We had a ward temple night a few nights ago, and Caleb, Katie and I were all set to go! Katie had found names of ancestors, the youth in our ward had done the baptisms, the other work had been done two days before by Katie and Caleb; we were set!
Then Katie got sick.
Then Millie got sick.
So Caleb said he would stay home with Millie, and I could just head down alone. That still works! So I started calling around to find a ride. I knew a lot of my neighbors and friends were going so I didn't think it'd be a big deal. But I couldn't find a ride! One thing after another, weird things, and I couldn't find a ride. So I finally said "It's not a big deal, I'll just drive myself down!" So I did.
But I was late.
I missed the session with my ward by 10 seconds. Literally. True story.
So I, once again, said "It's not a big deal, I'll just wait for the next one." And I sat down to wait.
A few minutes later a young lady sat down beside me, rather in a huff. I could feel the emotional heaviness she carried as she sat down next to me! I looked over at her and saw that she was crying. She looked back at me and I gave her a little smile, and she managed a smile back, and we went back to silently waiting.
Should I have said something? Yes, absolutely. But I'm shy. Which is NO excuse. *sigh*
Then our session started and we didn't end up sitting by each other.
After the session and everything was over and done, I walked out of the dressing room and there she was! Standing there, amidst the crowds of people, with a smile on her face! She walked right up to me, and said, "I'm so sorry, this is really weird, but could I have a ride home?"
"Yes, of course!" I responded, because the chances of picking up a sketchy hitchhiker inside the temple are pretty slim. I felt pretty good about this gal. She glowingly introduced herself, "I'm Mocha!"
She had ridden the city bus to the temple without realizing it would no longer be running by the time she came out!
We walked out to the car and I drove her home, with me marveling the whole time at the change that had come over her since I first saw her. As we drove, we had the most amazing conversation.
Her family emigrated to the U.S. when she was 12, from The Congo.
See? That's the Congo.
They moved to the Eastern US, and when she was grown she got a job working for Ancestry.com in Provo, Utah. She moved out west all by herself, started her new job, found the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, and was baptized! She is the only member in her family, and they all think she's crazy, but they have accepted her decision.
Then she bore the sweetest testimony of the temple. She said,
"A lot of hard things have happened to me this week. I lost one of my jobs, and broke up with my boyfriend. I felt so strongly that I needed to go to the temple tonight, and I'm so glad I did! When I am in the temple I can feel how much God loves me, and knows exactly who I am. I can see more clearly when I come out, and even though my troubles are still there, I know that they are there for a reason and I am grateful."
As I was dropping her off, I said, "Mocha, it was so incredibly nice to meet you" and I held out my hand. She said, "I don't want to shake your hand, I want a hug!" and we embraced across the car. She headed inside her apartment, and I headed home.
As I drove, I prayed aloud and thanked my Heavenly Father for giving me that experience. I thanked him for making sure I couldn't find a ride. I thanked him for letting me be late to my ward's session. I thanked him for giving me 15 minutes of Mocha, to strengthen my testimony and help me see a little more clearly.