As life has always been, we are constantly going through change whether it’s forced on us by unfortunate circumstances or desired from within.
Change doesn’t come from comfort. Sometimes, it comes from discomfort, hate, disgust, or anger. So, if you’ve been wanting change and those are the feelings you’re sitting with, let’s talk.

I want to talk about this version of you—the one craving change, even if that change doesn’t come from love or belief that you deserve the best.

Admiring your body in that one outfit, or after that one comment from your aunt, can lead to thoughts like: geting a gym membership. Or a BBL.
But before you take any step to “fix it” I want you to know something:
This version of you is just as worthy and lovable.
(Your aunt might believe otherwise, but I don’t care and honestly, neither should you.)

Seeing the rise and popularity of certain features online can spark desires.
Suddenly, you catch yourself thinking: If only the tip of my nose was a little higher. If my eyes were just a bit wider, I’d finally be perfect.
You start analyzing before-and-afters, checking out surgeons, watching cancellation lists.

I won’t tell you “Don’t do it” or “You’re already beautiful”—because deep down, I know you already know that.
But What I will tell you is: both this version of you and the next are charming and exquisite, even if not by media standards or your current standards.

And if your desired change is rooted in finally feeling enough, then you’re chasing something that won’t stop running. You’re stuck on a hamster wheel.

So pause. Breathe.
Recognize this version of you the angry one, the tired one, the one that’s still trying is still deserving of care, admiration, and rest.

Than you can take the next step .

See you around.