Valerie is my child who can't wait to grow up. She wants to be just like the big kids. From the moment Valerie could move around and play on her own, she has wanted to run around with her brothers. She loves them and wants to do the things they are doing. Last November she took this love and admiration to a new level by dressing in some of their clothes.
By January when I told the boys to go get pajamas on, Valerie would run in and put some of her brothers pajamas on too.

And she loves to wear their underwear.

Sometimes she puts it on over her diaper, and sometimes she decides to take her diaper off and just wear the underwear. At first when this would happen, I would put the diaper right back on and she would usually keep it on. At least until it got a little wet. After a couple of months of that she started just taking the diaper back off. So I told her that if she didn't want to wear a diaper she had to use the potty. Valerie does not like diapers and will take hers off every chance she gets.
I got the potty seat out of storage, washed it, and then showed Valerie how it worked. She sat on it for a few minutes and then happily went on her way with a diaper on. I left the seat in the bathroom, but we did not do much with it. The other kids had not potty trained until they were three, (I tried earlier with the first two) and not without a struggle. So I did not see any reason to push it.
Valerie did not show much interest in the actual potty, but the diaper-less escapades in her brother's boxers became more and more frequent. As time passed I realized that when Valerie did this she was not having accidents, and when she felt like she needed it she would ask for a diaper. I also noticed that I was finding the diapers she removed to put on the underwear in the bathroom. So I began to think that maybe potty training would be possible.
But I also new it would mean staying home for at least a week, and our schedule had just gotten REALLY busy with sports. For the next two months there was not one day where we would just be home. So I put the idea to the side and thought I would come back to it later.
In April we stopped by the library one night after Emily's game to pick up a few books. I let the kids each go look for a book too. Valerie and I walked through the kids section and I noticed the "Potty Book" display. Valerie and I picked out a few to take home and read together.
After we read the books, Valerie started being a little more interested in actually sitting on the potty. When she asked I would set her on it. Sometimes we would play pat-a-cake or read a book. Valerie never did more than just sit and play. When she was done playing, she would get off. I did not mind because I was not ready to really train her.
A little over a month passed and as far as I noticed nothing had changed. I did not expect it to, because I had done nothing to change it.
On Sunday I found Valerie in the bathroom two times taking off her dirty diaper. This was not too unusual, because Valerie hates having a dirty diaper on. Sometimes she takes her diaper off the minute she is done wetting it. So I helped her get a fresh diaper on and went about the day.
Then about noon we were sitting in the front room. Valerie stood up took her diaper off said "potty" and ran down the hall. I ran right behind her. She sat on the potty and used it.
When she was finished instead of heading for a new diaper, she walked into her brother's room pulled out a pair of Joe's underwear and put it on.
She wore it and kept it dry the entire day!

So the next day I took her to the store and we picked out some Big Girl pants for Valerie. She was really happy with the ones she found. (I was worried she would still like the boys better.) She came home and put on every pair all at once. We are staying home this week to really get it down, but Valerie is doing great.

Potty training is one of my least favorite stages as a mother. I am so happy that Valerie took it upon herself to figure it out. Way to go Valerie!
You are such a big girl!
But don't grow up too fast. I love getting cuddles and loves from you and I am not ready to give those up yet.