By Mollie Astromowicz
Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. James 1:2-3 ESV
I still remember the uneasy feeling that washed over me the first time this verse came to mind. It was a calm spring night, and I was getting ready for bed when the phrase count it all joy kept repeating in my thoughts. I knew it was Scripture but couldn’t remember where it came from, so I looked it up. When I read the full passage, my good mood faded. Instead of comfort, I felt anxious, wondering what the Lord was trying to tell me.
About a month later, a couple from my church approached me – separately, on the same Sunday – with the same message. Their daughter’s school was hiring, and they thought of me. It felt like one of those moments that had to be God. I applied, interviewed, prayed, and waited, convinced this door was meant to open. Weeks passed, and eventually I learned my references had never even been contacted. The disappointment was heavy. Around that same time, another opportunity appeared at my current job, but it fell through when a coworker chose to stay instead of moving on. I was frustrated, believing God was leading me somewhere while every path seemed blocked.
Months later, another coworker shared they were applying elsewhere, and if they left, I would likely step into their position. This time, it finally worked out and I accepted the new role. That same week, a speaker at my church quoted James 1 – the same passage that had unsettled me months earlier. In that moment, I saw how God had been working all along. The waiting, the closed doors, and the frustration were not wasted. I paused to thank Him, realizing the story had come full circle.
How are we supposed to count it all joy when nothing seems to be working out? This life wasn’t promised to be easy – but how can we find joy through the trials? The trials we face all serve a purpose. When all we see is the struggle, God is actually strengthening us. It may not always feel like it, but He is preparing us for what we are going to face throughout our journey.
Counting it all joy doesn’t mean rushing toward the resolution. It means recognizing that God is just as active in the in-between as He is in the answered prayer. Joy can be found in knowing we are not forgotten, even when the answer hasn’t arrived yet. There were many moments during my journey that I felt forgotten or hopeless, but God never stopped working. Even when I had given up. If you feel the same way, know there is hope. God is faithful in the in-between, and He has not forgotten you.
Prayer: Lord, help me to trust You in the waiting and recognize that You are just as present in the in-between as You are in the answered prayer. Teach me to find joy in knowing You are near, faithful, and working in every season.
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About the Author: Mollie Astromowicz has been writing since her school days. She is a multi-published short story writer, writes church newsletters, and is a blogger. Her WIP’s (Works in Progress) include a fiction book for youth, as well as two children’s books. She is a DayCare Teacher, an Auntie to eight nieces and nephews, and is a pet mom to a guinea pig named Russell and a kitten named Pip. She loves playing the piano and ukulele, and is an avid golfer.
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