This weekend there were massive pro-Palestinian, anti-Israel protests in London, Paris, and other cities around the world. Friends said that there were even protests in small-town Wisconsin. You can see photos from global protests here on Al-Jazeera: Global Gaza Solidarity Protests. In the first photo, a woman in South Africa holds a sign reading, “Israel: Murder, War, Killers.”
That’s going to bring about peace, right?
I wish that these were largely pro-peace demonstrations demanding a two-state solution. They seem, instead, to be about claiming moral superiority, about blaming and hating. I can say the same about some of the pro-Israel protests I’ve seen or heard about here in Israel.
The problem with such protests is that they damage the goal they are supposed to be trying to reach.
First, they let “their side” off the hook–whatever is necessary to “resist” is allowed because they are morally superior.
Second, they harden the stances of both sides, making compromise and peace less likely.
Then, too, there are the internet memes demonstrating just how terrible the other side is. A Facebook friend who lives in the West Bank posts memes in which Israelis say awful, racist things, e.g. these of teenage Israelis calling on Twitter for the death of Arabs or this article citing racist statements made by Israelis on Facebook. A Facebook friend who lives in Israel posts memes in which Palestinians say or do awful, racist things, e.g. this meme in which Palestinians, including many children, hold up three fingers in support of the kidnapping of three Israeli children or this BBC article demonstrating that some of the images sent to media to represent the current crisis are actually from the conflicts in Syria and Iraq.
These depressed me deeply. But then I thought: Wait. Many of those in these memes or starting the memes are teenagers. I’ve spent a lot of time with teenagers–I was a high school teacher in the US–and as much as I love them, trust me when I say that you should not be judging a society’s moral standards based on what a few teenagers say.
And it turns out that at least some of those pictures of Palestinians holding up three fingers may actually have been showing their support for a Palestinian contestant on Arab Idol, who was contestant number 3.
See how ridiculous these attempts to paint the other side black can be?
And what is the purpose? To show how awful others can be? Is that going to calm down the situation and allow for civil dialogue? Is it going to lessen ignorance and racism?
Here’s for some uplifting news:
In my Facebook news feed, where I have connections with tens of Israelis and a couple Palestinians, I have never seen any words of hate, but rather prayers for peace, for the safety both of the soldiers going into battle and of the innocents in Gaza.
I do see anger at Hamas and “get ’em!” statements referring to Hamas or terrorists infiltrating Israel with weapons. I do see attempts to legitimize or rationalize the Israeli point of view, e.g. to circulate Netanyahu’s statement that “if Israel were to put down its arms there would be no more Israel. If the Arabs were to put down their arms there would be no more war.”
I have also seen Israeli denunciations of the war, such as that written here, in answer to the question, How can you possibly oppose this war? (True, it has no answer about what to do about the rockets being shot … only questions about whether the escalation of this conflict is going to achieve its goals.)
But as a whole, I mostly see a strong desire for quiet, peace, and safety for all. If you want to see for yourselves, try going to the Facebook pages of “Palestine Loves Israel” and “Israel Loves Palestine.” You’ll see Israelis and Palestinians reaching out to one another and demanding peace.
It is very hard to remain level-headed and push for compromise when you fear for your children’s lives. It is very hard when you read about the deaths of children and families. It is especially hard when you have lost one of your own family to the conflict.
So I want to end by sharing one of the most heart-breaking and yet hopeful messages I’ve seen spread around the internet thus far, in which there is no moral superiority, only pain and hope for peace: A video compiled by the Palestinian-Israeli Bereaved Families for Peace.
Their message? We don’t want any new members in our organization.




















