Monday, June 13, 2011

Birthday wish list...and the lack of creativity rant...

So my birthday is coming up and this blog entry definitely parallels to what is on my mind!

I have been asked by numerous folks in regards to what I would like for my birthday, though ironically, the things I want this year are not materialistic things, so it is quite difficult giving a straight answer. I don't need more junk to lay around the house; things that are really meaningless if you think about it.. I mean do I really need another movie or shirt or electronic gadget?.. wait, on second thought....... just kidding! I don't want that stuff. I want people to be creative..what happened to creativity? Does it cease to exist? Since when did birthdays become a day for people to give others "things" that really have no real intrinsic value. It is so common for people to give others money and gift cards and common crap- but where is the REAL thought?

I want to see creativity and thought. I want something that took time.. and not just the time it took to stuff the card or pick something out.. I'm talking real minutes. Knit me a sweater, write me a poem, sing me a song, plan a picnic.. Guaranteed these insightful gifts will be the ones I remember- in comparison to the dvd's, cd's, shirts, pants, plants and money. If only people would step back and reflect that birthday's should not be about big materialistic wants, but the thoughts put into special gifts by the people that cherish us.

Now my little bees, I hope that when your birthdays come around, you aren't instantly drawn to the newest gadget and gizmos, but you step back and think about what you really want. It may not be what first comes to mind..

Friday, June 10, 2011

Hopes, dreams and plans for the next 365 days

 Just thinking about the year ahead...

It is always in my plans to get healthier and be more fit...perhaps this is something I should work on over the summer... though have noticed that today, in NY, it is VERY humid out and I cannot stand the feeling (can anyone?)... Though on the same topic- have you noticed how unhealthy most foods are? I do a lot of research and it appears that SO many foods are poisonous and contain harmful ingredients and/or should be eaten in moderation- but seriously...can anyone really eat in moderation? Just think about it... you are indulging in a delicious piece of brownie or cookie or cake (whatever it is that you love) and the food is just melting in your mouth and your brain is just telling you to eat more of it because it is THAT damn good..are you really going to be thinking about how terrible that food probably is for you and decide not to eat the rest? Yeah right...  but this is what we American's do best: we indulge so much and think little about the consequences. Therefore, this is one of my goals: to be more conscious of what I am consuming and not give in to the little devil called "over-temptation!"

Another goal of mine is to find another part-time job. Again, have you noticed that this also is extremely difficult? I know I should not be all that picky, but if I am going to be doing a job for whatever amount of hours a day, I would hope it would be in the least bit a little interesting!

Ah! On the topic of indulging and chocolate and work- it reminds me of this documentary I just watched and you, my little bees, should check it out too! It is quite interesting and is basically about the trafficking of children in the chocolate industry and how major companies such as Nestle, fail to adequately respond (as most businesses in pursuit of profit). Follow the link: Dark Side of Chocolate -- Also, this website is  one of my favorites because it is GREAT for watching documentaries and have a ton of really cool ones! So, definitely browse and see if anything catches your eye!

On that note, what are some of your dreams and plans you have?  This question really stimulated my brain and hope it does the same for you..

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Happy Photo

This is my happy photo:
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This is a picture of the sunset in Waikiki Beach (Oahu, HI). I spent some time over there and come to realize that I absolutely adore Hawaiian life and the beautiful sunsets Hawaii has to offer. As I studied abroad, I was the happiest and healthiest I ever was and now, having been back in NY for over a year, I dream of the wonderful days I spent in my Hawaii and I hope to go back as soon as possible.

For those of you, who have never visited, which I expect are many (since it is practically on the other side of the globe), Hawaii is AMAZING and truly, TRULY worth seeing. Aside from the commercialization (which is basically everywhere these days), Hawaii is a tiny jewel in the middle of the ocean. Just make sure, if you do decide to visit, to not take any natural pieces of the land/nature back, since there is A LOT of superstition involving curses for anyone who disturbs the natural elements.

So my little bees, I leave you with the Aloha spirit and ask you: what is your happy photo?

Friday, June 3, 2011

Dedication to ridiculousness.

So I decided to finally enter the 21st century and start blogging.. Yay! Now everyone can read about my crazy thoughts and banters! I say "everyone" as if I have so many followers and people reading this blog because I am THAT popular! But I figured why not? What do I have to lose? Nothing really. So let's do it. Welcome to the inner mind of Bee, hope you enjoy the minutes you spend here, the minutes you will never get back from your life, as you read this blog and the words that you are reading right now......
You know, it took me such a long time to create a damn blog name...I don't even understand why I (and I'm sure I am not the only one) care so much about what the name is, when readers will most likely skip over the "cool unique name that took forever"creating! I mean seriously, it is just a name for a blog! Pure example of dedication to ridiculousness.

Anyway, I have entered a new chapter in my life where I just want to "BEE HAPPY." I am tired of trying to put puzzle pieces together that obviously don't go together. (Paralleling to the world of relationships!) Speaking of relationships, sometimes I just want my freedom. I mean, who doesn't? I know married people would never admit to it, but I am sure, without a doubt, that the thought crossed the minds of those "happily married." It is just natural. We are born into the world as a single human being, not attached to someone or "married" to someone. We are individuals, trying to make our way in life- hence self interests. If for some reason you do disagree with this, I would love for you to comment, so I can point out how big of a liar you are. Everyone is out for themselves, whether it is economically, socially, romantically etc.. okay, now I sound like the world is out to get us and that's not the case...well, not the whole case.

On that note, I hope you all have a great day and bee happy :)