Saturday, May 15, 2010

Round the World in 44 Days

We love travelling. Our first trip together was 2000 in Port Stephens. There have been many trips since then. None, we think, will ever recapture the magic of the first, when we were just starting out, when we haven’t been anywhere at all. But then again, the memories of each travel after that are wonderful to look back, too.

The grey tinged fabric of our life has been shot through with the colour of our travels. The memory of much of it keeps us alive and awake when our day-to-day responsibilities annoy the crap out of us and the future appears full of endless obligations and insanely busy projects and doing things we really don’t want to do, but we have to.

The ties that bind and the obligations that lock us into the mundane, drive us mad... (Who would not be?)... We are thankful because we are blessed to have each other. We understand not only each other’s need for solitude but to escape on a regular basis if we can.

So, thrillseekers, we are officially off to holiday on the 17th of May, round the world again (thanks to frequent flyer points-LOL) for the fourth time. We are hopping on 7 countries on this trip. We could only wish its 80 days like in the movie --- but that's impossible (unless we won lotto?) thus we only have 44 days to complete this one :-)

Round the World TRip 2010
We would like to ask everybody to please cross their fingers very, very, hard, and send the universe good wishes about making sure the no volcanic ash will impact any flights....


Cheers to all.

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Monday, December 14, 2009

Christmas Newsletter 2009

Yes, we're one of those couples that send Christmas letters, partly out of a genuine desire to let friends and family know what's been going on, but also as an apology for not staying in better touch for the year (AGAIN)!

With All Good Wishes for Christmas and Every Happiness in the Coming YearTo Wonderful Family and Friends:
Since last we wrote, obviously, with many new experiences yet some things really don’t change like being so busy at work! We hope all is well with you and your families. We miss getting to spend time with many of you, but you are in our hearts and prayers.

End of 2008 was memorable; my grandmother arrived and we were so fortunate to have her (Lola Louisa) here in Australia for few months.

In 2009, we saw the world go to economic meltdown and indeed, it has been a wild ride. We are joyful for the happy times and we will surely remember the sad times; and treasure the memories of both.

We have had a few challenges in the family. The passing of Sherwin’s grandmother (Nanay Rosie) last March allowed her to be free of pain and at peace, without more worry or suffering. However, it created a large void for the family and she is missed very much. Then, 6 months after, the unpredictable damage that the tropical typhoon “Ondoy” brought to family and friends in the Philippines was destructive and affects some. Once again, our hearts go out to so many others who have been affected. Some says bad news comes in threes and hopefully this is the last. Just recently, Sherwin’s grandfather (“Tatay Nano”) had a major accident and he was hospitalized for almost 3 weeks. He needs one on one care since then. We hope and pray he will recover soon. He is strong and fit at his age and we believe he will surpass what he is going through right now.

On the happy note, during the first quarter of the year, we’ve finally accomplished our long overdue project for our humble abode - a “small” renovation in our kitchen. We are both (extremely) satisfied with the outcome.

Due to some major spending early this year, we thought an overseas travel for our birthdays was close to impossible. Lucky enough, a good airfare deal was advertised (almost like a buy one take one), thus, even unplanned, we managed to have a great time on our two weeks holiday in the Philippines. The trip back home last end of May kept us in touch (a quick one) with some family and long-time friends. Overall, they are healthy and happy. The vacation was exhilarating! There was so much to learn and experience especially for Sherwin who had a glimpse of Philippine history while on tour. We did the usual sightseeing / touristy stuffs in Puerto Princesa (Palawan), Cebu, Bohol and Ilocos (Vigan-Laoag-Batac-Paoay-Pagudpud). We will definitely return without hesitation (next time is just to relax and enjoy the beaches). Unfortunately, it was a short visit, but we are grateful to spend time with very special people.

After few consecutive year of trips to Snowy Mountain, we skipped this year (yeah, no skiing!) but glad for different interstate adventure. We travelled to Melbourne and watched the MotoGP last October. Before we went back home, we grabbed the opportunity to see penguins (must see while in Phillip Island) and also visited a friend and her children. It was a quick long weekend getaway but it’s worth it.

A few occasional travels around New South Wales were terrific because the moments were shared with friends who visited us from overseas. Time was very limited but we enjoyed all the time we have spent with them. Hopefully, they will come back so we could show more other beautiful place outside Sydney.

On some other personal note, the wonderful journeys in successful fund-raising activities were overwhelming. We both strive hard, continuously support (as much as we can) various organizations that believes so strongly in making a difference; not only by giving out monetary donations but also putting effort/getting involve on saving our health and our planet. We are ever grateful for friends who believe the same by helping us to help these charity organizations. Once again, from our heart, our sincere thank you for your support and let’s continue to do so if we can. “Give until it hurts”.

And yes, my new found “hobby” kept my life a bit interesting. I’ve been recently hooked to baking typical Filipino breads (but I’ve been baking cakes already before). I do not know how far will I do it but the main thing (as always) is I am enjoying it. Also, I was so delighted to have grown few (about 10) jade plants beautifully in a pot this year that I just trimmed from the existing plant that I have. It takes hard work but I am fulfilled when I saw them healthy and growing.

We were truly happy that we have also reconnected with old friends (back in the Philippines from primary, university, etc) and immediate families who are now residing overseas. We have lost in contact at all and some of us have not communicated for many years. We’ve missed out many things yet there is now a great opportunity to catch up for the time we’ve lost. The art of technology is indeed amazing and we love it!

The festive season is here again and after a challenging year, we certainly deserve to let our hair down and have a good time. We look forward for the exciting year and let’s do our best to make 2010 a great and rewarding year.

Merry Christmas and have a joyous blessed coming year.



Love,
Sherwin and Leng

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Tuesday, December 08, 2009

8th of December 2001

Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.I am not that very vocal about our relationship but somehow at this very moment, I want to share something to you guys....

If you haven't heard our story, Sherwin and I met on a church after mass for my aunt’s prayer group anniversary (Philippine Independence Day). It’s not arranged or anything but the first night we met was the beginning of everything. There was something about the way that he made me laugh and safe that made me wants to see him again. The next time we hung out, we spent hours talking at night even after dating. He usually drive me home and walked me to the door, ended by saying “I can't wait to call you tonight!" with a giant grin on his face. As I entered the house, I thought to myself, "Crap, I'm falling in love with this guy, and I'm pretty sure I could spend the rest of my life with him."


After hanging out almost every day (he was so kind to drive me to my job interviews), Sherwin was officially my boyfriend. Yes, indeed, he finally said those three little words: I love you.

We were crazy in love (that's my version - lol) although there are so many things we do not have in common. Like two pieces to our own puzzle―i believe it's a perfect fit. We were that couple that are not very demonstrative when in public, but we love to hold hands (even when he’s driving). Most important was our constant laughter, even when I was curled up in his arms just sitting in a park enjoying the beauty of nature and fresh air, I was genuinely happy and satisfied. Not just because I was in love, but because I was me, and he loved me for me. I didn't have to play stupid games or put on make-up, dress up or shower after we go for a run. I didn't have to put on a show. I do not know much about household chores yet he's ok with it. I was just being myself, and I felt more secure in my own skin that I had ever felt because of Sherwin: my Sherminator.

Winter 2000 came in, and I was thinking to go back home in the Philippines that year for summer. That probably made him feel different, thus he proposed on our birthday dinner and asked me a favour not to go home at all. He simply said he wants to go home with me, for our wedding in the Philippines. He called it a "serious, serious" relationship―and I was done. Done looking back, done dating, and done with the mind games. I had given my heart to him by accepting his proposal. I had met the person I was going to marry, build a family and grow old with. Throughout all of that, I knew that Sherwin would love me no matter what. That point, we both knew that we were going to spend the rest of our lives together.

After marriage, we just enjoy to eat great food (now you can understand how we gain weight that much), love to travel (112 cities in 16 countries – and still counting), and do a lot of things which absolutely nothing fancy but really were a terrific experience (like being hooked on different sports/outdoor activities). What does always matter is we enjoy each other's company and grateful all the time by not ruining something that we knew was great and would last a lifetime.

Eight years have passed, and I'm doing better. I'm still in love with him, and I know I always will be. How could I not always hold a place in my heart for someone so incredible? Sherwin brought me to life; he sparked something in me that made me want to be a better individual. This person, even after how many years we have been together and we have arguments which are my fault, he never fail to say “I love you” in his own special way.

Beh – thanks for teaching me to live my life, and live it to the fullest. I'm grateful for every moment, and I will make sure to do what's going to make me most happy, which means laughing and enjoying every moment as much as possible with people who are important to me.

Thank you very much for a fantastic 8 years of marriage. I am looking forward for many more years to come.

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