re still here. You’re still capable. You’re still becoming. This is not the end of your story. It’s just one chapter. And you get to write the next one.

So. The exams are over. The thing you were grinding toward is done. So what now? Here’s what I’m learning: now, you live. Not “I’ll start living when…” Just… now. Now, you rest. Not because you earned it. But because you’re human. Now, you reconnect with the people you’ve been too busy for. Now, you do the things that bring you joy, not because they’re productive, but because they make you feel alive. Now, you figure out what you actually want, not what you’re supposed to want. Now, you build a life that’s bigger than the next deadline. Because here’s the thing: the grind will always be there. The pressure will always be there. The next thing will always be there. But if you don’t learn to live now, you’ll spend your whole life waiting for a moment that never comes. So don’t wait. Don’t defer. Don’t tell yourself “I’ll be happy when…” Be happy now. Be present now. Be alive now. Not because everything’s perfect. But because this is your life. And it’s happening right now. Whether you’re paying attention or not.

So here’s what I want to leave you with: you are more than the exam. More than the job. More than the next milestone. You are a whole person. With relationships. With creativity. With dreams. With a life that’s bigger than any test score. And yes, the grind matters. Yes, working hard matters. Yes, goals matter. But not at the expense of your life. Not at the expense of your peace, your rest, your joy, your presence.

So if you’re in the middle of the grind right now, if you’re stressing over the exam, the job, the move, the thing, hear me: it’s not as life-or-death as it feels. You’re going to be okay. Whether you pass or fail. Whether you meet expectations or don’t. You’re going to be okay. And when it’s over, when the thing you’ve been grinding toward is done, don’t just roll into the next thing. Stop. Breathe. Look around. And ask yourself: So what now? And then answer it honestly. Not with what you’re supposed to do. But with what you actually want to do. Because you have a life to live. And an exam, a job, a deadline, it’s just one part of it. Don’t let it become the whole thing.

Thanks for being here. For reading this. For thinking about this with me. I hope this permits you to live now. Not later. Not when you’ve achieved the thing. Now. Because you deserve to be present in your own life.

Talk soon,

Luke Yoder. 사랑해요💗💗💗

P.S. — If you’re waiting for the “right time” to start living, this is it. Right now. Today. Don’t let another deadline steal that from you.

We’re here. The first week of 2026.

And before we all jump into the “new year, new me” energy, before the goal-setting and the planning and the fresh starts. I want to pause.

Because I’ve been doing this podcast/Newsletter since last year. Talking about hard things. Real things. The stuff we don’t always say out loud.

And if you take nothing else with you into 2026, I want you to remember these things.

Not because I have it all figured out. But because these are the truths I keep coming back to. The ones that have held me when everything else felt shaky.

So here they are.

What I Want You to Remember:

You’re not behind.

I know it feels like everyone else is ahead. Like they have it figured out and you’re still stuck at the starting line.

But life isn’t a race. There’s no timeline you’re supposed to hit. No checklist that determines your worth.

You’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. Even if it doesn’t feel like it. Even if you wish you were further along.

Your pace is your pace. And that’s okay.

You’re allowed to rest.

Rest isn’t something you earn after you’ve done enough. It’s not a reward for productivity.

Rest is a need. A requirement. A part of being human.

You don’t have to run yourself into the ground to prove you’re trying hard enough.

You’re allowed to stop. To breathe. To do nothing without guilt.

Rest is not laziness. It’s wisdom.

You matter.

Not because of what you do. Not because of what you achieve or how well you perform.

You matter because you exist.

And I know that sounds like something people just say. But it’s true.

The world would be different without you. Not in some huge, headline-making way. But in the small, quiet, irreplaceable ways that actually matter.

You’re not invisible. You’re not forgettable. You’re not insignificant.

You matter. Even when you don’t feel like it.

Healing takes time.

And it’s not linear.

Some days you’ll feel like you’re making progress. Other days you’ll feel like you’re back at square one.

That’s normal. That’s not failure. That’s just how healing works.

Be patient with yourself. Give yourself the grace to move slowly. To take as long as you need.

You’re not broken. You’re healing. And that’s enough.

You don’t have to have it all figured out.

No one does. Not really.

Everyone’s just making it up as they go. Some people are just better at hiding it.

So stop waiting until you have all the answers before you start. Stop waiting until you feel ready.

You’ll never feel completely ready. And that’s okay.

Start messy. Start scared. Start anyway.

You’re allowed to change.

You’re allowed to outgrow old versions of yourself. To leave behind beliefs that don’t fit anymore. To walk away from relationships that aren’t serving you.

Growth means change. And change means letting go of things that used to define you.

That’s not betrayal. That’s evolution.

You’re becoming who you’re meant to be. And that’s worth celebrating.

You’re not too much.

And you’re not “not enough.”

You’re exactly the right amount. For the people who are meant for you. For the life you’re meant to live.

Stop shrinking. Stop apologizing for taking up space.

You’re allowed to be here. Fully. Unapologetically.

Comparison will rob you every time.

Someone else’s success doesn’t diminish your own.

Someone else’s timeline doesn’t invalidate yours.

Someone else’s gifts don’t make yours less valuable.

You’re not in competition with anyone. You’re just trying to become the best version of yourself.

And that’s enough.

God hasn’t given up on you.

Even when you’ve given up on yourself.

Even when you can’t feel Him. Even when you’re doubting. Even when you’re angry at Him.

He’s still there. Still faithful. Still working.

Your story isn’t over. He’s not done with you yet.

You’re doing better than you think.

I know you look at your life and see all the ways you’re falling short. All the things you haven’t done yet. All the ways you’re still struggling.

But you’re still here. You’re still trying. You’re still showing up.

And that’s not nothing. That’s everything.

You’re doing better than you think. I promise.

One More Thing:

If 2025 was hard, if you’re limping into 2026 instead of running, that’s okay.

You don’t have to “finish strong.” You just have to finish.

And you did. You made it. You’re here.

That’s worth celebrating.

So as we step into 2026, I want you to carry these truths with you:

You’re not behind.
You’re allowed to rest.
You matter.
Healing takes time.
You don’t have to have it all figured out.
You’re allowed to change.
You’re not too much.
Comparison will rob you.
God hasn’t given up on you.
You’re doing better than you think.

Thank you for being here this year. For listening. For showing up. For being part of this community.

I’m so grateful for you. And I can’t wait to see what 2026 holds.

Happy New Year, friend.

Talk soon,
Luke Yoder Mavia

P.S. — If you need to hear any of these again, screenshot this. Save it. Come back to it when you forget. These truths don’t expire.

Welcome back to the Yoderverse newsletter. As always, it’s a pleasure to have you here. Today will be an “Art Update” of sorts. As well as a small announcement at the end.

Feel free to comment or reach out and tell me what you think.

All of the Art presented today has been from the Past month (roughly)

It’ll be more of a showcase than words. But we’ll see.

Enjoy

(If you are reading via Email, the newsletter might cut off, so I’d recommend reading it on the app if you want a more seamless experience.)

Progress & Wins

I was talking with a very good friend the other day, and in the midst of doing so, it suddenly hit me. I’ve actually improved in Art, much more than I give myself credit for. As Artists, we are our own worst critics. We look for negatives in our art instead of the positives. No piece is perfect, but at least you learn from it. And that’s what matters.

This is a Landscape I recently painted for a friend’s Birthday. And I think it’s one of my favorites. Speaking of which, only you guys will see this, as I decided not to post it on Instagram.

Back to the Painting. I don’t know how to explain it, but it’s one of the few pieces where I felt quite at peace while creating it. Everything just fit together so nicely. But, I realized, it’s not the Art, it’s me. I have actually improved. It might be by 1% or even 0.1%, but I can feel it.

Of course, I still get the occasional Art block here and there. But that’s fine. It’s part of the Journey.

Challenges & Setbacks

But with every small success comes a whole load of failure. And that’s 90% of what I deal with; we, as creators, all have things that don’t work out. Whether it’s art, writing, photography, Videography, music, etc…

I have lots, but I’ll share one or two.

An attempt at Fashion Design that didn’t go as planned, I tried over and over and over. But alas, it just wasn’t working 😅

If you follow me on Instagram, you know that I recently tried out Clip Studio Paint. It’s an exceptional program. I went through a texture tutorial. And decided that it’ll only make sense if I practice without the tutorial. And as you see above, it didn’t go well. But, this one has a happy ending which i will share soon. I did eventually finish it, but after a whole day of back and forth. It was infuriating to say the least. But I learned a lot in the process.

Even with a Myriad of examples like these, why bother pushing through?

Why keep going when the Art doesn’t work?

Simply because you love it. If you truly love your craft, it won’t matter how many bad days you go through; you’ll come back to it no matter what, and that’s the beauty of humanity, our drive to excel and get better, fuelling us. But as with everything, remember to rest and have fun doing it.

Featured Focus

Portrait Challenge Updates

If you watched my most recent Art video on YouTube, you know that I was doing a portrait challenge. “Drawing Portraits till I get good”.

The goal of this wasn’t exactly to “get good”. But more so, to get comfortable with drawing portraits. I’ve learned a lot of things in the past month. And have drawn maybe 40 or so portraits. I’ve learned to appreciate human uniqueness. Big noses, small ears, full lips, large chins, all of it. And i can say that i am not scare to draw portraits now. In fact, it has become one of my favorite things ever to draw. I’ll share a few 😀

Of course, drawing portraits isn’t easy; there’s a lot that goes through your mind when you draw them. But for me, it’s interesting to see how a Circle, a wedge, and construction lines become a face. These are fun, and I do them almost daily. Just a few minutes, 10–40 minutes. And I’d like to thank my favorite artists, Sam Yang and Lou Vennka, for amazing tutorials on light; it has improved my art immensely. There will be more examples of the applied knowledge down below in the GENERAL IMPROVEMENT section😁

If you’d like to know more and follow my sketches and WIPs, feel free to reach out and follow “theo_cartooning_” on Instagram.

Landscape Work

Landscapes have been an interesting Journey for me. It was a random thought at first. And now it’s something I do almost every week. There’s lots to say, but I’ve already said too much 😅, so here are a few of them

Feels like home 💗💗💗

Like any art subject, landscapes is about practice and patience, i’m still improving daily, and I love it. But it doesn’t seem that way when you begin, or even in the middle of the painting. It only makes sense once you are done.

General Improvement Focus

Speaking of things eventually making sense. Remember the Failed Knights’ helmet from above?

Well, I slept on it and came back to it; I persisted, and this is what came of it a few minutes later.

It’s not perfect, because I’ve never drawn metal. But it’s something. And I’m glad I pushed through.

As mentioned above. I’ve been trying Clip Studio recently. And it’s amazing!!!.

I’m using it on Windows with a screenless graphics tablet. And it’s fantastic. Of course, having a screen will increase accuracy, but I ain’t complaining😀.

Here are the first things I tried (with applied knowledge from the artists I mentioned).

Different types of texture.

Concept Applied to the Human Face (Matte, glossy)

Applied to hair. (Smooth, glossy)

Applied to clothing (Matte, smooth)

Applied to Armour (Chrome, Metallic)

Applied to water (transparent objects)

It’s definitely a Huge learning curve for me. And I’m definitely not talented. I started in 2023, and it’s been built through never giving up and building skills over time. This is where I came from 👇👇

2023. WHEN I STARTED ART

So, if this serves as anything, let it be a reminder that your hard work pays, even when you don’t see it. You got this!!! 🔥🔥

Shop Updates — Going Live!

Gumroad Launch

I have finally launched my Gumroad store. If you’ve ever wanted to buy my landscapes as digital prints and wallpapers, now you can 😀. It took a while because i was making excuses, but it’s there now. All links are at the end.

I think selling art is a great way to make passive income. And as of now, I can’t make physical prints, but I have to start somewhere.

RedBubble Store

And now Products!!! I recently launched a store on Redbubble where you can have my designs on select products.

REDBUBBLE ITEMS!

You don’t have to buy anything. But you can share with anyone you think might 😀

Commisions

I recently took a huge leap and opened commissions. The reason I hadn’t before was because of a lot of self-doubt about my Art skills. But you can’t learn to swim on dry land. So, I opened my commissions. I’m keeping it simple for now with mainly sketches.

Here’s my Commosions sheet

Huge leaps. Only promo I think I’ll ever do (for now). But anyway, that’s it for the shops.

What’s Next/Looking Ahead

Right now, I’m working on a painting of Diane Foxington from the bad guys (I’ll write about the movies soon). I’ll show it in the next few lines.

What’s next, project-wise, for the next month?

• Animation collab with over 10k artists O_o I’m nervous and need to start soon
• Character sheet of Zoey from Kpdh
• Pip and Percy Comics
• Zelda-inspired landscape piece
• Book Cover for my Short Story
• Concept art for my Varius stories (two of which will be set in Japan and Korea)

Current Work in Progress.

Quick Inspiration

Remember that every artist you admire was once exactly where you are now — staring at a blank canvas, frustrated with a technique that won’t cooperate, or wondering if they’ll ever create something worth sharing.

The difference isn’t talent or some magical gift; it’s showing up again and again, even when the work feels messy or imperfect. Your artistic journey isn’t about creating masterpieces every time you pick up a brush or pencil — it’s about building a relationship with creativity itself.

Each “failed” piece teaches you something new, every struggle strengthens your artistic muscles, and those moments when everything finally clicks make all the difficult days worth it. Keep creating, keep experimenting, and trust the process. Your unique voice is developing with every mark you make.

Closing

Thank you so, so much for reading — I always appreciate you all for taking the time to follow along with this artistic and written journey of mine. If you need more info on anything I’ve mentioned, want to check out the new stores, or just want to connect and chat about art, feel free to reach out anytime.

Also, mini update → I can read and write Hangul now 😁(Korean alphabet)

Love y’all 3000 💗💗💗

Goodbye! | 안녕! | さようなら！

Links → https://linktr.ee/lym_studios_art

I want to say thank you for 2000+ followers on Instagram; it is such a huge milestone. But also untimely, unfortunately. If you follow me there, you know that I am taking a small Hiatus from the platform for roughly a month. There are other things currently that require more attention. And so I will reinstall the app at the end of October, once those things are sorted.

However, if needed, my email inbox is always open.

Feel free to reach out anytime. You can also comment here on Substack if you’d like.

I’m still drawing every day as usual. Sketching traditionally and everything.

Feel free to suggest anything Artwise as well (Characters, challenges, Habits, etc…)

I can read Korean almost perfectly now, and I’m approaching my first hundred words in written, read, and spoken form.

Regarding Japanese, I plan to begin my writing and reading Journey. But I can speak it comfortably enough to get around, order food, buy groceries, and have an average conversation.

Opening commissions were very tough, and the return was lackluster, but I’m glad I did it. The same can be said for my RedBubble and Gumroad stores, which have been their own journey as a whole. But life happens, and it’s better to learn from that failure than not to have tried at all.

I won’t take up more of your time. And Today’s is relatively short

Enjoy

The Lost Joy of Learning

Think back to when you were small, maybe 6 or 7 years old. Everything was new, everything was an experiment. You learned how to whistle, how to ride a bike, and how to draw stick figures with spiky hair. No one had to beg you to be curious. You touched, explored, and tested the limits of the world.

Somewhere along the way, though, learning stopped feeling like play. It turned into something measured and graded. Numbers and checkmarks replaced the sense of discovery. Mistakes, which used to be stepping stones, began to feel like failures. And slowly, a quiet voice started whispering, “Maybe this isn’t for me.”

That voice grows louder with age. You see other people getting better faster. You start comparing your first steps to someone else’s polished performance. And so, the joy of learning dims.

But the good news is, it never disappears completely. The flame is still inside you, waiting for oxygen.

Curiosity Over Perfection

The first step to rekindling a love for learning is to remember that curiosity and perfection do not belong in the same room. Perfection says, “You need to get this right.” Curiosity says, “What happens if I try this?” One restricts you, the other frees you.

Children learn because they are curious, not because they are chasing mastery. When you shift your mindset from “I have to improve quickly” to “I wonder what I will notice today,” learning becomes lighter.

Try this the next time you practice drawing, playing music, or writing. Instead of measuring your output, frame it as a question. “What happens if I shade from the opposite side?” “What happens if I play this slower?” “What happens if I let the sentence be longer than usual?” Questions keep the door of discovery open.

The Power of Small Wins

Falling in love with learning does not happen in leaps; it happens in sparks. A single spark is enough to light your way.

Think of the moment you first get something right. The first time you blend colors that finally look natural, the first time a chord rings clearly on the guitar, the first time your character’s face shows the right emotion. That moment matters. It is proof that your effort is not wasted.

The mistake many of us make is waiting for big milestones, like finishing a full portfolio or writing an entire book. Those are important, but they are far away. Small wins are daily fuel. Collect them. Write them down. Celebrate them quietly. They remind you that progress is real, even if it feels invisible most of the time.

Learning Through Play

Here’s a secret that older teens and adults often forget: play is not the opposite of work; it is the method of learning.

When you treat learning like play, you take the pressure off. Play allows for “bad” versions, silly experiments, and joyful mistakes. If you let yourself doodle nonsense, write without editing, or improvise on an instrument with no plan, you are actually training your brain to stay flexible.

And flexibility is what makes learning sustainable. If everything has to be serious and perfect, you will burn out quickly. If it feels like play, you can keep going for years.

Returning to Beginner’s Eyes

One of the most powerful ways to fall in love with learning again is to embrace the identity of a beginner. That can feel scary, especially when you are older, because beginners are clumsy and uncertain. But being a beginner is also freeing, because no one expects you to know everything.

The beginner’s mind is curious, humble, and open. It finds joy in the basics. A child who just learned how to whistle will do it for hours without needing to be an expert. Can you approach your art, your music, or your writing with the same lighthearted joy?

The world does not need you to be perfect; it needs you to keep learning.

If you want to see my most recent video on this, check it out here → The Power of Being a Beginner (Forever)

Learning as a Lifelong Companion

Falling in love with learning is not just about improving your craft; it is about shaping the kind of life you want to live. A life that values discovery over stagnation, growth over fear, and joy over comparison.

When you learn with curiosity, small wins, play, and a beginner’s spirit, you transform the process from a burden into a companion. Learning becomes something that walks beside you, not something that chases you from behind.

So ask yourself, what do you want to learn, not because it is impressive, but because it lights you up inside. Maybe it is sketching trees, maybe it is baking bread, maybe it is speaking another language. Whatever it is, begin with open hands.

Closing Thought

The childlike spirit of learning never really left you. It is still there, waiting to be invited back into your life. All it takes is curiosity, patience, and a willingness to play.

So let yourself stumble. Let yourself try. Let yourself discover again.

Because when you do, you do not just improve your skills, you rediscover joy.

Gamsahamnida for reading this newsletter. Really, really appreciate it.
I wish you the absolute best. And I hope to maintain relative consistency.

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Animation has a lot of different processes that take it from the idea to the screen. from story to compositing, to directing, sound design, and editing. But one crucial step after the story is Character Design.

Character design can be defined like this:

Character design is the process of creating a character’s visual appearance and personality traits. It’s a combination of art, psychology, and storytelling

But Just before we get into the psychology of it. I will briefly touch on its importance.

Character design has a simple purpose-visualization. Making words have form, movement, and personality.

To simply explain, I like to think of a Novel-Comic contrast.

Visual Psychology

Imagine your favorite Novel, I’ll use Alex Rider in my case. And think of it as a comic or graphic novel, In this case, there is an Alex Rider graphic novel. Long story short, It’s more interesting because we humans are captivated visually before we register information. They say don’t judge a book by its cover but to be honest, the cover is the first thing we pay attention to, right?

Now I want you to think of the opposite. Think of your favorite comic book, I’ll use Asterix in this Example. Imagine if instead of Goscinny and Uderzo making a comic book, they decided on a novel. I don’t know about you but in my opinion, I don’t think Asterix would be as popular as it is now, or even at all.

Think of TinTin or Marvel and DC comics. What if the writers made them novels instead?, it would be the death of a legacy that wouldn’t have started.

But I’m sure you understand my point on the importance of characters.

Before we move on I want to share with you a bit about what we do when we read non-picture books and how the characters visually come alive in our minds.

Mental Imagery

When readers dive into a non-illustrated book, their minds instinctively craft vivid mental images of the characters they encounter, a process rooted in the psychology of mental imagery and embodied simulation. This phenomenon occurs as the brain activates schemas — mental frameworks shaped by past experiences, cultural influences, and personal imagination — to fill in the gaps left by textual descriptions. Readers unconsciously assign appearances, emotions, and even gestures to characters, guided by the cues in the narrative.

This imaginative process ties directly to the principles of character design in animation, where shapes, colors, and details serve to evoke specific emotions and personality traits. Just as animators carefully design characters to connect with audiences, authors rely on this psychological tendency to immerse readers, making their creations feel vivid and alive in the minds of their audience.

And now we can get into the psychology of Character design

Psychology Of Character Design

1. Shape Psychology

When we perceive characters in animated films, what makes us trust some characters and despise others? Outside their Personality, one of the things is the core shapes that build up the character. If you take Scar (Lion King) and Baymax (Big Hero 6), which one would you say is more huggable? Baymax of course! But why? It’s simple, he is round, both literally and constructively.

Baymax can be built from the ground using soft round shapes, like ovals and Circles. The shape that defines approachability is the Circle or roundness for that matter.

Next is the Square. The square is mostly associated with tough, unmovable characters. Take Pumbaa(Lion King), Ralph (Wreck it Ralph) or Sully (Monsters Inc.), if you observe them, you will find them quite square-like or “broad” in other words. This build gives them a sense of safety and reliability. Which, as is with all other characters, directly correlates to their personalities.

And lastly, we have the triangle. This shape is very unique because it is directly linked to a stereotype of villains. Psychologically, the triangle or sharp shapes in general, convey a feeling of danger, fear, or evil. Think of Scar (The Lion King) Maleficent (Sleeping Beauty) or Dr. Facilier (The Princess and the Frog), though it is sometimes subtle, if you mentally deconstruct these characters, you will be able to see these shapes stand out. When we use triangles or sharp points in character design we are directly telling you “This is not a person to be trusted”

To summarize that point. Shapes define a character’s personality.

Round = Approachable, kind, loving

Square = Broad, protector, secure

Triangle = Untrustworthy, evil, ill-meaning.

It is important to note that these are just generalizations. In rare cases, the shapes change without the personality changing.

2. Color Psychology

Colors play a significant role in the establishment of a character design. Warm colors bring warmth and happiness. Cool colors give a sense of sadness or being neutral. And striking contrast could emphasize the importance of a character.

One film that certainly made the color a definite part of its character’s personality was Pixar’s Inside Out. As we get introduced to the characters, we can immediately see that the colors help shape their believability.

Joy is yellow, exhibiting a warm feeling, that makes her approachable and makes the viewer happy.

Sadness is blue, conveying a sense of desolation and loneliness.

Anger is Red, a sign of caution and outburst

Fear is Purple, bringing out a feeling of uncertainty or doubt

Disgust is green, conveying unapproachability.

As you can see the character’s colors directly match their personalities.

Yes, Inside Out is a very direct example, but I urge you to observe your favorite animated films and think of the characters in different colors. Would you think of them differently? The answer would probably be Yes.

3. Facial Features and Expressions

Needless to say, communication is a key aspect of character. Some characters are more reserved in their emotions, making them more laid-back and relaxed. Others are excited and an unstoppable bundle of energy.

If you have watched The Incredibles you can take notice to the way Bob Parr A.K.A Mr. Incredible, expresses himself. It’s very out there, from the crunching of his eyebrows to the throwing of his hands, it shows he used his full body to express emotion.

And that’s another interesting thing to understand, that the body is also used to convey emotion. From slumps to Jumps, you can tell the overall demeanor of a character simply by how much they move.

Back to the Incredibles. If we take the two older siblings, Violet and Dash we can observe that they have completely different ways of expressing emotion. Dash will run around and shout excitedly, and Violet, even if reacting to the same cool thing, would resort to a small comment without much movement.

And in further observation, we see that Bob and Dash have the same over-the-top emotional actions. While Helen (Elastigirl) and Violet have the same reserved reactions to situations.

To conclude. Expressions are vital in establishing a character. Imagine if the roles were reversed, as was the case in some parts of the movies, when Helen or Violet expresses over-the-top emotion, you immediately think they are crazy. On the other hand, the only time we see Bob and Dash reserved and non-expressive is when they are sleep-deprived in Incredibles 2.

I urge you to go and rewatch both films, but focus more on seeing the emotions and postures of the characters.

4. Silhouette and Recognition

This is connected to the point I made on shapes. Silhouettes are filled in with outlines of the character.

If I put a series of classic characters down here, I can assure you you will get most of them right

Because of how your mind has been trained, you can see a shape and fill in the rest. Which is why silhouettes are very important. If your silhouette is not recognizable easily, it won’t be as memorable as the contrary.

Being able to have your character recognized from afar, just from a filled-out outline is a great sign of success.

5. Cultural and Emotional Storytelling

This one is very self-explanatory. But I’ll explain it anyway.

When we look at films like Encanto, Pocahontas, Mulan, and Moana, one of the most noticeable things is that they look like they belong there. But what does that mean? In this case, it refers to the clothing and overall aesthetic of the character.

I want you to picture Pocahontas. Now close your eyes and imagine that instead of her traditional dress, she is in jeans and a back-turned hat. That looks weird or at the very least unnatural. And that’s the point.

When we design characters, our primary objective after everything else discussed previously, is to make sure the characters don’t look lost, which emphasizes the importance of research, which I’ll get into another day. But the basis of it is that you need to know a place well before you base your characters on that location.

Some amazing character designers have taken the liberty to use the odd nature of it to their advantage as you see below.

So, I challenge you to visualize your favorite characters, imagine them as they are, but in different worlds, or imagine them, but dress them like they are from another world.

Conclusion

In conclusion, Character design is far more than just creating visually appealing figures — it’s a delicate blend of art, psychology, and storytelling that breathes life into narratives. From the foundational shapes that define a character’s personality to the colors that evoke emotions, every detail plays a crucial role in how audiences connect with and remember these creations. Facial expressions, silhouettes, and cultural authenticity further enrich the storytelling experience, making characters not only recognizable but also relatable and memorable.

As we’ve explored, the psychology behind character design is a fascinating journey into how our minds interpret visual cues and how these interpretations shape our emotional responses. Whether it’s the round, huggable Baymax or the sharp, menacing Scar, every design choice is intentional and impactful.

So, the next time you watch an animated film or read a graphic novel, take a moment to appreciate the thought and creativity behind the characters. Notice the shapes, colors, and expressions that make them unique. And perhaps, try your hand at designing a character yourself — what shapes, colors, and traits would you choose to tell their story?

Thank you for joining me in this exploration of character design. Stay tuned for more insights and deep dives into the world of animation and storytelling in the next episode of the Yoderverse Newsletter. Until then, keep imagining, creating, and bringing stories to life! 😊

Warm regards,
Luke.

See you next time

Take care 😃

Hello everyone,

I hope you’re all doing amazing! Thank you so much for taking the time to read this — it truly means a lot to me.

This will be a quick one… well, maybe not so quick, but I promise it’ll be worth it. Let’s dive right in!

PO (Kung Fu Panda)

When I first thought about today’s topic, the character that immediately came to mind was none other than Po from the Kung Fu Panda franchise. On the surface, Po is nothing extraordinary. He’s just a panda — a clumsy, noodle-loving panda at that. But there’s one thing that makes him stand out, one thing that defines his story: his unthinkable, seemingly impossible goal of mastering Kung Fu and becoming the legendary Dragon Warrior.

When we first meet Po, he’s everything you wouldn’t expect from a Kung Fu master. As Tai Lung later puts it, he’s just “a big, fat panda.” If you were watching the movie for the first time, you’d likely be convinced — just like Po himself — that one of the Furious Five (Tigress, Monkey, Viper, Crane, or Mantis) would be the one to claim the title of Dragon Warrior. After all, they’re skilled, disciplined, and trained for years to achieve greatness. And yet, when the moment of truth comes, Master Oogway points to Po, the very same panda who accidentally stumbled into the ceremony.

At this point, like many viewers, I thought Master Oogway had lost his mind. How could someone so unprepared, so flawed, and so unfit for the role possibly be the chosen one? And that’s exactly what makes this story so compelling.

It’s Po’s flaws — his clumsiness, his insecurity, his seeming inability to measure up — that draw us in. They make us root for him. As his journey unfolds, we see the Furious Five and Master Shifu doubt him, mock him, and dismiss him as nothing more than what he appears to be on the outside. Po himself struggles to see beyond his limitations and to make matters worse, his journey begins at a time when one of the greatest threats to the Valley of Peace, Tai Lung, has escaped from prison.

So, how does Po transform from a zero to a hero?

The answer lies in one of the most essential elements of any great underdog story: the mentor. Enter Master Shifu. While Oogway may have chosen Po, it was Shifu who had the daunting task of training him. At first, Shifu is as skeptical as anyone else. He had spent years training the Furious Five to be potential Dragon Warriors, and now all of that was cast aside in a single moment.

But as Tai Lung’s return loomed closer, Shifu made a decision. He took a leap of faith. He trained Po not by forcing him to become someone he wasn’t, but by helping him discover his unique strengths. Shifu taught Po the skills of Kung Fu, yes, but more importantly, he helped Po learn to believe in himself.

And through this process, both Po and Shifu grew. Po discovered his potential, and Shifu learned to adapt as a teacher, finding new ways to inspire a student who was unlike any other he’d trained before. Their bond became one of the most heartwarming aspects of the story.

The Turning Point

Of course, no great underdog story is complete without a test — a moment when the hero must prove that their growth has been worth it. For Po, this ultimate test was a showdown with Tai Lung.

The fight between Po and Tai Lung is nothing short of cinematic brilliance. It’s intense, humorous, and packed with meaning. But the defining moment comes near the end of their battle, when Tai Lung mocks Po, saying, “You can’t defeat me. You’re just a big, fat panda.”

In that moment, Po delivers a line that not only solidifies his victory but also encapsulates the heart of his journey: “I’m not a big, fat panda. I’m THE big, fat panda.”

This line is more than just a clever comeback. It’s a declaration of self-acceptance. Po embraces who he is, flaws and all, and uses his unique qualities to triumph over Tai Lung.

The Lesson

Po’s story teaches us so much about life and the power of embracing our flaws. It reminds us that the best stories, the ones that resonate most deeply, are built around imperfect characters — heroes and villains alike.

For me, the biggest takeaway is this: Even when we feel insecure or unworthy, we should never let that stop us from pursuing our dreams or stepping into the roles we’re meant to play.

Some flaws can be worked on and improved, and there’s nothing wrong with striving to grow. But at the same time, we should never lose sight of the fact that our uniqueness — our quirks, imperfections, and all — can be our greatest strength.

Closing Thoughts

Once again, thank you so much for reading. I hope this little reflection on Po’s journey added some value to your day and gave you something to think about.

If this resonated with you or made you smile, feel free to share your thoughts in the comments. I’d love to hear your perspective!

Until next time, take care and keep embracing the journey — flaws and all.

See you soon!

Time to look at things differently

Hello Yoderverse people. Welcome to another Issue. Today we tackle the issue of Perspective. How mundane and common things could have interesting histories. In today’s case, we have the Pencil. A piece of wood with graphite inside to some and to others, it was an expensive discovery, one given the military was willing to defend.

I hope you find value in this. Thank you

Enjoy

A Moment of Reflection

Pause for a moment, take a deep breath, and let your eyes wander around your immediate environment. What do you see? Perhaps it’s a coffee mug with a faded logo that once represented a favorite café, a pair of headphones that have been your constant companion through countless playlists, or a simple pencil, unassuming and quiet, resting on your desk. Each of these everyday items, so ordinary and commonplace, carries a story waiting to be told. Yet, how often do we truly take a moment to contemplate the rich narratives and histories behind these seemingly mundane objects? Sometimes, the things we overlook today were once groundbreaking innovations or even held sacred status in their own right. Consider the humble pencil, for instance. At first glance, it may appear to be the epitome of ordinary, but its history is anything but mundane. It’s a narrative filled with discovery, human ingenuity, and transformation — and it carries a profound lesson: Perspective is everything. Allow me to guide you on this fascinating journey, revealing the extraordinary tales woven into the fabric of our daily lives.

A Revolutionary Beginning

Let’s transport ourselves back to the mid-1500s. Picture a remote corner of Borrowdale, England, where a group of shepherds stumbles upon a peculiar, smooth substance clinging to the earth. It’s black, it leaves marks, and it’s unlike anything they’ve encountered before. Initially, they use it to mark their sheep, blissfully unaware that they’ve unearthed a mineral that would change the course of writing forever: graphite. At first, this remarkable substance is mistaken for coal, but soon its true value becomes clear. Graphite proves to be perfect for writing and drawing, capturing the imagination of those who recognize its potential. As its popularity soars, England takes measures to control its supply, placing its graphite mines under military protection to prevent exploitation. In those early days, graphite sticks were crude and rudimentary. People wrapped them in string or stuffed them into wooden holders to avoid staining their hands. Yet even in this primitive form, pencils revolutionized the way people wrote and expressed their thoughts, paving the way for future innovations.

The Pencil: An Artist’s Dream

Fast forward to the Renaissance, a period of extraordinary creativity and artistic expression. Visionaries like Leonardo da Vinci became captivated by the pencil’s simplicity and versatility. Its ability to create delicate sketches or bold strokes is a game-changer for creative minds, providing them with a reliable tool for capturing their visions. For writers, the pencil emerged as a portable, practical alternative to the messy ink and quills that dominated the era. By the late 1500s, Italian artisans had perfected the craft, encasing graphite in wood and shaping the first true pencils. These early tools were designed to be flat or oval — not round — to prevent them from rolling away on uneven surfaces. This innovation not only improved usability but also set the stage for the pencils we know today.

Innovation in the Face of Necessity

The pencil’s story didn’t end there. During the Napoleonic Wars, France found itself cut off from England’s superior graphite supply. In a remarkable display of ingenuity, French scientist Nicolas-Jacques Conté developed a method to mix powdered graphite with clay, creating a durable and consistent material for pencil leads. This innovation laid the foundation for modern pencils, allowing manufacturers to adjust the hardness of leads, giving rise to the familiar HB and 2B designations we see today.

A Global Phenomenon

By the 19th century, the pencil had become a staple in Europe and America, transcending its humble beginnings. German companies like Faber-Castell and Staedtler emerged as pioneers in pencil production, while in the United States, Joseph Dixon popularized pencils through his Dixon Ticonderoga Company. Even the iconic yellow pencil has an intriguing story behind it. In the late 1800s, manufacturers began painting pencils yellow to signify the use of high-quality Chinese graphite, a nod to the color’s association with royalty and prestige in Chinese culture. This small detail reflects how even marketing choices can be steeped in history and significance.

The Fall from Grace

Today, pencils are ubiquitous — but they’re also often overlooked. They are tossed in drawers, lost at the bottoms of backpacks, or replaced by digital styluses, becoming symbols of the mundane in our fast-paced, technology-driven world. But here’s the thing: The pencil hasn’t fundamentally changed. It remains a tool of creativity, practicality, and endless possibility. The difference lies in our perspective.

Perspective Transforms Value

Think about how revolutionary the pencil once was:

• A tool that unlocked creativity for artists and writers alike.
• An invention that democratized education, making it accessible to more people than ever before.
• A design so enduring that even today, architects and artists swear by its reliability and effectiveness.

So, why don’t we see the pencil in that light anymore? Perhaps we’ve become so accustomed to its presence that we’ve forgotten the depth of its story.

A Challenge for You

Next time you pick up a pencil — or any ordinary object — take a moment to ask yourself:

• How did it come to exist?
• What problem did it solve when it was first invented?
• What stories might it carry from its journey through history?

Suddenly, the world around you transforms, becoming infinitely more interesting and vibrant, filled with the echoes of the past.

Fun Facts About Pencils

Let’s end on a fun note:

• A single pencil can write 45,000 words or draw a line 35 miles long.
• The longest pencil ever created was over 1,500 feet long, demonstrating the lengths of creativity.
• Early astronauts used pencils in space before the invention of the “space pen,” showcasing the pencil’s versatility even in the most extreme environments.

Closing Thoughts

The pencil is more than just a tool; it’s a symbol of human ingenuity and the power of creativity. Its story reminds us that even the simplest objects can carry extraordinary histories. All we need is the curiosity to uncover them. So, here’s to seeing the world with fresh eyes — and finding marvels in the mundane that surrounds us every day. Until next time,
Luke

P.S. What’s an everyday object that fascinates you? I’d love to hear your thoughts!

Also, if you want to hear me talk about it, check out the latest Yoderverse Episode on YouTube and Spotify.

Hello Yoderverse people. This is a short piece of writing from the latest Episode. If you haven’t already, i’d be very glad if you’d give it a listen.

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Alrighty. That’s it from me. Enjoy reading.

Introduction: A Line That Lingers

The world of cinema often gives us lines that stick with us long after the credits roll. One such line comes from Spider-Man: Far From Home. MJ, portrayed by Zendaya, delivers a stark observation:

“Expect disappointment, and you’ll never be disappointed.”

It’s a sentiment many of us have embraced during challenging times, consciously or unconsciously. It encapsulates a protective mechanism — a way to shield ourselves from the sting of failure, rejection, or unmet expectations. On the surface, it feels practical and wise. But does living by this philosophy protect us, or does it limit our potential to experience life fully?

This statement resonates because it acknowledges a universal truth about human experience: we all face disappointment. But does adopting this mindset truly help us cope, or does it confine us to a life of diminished joy and cautious living?

In this newsletter, we’ll explore the merits and pitfalls of expecting disappointment, dissect its psychological and emotional impacts, and seek to find a healthier balance between optimism and realism. Let’s break it down into three sections: the Yes (when this approach serves us well), the No (when it holds us back), and the nuanced Middle Ground where wisdom often lies.

Yes: When Expecting Disappointment Protects You

1. A Psychological Safety Net

Expecting disappointment can act as a defense mechanism, helping to cushion the blow of unfavorable outcomes. This is especially helpful in scenarios where the odds are stacked against success:

• Job applications and competitive auditions: When applying to prestigious programs or companies, competition can be fierce. By managing your expectations, you reduce the emotional fallout if things don’t work out as hoped.
• Unpredictable projects: In creative pursuits, acknowledging the possibility of failure can make setbacks less devastating and encourage you to keep pushing forward.

This mindset aligns with stoic philosophy, which emphasizes focusing on what we can control while accepting what we cannot. By preparing ourselves for less-than-ideal outcomes, we cultivate emotional resilience without becoming emotionally paralyzed by disappointment.

2. Preserving Mental Health

High expectations can lead to emotional burnout when met with consistent setbacks. Expecting disappointment can be a tool for preserving mental health by reducing unnecessary stress and anxiety:

• In relationships: Lowering expectations can help navigate conflicts without taking things personally.
• In work or academics: By setting realistic goals instead of chasing perfection, individuals can maintain motivation without overwhelming themselves.

No: The Limitations of Low Expectations

1. Missing Out on Joy

A significant drawback of always bracing for disappointment is that it diminishes your ability to experience joy fully. When you temper every moment with skepticism, even success feels hollow:

• Imagine this: You win an award but tell yourself, “It’s not a big deal; it probably won’t happen again.” By diminishing your achievements, you deny yourself the happiness they could bring.
• Relationships: If you constantly expect betrayal or failure, you may push away genuine connections and moments of vulnerability that lead to deep bonds.

Life isn’t just about avoiding pain — it’s also about embracing joy, excitement, and wonder. Constant caution can rob you of those experiences.

2. The Trap of Self-Fulfilling Prophecies

Expecting failure often influences behavior in subtle ways that can cause those fears to materialize:

• Performance anxiety: A person convinced they’ll fail a presentation might speak hesitantly, reinforcing the very perception they feared.
• Avoidance behavior: Someone who avoids dating to dodge potential heartbreak never gives themselves the chance to experience love.

When your mindset revolves around avoiding disappointment, you may unconsciously create conditions where disappointment becomes inevitable.

The Middle Ground: Balanced Expectations

The key to navigating this mindset lies in finding balance — a middle ground where you can protect yourself from unnecessary pain without limiting your opportunities for joy and growth.

1. Hope for the Best, Prepare for the Worst

This age-old wisdom suggests maintaining cautious optimism while developing practical contingency plans. This dual mindset encourages enthusiasm without naivety:

• Job interviews: Research thoroughly, practice your responses, and develop backup options while believing in your qualifications.
• Creative pursuits: Strive for excellence, but understand that setbacks are part of the process and opportunities to grow.

2. Realistic Optimism

A healthier alternative to expecting disappointment is adopting realistic optimism — a mindset that combines positivity with pragmatism:

• Example: Instead of thinking, “I’ll probably fail,” shift to, “This will be challenging, but I’m capable of figuring it out.”
• Result: You maintain hope while staying grounded, ready for whatever comes your way.

Lessons from Spider-Man Himself

If MJ’s philosophy is about self-protection, Peter Parker’s journey represents the other side — embracing risk and responsibility even when failure is likely. He embodies the idea that setbacks are part of growth and that courage means acting despite uncertainty.

In life, like in Spider-Man’s story, the path to fulfillment often involves stepping into discomfort and embracing the unknown, even when success isn’t guaranteed.

Conclusion: Choose Growth Over Fear

While MJ’s philosophy is understandable, it’s not a sustainable way to live a fulfilling life. Disappointment is inevitable, but it doesn’t need to define our outlook. By balancing realistic optimism with thoughtful preparation, we can navigate life’s challenges while remaining open to its joys.

Next time you find yourself bracing for disappointment, ask yourself this:

“Am I protecting myself, or holding myself back?”

More often than not, you’ll find that courage, vulnerability, and openness lead to the greatest rewards.

Challenge of the Week

This week, take a step toward balancing hope and realism:

1. Set one goal where you risk failure but have a lot to gain.
2. Approach it with both preparation and optimism.
3. Reflect on how it felt to pursue something openly rather than expecting disappointment.

Remember, growth comes from daring to believe in your potential — even when the path is uncertain.

Thank you so much for reading, it really means a lot.

See you next time.

Resolutions Are Out — Goals Are In

Welcome to the Yoderverse!

Happy New Year, everyone! As we step into 2025, there’s something magical about the fresh start that a new year brings, isn’t there? It’s like opening a brand new notebook — clean pages waiting to be filled with possibilities. This annual transition gives us a precious opportunity to pause, reflect on our journey, and envision the path ahead. It’s that special time when we allow ourselves to dream bigger than ever and set those ambitious resolutions that we hope will transform our lives.

You’re probably familiar with the classic New Year’s declarations that echo through conversations at this time of year: “This is the year I’ll finally commit to a serious exercise routine,” “I’m going to revolutionize my eating habits and embrace a healthier lifestyle,” “It’s time to take control of my finances and build a substantial savings account.” These proclamations might sound all too familiar, perhaps even bringing a knowing smile to your face.

But here’s the sobering reality that we need to address: when February rolls around, these well-intentioned resolutions often become distant memories, gathering dust alongside our unused gym memberships. Why does this pattern repeat itself year after year? The answer lies not in our lack of determination or desire for change, but in the fundamental way these resolutions are structured. They’re simply not engineered for long-term success. In today’s discussion, we’re diving deep into understanding why New Year’s resolutions typically fall short of their promise, and more crucially, we’ll explore why shifting our mindset toward structured goals offers a more effective pathway to lasting transformation.

So, find your favorite spot, pour yourself a fresh cup of coffee, and let’s embark on this journey together.

Why Do Most New Year’s Resolutions Fail?

When we really examine them, resolutions often appear perfect on paper — they’re ambitious, inspiring, and seem tailor-made for that fresh start we’re all craving. However, beneath this appealing surface lies a fundamental flaw: most resolutions lack the robust framework needed to withstand the tests of time and real-world challenges. They frequently collapse under the weight of their own ambiguity and the absence of a concrete structure.

1. Lack of Specificity

Common resolutions like “exercise more” or “eat healthy” might sound good in the moment, but they share a critical weakness: they’re frustratingly vague. Without clearly defined parameters and specific targets, how can anyone truly measure their progress or know when they’ve succeeded?

Consider the resolution to “exercise more” — this could mean anything from training for an ultramarathon to simply choosing to take the stairs instead of the elevator once a week. Without concrete specifications, these well-intentioned resolutions easily slip through our fingers. In contrast, a well-defined goal like “run three times a week for at least 30 minutes” provides clear, actionable metrics that you can track and achieve.

2. Unrealistic Expectations

Human nature often drives us to seek dramatic results in the shortest possible timeframe. However, setting overly ambitious targets without considering the practical aspects of achievement frequently leads to disappointment and burnout.

For instance, declaring “I’ll lose 50 pounds this month” sets you up for frustration and potential failure. Such an aggressive target isn’t just unrealistic — it can be demotivating when the inevitable slower progress occurs. A more sustainable approach would be setting a goal to “lose 2 pounds per week through a combination of balanced nutrition and regular exercise.” This creates a manageable pathway while maintaining steady progress toward your ultimate objective.

3. No Clear Plan or System

One of the biggest downfalls of resolutions is that they often exist merely as declarations floating in space, without any supporting structure or strategic roadmap. As Jordan Peterson astutely observes: “You need a map to chart your path; wandering aimlessly doesn’t work.”

Even the strongest intentions can falter without a systematic approach. Take the common resolution to “save more money” — while the intention is admirable, without a detailed budget plan, specific savings targets, and a clear strategy for implementation, this resolution remains in the realm of wishful thinking rather than actionable change.

4. Overemphasis on Motivation

Let’s confront an uncomfortable truth: motivation is inherently temporary. It’s that powerful surge of energy and determination you feel as the clock strikes midnight on New Year’s Eve, but by mid-January, it often dissipates like morning mist. Alex Hormozi captures this perfectly when he says: “Motivation is fleeting; systems are forever.”

The real key to lasting change isn’t riding waves of motivation — it’s building the discipline to continue even when that initial spark of inspiration has faded.

Why Goals Are Better Than Resolutions

Unlike resolutions, which often fade with time, goals are specifically designed for longevity. They incorporate elements that make them actionable, measurable, and adaptable to changing circumstances. Here’s why I’ve found them to be significantly more effective:

1. Goals Are Actionable and Measurable

A well-crafted goal provides you with a clear destination and a roadmap to reach it. Instead of making a vague commitment like “I’ll create more art,” I prefer to set specific, measurable goals such as: “Design two full concepts for my Volcanic Wyvern project, complete with character studies, environment sketches, and final renderings.”

With this level of specificity, success becomes tangible and measurable — you know exactly what you’re working toward.

2. Goals Build Habits

One of the most powerful aspects of goal-setting is its ability to foster lasting habits through consistent, intentional action. Small steps, taken regularly, accumulate into significant progress over time.

Consider this: dedicating just 15 minutes daily to focused drawing practice might seem modest, but over weeks and months, this commitment develops into improved technique, enhanced creativity, and a robust artistic practice.

3. Goals Encourage Reflection and Adaptation

Life rarely follows our perfect plans. Sometimes obstacles arise, schedules change, or priorities shift. The beauty of goal-setting lies in its flexibility — it allows for adjustment without feeling like complete failure.

When I miss a scheduled drawing session, I don’t abandon my artistic goals entirely. Instead, I reassess my schedule, make necessary adjustments, and keep moving forward on my creative journey.

4. Goals Keep You Present

By focusing on the journey rather than fixating solely on the destination, goals help alleviate the pressure that often comes with major life changes.

As Jordan Peterson wisely counsels: “Aim for the highest good you can conceive of — but start by improving what’s right in front of you.” This balanced approach helps maintain perspective while working toward larger objectives.

How to Shift Toward a Goal-Oriented Mindset

Making the transition from resolution-setting to goal-oriented thinking isn’t as daunting as it might seem. Here’s a practical approach to get started:

1. Define Your ‘Why’

Understanding the deeper purpose behind your goals is crucial — it serves as your anchor when challenges arise. A meaningful purpose provides the foundation for sustained motivation.

In my case, my goal of enhancing my storytelling abilities through art isn’t just about improving technique — it’s rooted in my desire to create meaningful connections with others through visual narratives. Understanding this fundamental why helps maintain my focus and dedication.

2. Start Small, Think Big

While it’s important to maintain ambitious long-term visions, success often comes from breaking these larger aspirations into manageable, achievable steps.

For instance, if you want to develop a reading habit, don’t immediately commit to consuming a book every week. Begin with a more modest goal, like reading 10 pages daily, and allow this habit to naturally expand as it becomes part of your routine.

3. Review and Adjust Regularly

Regular evaluation of your progress is essential. Set aside time to honestly assess how your goals are working and what might need adjustment.

I make it a point to review my artistic goals monthly, examining what’s working well and what needs refinement. This regular check-in helps ensure my goals remain aligned with my capabilities and circumstances.

4. Celebrate Progress, Not Perfection

Remember to acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small they might seem. Every step forward is progress worth recognizing.

As Alex Hormozi reminds us: “You don’t need perfection; you need progress. Small wins compound over time.” This perspective helps maintain motivation while building momentum.

Closing Thoughts

Think of resolutions as fireworks — they’re spectacular and exciting in the moment, but their brilliance quickly fades. Goals, on the other hand, are more like a well-tended campfire — they require consistent attention and care, but provide sustained warmth and light to guide your journey.

Here’s my challenge to you as we begin this new year: choose one specific, meaningful goal for January. Connect it deeply with your personal “why,” break it down into manageable daily or weekly actions, and make sure to celebrate every milestone along the way — no achievement is too small to acknowledge.

Go listen to Episode 2 of the Yoderverse if you want to hear me talk about it.

What’s Coming Next in the Yoderverse?

In our next episode, we’ll be exploring and dissecting one of Spider-Man’s most thought-provoking quotes: “Expect disappointment, and you’ll never be disappointed.” We’ll examine what this really means, whether it’s actually good advice, and if there might be a more constructive way to approach life’s challenges.

Follow along with the podcast as we continue to explore these fascinating topics together.

Have a blessed day. 😁

Hello and Happy New Year Yoderverse Family, this newsletter is a written version of Episode 1 of the Podcast, which came out on New Year's. It’s very short don’t worry. If you haven’t already, I’d appreciate your checking the episode on YouTube. Thank you. Let’s begin.

Have you ever been caught in a whirlwind of thoughts, replaying decisions and wondering, “Did I make the right choice?” If so, you’re not alone. Overthinking is something we all experience, but what if we could transform it into a tool for growth instead of a barrier?

What is Overthinking?
Overthinking is that mental tug-of-war where we overanalyze everything, leading to stress, missed opportunities, and even strained relationships. It’s become even more common in today’s world of social media, endless comparisons, and information overload.

Why Do We Overthink?
Psychologists point to fear of failure, perfectionism, and cognitive biases as key reasons. Picture overthinking as a car stuck in neutral — it burns energy but doesn’t get you anywhere. Sound familiar?

The Cost of Overthinking
It’s not just about wasted time or energy. Overthinking can hold you back from opportunities and put unnecessary strain on relationships. Remember Spider-Man doubting his abilities before leaping into action? Overthinking can keep us from making our moves too.

How to Overcome Overthinking
Here are a few strategies:

1. Be present: Use mindfulness techniques to stay grounded.(Reading is a good one)
2. Set deadlines: Don’t let decisions drag; give yourself a time limit.
3. Take small steps: Break big challenges into manageable actions.
4. Challenge negativity: Ask yourself, “What’s the worst that could happen?”

For example, when I start overthinking a podcast episode, I remind myself to just hit “record” and improve as I go. Progress beats perfection every time.

When Overthinking Helps
Surprisingly, overthinking isn’t always bad. It often means you care deeply and are considering every angle. Thoughtful reflection can lead to amazing outcomes — whether it’s a creative breakthrough or a well-executed project.

Closing Thoughts
The goal isn’t to stop thinking — it’s to direct your thoughts toward something meaningful. This week, I challenge you to try one of these strategies. Take one step, no matter how small, and see where it leads.

Stay tuned for the next episode, where we’ll explore why i prefer goals to resolutions. (Coming soon)

Let’s tackle overthinking together! Follow the podcast, share your thoughts, and join me in the Yoderverse.

See you next time. Have a blessed day 😁

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